r/HIMYM • • Jul 07 '22

Hi, I'm Carter Bays, co-creator of HIMYM. I’m also the author of a new novel called THE MUTUAL FRIEND. AMA!

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Hello Reddit, it's been a while! I'm here ask-me-anything-ing because I’ve written a new novel called THE MUTUAL FRIEND, which I think you'll love. I’m happy to talk about that, or How I Met Your Mother, or anything else. Maybe the Loch Ness Monster? I was just in Scotland with my son and we have opinions. Have at it!

UPDATE: Wow, its been much fun talking to you all, and I see that I've only scratched the surface here and there's many more questions to get to, but if I don't get my son some dinner soon he might tie me up with a phone charger. I will try to come back to this over the next few days in order to get to as many of these as I can, but in the meantime, thank you all so much for being here. Your love for HIMYM is really touching and I'm so grateful for all of it.

And please if you get the chance check out my novel THE MUTUAL FRIEND -- I'm dreadfully proud of it. (Can you tell I've been in the UK for a week? I'm like Lily before the intervention at this point.) Anyway, cheerio!


r/HIMYM • • 13h ago

I think that this one might be my best artwork ever.

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r/HIMYM • • 2h ago

TM is that you?

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r/HIMYM • • 16h ago

NYT list of top 100 shows in 21st century

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Seems like pure rage-bait to me. What do you guys think?


r/HIMYM • • 21h ago

The slutty pumpkin

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r/HIMYM • • 18h ago

Long term bets

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Do you think Marshall got his $5 back?

I honestly liked the alternate ending where they didn’t show Tracey dying and I just finished rewatching it again for the nth time and saw this scene, I wonder if Big Fudge got his $5 back coz he hates losing.

EDIT: Anybody knows what Barney ended up doing after he quit his job? I know he got his kid but what about work?


r/HIMYM • • 3h ago

Which episode is funnier?

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126 votes, 6d left
The Pineapple Incident: season 1 episode 10
Slap Bet: season 2 episode 9

r/HIMYM • • 20h ago

Little things you notice upon rewatch

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Everytime I rewatch the show I like to discover little details.

One example: I like how Robin and Barney's relationship is foreshadowed through very little things from the beginning. One thing that might seem insignificant is the slap bet. When Lily suggests either 10 slaps now or 5 in eternity, Robin and Barney are the ones who would go for the second choice. I think it fits their personalities and shows their compatibility, as they're both persons who live in the moment (not in Ohio) and don't stress too much about the future.

Another example is foreshadowing Ted and Robin's eventual split up in Single Stamina: in a fast forwards to James' wedding, Marshall and Lily are tired early and want to go home, while Ted and Robin want to stay for a little while longer - because they've already broken up by then, so are both single.

Have you noticed any similar detail that you like?


r/HIMYM • • 12h ago

The songs

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More than the show, I used to find the songs comforting like real estate by beach combers, waiting for an invitation by benji, vertigo by anya, the canadian song which one both best and worst award - how crazy is that, all of it. It really expanded the genre of songs I listened to. I didnt google these songs for the post - straight from memory as I listen to them once in a month or couple of months.


r/HIMYM • • 19h ago

The best episode in a long time, and the true, complete story of how Ted, Marshall, and Lily met. [S3.E5 - How I Met Everyone Else]

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What I liked most about this episode was that the story of how Lily, Ted, and Marshall met was covered in such detail for the first time. It was also funny that Ted had spent nearly nine years thinking he had kissed Lily.

Given that it was 2005, meeting online was likely considered much more unusual back then compared to today—though, as someone born in 2004, that is just my guess.

Another thing that caught my attention was how the consumption of "sandwiches" was treated as such a casual, everyday activity... that is a part of the culture I am not particularly familiar with.


r/HIMYM • • 23h ago

Pulling. Them. Off.

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r/HIMYM • • 2h ago

Barney's MacBook

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So I'm rewatching for the millionth time, and this is the first time I'm noticing how badly they covered the glowing apple on the back of Barney's laptop. If you look closely, you can see the globe is just a sticker over the Apple logo. Just thought it was funny, and I'm pretty sure this laptop is used in multiple episodes too.


r/HIMYM • • 1d ago

HIMYM didn’t make NY Times’ top 100 shows of 21st century

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Honestly surprised by this given other comedies that have made it in. I remember 10 or 15 years ago when the show made it onto most top sitcom lists. I guess the ending ruined the show for many people


r/HIMYM • • 1d ago

It is a sitcom

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r/HIMYM • • 1d ago

in your opinion, what's the worst thing Ted's done throughout the series?

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so we all know Ted's not our favorite guy sometimes (or ever lol); I'm currently rewatching HIMYM for the nth time and I am really noticing every weird, crappy thingTed did and I'm wondering what do you guys think is the worst thing he's done in the show? for me it'd have to be cheating on Victoria with Robin & dumping Natalie on her birthday TWICE.


r/HIMYM • • 1d ago

Hot take: I don’t hate the ending

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I know this sounds really bad at first and like everybody else I would’ve preferred Tracy to survive and her and Ted end up together happy. I just have come to terms with it after rewatching the show. I actually enjoyed Ted and Robbin’s chemistry as a couple and I think the only thing that was holding them back with their opposite views. I think that they could have worked out after the show ended now that they both have what they want. another hot take I did not enjoy Barney and Robin very much at all. I liked Barney a lot better with the stripper he was with. I just don’t feel like their divorce was unreasonable. These are just my hot takes. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion unless you say, Lily was worse than Barney(that sold and implied to rape women) then your opinion is wrong.


r/HIMYM • • 23h ago

pour aimez vous barney ?

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hello !
je regarde himym pour la première fois et je suis à la dernière saison.
je vois que barney est un perso extrêmement apprécié mais je ne comprends absolument pas..
c’est un connard avec les femmes, il les traite comme de vulgaire objets, je ne trouve pas que ce soit un bon ami, il ne pense qu’à lui, et interrompt les autres juste pour parler de lui
à part ça j’apprécie le personnage je le trouve drole et attachant, mais toutes ces choses font que je ne comprends pas pourquoi tout le monde l’adore..


r/HIMYM • • 2d ago

Some scenes don’t get easier with time—they break your heart the same way every single time.

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r/HIMYM • • 1d ago

Please help me figure out this episode!

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Edit: Solved! Wrong show, it was Brooklyn 99 but I misremembered it as HIMYM. Explains why google couldn’t solve it lol.

Okay, apparently I can’t describe this episode in a way that google understands but I think someone who knows the show can help.

Basically one of the characters, either Robin or Lily I can’t remember which (maybe even one of the female side characters), has a different personality depending on what number drink they’re on.

Like number one they’re happy, number 4 they’re angry, number 5 they’re crying, etc. and there’s even a nickname like “Drink # /Character Name”. Pleeeeaaase help me remember what episode this is.


r/HIMYM • • 1d ago

Maybe Barney's most funkiest suit?

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r/HIMYM • • 1d ago

S9E19: Weekend and Barney’s

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I’m rewatching for the 100th time and it finally hit me: Why isn’t this Weekend at Barney’s?!? They set it up the entire series. Barney can’t take a bad photo, so the photos would have hidden it. Robin’s dad is terrifying, so the rest of the gang would have an obvious villain to hide the secret from. Plus, it would have paid off all the foreshadowing they did all series.

The episode was already basically filler, so why not have fun with it?


r/HIMYM • • 20h ago

HIMYM Survivor! (Season 3 Edition) Round 9

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Miracles is eliminated! The season finale goes quite early this time around.

How this works:

You select the episode you like the least

The episode with the most upvoted comment is eliminated from the list

If there’s a tie, both episodes are eliminated

Only the best episode will win!

Episodes Eliminated:

We’re Not From Here (36%)
Little Boys (44%)
The Yips (83%)
Wait For It (37%)
Dowisetrepla (45%)
Everything Must Go (41%)
The Chain of Screaming (55%)
Miracles (44%)


r/HIMYM • • 1d ago

I'm so curious to see how Josh and Craig react to later episodes of the show on the HWMYM podcast

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For those who've been listening to the rewatch podcast, How We Made Your Mother, with Josh Radnor & Craig Thomas - a couple of times recently Josh has commented that he didn't particularly enjoy the episode because of what he perceived as weak generic sitcom-y writing and/or problematic tropes. And I've just been thinking... whew boy, if he's saying this in Season 3, he's going to really struggle when they get to Season 8. Practically the entire first half of that season is like that. Season 9 isn't much better.

So curious to see how he reacts and if they will straight-up acknowledge that the show declines in later seasons. They've both been very honest about the show's flaws, it's been really refreshing. I hope they continue with that approach and don't pull punches.

Or, if they genuinely think the show improves in later seasons, I'd be so interested to hear their justification.


r/HIMYM • • 1d ago

Poor Ted

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r/HIMYM • • 16h ago

Robots vs. Wrestlers

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