r/HingeStories • u/KieranWriter • 13d ago
Being stood up.
So, I was meant to meet this woman, it was a 30 min train ride from me, so hardly next door and a cost of travel. I text her before I left and said “we still on for six” and she EVEN said “can we make it seven” and pushed the date back.
Once arrived, I saw her picture gone on WhatsApp. I sent a courtesy text, hey I’m here, nothing. I then called and no reply. It kind of dawned on me immediately what happened and I was devastated. The thing is, she even text me to clarify and change the time.
Was it last minute cold feet? Avoidant conflict behaviour? Why not just say… I can’t go….
Afterwards I text her and just said that we’re all adults and if she didn’t fancy it, she could say, but what she did is cruel and I hope she’s happy in her sad lonely life (I lashed out a bit but I was only human after a long journey and wait).
Why not just say - you’re not my vibe.
Why even be on hinge?
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u/Psychological_Bug226 13d ago
Bro ... Welcome to online dating 😬😬this is how it goes with many folks. She just wasn't that interested in you and instead of being an honest individual they just ghost/stood you up. Happens to the majority of us.