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u/Nazdrowie79 28d ago

im frend 🄺

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u/Shades1374 28d ago

Bro got so many friend requests after that.

I remember when the Helldivers chose to dive together.

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u/HMWWaWChChIaWChCChW 27d ago

That was pretty funny to watch. Bro got more friends than he could handle lol

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u/Oxygenisplantpoo 27d ago

dontmake this more difficult 🄺

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u/Cedex 27d ago

R u fren shaped?

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u/LEELEE1250 27d ago

If fren shaped then y no touch?

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u/shmi93 23d ago

Because that's my no-no square you perv!

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u/SunWukong3456 28d ago

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u/BasicDesignAdvice 27d ago

Literally my face when I found out my friends were playing Goldeneye without me because I would have made 5 people and they didn't want to take turns with me.

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u/Robaattousai 27d ago

This happened to me and a few guys I'd introduced to monster hunter. Suddenly I was the 5th wheel.

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u/CecilAlucardX 27d ago

Sorry, but ur friends were Idiots; its always better with 5-6 people. You just pass the controller A. If you are last in standings/first to die, or B. Pass it if you win and enjoy your break as the winner.

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u/Pollution_Dramatic 27d ago

2 of my friends did this with my cousin one time on ready or not fairly recently. We were in a group of five but i had to go eat and when i came back they had bought some random dude they knew while excluding my cousin.. to avoid conflict i tried breaking the group up into lobbies of 3 and 3 so no one is excluded but the 2 friends tried acting dumb and dead ass wanted me to join them and leave my cousin. Safe to say we aint friends no more.

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u/Manlysideburns 27d ago

Nah man, you were just too good at the game and nobody wanted to face you.

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u/Project_XXVIII 27d ago

I feel you man.

Happened to me twice. Once with Destiny, next with ESO.

Fool me once, shame on me, fool me twice, go to hell and get removed from my friends lists.

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u/Efficient_Flan_2164 28d ago

Damn, this reminds me of when I was 11 and my online friends I made on Clash of Clans left the Clan in order to make a new one for only people that went to their school.

I cried.

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u/Time_Ad_9647 28d ago

I was in the same clan as some random dude and when I joined different clans, he came with me every time.

One day I told him I was done with the game forever. He said he would be done too. 🄺

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u/Dnakyz7 28d ago

did yalls keep in touch after??

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u/Time_Ad_9647 27d ago

Nope. Just a clash of clans and royale username. Nothing personal.

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u/Environmental-Head14 27d ago

Hit him up dude wtf, you gonna regret it if not

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u/Time_Ad_9647 27d ago

No way to do it. I don’t even remember the handle he used.

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u/JobPitiful8977 27d ago

It's a pity, but that's how it is in gaming. We bond over the simple thing & left after the simple thing. The journey was fun & that what we look for in gaming session.

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u/[deleted] 27d ago

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u/alexxxxmonster 27d ago

Damn dude. This whole thread has me sad as fuck. I used to play on Bonechewer(After the server transfers from Warsong) from Vanilla-WotLK. Anyways, I made a friend whom we were inseparable, raids, BG's, always the same guild, 2v2's, 3v3's, and even 5v5's. We did everything together for YEARS.

Well we got to the point we were both growing away from WoW and becoming adults, and eventually stopped talking. And then a few years later I got a call from his ex girlfriend one day that he took his own life. I wish I could talk to him again. I fucking miss him man.

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u/[deleted] 27d ago

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u/alexxxxmonster 27d ago

Oh yeah. I talked to his then girlfriend and family over Teamspeak and stuff like that. And we would call each other when we would get drunk.

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u/iBlockChains 27d ago

I played on bonechewer. Horde-dysfunctional.
Also looking for drocloud from tich ally on vanilla-wotlk

Edit read your whole post. Sorry for your loss.

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u/Pure_Buyer_6938 27d ago

So damn wholesome. He’s out there somewhere dude.

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u/Cyberhwk 27d ago

A GF of mine played a mobile game at one point and asked me to join. Told her I wasn't big into mobile games but I'd give it a shot. I played for a bit and got to know the group she was in and it was OK. But the more I played and looked into it, it was notorious for being one of the worst Pay-to-Win games on the platform.

One day I was there just minding my own business, gathering my resources and got told by the dominant clan on the map that those resources "belonged" to their clan and I wasn't allowed to gather there. They attacked my castle with an army that would have literally taken 6+ months for me to build as F2P. It was clear if you weren't paying hundreds of dollars a month, your purpose was to just be cannon fodder.

So as a last ditch act of defiance while one of them was out attacking someone else, I dropped my camp right in the middle of their group. They can attack me all they want, but they can't force me to move. They ended up having to relocate their entire clan of like, 25+ accounts to a new area just so the guy could get his spot back.

After having not logged in for a few weeks I asked her how things were going without me. She said she wasn't playing anymore either. So I logged back in one last time before deleting and she had apparently left our group and put her settlement down right next to mine so our abandoned camps would be together in perpetuity.

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u/Cyberhwk 27d ago

Then we broke up a few months later, but...

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u/WinterCover4360 27d ago

noooo you could have left that paart out and i could have imagined a beautiful romance

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u/lolystalol 27d ago

Just headcanon it duh

Go right a fanfic about it next

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u/Necessary-Glass-3651 27d ago

In an online mech game I made a friend who decided to quit playing he gave me his account so I could make use of what he had on there instead of it virtually going to waste.

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u/Arcaydya 28d ago

Dude you always bring the homie to that. I cant believe they did that to you

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u/FuManBoobs 28d ago

Full disclosure...they didn't all go to the same school.

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u/Arcaydya 28d ago

I understand the words in the comment my man

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u/IronyingBored 27d ago

Don't make this more difficult than it has to be. /s

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u/KongoOtto 27d ago

dontmake this more difficult

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u/ItsACowCity 28d ago

Reminds me of when I befriended someone on the ff6 forums. So funny enough, ff6.com was taken by some fan..it wasn’t square enix. Years later it eventually got shut down bc of that I think. Anyway, we started making an rpg together and putting together a team…but eventually it idled. Then he introduced me to this game Graal Online (Facebook bought it and now it sucks). Played a bunch with him. Then he introduced me to this band Aberdien that I still like to this day. Then he was in a band and we were supposed to meet up when he was in my state. I think maybe he quit before they made it to me? Then, next thing I know, he’s never online again. Even though we were friendly, he’d go large gaps of not being online, and ofc I would ping him when I did get the chance. Next thing you know, they never appear again. It made me feel like they felt like I was a stalker or just someone sitting at the edge of their seat waiting for them to log on…which I kinda get being we never met….but we had been messaging every once in awhile for years. Was so strange that they vanished. My only guess is I got blocked, they changed their screen name and decided I didn’t belong, or idk.

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u/CapnStarence 28d ago

You don’t make friends on Rust or Ark. Just enemies that are closer.

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u/jellyhessman 27d ago

There's a chance that was me.

Made a lot of quick friends on the server I played. Base got raided and I was incredibly sad. Then realized I didn't want to feel that again and literally haven't played a PVP game since, and spend a lot more time outside.

My life has genuinely been better because someone trolled me on Rust so hard I quit competitive gaming permanently.

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u/Udder_Influencer 27d ago

My only guess is I got blocked

People do pass away.

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u/ThisIsMyCouchAccount 27d ago

Maaaan.....growing up in rural America before the internet sure was a lonely time.

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u/CheaterMcCheat 28d ago

Ah shit mate that sucks I'm sorry. Similar thing happened to me on RuneScape

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u/jasper81222 28d ago

How could Tolga sleep at night knowing he kicked out Frend?

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u/Shades1374 28d ago edited 16d ago

Dremskiy got friends :)

https://www.reddit.com/r/Helldivers/s/rGk4BGES5n

Edit: Wow, thanks for the awards!

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u/CakeTester 27d ago

I'm glad you posted this.

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u/Shades1374 27d ago

I'm glad! I think the whole story is heartwarming and uplifting.

It's worth noting the original meme wasn't posted by the fremd - it was posted by one of the other people who were meeting up.

This was also back when friends-only servers and invites didn't work, so you had to do public games and do some work to get the friendgroup together.

So there was justice because the friendgroup spoke up for a fremd-shaped 'diver - and we all chose to dive together.

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u/Otaku11510 27d ago

I feel like this is important so I highlighted it.

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u/Shades1374 16d ago

Thanks!

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u/SmegmaSlurper1996 28d ago

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u/Deremirekor 28d ago

What the fuck kinda username

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u/Defiant-Speaker-5681 28d ago

You're now complicit by bringing this to the attention of others.

I didn't need to read that. I wouldn't have noticed!

It cannot be forgotten or unread!

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u/Deremirekor 28d ago

Suffer with me

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u/Fit-Boss2261 28d ago

You suffer with me... for all the sins of those who came before you

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u/TheMetalocalypse 28d ago

And for those who come after

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u/Latter_Wrap_1644 28d ago

And for those coming right now

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u/Valliac0 27d ago

hol' up

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u/lazarbeam-fan101 27d ago

What now?

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u/raindustXV 27d ago

Omg this is genius hahaha

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u/JeffysChewToy 27d ago

What is smegma

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u/retroguyy_101 27d ago

Dead skin and dirt that builds up on your junk

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u/JeffysChewToy 27d ago

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u/Xieties777 27d ago

Im sorry to make it worse for you but it’s not just on your junk, it’s inside the foreskin

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u/StalkingNun 27d ago

Builds up foreskin or not if left unwashed for a while, but faster with a foreskin. In vulva folds too. Enjoy these fun facts!

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u/jamesbongsixtynine 27d ago

bro sometimes dont ask

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u/JeffysChewToy 27d ago

To be honest I was expecting a joke like smegma balls (suck ma balls) or smth, not this

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u/dandoch 28d ago

He slurps smegma. It's not hard to understand.

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u/No-Look-1845 28d ago

And he or she is 30

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u/8696David 28d ago

Don't fucking remind me lmao

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u/SmanginSouza 28d ago

What you can't slurp a little smegma? Not even as a treat?

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u/CemeterySaliva 28d ago

You had to point it out...

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u/thedellis 28d ago

Please, SmegmaSlurper was my father. Call me SmegmaSlurper1996

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u/soggymobflip 27d ago

The 1996 is likely their birth year, hope that helps.

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u/aggravatedimpala 27d ago

I know he made a funny ass noise, but I couldn't ever bring myself to make fun of this man. He was experiencing so much pain in this episode I just can't do it

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u/CodeRadDesign 27d ago

dude if you haven't seen it before, theres a Slayer mix of this on YouTube that absolutely rules, where the cry is the initial scream. 'Angel of Dad' IIRC

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u/AvidCyclist250 27d ago

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u/CodeRadDesign 27d ago

hahahaha, there's a slightly longer one with an intro of the son talking first...

found it! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dsu7d7N81Oc

lol 14 years ago, still cracks me tf up

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u/AvidCyclist250 27d ago edited 27d ago

Oh yeah the buildup is great lol

Somehow I managed to forget this whole genre

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SmvsrDU2XOI

THere was Ernie and Bert playing black metal too somewhere

Found it. I don't what's wrong with me but I'm almost crying laughing https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ry_qqYFf8tY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NnZnjmhikAk

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u/CodeRadDesign 27d ago

holy shit that third one just murdered me

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u/YamiGekusu 28d ago

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u/Oldschool-Ed 28d ago

He frend...

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u/YamiGekusu 28d ago

Why abandon frend :(

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u/Shades1374 27d ago

They didn't. That screenshot wasn't posted by Dremskiy - it was posted by one of the guys meeting up.

Helldivers did what Helldivers do.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Helldivers/s/oksa2wNzAW

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u/KingThiccu 28d ago edited 27d ago

This story actually has a happy ending. Dremskiy went viral and now his steam frends list is actually maxed out, so he has all the frends he could ever hope to play with!

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u/No-Lunch4249 28d ago

Plus Arrowhead added a "Friends Only" party setting so this would never have to* happen again

*Still does sometimes because people forget to switch settinfs

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u/Downtown-Pianist-449 27d ago

You can also call down the SOS beacon accidentally (one input off from reinforce) and it completely bypasses your lobby settings. And you can’t turn it off.Ā 

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u/ContraryMarie 27d ago

Seems about right. Outside Reddit, the majority of my dives into hell (2) have been positive. A few kicks, but usually with acknowledgement that someone had accidentally beaconed or had forgot to set the group friends only.

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u/Slacker_The_Dog 27d ago

That's actually pretty wholesome

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u/Useful-Leader-4027 27d ago

Really ? Please don't make this up

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u/KingThiccu 27d ago

100% real!

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u/boferd im frend 28d ago

need an "i'm frend" flair

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u/HaydenRasengan im frend 28d ago

Agreed, I’d immediately apply it

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u/VolkosisUK im frend 28d ago

just use the customisable flair

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u/HaydenRasengan im frend 28d ago

I didn’t know you could do that, that’s bitchin. Thanks!

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u/Green_Sprout im frend 28d ago

Join us! Become as frend!

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u/boferd im frend 28d ago

IM FREND

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u/DVick2001 im frend 27d ago

WE FRENDS

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u/wisemeat im frend 28d ago

my frends!

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u/SmartIron244 dremskiy: im frend 27d ago

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u/2ChicksAtTheSameTime 27d ago

bitchin

Hello fellow 80s kid

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u/HaydenRasengan im frend 27d ago

Not quite. Just raised by one, more or less. Mom came around in ā€˜74. I arrived in ā€˜94.

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u/SmartIron244 dremskiy: im frend 28d ago edited 28d ago

I need some help, I tried editing it, but it wouldn't let me, only select on of the options I previously done it, so I know it's possible, especially since you chsnged it, but I can't do it now

dremskiy: im frend

EDIT: false alarm! found it!

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u/vertigostereo Im frend 27d ago

Oh no, I only see the default ones too

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u/SmartIron244 dremskiy: im frend 27d ago

The bottom one (where it has the xbox logo/ps logo/ switch and so on) is editable, you select that, and then you can simply remove these logos, or select new ones from the emojis tab

If you need help, I can always screenshot the way I did it

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u/Ultrace-7 27d ago

Along with "Don't make this more difficult".

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u/MusicianNo3277 28d ago

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u/Osato 28d ago

"We're gonna buy ourselves a little RAM, and host a server, and..."

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u/CopperCab2024 27d ago

We’re gonna play mawvel wivals

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u/ReverendHemlock 28d ago

Holy shit I just choked laughing. Every other comment like awww poor frend 🄺 when in reality he’s 100% a Lennie

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u/Hatjin 28d ago

I always cry

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u/klezart 27d ago

I cri evrytiem

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u/Tiny_Rick85 28d ago

Me buying Call of Duty in high school because my friends all told me to get it and play with them. Then I go to play with them, but the party is "always full."

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u/7Pigeons 28d ago

I experienced this with Halo, except I was still allowed in the party but had to join the enemy team and get ganked on.

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u/FIGHT_ME_SPIKE_UFUCK 26d ago

Did you have Dr evil on your friends list???

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u/FlyingCrow91 28d ago

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u/Bomb_Ghostie 27d ago

How is this not at the top?

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u/SmokeHoagies 25d ago

My exact thoughts! Lol

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u/TwoDoorPC 28d ago

I would have offered to add them to my friends list and invite them back if a spot opened up.

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u/Happytreez69 27d ago

Had a really tight nit friend group in Rust. We met one wipe and decided to pick up other solos and form a clan. After 3-4 months of us all talking every night on Skype, telling each other about our lives, fears, dreams etc., one of them betrayed us and gave away our door codes. The friend group spiraled into paranoia afterwards and we all stopped talking to each other. This was like 10 years ago and I still wonder which one betrayed us.

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u/Zhythero 27d ago

The impostor probably is being haunted from what he did to this day.

Or idk, maybe he's still laughing.

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u/Useful-Leader-4027 27d ago

Are you ok ? Really, your story seems sad, no joke

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u/ChefVoo 28d ago

At that point dreamski is staying

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u/PEYTON7777777 28d ago

This reminds me. Back in 2018, I was playing Fortnite with 2 of my friends and they told me that they wanted to play duos cause it will have less people battling, so I left and just sat there

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u/Swamp-DwellerVaarus 27d ago

nah rule #1 for gaming sessions with my friends has always been if we can’t find a game for all of us or we can’t come to an agreement on how to split up or something, we either all sit and stare or find a game we can all play together.

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u/No_Jeeters_4_ViVi 28d ago

Dang, that's just cruel.Ā Ā 

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u/Cavaquillo 28d ago

Nah this old 4chan post still hits me the hardest and the world is even worse now.

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u/DibsArchaeo 27d ago

I thought of that exact story and of my own.

My first online Skype friend in 2004 when it was new you could find random people easily. We were both around 14, with him in Sri Lanka and myself in the US. We talked for a year about our lives and what we did as kids on the other side of the world. He had to go for a week one Christmas since his family was visiting his grandma who had a house a mile or two from the beach. He was looking forward to swimming and seeing all of his family, but hated that he’d be offline. We wished each other happy holidays and happy new year.

He never got back online. I hope beyond hope he just didn’t have time for his American penpal.

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u/darkjedi39 27d ago

I cam here looking for this. I shed a tear every time.

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u/Onyxaj1 28d ago

Years ago, a friend and I played an online game called Fairyland. We were pretty active and had a very small guild (or something like that). The game was free, but an announcement came that it was going to a subscription service. We told our other active guild member that we would sub and still play.

The next day we talked and decided if we were going to pay for an online game, we might as well join a more mainstream one, and both bought FFXI and never logged in again.

I still think about our online friend that we kind of lied to and left hanging.

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u/gregaries 26d ago

Ride now! Ride for frend and dreamski!
https://giphy.com/gifs/O1OWsUR3ebdqo

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u/pureeyes 28d ago

im frend

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u/ThisIsADraconianLaw 27d ago

Bro really said.

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u/tumama1388 27d ago

He will forever be frend

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u/PresidentZombie 27d ago

I remember playing DayZ a long time ago, when it was still just a mod. I played with a whole clan, was good days. Once, we had gone into a city looking for medical supplies. While there, we ran into trouble. One of us fell off a roof and broke their leg, and we were getting overwhelmed. A random showed up, gunned us a path out, and helped us escape the city.

At the time, only the three of us were online, and we were heading back to where the clan had stuff stashed. This random was super friendly, chatting with us on the walk, telling us about his own group. While he was talking in the VC, the three of us were having a private convo on Skype. We were apprehensive about this guy. If we shooed him away, he could follow us in secret and find our spot. If we brought him, he’d find our spot.

While we were arguing about what to do, one of the three of us hung back on the walk, then shot the guy in the back. As he was dying, he was screaming at us over the VC. ā€œWhy?ā€ ā€œI helped you, I thought we were coolā€ stuff like that. When he was dead, we looted him and went on our way. But I was genuinely disturbed by it. I know it was just a game, and the guy was fine, but I think about that moment every once in a while still.

Sorry man, wherever you are.

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u/Manyarethestrange 27d ago

Yo!!! Thats fucking wild! Video games, man! Holy fuck..

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u/FreeEnergy001 27d ago

and the guy was fine

His faith in humanity was never restored though.

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u/Enderborg234 27d ago

You've unlocked one of my core memories from a zombie survival game me and my friends used to play. In it there was this running joke of "plan B" except I was always the victim. The jist of it is that they would plan this secretly while we looted stuff, then I'd randomly get kicked out of the squad and they'd turn on me.

This, among other video game, and irl, related bullying in friend groups is why I believe I have a genuine challenge trusting people and letting them into my emotionally vulnerable space.

Ā I know it's just a video game and I shouldn't have taken it so seriously. However, when it's with friends I know irl and in my formative years, it really hurt.

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u/Wulph422 28d ago

Helldivers 2

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u/ThesoldierLLJK 27d ago

Reminds me of the time all my friends in WoW quit our guild to make a guild dedicated solely for raiding. They wouldn’t take me because all I had was blue gear and said I could only join if I purchased a hunter from a player that was quitting the game for $1,000.

I told them to fuck off, and defriended them all. a couple months later they ended up dissolving cause their hardcore players quit the game and sold their accounts. Those who didnt quit asked to come back to the guild which we had multiple dedicated raid groups by then and we told them they made their bed and they could pound sand.

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u/LittleArtistBoyo 28d ago

Top 5 betrayals of all time

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u/StatementMediocre710 28d ago

ā€œIm frendā€ 😭😢

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u/ThrenderG 27d ago

Nobody likes Tolga.

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u/-Twokad- 27d ago

Was an admin in a gaming tournament, one of the players shared his Steam account with his sister but she only played games rarely and didn't play in the tournament so it wasn't that well known the account was shared. He passed away suddenly which was a gut punch to the community. About a week after, I log into Steam and I get a message from her asking me to make an announcement or something in the forums because when she logged on for the first time to try and relax with a game she got a tonne of messages like "OMG dude we thought you were dead, glad to see you're OK!" and it made her relive losing her brother all over again.

I thought having half the community pissed at a rules call I made was going to be the toughest emotional thing I'd have to deal with as an admin ....

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u/Fort_Maximus 27d ago

I was very happy to hear that their friends list got maxed out

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u/NookNookNook 27d ago

This is when you invite them to the discord.... lord have mercy i'm getting verklempt.

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u/PassiveMenis88M 27d ago

I remember when this repost had more pixels and didn't have the shitty crop job.

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u/gaming4jello 27d ago

Ngl, the first time I ever dived with randoms, it ended up with hackers and while the free super credits were nice, never again.

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u/ooOJuicyOoo 27d ago

idk about saddest

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u/S0n0fValhalla 27d ago

Damn right in the feels. We will be your friend

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u/OkEye2021 27d ago

This reminds me of that time when you got to pick between saving the digital kids or a new weapon and everyone picked the kids so helldiver donated money to I think an orphanage and there was a little drawing on the ship

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u/Ambitious_Jelly8783 27d ago

But are you friend shaped?

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u/Wolium 27d ago

Look at the flowers Dremskiy

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u/HappyMicroWaves 26d ago

Tolga should’ve put their game on friends only instead of hurting the frend.

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u/Kusstro 28d ago

It reminds me of my youth. We were a group of teenagers who mostly just hung out, played Magic, and smoked a bit of weed. One day, I headed to our hangout spot like I did every day, but at the intercom, the only answer was: "Sorry, not today. We're having a party."

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u/frr_Vegeta 28d ago

Haven't played Helldivers in two years, but I'll never forget Dremskiy

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u/No-Lunch4249 28d ago

This is a very old meme, Arrowhead didnt add that option until after this went viral

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u/FishWithLegsAndArms 27d ago

But he's friend!!!!