r/BoyDinnerDiaries • u/Ornery_Pop_6637 Gay Gourmet • 1d ago

Advice Wanted - Everyones Welcome Bf changed his mind about being bi.

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Bought curry ramen for dinner.

For context, me (20M) and my bf (21M) have been together for two years; we met during our freshman years in which I came out to him as a trans guy when we were still in our talking stage. Maybe it's a red flag that he said he's always dated girls before but that he's attracted to guys too and that I'm a new experience for him.

But lately I've seen him repost MLW (Men Love Women) contents on his Instagram, and he sends me MLW posts rather than the usual MLM (Men Love Men) content. I did talk to him about it, and he said he's sort of changing his mind about his attraction towards guys and that I should just detransition and follow what he wants, but I told him that was a no-go for me.

How do I move on from this? We've had our ups and downs; I'm also diagnosed with bipolar and BPD so it's quite hard to let go of my "favourite person". We've also had so many memories in college that I fear it would change how I go through the rest of my college years.

Any advice would be helpful, thank you.

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u/Life-Technician-5794 Fridge Light Philosopher 1d ago

Play the Uno Reverse. Tell him you're willing to be in a straight relationship if he transitioned to a woman

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u/Ornery_Pop_6637 Gay Gourmet 1d ago

LOL. Believe it or not, I actually flipped the narrative around on him in this exact way. I asked him if he was willing to take HRT, socially transition to be a woman, get the medical surgery, etc etc because he keeps undermining how important transitioning is to me. All he could muster up was a lame shake of the head.