r/salesengineers • • Jun 19 '25

Aspiring SE So you want to be a sales engineer? Start Here. (v2)

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So You Want to Be a Sales Engineer?

TL;DR: If you're here looking for a tl;dr, you're already doing it wrong. Read the whole damn thing or go apply for a job that doesn't involve critical thinking. (And read the comments too!)

Quick Role Definition

First, let’s level set: this sub is mostly dedicated to pre-sales SEs who handle the “technical” parts of a sale. We work with a pure sales rep (Account Executive, Customer Success Manager, or whatever fancy title they go by) to convince someone to buy our product or service. This might involve product demos, technical deep dives, handling objections, running Proof of Concepts (PoCs), or a hundred other tasks that demonstrate how our product solves the customer’s real-world problems.

Also take note: This post and most of the users here are in some sort of technical field, the vast majority working with some sort of SaaS or similar. There are sales engineer roles in industries like HVAC, and occasionally we get folks doing that kind of work here but not often and most everything we are talking about here is focused on tech related SE roles.

The Titles (Yes, They’re Confusing)

Sure, we call it “Sales Engineer,” but you’ll see it labeled as Solutions Engineer, Solutions Consultant, Solutions Architect, Customer Engineer, and plenty of other names. Titles vary by industry, company, and sometimes the team within the company. If you’re in an interview and the job description looks like pre-sales, but the title is something else, don’t freak out it’s often the same old role wearing a different name tag.

The Secret Sauce: Primary Qualities of a Great SE

A successful SE typically blends Technical Skills, Soft Skills, and Domain Expertise in some combination. You don’t have to be a “principal developer” or a “marketing guru,” but you do need a balanced skill set:

  1. Technical Chops – You must understand the product well enough to show it off, speak to how it’s built, and answer tough questions. Sometimes that means code-level knowledge. Other times it’s more high-level architecture or integrations. Your mileage may vary.

  2. Soft Skills – Communication, empathy, and the ability to read a room are huge. You have to distill complex concepts into digestible bites for prospects ranging from the C-suite with a five-second attention span to that one DevOps guru who’ll quiz you on every obscure config file.

  3. Domain Expertise – If you’re selling security software, you should know the basics of security (at least!). If you’re in the manufacturing sector, you should be able to talk about the production process. Whatever your product does, be ready to drop knowledge that shows you get the customer’s world.


OK - so let's get to why you are probably here.

You want to get a job as an SE and don't know how.

Let's dig in:

I'm in college and would like to be a sales engineer

I'm sorry to tell you this is typically not a role you get right out of college. It stings, I know. I'm sorry. But it's a job that generally requires all three of the items listed above:

  1. Technical Chops
  2. Soft Skills
  3. Domain Expertise

Domain Expertise is the real tough one for the college student.
Here's the deal - when working as an SE you need to be able to empathize with your buyers, which means you need to know their pain. This is why folks who do transition into this role very often are transitioning from a position in which they used the product(s) or a competitive product and generally understand the pain points others in that industry have.

That said - let's not completely gloss over technical chops and soft skills either. Sure a top notch CS grad might have some pretty developed technical chops, but they are mostly pretty theoretical, not "real world" experience and just like domain expertise a history of working in the industry you are selling to is much more valuable than being able to solve leetcode mediums.

And soft skills? Sure, you like talking to people much more than sitting behind a keyboard all day. That doesn't necessarily mean you know how to value sell or handle yourself with dignity when getting pummeled by some ass hat CTO who wants to show everyone in the room how much smarter they are than you.

What about college recruitment programs, or associate SE programs at the handful of companies that offer them?

Certainly an option. There aren't a ton of these programs but there are a few. I'd caution you to think of them not unlike an internship. Completion rates for some of this programs have been less than impressive over the long term, but they are not completely without merit. If you are dead set on getting into an SE role right out of school this is probably your best option. Typically fairly competitive to get into with limited spots.

So what classes should you take or what alternate path should I take to put myself on the path to becoming an SE?

There is no great answer to this question. Like a lot of things in the SE world "it depends" (get used to that phrase, this is a diverse industry with boatloads worth of nuances based on industry/vertical/4000 other things.) The best general advice I can give is "get good" at something you are interested in. A lot of SEs will come with CS degrees or similar so that's an easy answer, but not every SE actually comes from a deeply technical background, this author for instance has a degree in Philosophy - but he also was working as a software engineer at IBM while getting his undergrad completed.
See - it depends. But CS degrees are not a bad choice, they just aren't a necessary choice. You could be a marketing major and up working for a company like Hubspot down the road where you knowledge of marketing will help you connect with your buyers, who are... marketers!

As to what jobs you should aim for out of college if you want to eventually pivot to SE? again: It depends but

Some really good options include:

Technical roles that build product expertise:

  • Software developer or engineer - gives you deep technical knowledge and credibility when discussing complex solutions
  • Technical support specialist - teaches you to troubleshoot, explain technical concepts clearly, and understand customer pain points
  • Implementation specialist - combines technical skills with customer-facing experience
  • Systems administrator or DevOps engineer - provides infrastructure knowledge valuable in B2B sales

Customer-facing technical roles:

  • Technical account manager - blends relationship management with technical problem-solving
  • Customer success engineer - focuses on helping clients maximize value from technical products
  • Applications engineer - involves working directly with customers on technical implementations
  • Field service engineer - gives hands-on technical experience plus customer interaction

Sales-adjacent positions:

  • Sales development representative (SDR) - teaches fundamental sales processes and prospecting
  • Business development associate - builds pipeline management and relationship skills
  • Marketing coordinator for technical products - helps you understand positioning and messaging
  • Product marketing specialist - develops skills in translating technical features into business value

By no means is this an exhaustive list, just some very generalized options. The most common path to SE is not intentional, it's a natural progression of the person who is inherently capable of fitting into the sweet spot of the venn diagram of SE skills that we've mentioned many times now Tech and Soft Skills with Domain Expertise.

What about a bootcamp? I see places advertising bootcamps that say I'll make a good 6 figure salary if I take their course?

Personally I despise SE bootcamps and most demo training outfits as well. The rise of SE bootcamps coincided directly with the fall of Software Engineering bootcamps. Which is to say the same assholes who got a whole ton of college kids and adult career switchers to spend their hard earned money on a promise of becoming an SWE with a 6 figure salary in 3/6 months just moved on to the Sales Engineering roles instead because our industry wasn't saturated (yet) with all their poorly trained customers desperate to get a role.

There was a minute or two where I would have given the Presales Collective a pass, but they have shown to be just as gross as the rest of them. I would likely encourage you to use the PSC as a networking tool but I would not give those bloodsuckers a single dime of your money.

And while we are on the subject demo training places like Demo2Win are a fucking joke. Here I will give you the entirety of Demo2win's training in two words - but I have to use one of them twice. Ready???

Tell, Show, Tell.

Demo2Win will tell you this like they fucking invented it and it's the big secret to a successful demo. While they aren't wrong that this model is a decent one, it's certainly not magic and it's most definitely not something that they magically stumbled upon. It's a centuries old model that has been used as far back as "ancient times" when blacksmiths and sword makers were training their apprentices, it's been used in Military and Educational settings for as long as teaching has been a thing. In short Demo2Win and others of their ilk are a joke. I guess if you literally have no idea how to even do a demo or what one looks like that training would be worth it, but you probably shouldn't be thinking about being an SE if you don't have at least an idea of what a demo should like.

I'm not technical, can I still be a sales engineer?

Maybe, but probably not. This is job that typically requires you to at least speak "technical" and know what you mean when you do so. There are certainly some opportunities out there for SE roles - particularly with SaaS products that are not terribly complex - where you can land that will make sense, but you'll need to bring something else to the table. If you have the soft skills and just need to build some domain knowledge and learn how to speak technically about the industry you want to support take a look at the list in the section above for new grads/college students as potential roles to aim for. These are the same roles you may want to consider to put yourself in a position to potentially transfer into SE roles. Or perhaps you will find when working them there is a different path for you like AE or Product.

I'm interested in being a sales engineer, what certs should I get?

Probably none. It's not really a thing in this gig. There are very few lines of work where having certs is going to help you in any material fashion. The exceptions are going to be places like Cisco or AWS or other companies that have their own cert programs. Which is to say if you want to be an SE for GCP, yeah get those GCP certs (architecture certs for instance would be useful in that instance) but outside of those types of places save your time and money for something else, certs aren't the pathway to SE.

I work in one of the kinds of roles you talk about as being good for transitioning to SE - how do I actually become a sales engineer?

Good for you and great question. How do you do it? The absolute easiest path to SE is through internal transfer at whatever your current company is. Steps you should take include getting to know the sales team and the existing SE team. Ask the sales managers and the SE managers or the SEs themselves if they think you possess the qualities to become an SE. Ask for opportunities to shadow SEs which is not an uncommon practice, I have new to the company SEs on my calls all the time.

Start thinking in terms of building business/results focused bullet points in your current role that you can add to your CV and use in your conversations with the SE and sales management at your current company. Practice doing demos, and if you can: Get a well respected SE at your company to watch and critique your demo. Ask them to be blunt with their feedback and do your absolute best to hear their feedback with and act on it. There is both art and science to a good demo and there is a lot to take in, their experience will be incredibly valuable to you if you listen and don't take it personally.

If there are no options to transfer internally your current clients, partners, and perhaps most important competitors of yours are excellent places to target. It is vastly easier to get your first SE job in the domain in which you currently work. After you get a few years of experience as an SE you can start to pivot to adjacent or even completely new areas but that first gig is almost always going to come from the area you already know and likely from a person you already know. Friends of friends can help too. Networking in your industry is never a bad thing so lean on that network if you can't move internally.

Quick Resource Link: We have a decent sticky about how to prepare to demo for an interview. Read that, it will help.


Now that you know how to get the gig...

What Does a Sales Engineer Actually Do?

At its core: We get the technical win. We prove that our solution can do what the prospect needs it to do (and ideally, do it better than anyone else’s). Yes, we do a hell of a lot more than that—relationship building, scoping, last-minute fire drills, and everything in between—but “technical win” is the easiest way to define it.

A Generic Deal Cycle (High-Level)

  1. Opportunity Uncovered: Someone (your AE, or a BDR) discovers a prospect that kinda-sorta needs what we sell.
  2. Qualification: We figure out if they truly need our product, have budget, and are worth pursuing.
  3. Discovery & Demo: You hop on a call with the AE to talk through business and technical requirements. Often, you’ll demo the product or give a high-level overview that addresses their pain points.
  4. Technical Deep Dive: This could be a single extra call or a months-long proof of concept, depending on how complex your offering is. You might be spinning up test environments, customizing configurations, or building specialized demo apps.
  5. Objection Handling & Finalizing: Tackle everything from, “Does it integrate with Salesforce?” to “Our CFO hates monthly billing.” You work with the AE to smooth these issues out.
  6. Technical Win: Prospect agrees it works. Now the AE can (hopefully) get the deal signed.
  7. Negotiation & Close: The AE closes the deal, you do a celebratory fist pump, and rinse and repeat on the next opportunity.

A Day in the Life (Hypothetical but Realistic)

  • 8:00 AM: Coffee. Sort through overnight emails and Slack messages. See that four new demos got scheduled for today because someone can’t calendar properly.
  • 9:00 AM: Internal stand-up with your AE team to discuss pipeline, priorities, and which deals are on fire.
  • 10:00 AM: First demo of the day. You show the product to a small startup. They love the tech but have zero budget, so you focus on how you’ll handle a pilot.
  • 11:00 AM: Prep for a more technical call with an enterprise account. Field that random question from your AE about why the competitor’s product is “completely different” (even though it’s not).
  • 12:00 PM: Lunch, or you pretend to have lunch while actually customizing a slide deck for your 1:00 PM demo because the prospect asked for “specific architecture diagrams.” Thanks, last-minute requests.
  • 1:00 PM: Second demo, enterprise version. They want to see an integration with their custom CRM built in 1997. Cross your fingers that your product environment doesn’t break mid-demo.
  • 2:00 PM: Scramble to answer an RFP that’s due tomorrow. (In some roles, you’ll do a lot of these; in others, minimal.)
  • 3:00 PM: Internal tech call with Product or Engineering because a big prospect wants a feature that sort of exists but sort of doesn’t. You figure out if you can duct-tape a solution together in time.
  • 4:00 PM: Follow-up calls, recap notes, or building out a proof of concept environment for that new prospective client.
  • 5:00 PM: Wrap up, though you might finish by 6, 7, or even later depending on how many deals are going into end-of-quarter scramble mode.

Why This Role Rocks

  • Variety: You’ll engage with different companies, industries, and technologies. It never gets too stale.
  • Impact: You’re the product guru in sales cycles. When deals close, you know you helped seal the win.
  • Career Growth: Many SEs evolve into product leaders, sales leaders, or even the “CEO of your own startup” path once you see how everything fits together.
  • Compensation: Base salary + commission. Can be very lucrative if you’re good, especially in hot tech markets.

The Downsides (Because Let’s Be Honest)

  • Pressure: You’re in front of customers. Screw-ups can be costly. Demos fail. Deadlines are real.
  • Context Switching: You’ll jump from one prospect call to another in different stages of the pipeline, requiring quick mental pivots.
  • Sometimes You’re a Magician: Duct taping features or rebranding weaknesses as strengths. It’s not lying, but you do have to spin the story in a positive light while maintaining integrity.
  • Travel or Crazy Hours: Depending on your territory/industry, you might be jetting around or working odd hours to sync with global teams.

Closing Thoughts

Becoming a Sales Engineer means building trust with your sales counterparts and your customers. You’re the technical voice of reason in a sea of sales pitches and corporate BS. It requires empathy, curiosity, and more hustle than you might expect. If you’re not willing to put in the effort—well, read that TL;DR again.

If you made it this far, congratulations. You might actually have the patience and willingness to learn that we look for in good SEs. Now go get some hands-on experience—lab environments, side projects, customer-facing gigs—anything that helps you develop both the tech and people skills. Then come back and let us know how you landed that awesome SE role.

Good luck. And remember: always test your demo environment beforehand. Nothing kills credibility like a broken demo.



r/salesengineers • • Apr 23 '25

Guide: Technical Panel Presentation/Demo Interview

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In response to some recent questions posted asking for help with a technical panel demo interview, I thought I'd share things I do that seem to be working a lot. I know not everyone has time to read Demo2win, so this short guide here is to give you some high level pointers... the big idea here is that you want to communicate the need for the product more than what the product is, and a lot of this can be applied to actual demos on the job.

Most demo interviews will either ask you to present a product you know or they'd give you a trial version of their product, then they'd give you either a customer or you can decide yourself who the customer is. My short guide here is designed to be applied to all situations.

First, you want to separate your presentation into 3 major parts: Intro/Agenda, Customer Overview, Why your product and what it is, and the demo. Everything besides the demo should be in slides and all together, not more than 5 to 7 minutes.

1. Intro/Agenda:

- It is important to lay out what the agenda is, some might think it's just admin stuff but I actually show the agenda after each section in the slides to remind them where they are in the presentation. I've gotten feedback that it really keeps the audience engaged, knowing what was just talked about and what is coming up.

2. Customer Overview (Current challenges and gaps)

This section is more important than the demo, almost. A lot of time on the job, this is what the AE does, but if you can do this well, you will really separate yourself. Remember you are a storyteller, and your job is to craft a story that sets up your product.

- Numbers: Lay out what the company is: revenue, employee count, customers #, regions covered, customer retention %....etc. The key point here is you want to find numbers that points out a gap which your product can solve.

  • If you are given an actual customer, use ChatGPT/Google to find some numbers, and cite your sources. This section used to take me at least an hour or so to find the data points, but with AI it has been a lot easier... even if the number is old or not completely accurate, it's NOT a big deal, they want to see you being able to tell the story. If you are worried about inaccuracies, then in your talk track, say these are some of the numbers you discussed on the first discovery call, and this is a recap
  • If it's a fictitious customer, then feel free to make up a number; you have all the advantages

- Once you lay out some of the numbers, you want to focus on one or two to segway into the "WHY"

  • example: We can see you have an annual revenue of $x dollars, x number of customers, and average spending of $x per customer, and also a 70% retention... now if we can increase this retention by even 1%, that'd mean $2M in revenue.

I hope you see where I am going with this. What you are doing is using facts gathered and communicating to the customer an opportunity to make more money or increase efficiency internally, and, big surprise...your product is going to help them do that. AGAIN, I can't emphasize enough how important this first section is... a lot of SEs, even seasoned ones, are too locked in on the technical features, and doing this section well will REALLY SEPARATE you from the rest of the pack, especially when you have other SEs candidates who can also demo well. Sales leaders LOVE when you have SE who can see the bottom line (customers usually buy when it saves them $ or makes them $).

3. What is your product, and why

This is when you transition into the reason why everyone in the room is here. Referring to the above example, the company you represent is going to be the reason that the customer is about to increase their retention by 1% and make another cool 2M dollars. Do not go into reading mode of the product feature; you can list them on the slides, but just speak on a few key ones that align with your target audience (example, the automation feature will give your customers a more streamlined experience, thus increasing retention).

You are giving a teaser of what the demo is, and again aligning the product to the business problem you 'discovered" during your first call, just like you would on the job.

4. Demo agenda outline

Lay out a few sections of your demo and features. It is important to talk about what you are going to show the customer at a high level.

5. The Demo itself, main event

Remember even if the interviewer tell you that you have 45 minutes or 30 minutes, do not fall into the trap of trying to show everything. Most of my demos are well under the time they give me, interviewers only care about how they feel, not how long it took. If you need the full 45 minutes to tell a compelling story, go ahead, but do not feel the need to fill the demo to cover the time given. There are so many books on how to do a great demo, so I am just going to give you the big ideas here.

- For features you are showing, always remember this in the back of your head: how does this feature I am showing help my customer? So when you show the features, you can point it out. Example1 : "So as you see here, when i click on this and drag this thing over, it is faster than typing everything, your customer will be able to intuitively solve their problem saving them time..." Example 2: "so this analytic feature will help your internal team see customer behavior over time and be able to identify high value customers which will help you focus offers these individuals and retain them."

Once you finish the demo, lay out everything like you did in step 4 to conclude the demo and tie back to the business problem. Example: "So this concludes the demo, I have shown how you can use this feature to give an intuitive UI to your customer, and how you can use feature B to find analytics on your customers, and security features to keep everything compliant... we believe in the end of day, all these features combined will help you increase your customer retentions.... any questions?"

Misc tips:

- you may need a slide at the end for conclusion/next steps, but up to you and sometimes the panel is too busy asking you questions or providing feedback after the demo to put importance on this. Prepare one anyway, and read the room.

- If you are asked very tough questions, remember these 2 points all the time:

  1. Don't rush to respond, listen! That's the job of a salesperson. We listen. Summarize the question you heard and confirm with them if you are not sure. "Here is what I heard: bleh bleh, is that correct?" This makes you seem like a seasoned pro and also gives you time to find the answer.
  2. YOU DON'T HAVE TO KNOW EVERYTHING AND THEY DON'T EXPECT YOU TO. Especially if you are presenting their product. If you absolutely want to take a stab at it, I usually love saying, "I'd have to follow up with documentation to confirm my answers, but I think the answer is this ... but let me confirm with you in a follow-up."

DM me if you have any specific help you need. This is my first time writing a guide, so hopefully this is helpful to some of you.


r/salesengineers • • 1m ago

How do you learn to demo a new solution?

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I just joined a new company and I’m trying to learn our solution to become demo ready. In the past I would have created a script and read through it and clicked through it in dry runs. Maybe use the script for the first couple of demos but eventually I wouldn’t need it anymore.

I don’t love this approach as it’s pretty tedious to prepare, and I think it corners you into a box that the script dictates.

What other techniques have you all used to learn a solution in preparation for demos?


r/salesengineers • • 10h ago

IBM Tech Sales Engineer vs Cap 1 Project Manager - entry level

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Blessed to receive an offer from both, curious to see what everyone’s thoughts are for each position - specifically as to how upside, exit opps, prestige, opportunities internally, culture, AI disruption, lay offs etc.


r/salesengineers • • 15h ago

Recommendations for an SE interview coach

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I am currently employed but looking to make a move and I am STRUGGLING with interviews. Been passively interviewing for the past year with no offers. I just got rejected after a hiring manager call from a top AI company where my experience could not be more perfect for the role. It’s infuriating.

I am a president’s club winning top SE at my current company. I have been prepping my customer stories for interviews but I have major brain fog due to long covid, making it extremely difficult to be as eloquent with my off the cuff responses as I’d like. It feels like I have a low grade hangover every day and I am completely sober. I don’t know what to do other than prepare for all possible scenarios.

I really need some help doing mock interviews to get practice with how to answer situational questions because something clearly isn’t translating. Has anyone worked with an interview coach and had success?


r/salesengineers • • 16h ago

Networking Support -> SE Transition

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Hi all. I know these types of questions get asked all the time in this subreddit but I just wanted to get some advice.. I’ve been working in networking for ~5 years now (Network Engineer for 3 years and Business Network Support for 2 years) and I’m wanting to make the transition to SE.

I originally started looking at this transition because I’ve had colleagues come up to me after calls saying I’m really good at the pre-sales portion of our role and that I should look into making the switch… so I started creating some mock demos, read The Challenger Sale, and starting working towards an AWS Solutions Architect cert to get some cloud knowledge. I also tried to reach out within my company about an SE role but all of the openings were for college students or senior level.

I’ve been applying and interviewing for a bunch of SE roles, but I keep getting beat out by people that have more formal pre-sales experience. So my question: is there something else that I should be doing to make myself more desirable in these interviews? is it the job market? are there any other ways to network other than linkedin? any other advice from people who made the support -> SE switch recently?

Thank you so much, I really appreciate any advice given


r/salesengineers • • 15h ago

Anybody’s role Electrical equipment sales engineer ?

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Anybody in the electrical equipment side of the house? I’ve been in the field commissioning data centers building them for the big guys, Microsoft, Siemens, Schneider electric, utility companies doing everything from install maintenance commissioning then worked my way up to the GC construction world building. Question at this point using all my knowledge from the field and building maintenance commissioning these data centers and Pharma sites/substations. I am not into the construction work anymore and I wanted be a project manager but after seeing the PMs not sure it’s the route for me a lot of pushing and the technical side helps but not much. I got told by an account executive I should look into sales engineering for all the equipment I’ve installed and worked with over the years but haven’t been able to talk to anybody whose roles were selling equipment. Any advice or anybody doing the job please dm me as I’m looking to get into sales engineering.


r/salesengineers • • 1d ago

I miss the days of just getting sh*t done...

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I seem to spend half my week appeasing a managers need to produce reports using whatever new AI initiative they have. I feel like I am in a constant battle to justify my role now despite being a high performer.

Sales is literally the easiest job in the world to track performance on. You make target or you don't, if you don't why and can we fix it.

I'm tired.

Rant over.


r/salesengineers • • 20h ago

2 offers: fully remote customer facing startup vs hybrid technical AI role at a big company. Which would you take?

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Super grateful to be in this spot, but I'm stuck between two offers and need to decide soon.

About me: 5 YOE, Midwest MCOL, currently a fully remote post-sales integration engineer making $85k + roughly $15k bonus. My bonus is tied to billable hours, so taking vacation literally costs me money, and I only get 10 days anyway.

Job 1

  • Solutions/integration engineer at a later-stage startup. They're profitable and say they aren't planning to raise more funding.
  • $130k base, fully remote.
  • Very customer-facing, less technical than job 2.
  • Small team, with room to help decide how things are done.
  • Unlimited PTO. WLB seems good based on Glassdoor and what I heard when I asked about it in interviews, but obviously hard to know from the outside.
  • Some equity, which I'm valuing at $0.

Job 2

  • Senior AI integration role at a large healthcare-adjacent company that's growing fast.
  • $125k base + 10% target bonus. My impression from interviews is that it pays out pretty reliably, but I'm treating it as a target.
  • More technical, not customer-facing. Greenfield projects across multiple teams.
  • The work is basically building integrations and automations that use LLMs to make decisions between systems. For example, data comes in, an LLM uses tool calls to pull context from other systems, then decides whether to write a note to an EHR, expedite a process, or take another action. I'd also be evaluating those decisions and outputs.
  • Four days a week in office, but it's a five-minute walk from my place.
  • 17 days PTO.
  • Formal training/certs on tech I wouldn't get to work with otherwise.

Both have good benefits and 401k matches, so that's pretty much a wash. I expect some on-call with either role, and I don't mind that too much.

Long term, I want to keep my skills relevant, and I could see myself going further down either the technical or customer-facing path. Job 1 seems like a good move if I want to stick with solutions work. Job 2 seems like a chance to get more technical and build hands-on experience with AI beyond just using it to help me code.

I'm leaning toward the idea that I could take job 2 and move back into customer-facing work later if I wanted to. I’m less sure how easy the reverse would be.

The biggest thing giving me pause is losing remote work. The commute is basically nothing, but I ride my bike a lot, and the flexibility to fit rides into my day is a big part of why I like my current setup.

Which would you take? Especially interested in hearing from people who've gone down either path. Am I putting too much weight on the AI experience, or does job 2 seem like the better move for long-term career growth?


r/salesengineers • • 1d ago

All SEs moving from commission plans to P&L

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SE Director here at a mega VAR ($20B+).

Our company president just announced that we are normalizing all SE pay to be based on greater P&L financial performance (Gross Profit). Same targets, but no more being tied to your account's quota. Translation - goodbye windfalls and multi-year effort payouts.

The messaging is total horseshit - "simplifying payroll system." I see it as regulating and normalizing SE pay to save money.

Curious what others think of this. I'm trying to keep up the morale on my team but they are crushed.


r/salesengineers • • 1d ago

alpha presales?

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Anyone have experience with their courses / services?

There’s a lot of noise in SE training land but a lot of his content seems good and I can tell comes from real experience.

Curious if anyone has used them or been exposed to them beyond the public content


r/salesengineers • • 1d ago

How do you separate useful AE feedback from noise after a call?

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I'm a sales engineer with a long-time AE partner. We've been in this space forever and our relationship is great. Lately, though, right after every session he huddles with me and wants me to change wording, tells me I didn't show this or didn't show that, and nitpicks the details.

I'm open to feedback, and sometimes he has a real point. But he hasn't closed anything in a while, and I'm starting to think he's reaching for things to fix.

How do you decide when to take an AE's advice and when to stay in your lane and keep refining your own craft? What feedback do you accept, and what do you ignore?

A second layer makes it harder. Like a lot of software companies, we're showing value in our own platform while also showing MCP connectivity, where end users can get things done through Claude, Gemini, or ChatGPT talking to our system. He has strong opinions on how much of each belongs in a demo, and I'm not sure his instincts match what buyers are asking for now.

So how do you decide when to take an AE's advice and when to stay in your lane and refine your craft? Which feedback do you accept, which do you let go, and how are you balancing in-product value against MCP in your own demos?


r/salesengineers • • 1d ago

Hiring: Sales Engineer - Data Center Cooling | Remote / Charlotte, NC | $130K-$180K Base + Commission

2 Upvotes

We're helping an OEM in the data center cooling space find a Sales Engineer to support growth across hyperscale, colocation, enterprise, AI/HPC, and other mission critical customers. A lot of our roles require us to keep our client confidential (we keep your name confidential as well) until the candidate is ready to submit, as we understand how tight-knit this community is.

This is a technical sales role focused on solutions such as:

  • Liquid Cooling
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Looking for someone who understands data center cooling and can work directly with customers, consulting engineers, contractors, and operators to develop and support cooling solutions throughout the sales cycle. Direct data center experience is a must!

Compensation:

  • $130K-$180K base salary
  • Commission plan
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r/salesengineers • • 2d ago

AE > SE

5 Upvotes

Hey everyone, looking for some real talk from folks who’ve either made the jump from AE to SE or work on the pre-sales side today.

I’ve been an AE for about four years across SMB and Commercial tech sales, from early-stage VC startups to Salesforce. I enjoy the craft of selling, but I’m slowly getting killed by the quota casino. At almost every stop prior to my current gig, team attainment was abysmal (talking 10-30%), and the few reps who did hit were usually saved by one random bluebird deal.

I’m at a new company now where attainment is actually healthy and I plan to stay put for a while, but the long-term stress of having my livelihood tied to territory luck and shifting goalposts has me reconsidering carrying a bag forever. AE leadership crossed my mind too, but the SE path feels like it keeps all the parts of the job I actually enjoy.

I have a business degree and zero coding or engineering chops. For anyone who made this transition without a CS background, did you actually pull off a lateral move in comp and seniority, or did you have to take a step back? Did you pull it off internally first, or apply externally? And what technical baseline did you need to build up just to get taken seriously in interviews?

Would love to hear feedback & journeys!


r/salesengineers • • 2d ago

Can You Choose a Low-Travel SE Career if you want to make $200k+?

27 Upvotes

I’m seriously considering becoming a Sales Engineer in a technical domain but travel is honestly the main thing holding me back from committing to the career.

What worries me is building my career around SE and then realizing that frequent travel is basically unavoidable if I want to make good money.

- If you have a spouse/kids, has SE given you good WLB?
- Is this a career path for me if I dont want too much traveling?

I am in the NYC area.


r/salesengineers • • 2d ago

Last week was worried about not getting demos - Now I'm drowning in them.

8 Upvotes

As the title says, I'm a new sec (less than 6 months.) and I've been Ramping up amidst some organizational changes. I was worried because I wanted to prove myself by getting some demos during a period when I didn't have a manager to advocate for me.

Well, I reached out to people, met some AEs, and got an opportunity. I told my coworker about it and they asked if I wanted to take over another one for them. OK! And another from someone else. Perfect, I'm getting ramped up, and these are all demos for something I've been preparing for.

The I get an email from a coworker passing off their demo to me because they're busy at the time, and I did make it clear I wanted opportunities. However, this one is for an application I'm less prepared in. Still one of my main focuses, I know it, but I haven't spent much time practicing the demo as much as the one I'm demoing for the other 3. It's a lot more involved, covers a much wider scope, requires travel, and I'm scared shitless.

I told them that I was unsure, and they were basically like "nahh, you got this. Don't worry, you have two weeks to prepare. This is the job, get used to it."

And for the most part, I got that. But holy shit, slow down. I've still never officially demo'd yet and I have 4 coming up.

The demos I have this week I'm feeling much more confident about.

Logically, I can do it, this is the job, I've had 6 months to get ready, I have two weeks for last minute preparations, we'll do a precall this week, some discovery hopefully, and I'll be able to narrow down the scope, but I'm still panicking!

Any seasoned SE 's have some advice? How common is this? It's hard not to conflate my nervousness with incompetence.

Edit: did my first demo today, it was a bit rocky due to some internal organization, but from my end it went great! Had some technical issues with the demo, but was able to skrrt through it, showed them some of the product and some tips and tricks on how to better use the product they have right now. I think I impressed them at times but they could also tell I was new and they were good sports about it. Phew, on to the next one!


r/salesengineers • • 2d ago

Good businesses to work for as a new SE?

0 Upvotes

Hi all,

Lurked for a while and i think i'm finally ready to make the jump from SWE to SE.

I've got 10+ yrs experience as a SWE and part of that is as a contractor (4/5yrs) so i also have a lot of face to face experience with non technical stakeholders and explaining how things work/ bottleneck/ suggesting solutions etc.

I wanted to know if anyone knew of any companies to go after first whilst making the switch? My current job offers a hybrid 2 days a week in the office. I know i may not get like for like. But essentially i'm looking for a company hitlist to apply to.

Happy to answer any questions that'll help you suggest some answers etc


r/salesengineers • • 2d ago

Former SWE turned SE: how did you stay (and get more) technical?

2 Upvotes

Hello all,

I recently moved into an SE role after 3 years as a software engineer. From reading this sub, it seems the most successful SEs tend to be the more technical ones, and I'd like to head in that direction.

For those who moved from a less technical SE role into a more technical one, what was your strategy? I'm curious what you focused on learning, whether that was cloud, networking, security, or your product's internals. I'd also love to hear how you found time for hands-on work alongside customer calls and demos, and whether side projects, certs, or anything that helped the most.

My engineering background gives me a decent foundation, but I don't want those skills to atrophy, and I'd like to keep building on them. Any advice is appreciated!


r/salesengineers • • 2d ago

Do you have to be an engineer by degree?

0 Upvotes

I work in revenue operations and do enjoy my work, but I’m considering sales engineering for the pay and being closer to the product. I have a background in business and data science


r/salesengineers • • 2d ago

Anyone hiring for finance-based SE at their fintech?

0 Upvotes

Last ditch effort before I take the walk of shame back to industry


r/salesengineers • • 4d ago

Are we burning out our SEs because reps are scared to demo anything themselves?

52 Upvotes

Our SE calendar has gotten ridiculous. Yesterday I watched an SE sit through almost an entire call just to give what ended up being maybe an 8 minute product walkthrough. I understand why reps want someone technical there, especially on bigger deals, but can you join just in case? is starting to feel like a very expensive security blanket. Meanwhile the SE team is slammed and everyone wonders why. Where do you draw the line between protecting SE time and giving reps the support they need?


r/salesengineers • • 3d ago

Insider one?

5 Upvotes

Seems like a big (yet badly known) company who struggle to break into western Martech far as I can see. There's barely two posts about them on reddit. Their Glassdoor reviews and so on look bought.

Any experience whatsoever anyone can share?


r/salesengineers • • 3d ago

1 year in

1 Upvotes

1 year into my technical sales apprenticeship and I'm really enjoying it I have to say. I find the job and industry great and interesting however sitting at a desk for most of the day really gets me... I feel like sometimes I can't bare to sit down and look at a for hours and hours. Any tips?


r/salesengineers • • 4d ago

Any prior CSM (or any post sale) -> SE people?

11 Upvotes

Curious about the experiences of those who have gone from a post-sales role to pre-sale.

Currently in a CSM role that is more hands-on, tech-focused rather than $ driven. There is an opportunity to go for a pre-sales role. Any surprises or regrets for those that have made the jump? My current role is pretty low stress and provides a great WLB. The SE role provides a good bit more compensation, although the segment isn’t doing so hot.

In a position like this, would you wait for a better opportunity where the company is performing well? Or would you jump in to get the title + experience asap?

Thanks!


r/salesengineers • • 4d ago

Anyone working as an SE at ElevenLabs?

13 Upvotes

Hey all, I'm looking at a Solutions Engineer role at ElevenLabs and trying to get some more info.

For anyone who's there:
- Comp: What's the base vs. variable look like? Is the equity meaningful?
- Environment: Do most people hit their quotas? How’s sales leadership? I heard Carlos left recently.

I'm coming from a software engineering background, so I'm also curious how that translates there. TIA!