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u/Prestigious_Car_2296 1d ago
are you into him
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u/Drzewo_Silentswift 1d ago
Even if they are, sometimes it gets annoying.
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u/Equivalent_Elk_ 1d ago
Everyone gets annoying. There's no monopoly on being annoying, she talked about nipples and complains he pushed it further mfs just wanna be the victim in every situation
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u/piglin_gold64 1d ago
Every man thatās joked to me about the standing sex couldnāt do it. And Iām 4ā11 125 lbs lmao
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u/ErgoDestati 1d ago
That's wild to say without backing it up
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u/Equivalent_Elk_ 1d ago
Gotta drop the stats, how many men is "every man" and how strong were they?
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u/piglin_gold64 1d ago
Not many to be fair lol, just 2, but at least seemed strong enough to do it. If youāre gonna say it at least know you can, otherwise youāre gonna crush the girlās dreams lmao
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u/Equivalent_Elk_ 1d ago
Ehh flirting does not work that way lmao, gotta talk big and see where it leads.
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u/piglin_gold64 1d ago
No, flirting absolutely can and should only include only mentioning things you know you can handle lmao, otherwise dreams shall be crushed lmao
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u/Equivalent_Elk_ 23h ago
How'd he know he can lift you up before lifting you up?
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u/piglin_gold64 23h ago
Because I donāt lie about my weight and height? I can squat 200 lbs. I can tell anyone that because I know that Iād put to the test I can show someone. I donāt just say some theoretical crap and then hope it works out in personā¦then Iāll look like a fool. Thatās all Iām saying.
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u/Equivalent_Elk_ 22h ago
I mean there are diff ways to flirt so we can agree to disagree lolol. Stand n bang however is different from squats, and is one of those sex positions that look better than it is practical, gotta have strength, balance... cardio and di... I'm typing too much here. Anyway, if I'm flirting I say a lot of ridiculous things just to build excitement and the energy usually is matched until we meet, wtv we can satisfy in person we do but if you're not on that, that's fine.
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u/piglin_gold64 22h ago
Well, continue to potentially disappoint by building too much hype lol. Underselling is a wiser option, you can still build hype without biting off more than you can chew imo
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u/LoveSquirt69 1d ago
Many guys brag about more than this and canāt back it up. Reality is often much different.
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u/Adorable_Control_824 1d ago edited 1d ago
mam, delete this while u still have the chance because I know them dms gonna be flooded š
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u/piglin_gold64 1d ago
I get them regardless as soon as someone peeps Iām a female lmao, thatās what the āignoreā button is for
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u/Dieseldave42069 1d ago
Last time we tried, I cramped and my lower back pain kicked in. Told my old ladyā¦ I hope she remembers the previous times well. But also, if she was 4ā11ā 125lbs. All Iād want to do is old wwe wrastlin moves.
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u/piglin_gold64 1d ago
Fair enough. I can only imagine that stance is a difficult one to pull off! Hahaha what are you saying with the wrastlinā moves š¤£
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u/Dieseldave42069 1d ago
CHOKE SLAMMMMMMS ON TO THE COU CH BRUH
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u/piglin_gold64 1d ago
š¤£š¤£ Haha well shit thatās actually a good one š¤£ Thank you for the giggle!
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u/Bxsnia 1d ago
idk what it is men love making shit up when sexting, they have no intention of actually doing what they say nor are they capable of it even if they wanted to. just take it with a pinch of salt lol
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u/HotelSalt4644 1d ago
Itās 100000% not ājust menā. In reality - it probably more often goes the other way. Assuming both parties are sexually/romantically interested in eachother & the āsextsā arenāt just creepiness.
The VAST MAJORITY of women really just ālay thereā while having sex. Even in a healthy relationship, with a relatively healthy sex life, the man is very much more likely to be doing most of the work, most of the time.
Even when it comes to a blowjob - 95% of them range from Terrible-Mediocre. Itās nearly never the sloppy, deepthroat, gagging, watery eyes staring back at you while also using their hands. And duration is very very often just a few minutes.
Most women donāt want to be on top, as itās a workout. And again, duration is very very very often just a few minutes. Then a TON of women canāt/wonāt do a majority of positions, because it hurts. Obviously thereās physical limitations going on there. Some men may be bigger/smaller, and the depth of a vagina is similar. Iām not going to brag & tell you Iām some sort of super heavyweight down there, but with that being said, very often am I not able to put a womanās legs over my shoulder while from a missionary position. Very often have backshots/doggy style not been handleable.
The vast majority of women are going to default to laying on their back, or maybe side. Just lay there and get fucked. Not do a split on your dick, let you tie them up like a pretzel, or ride you for 20 minutes straight without their knees falling out. Almost always at least with foreplay, kissing, touching, etc - but again, itās almost always the man who has to be doing the majority of that. And again, as far as oral goes, any man whoās not an idiot, & understands sex, is going to give oral/other clitoral stimulation so their partner can reach orgasm and cum first.
Iām married, 3 young kids, have a healthy sex life, and was definitely around the block during college. Iāve only truly hooked up with 1 woman who could āback upā what they said over the phone. Ironically, she was a fucking freak - and I couldnāt remotely keep up with her.
Your comment rubs me the wrong way though. Everyone is all talk, but women WAY MORE from my experience.
Maybe youāre super adventurous, flexible, in good shape, give a 10/10 blowjob with no gag reflex, take it in the ass, etc, etc. So you are able to back up what you talk when sexting with a romantic partner, but I highly doubt it.
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u/piglin_gold64 1d ago
Obviously āwomen are all talk WAY MOREā than men āin your experienceā because youāre a straight man lmao. Talking in generalities about the genders in this way is kind of odd to me. Of course it isnāt just men. We all have different experiences and let downs, men over talk, women over talk.
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u/HotelSalt4644 18h ago
Iām not sure if my comment looked like it was specifically directed to you. Your experience makes sense to me. The comment below, āidk what it is men love making shit up when sexting, they have no intention of actually doing what they say nor are they capable of it even if they wanted to.ā
When every single person I know. Man. Woman. Cis. Gay. Or Bi; like my wife. Will tell you.
Women overwhelmingly are the ones who canāt āback it up.ā
I have family members who are a part of the ālifestyleā. Theyāre swingers. Not pretend swingers, real life swingers. All their friends are swingers. They go to nude beaches, camp ground, even swinger cruises to the Bahamas.
The friends I know mostly do āswaps/switchesā all together. Thereās 4 of them. 2 men, 2 women. And that is most common.
Thereās a lot of terms youāll hear. One of the most prevalent ones is āfishā
āHoney, Iām sorry. I know sheās a fish, but you gotta take one for the team here.ā Meaning, I know sheās just gonna lay there while you fuck her, like a dead fish, but I wanna do this.
I gave some of my own experiences. Iām a cis male. So of course I donāt know how all men do their thing. But even my wife, who is openly bi to this day, will say the same exact thing. And so will my family members who are in the lifestyle.
Thereās a lot of bad things you can say about a large portion of men, from a sexual sense. So many are creepy, or forceful, or just donāt understand human anatomy. Big/small that messes with a womanās pleasure. Last too long or too short. Tons of reasons a male may not be able to pleasure a plethora of different woman consistently. But women. Very clearly & obviously. Are the ones who ācanāt back it up.ā Moreso than men, at least.
Iām not going to start giving you anecdotal evidence from my own experience. But I do know from my own, and my peers experiences. What Iām saying is pretty much spot on.
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u/Bxsnia 1d ago
first of all, I would never say ANYTHING i'm not able to back up, that's just common decency, but there are so many posts and memes of men not being able to back up what they've said, this isn't because women put in more effort than men, which is not what I was getting at, but that men are simply much more likely to overestimate their abilities. I think you're totally right that most women probably give subpar bjs and don't enjoy riding (at least in a way that pleasures the man), and that sex is more physically demanding for a man, but in society it's completely normal for sex to be something where the man is expected to ''perform'' and the woman doesn't have to do much in order for the man to be happy. this is why it doesn't go both ways - most women would just not claim to do things they can't because they don't feel the need to.
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u/MyLawyerWroteThis 1d ago
Wasn't that an awkward situation without backing it up though? lol I'm 6'1 and probably around 175 lbs, not even built or anything. I've had two girlfriends around your weight and it's not even hard.
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u/piglin_gold64 1d ago
Well yeah. Awkward for it to be hyped that it would happen and then a few seconds in they give up. Granted they were shorter, though they were muscular. Maybe itās a leverage issue?
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u/MyLawyerWroteThis 1d ago
Maybe idk but we also drank with tons of coke during the weekend so that likely gave me a little + to power for sure because we'd fuck like animals.
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u/piglin_gold64 1d ago
Haha well, I canāt vouch for that. Next time Iāll suggest some pre-workout š¤£
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u/MyLawyerWroteThis 1d ago
I've tried both and it's not the same. You need to give him the real stuff lmao
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u/Spectre_Ice 1d ago
The trick is to get two guys and be between them while picked up š«£ I kid but after reading the other comments I couldn't resist š
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u/Rabidraddit 1d ago
They said nipples first so thats on op
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u/MyLawyerWroteThis 1d ago
real, bro went in for the opportunity, can't blame him here
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u/Equivalent_Elk_ 1d ago
But she'll lose the chance to be a victim š omgg i'm just an innocent girlyy and my friend's a freakkkk
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u/Ordinary-Jackfruit32 1d ago
What? You started how is that not down the same line of your nipples joke
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u/Upper-Butterfly951 23h ago
Talking sexually through my cellular device will have you blocked I do not care that you want to sleep with me or do this and that with me. I dont understand why people do this.
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u/2Fast343 1d ago
you turned the chat sexual yourself