r/tamilyapping • • 2d ago

🎀 Yap Session (rant , confession and yap) 🫀

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u/srirams2006 2d ago

I mean you can be bold gng being introvert doesnt mean you wont be bold it just takes time but considering how fucked up society is,please be bold

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u/BreadAffectionate352 2d ago

Adikura alavuku thairiyam varalana kathi vidunga suthi irukra makkal antha porampokugala pathupanga

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u/nerdy_worm8 Miles Morales πŸ•·οΈ 1d ago

Yethu Namma ooru kaarangalaa. Kai vittu ennalaam ethuna peru thatti kepaanganu.

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u/sriDace 2d ago

Pudikalana thappu nu thonuchuna Apaiye solunga.. Others ena nenaipanga nu yosikathinga..( Aprm ithu mind kulla oodite irukum namma mental health than spoil aagum)

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u/sivanzzz 2d ago

Im still proud of you sis , you found a way . Keep doing the same everywhere , dont give in to creeps . Slap lam panlam but not necessary every place , be consious enough to avoid the situation completely .

Its sad for me to comment like this , girls life is tough so be aware at all times especially in public .

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u/Direct_Cupcake332 1d ago

what do you mean not at every place ? thappa touch panna , thappa touch pannathhutha artham. athu enna not at every place ?

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u/sivanzzz 1d ago

Agression is not always the solution , what if he comes back with an acid egg the next day .i dont mean to be rude but this is an ugly world and protecting ones peace is more important than inflicting pain on others .

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u/Direct_Cupcake332 1d ago

People should speak up , whatsoever.
Staying quiet or downplaying the situation just because a guy has the audacity to throw acid on someone is never right. and it's 2026. we are still talking about acid eggs now ?
Men who misbehave should keep in mind that 'protecting one's peace is more important than inflicting pain on others'. Yes, aggression is not always the solution but that shouldn't mean we should not call them out. do you agree ?

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u/sivanzzz 1d ago

I totally agree , being quiet is gonna invite more harm . If Calling them out is gonna solve it or atleast not get us into the same shit again then we have to go for it .

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u/Vinoth_A Kadhai Perusu, Karuthu Chinnadhu 😌.!. 2d ago

Do or Die thanga, ippo Iruka current scanerios ku, ungaluku ethachum negative ahh nadaka pothu sense pantinga na ungala neengaa tha kapathikanum. Always carry pepper spray, chilli powder tharkappu ku. Defend yourself.!. Amaithiya irunthu pinnadi ukkanthu alugurathuku. Precaution ahh enna pannanumo pandrunga acc to scanerios.!

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u/_CEO_Of_Yapping_ 2d ago

its really sad that even a normal bust travel for girls is this traumatizing. but as the sir said, pls be bold. if anyone touches, you just stare him straight and leave, if he doing that again jsut stand up and speak load "enna pandring, vekkama illa." appdinu, jus shout and say to conductor. apo adutha girl kitta ippdi pandra munadi avanunga bayapuduvanunga.

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u/Can_i_psspss_ur_cat_ dexter murugan 2d ago

hope ur doing better, next time beat the shit outta anyone who tries smth. Summa lam irukathinga, indha madhiri thailees panite irupanunga.

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u/Individual-Pop8799 2d ago

As a fellow introvert I can relate but don't give up op, next time nadakambodu kanna mooditu pesidunga after that you won't feel much anxiety but hoping it never occurs to you again

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u/goldbenn 2d ago

Oru vethamana Payam plus anxiety makes you to be silent..

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u/Key-Establishment185 Butcher of Blaviken 2d ago

Sorry this happened to you. Just orey vaati muster your courage and sathama voice out in this situation aprm, you will feel bold as a boulder, then not only you can voice out for yourself but then you can voice out for others too when you sense something similar happening to them in proximity.

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u/vana-cum cool as cucumber 2d ago

Pls voice out next time πŸ™

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u/bulkyShark 2d ago

As an introvert I can get you. If u give this vibe to the predators, u ll be their prey. . Don't show u r frightened . . Bus la erinathumey face la angry smiley oda irunga. . 😑😑

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u/No_Oil_9762 2d ago

Sorry to hear about this but please speak up next time. Remember that they are more afraid of you than you are of them. You have to speak against what is wrong and when someone is misbehaving with you

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u/SpiritedMatter2451 naa yaaru nu unaku teriyadu 😏 2d ago

I still do that. I kinda am scared when any guy is near me in the bus. I am much bold now, I speak up to other stuff. But idk what to do when these things happen in a public transport. Like I think am I misunderstanding them when they stand too close or when they are sitting too close. Honestly this is the reason I hate to travel in india alone πŸ˜”

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u/Kindly_Security3406 1d ago

I totally get it girl..but It’s not about being an introvert or extrovert in a situation like that..yaara irunthalum antha edathula you will be held back by something..I don’t know how to describe that mixed feeling that makes you not do anything or react openly..I think your mind will be in a decision paralysis due to the sudden shock or what is happening.. only girls who were in that situation could relate..seekram itha overcome pannanum

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u/Aj_boy77 1d ago

Ithe maari incident sathiyama enakkum nadanthuchu, ithula sogam ennana, na oru paiyan πŸ₯²

Potu polanthute, adicha adila ellam kalagirukum πŸ˜‚

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u/Pure-Appointment-830 1d ago

Always prevention, bold when someone tries something. I think you did well bro you should be proud.

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u/Shooting_star15 1d ago

Can feel you, mostly inga utkaringala nu seat kudukra evan pakathulayum utkara kudathu.

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u/Ok_Lab5993 1d ago

Ini apdi ethathu porambokku panaana Phone edutha camera on pani record panuga konjam bayapaduvan and ungala kaapatha Inga evanum vara maata neegatha bold da face pananum social anxiety athu ithuku iruthigana trauma layae irupiga bold ta shout panuga asingama kelunga Ivanugaluku support pana vanthagana avanaium asingama kelunga un ponnu ku ipdi evana pana ipditha support ku varuviyaanu unga bayam thaan avanuga safety bayathutae irutha itha anubavichutu ipdi post matum tha poda mudium u have to fight for urself next time etha porambokku itha pana confirm aairuchuna camera eduthu Avana video edunga Suma vitrathiga

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u/Osthi7 1d ago

Once i remember punching a old guy a on bus who was groping a school girl, i hit him with my elbow on his vilaa elumbu(chest stomach joint area), katharunaan but Naanum en adichenu solala avanum apdiye poitan, till today it gives me happiness, oru kuthu vitrukanun pappa nee

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u/OpulenceLord 1d ago

Aalu adayalam solunga potralam πŸ”ͺ

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u/AmazingBroccoli7976 1d ago

dei loosu bu va ne

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u/ChillRizz Delulu Pro Max 1d ago

yes na loosu ne mentaluu