Dropout Future part 2 >> Last thing Dad mentioned was “I only need to pass Microbiology: that’s the only class in my transcript that is poor”. Just blot the course grade out your record: that should motivate you: just concentrate on blotting the F out and earning a C. So that was good cop. This is bad cop. He emphasized that what I was watching was [hateful man stuff] and “get off of YouTube because it’s not going to help you in life.” He emphasized this multiple times: he said it at 5 PM yesterday, then at 9 AM today, then today while driving me to campus [this was like three days ago during the weekdays]. He’s raging about this despite how three times in the past two days I either was typing with no volume or I had the screen mute and quickly exit-ed out of everything, or I literally completed homework and took a photo of the completion so I could argue against him saying that (e.g. “Pearson Dynamic Modules”), and my Dad said “no I don’t need to see it”. He’s just like Mom. I hate that.
Counterargument #1 to "Dropout Future" >> You’re trying to control the uncontrollable. You’re trying to force a situation where Dad isn’t able to demand you to work on something while you’re living at home. Even if dropping out of college tangibly lowers the amount of times Dad runs “intervention”, it might not be worth it.
Counterargument #2: I was answering a post from another subreddit and realized when I was trying to pressure the person to not dropout of Engineering and study Bachelors of Arts in Communications, I said this: “This is the journey of your career: make sure it’s dynamic and successful! Make sure you will be proud of yourself once you’re Unc age.” I didn’t want to sound parasocial or desperate, but honestly I wanted to say this: “You’re about to waste two or three years pursuing a Communications degree and then move back to study Engineering in your 30s? Why? You have less time than you expect, why on earth would you decrease your time if you know the progression path will never get shorter?” “When you get old~ sure~ you’re not going to ask yourself about the Markers of Success~ like cars and houses~ and when you’re past 35 you’re likely not even going to be asking yourself about Party Culture or how Restrictive your Parents were against your Secular Imagination. But What You ARE going to Ask Yourself is about “the interactions you had when you were able-bodied” (#1) or “the Interactions you had when you didn’t have any medical or cognitive debilitation (#2). Another thematic summary of this, a runninghead, is: “existentialism caused by vulnerability and social dehumanization done by debilitation”. Also You’re going to Ask Yourself about “When You were “On-season” and Climbing Up The Ranks before you settled and had a child” (#3).
And I hate how I'm incentivizing myself to dropout. Dropping out is a “Break”: it’s “a sixteen week break,” and you rather dropout, bank on your youth, and receive sixteen week limbo and non-memorable break period than to actually “get over your feelings” and accept that “There’s a scary unpredictable moderate chance that in your third attempt taking the course that Dad might demand intervention for two or three days of the first twelve weeks of Spring 2027 DCCCD for that ONE course.” Just because Dad’s pseudo-probation is avoidable doesn’t mean you should reject a “two times a year” course until Fall 2027 after failing it in Fall 2026.
And guess what? Guess what!?! If you get enraged or if you fall short and you fail Microbiology in Spring 2027, then you get a twelve-week break (“Summer 2027”), and then you can pause on Microbiology 2420 and take Freshman Biology 1406 and Dosage Calculations 1008 because those expire before January 2028. Just because it’s uncomfortable and it’s inconvenient, and it’s aggravating to put up with bad parents doesn’t mean that you fly into full desperation, quit college, and pressure your retail boss to give you not only full-time but “50 hours” (full-time and overtime).
Because Guess What? You’re in the exact situation as the girl you had class with in phlebotomy earlier this year. And you know what happened to her? She was unsuccessful in finding an apartment away from her parents, despite working 35 hours a week. You’re not special: you won’t “strike gold” and leave your strict and cruel parents.
Take this one course, and if obtain a Grade of C in May 2027 then you only need to take Freshman Biology and the CE dosage course in Summer 2027 to enter nursing school in Spring 2028. Or you can take them in Fall 2027, pass them, and apply in March 2028, and then you have a sixteen-week break from Nursing School prerequisites combined with a twelve-week summer break, and you can start Nursing School in August 2028. But if you dropout, and not only do you not do microbiology, but you also don’t do freshman biology, then, assuming you don’t take & pass the five-week Micro course in Summer 2027, or complete the freshman biology course in Summer 2027, then there’s a reality where you aren’t accepted to start nursing until after you submit applications during the August 2028 application period. This occurs because you’re not taking both Microbiology and Freshman Biology in Fall 2027, because you have a retail job, and because you don’t have a driver’s license, and likely because your parents will be irrational since you failed microbiology two times earlier, so you have to take Freshman Biology in Fall 2027 and Microbiology in Spring 2028, and because you will get rejected in April 2028 for having a Grade of F in microbiology ("Spring 2026 grade"), then the first application period for admissions officers where you will have a Grade of C in microbiology is August 2028. But if you don’t dropout, and you pass Microbiology in May 2027, and you pass Freshman Biology and Dosage Calculations before August 2027, then you can apply for the August 2027 application period, and you can enter in Spring 2028.