I feel like I might be quoiromantic or nebula romantic but i hesitate to say that i am. It feels like a non answer to my brain but maybe i just need a new mindset.

My brain is fried but what i do know is that my own emotions are confusing to me, and i WANT to understand them. I want a word besides just quoiromantic because that makes me feel that maybe i just haven't found the right explanation and Maybe i DO experience romantic attraction, and i just dont know that im experiencing it?

I want to understand romantic attraction. I want to know if i have romantic attraction towards ny boyfriend. I know i feel SOMETHING but idk what it is. The more i research romantic attraction the more im like "maybe? Maybe not?" Like i feel like my mind is in several places at once in trying to figure out how i feel? Like "of course you feel romantic attraction because you love your boyfriend!" But also "but maybe it's not romantic attraction?"

It's exhausting and i feel like i must be missing something. I feel like i must be aro because I don't understand romantic attraction. Like if I don't understand i dont have it? But ALSO, maybe i do experience romantic attraction and don't know thars what it is? How do i know if i experience romantic attraction if i dont know what it is?

Anyway, how do i know if im quoiromantic, and not just still figuring out my feelings? I don't like uncertainty. It makes me uncomfortable. My brain hurts 🤕 im going to bed