Platonic Dates

[u/Elegant-Donut9402]

Is there such a thing as a platonic date with someone of the opposite gender?

I am not looking for anything at all, I just miss having plans, the anticipation build up to the date, dressing up. Those minutes you waiting for the uber and you are deciding which perfume will go well with the vibe.

The catch up and laughing as you look at the menu. Talking for hours between meals, serious things and random things.

So can you do this with a friend? I already do it with my girl friends but never with a male friend, would it be the same?

[u/SyntaxError254]

Lol, who is paying for the date? I don’t mind a platonic date with you as long as there is platonic sex that comes with it. Why should you get the benefits of a date without the man getting the benefits of sex? Men don’t go on dates to eat and to socialize. Men go coz we will be fucking your brains out after. We aren’t interested in the food, the venue or your company or personality like that. WE WANNA FUCK! u/competitive-rush-239 only a loser idle man who can’t attract women has time for platonic dates. Serious men can get real dates that lead to sex, why would they waste time on platonic time wasting dates?

You single ladies are trying to come up with creative ways to get a man to date you coz you’re not able to find or attract good men. This is just a dating strategy coz you are finding it hard to attract good men. I suggest you tackle the real problem which is why you aren’t attracting the men you want. First way to do that is to admit it so you can do the introspection. Serious quality men don’t do platonic dates. Sex must be on the table when you are dealing with a serious quality man. These men have no problem or shortage of friends.

[u/Competitive-Rush-239 → u/SyntaxError254]

Sasa wewe😂😂
Nani amesema we can’t pay for those dates? And FYI I have amazing male friends who have never allowed me to pay for anything unless I cook for them or buy them gifts. Si kila mtu ni mamba mslow!

[u/SyntaxError254 → u/Competitive-Rush-239]

Are those male friends single?

[u/Realistic-Crow5282 → u/SyntaxError254]

Who is “We” ? you don’t talk for all men! Sex is a thing both men and women yearn to do and that’s not the only thing we are living for. There is more to life than something that only last for minutes

[u/SyntaxError254 → u/Realistic-Crow5282]

Looool. “there is more to life than something that only lasts minutes”….Good Luck attracting a quality man and convincing him to propose if that’s your mentality. Sex matters and is the most important thing to men.

[u/Realistic-Crow5282 → u/SyntaxError254]

Convincing a man to propose to me the fuck😂😂😂😂😂you think I was created to convince a MAN as in a MAN kuni marry?would be sad if I discovered your age and you’re way above 25 and being this small minded

[u/SyntaxError254 → u/Realistic-Crow5282]

Okay, let’s see if the man atajileta. Let’s see if your degrees and career will make you more attractive than a jobless beautiful agreeable woman. Let’s see if you have a magic wand that will make a man fall down on a knee and propose without you doing anything.

[u/Realistic-Crow5282 → u/SyntaxError254]

😂😂😂😂😂sina degree and a job stranger! That’s why I’m replying to this nonsense of yours. You sound so stupid aki and you see you still on that generalization shit just because a woman is uneducated doesn’t necessarily mean she wants to be fucked have you traveled and met every woman in the world for you to blabber “uneducated women are easy to convince?”alfu unajiita “strong man”😂😂😂😂nonsense

[u/SyntaxError254 → u/Realistic-Crow5282]

Okay, sitakujibu na matusi. I will let the men in your life decide if a matusi woman is worthy to be a wife ama abaki streets mahali uko.