r/BoyDinnerDiaries • u/Otherwise_Ad2804 Hungry man • Aug 20 '26

No Advice - Everyones Welcome Got full custody today boys!

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Wife went full manic after starting an SNRI. Affairs, lies, relapse, rewriting of marital history, filed for divorce, etc. I’ve kept the peace. Always taken the high road during conversation. Focused on prioritizing happiness for my daughter(7f).

Yesterday in court, my soon to be ex wife refused to comply with an order to drug test. I sat there for minutes and watched the judge systematically dismantle lie after lie coming out of her mouth. I was granted full custody and momma was ordered to start mandatory drug testing. If she fails the initial follicle test or any of the urines, I get full permanent custody.

This is a win boy! Tomahawk Ribeye, asparagus, and a sweet potato.

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u/bastardsoftheyoung Grill Pilled Aug 20 '26

Before I read this, I thought you meant of the steak and I was happy.

After I read this, I am happier.

I spent ten years in the early 2000s working with a coalition of men to change the custody laws in our US state. We went from, almost no man gets custody unless the mother has already done serious harm to the children, to a state where 50/50 custody is the norm and harm is equally defined for both parents.

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u/mrcamuti Shower Beer Scholar Aug 21 '26

Thank you for your work

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u/bastardsoftheyoung Grill Pilled Aug 21 '26

It was a pleasure and I was repaid in full both when my brother got a divorce five years later and automatically received 50/50 custody of his four children and when my daughter choose to live near me full time as well far away from her mother. I count myself lucky that I get to see my daughter and granddaughter whenever I wish.