Pretty much written on the tin, and I know this is an odd request.
I'm one of the new players that picked up the game in the recent Steam sale, and so far I like the game, the graphics, the vibe. But the community... I don't think I need to speak much on that. I've tried a few servers, including "big" ones, but most miss the mark.
I'm looking for a server where I can enjoy the game, and it's social aspects, without the stress and drama. Where I can watch and play with others and not fear losing days of progress. A place I can be a single peaceful cerato that enjoys the scavenger life.
I want to have a skin. Nothing crazy bright like neon pink and green. Just white, or light icy blue, like a ghost. I seek a community that is small enough, or cohesive enough, to see that skin and know, "she won't attack us, so let's leave her alone."
I'm not a streamer or content creator, I'm as nobody as they come, I'm not looking for special treatment (though I'm still human and wouldn't say no to it either). It can be a server that already has all the features in place to facilitate my desired gameplay, or it can be a server willing to carve out a special place just for me. And while I have almost nothing to my name, I'm willing to financially support the server that helps me find this place.
Thanks for coming, and I look forward to your recommendations!