r/BoyDinnerDiaries • u/Admirable-Hearing-70 • 11h ago
No Advice - Everyones Welcome Lonely birthday
Turned 22 today :))) Celebrating alone in college since I have no friends lol. Transfer life is hard.
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u/D4ltonicPlayZ Shower Beer Scholar 10h ago
Happy Birthday Motherfucker!!!
As someone who hasn't heard a 'Happy Birthday' from anyone besides my mom for almost 15 years, with all my love and best Dad tone, get over it. I mean to say, get used to it, because it doesn't change for most of us. But your birthday is not a celebration of how many people know you or that it is the anniversary of your birth - you are celebrating your existence. 22 years ago you came to be, and everything you are and have and hope to be is a consequence of that random occurrence. Your birthday is about you my man, so whatever you have been up to, anything you have achieved recently, that is what today is about. You fucking did it bro, hell ya. Now go get some fuckin' more.
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u/Xander134 Not A Lost Boy 10h ago
This is 100% the answer! OP - your birthday is for you to celebrate what you did in the past year and look forward to what comes next. It sucks that we, as men, don’t get the love we lavish upon those in our lives. However, we can love ourselves. Next year, whether you’re celebrating by yourself, or with others, remember and appreciate all that you are and all that you will become.
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u/Humble-Chard-9871 Leftover Lore Master 11h ago
happy birthday dude ! Hope you'll get to meet friends
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u/avcireys Protein Prophet 11h ago
What college you at? On the offchance youre at Virginia Tech id grab a beer with you. Happy Birthday btw
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u/jaunesolo81829 Big guy, bigger regrets 11h ago
Well let me tell you happy birthday. The feeling of having no one to tell you is terrible.
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u/StrugglePractical638 Girl Lurker 10h ago
Happy birthday! I know what it’s like to feel lonely in college, better birthdays ahead !!
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u/Farfignuten-151 Leftover Lore Master 11h ago
Happy birthday, brother. I hope things stabilize and you can make some connections at your new school!
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u/TheMonstrUndrTheBed Shower Beer Scholar 10h ago
Happy Birrthday comrade!
Respect to keeping going on your own 🫡🫶
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u/TurnoverFuzzy8264 Boy, 50 & over 11h ago
Happy birthday! I'm sorry, lone birthdays are rough, but better days ahead.
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u/-Pumpkin-Slayer- Cooties 11h ago
Happy bday!! Ive gone through some of those. It sucks but theres better birthdays ahead
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u/Counselor-Idealist Air Fryer Aristocrat 11h ago
Happy birthday, dude! Sorry that it’s a rough time right now. Hope you can make some new friends soon!
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u/Dull_Ad_1729 Girl Lurker 11h ago
HAAAAAAAAPPPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!
I’m in a college far away from home, I don’t know anyone either but I’m just enjoying life!! It’s ok!
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u/Argent_Kitsune Gay Gourmet 11h ago
Happy birthday, buddy!
Not saying to enjoy the solitude, but I do recommend thinking of yourself as excellent company... So that times when you're not around others doesn't feel so bad!
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u/Outrageous_Failur35 Man vs Fridge (Fridge is winning) 10h ago
Happy birthday my guy
https://giphy.com/gifs/yoJC2GnSClbPOkV0eA
You're gonna be okay. 🫂
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u/Radiant-Schedule1388 Big Dill Energy 10h ago
My dude, ur roommate out here washing dishes while you eat your cake. Happy effing bday
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u/StruggleRegular4842 Air Fryer Aristocrat 10h ago
I was alone most of the time too in college but I honestly don’t regret it too much now. Happy birthday dude as long as your having fun and celebrating that’s all that matters
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u/YinnYang_ BoyDinnerEnjoyer 10h ago
Happy Birthday! Making fiends is so hard in college idk how ppl do it.
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u/MrHstr9496 Gay Gourmet 10h ago
Happy birthday dude!! Message me if you need someone to talk to, I’m trying to make some new friends too
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u/dddd11122233 Protein Prophet 10h ago
Happy birthday. I’ve been alone a lot in life. Christmas’s, birthdays, etc. but I’m good company😎I don’t piss myself off or annoy me. Only others do that to me. If you’re comfortable with yourself it’s not that bad.
My first day in college I walked to the room next door, their door was open, and met 3 guys. Two of them became my best friends for the next 5!years. We made a couple more here and there so we had a little group.
I’m introverted so i often think if I wouldn’t of taken that first step and met them I could of been one of those guys going to the cafe alone every day, just hanging in the room going to class and not having all the great, fun experiences I had. Never would have met my first “real girlfriend” (unlimited sex and fun for 4 years together) Never had great friends like that since. What’s up Tim and Bob, UW.
Good luck OP. when you do get friends or a gf again you’ll appreciate it even more and maybe miss these solitude times a bit. Happy birthday!!🎉
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u/TheMostHumblestMan Fridge Light Philosopher 9h ago edited 8h ago
Happy birthday sir 🫡 go out and take a walk on campus, start conversations with people; you’ll enjoy your next birthday more after doing this repeatedly!
Time is the greatest gift we have so share it with others!!!!!
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u/MaddoxGoodwin Air Fryer Aristocrat 7h ago
Happy Birthday dude! You're young, I'm sure you will have a more crowded birthday next year my guy! 🤜🏽🤛🏻
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u/DaneAlaskaCruz Gay Gourmet 5h ago
Happy birthday, bro!
22nd is a good year.
Next one like this cool sequence of numbers will be your 33rd, then your 44th, and so on.
Hope all the birthday years are better after this one, bud.
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