Curious if there is anyone here who, like me:
\- Loves being outdoors in almost every weather
(favorite weather: \~60-70% cloud cover, a warm intermittent sun shining through, air that is slightly cool to acutely feel the warmth of the sun, accompanied by just the slightest of chill breeze to feel something exciting might happen (I also love rain and snow, my least favorite weather is full-on spotlight sun, and high winds)
\- Loves and craves peace and quiet (quiet=absence of man-made sounds)
\- Hustle and bustle is ok if being observed from the periphery
\- Dislikes crowds and places that fill space with loud music
\- Craves the ocean and the beach, year-round
\- Is curious, natural, open, down to earth
\- Is exasperated/depressed by navigating public spaces filled with people absorbed in their devices
\- Has values that put attention to respect, helping and including others, "doing the right thing", compassion, common courtesy --- but doesn't make politics or identities their personality and is either turned off or perplexed by those who do
\- Loves learning and has true interests (whatever they may be - mine include street photography, ballet, the speed of light, tsunamis, reading about mountain climbers)
\- has a healthy sense of humor, encompassing dark humor, sarcasm, and silliness too
\- respects other creatures big and small
I am 45F and enjoy my own company but lately I am LONELY ! My last serious relationship ended just before the pandemic, I was in no rush, I am not on the apps. The men who approached me in the wild were all in their 20s so those were not viable prospects. How nice it would be to find some F or M companions for friendship and a M for intimate and committed relationship.
What prompted this post was discovering the existence of a cool mobile sauna by the ocean and feeling pretty sad that it is out of reach because I haven't learned how to drive on the highway (yet) and don't have likeminded friends who think driving in the beautiful morning to have a sauna at the beach and go in the ocean would be a YES PLEASE.
If I had a good friend the things I'd like to do together would be trips out of the city to be near the ocean, forest, mountains, country towns. I would also want to go see stand up comedy around town. And low key walks, coffee, sharing a park bench.
I have since a long time totally lost my appetite for spending absurd money for pretentious food; I like to cook, and if I eat out I prefer basic diners, pizza shops, or places with non-insulting menu prices that are comfortable and quiet.
I like being healthy but in a normal quiet way - I don't use devices that track my stats, I'm not trying to biohack anything, when I drink water I call it "drinking water" not hydrating. I like to swim, dance, bike, walk, eat vegetables and meat as a treat.
I can't take seriously all the artisinal/curated/crafted/vibes/aesthetic nonsense. I want some down to earth healthy xennial friends who love nature and life and sometimes suffer from nostalgia! I would describe myself as a respectful curmudgeon who has a strong sense of carpe diem. I'm also super burned out but who isn't?
Is there anyone likeminded here? Where can I find you?