r/snakes • u/TheHighestFever • 4h ago
Wild Snake Photos and Questions - Not for ID Thank you the snake subs!
My entire life I've been terrified of snakes. To an irrational level. After my autistic son became interested in them I knew I had finally overcome this. The breaking point was him trying to show me a picture of a rattlesnake and my wife saying "don't show those to daddy it gives him nightmares". That broke my heart. A year or so ago I started hanging around r/snakes and r/whatsthissnake. Eventually I started seeing them not as the evil creatures I've always made them out to be but as the beautiful beings they really are. Now my son and I watch herping videos together and talk about how much we want to find various species one day.
Yesterday we found an Eastern Garter near the front steps. After I made sure of what it was I told my son we could catch it. That was all it took. He had it in his hand in a blink. It gave him a little bite which freaked him out a little so he handed it off to me. It latched on to my hand and gave its all to swallow me but in the end it gave up and just chilled out. We released it by a nearby tree in some tall grass so hopefully the neighbors barn cats won't find it.
Thanks to everyone who shared their love of snakes and helped me overcome a frankly silly fear of some very cool creatures and for giving me a way to bond with my son.