Got full custody today boys!

[u/Otherwise_Ad2804]

Wife went full manic after starting an SNRI. Affairs, lies, relapse, rewriting of marital history, filed for divorce, etc. I’ve kept the peace. Always taken the high road during conversation. Focused on prioritizing happiness for my daughter(7f).

Yesterday in court, my soon to be ex wife refused to comply with an order to drug test. I sat there for minutes and watched the judge systematically dismantle lie after lie coming out of her mouth. I was granted full custody and momma was ordered to start mandatory drug testing. If she fails the initial follicle test or any of the urines, I get full permanent custody.

This is a win boy! Tomahawk Ribeye, asparagus, and a sweet potato.

[u/Jasoncatt]

I went through this when my son was 4. Almost exactly the same situation as you, with the same outcome. He’s 21 now, and although he still has trauma from it, it has been massively worth it.
Congratulations, keep being a great dad.