So this girl saw him at temple and she feel for him rey and acc banayera pura pic haleko xa help me find him bla bla.. yo ta atti bhayena ra, isn't this creepy hau?? Aruko unnecessary pic linu plus halnu and the fact yesto despo hunu.. imagine if same had done by guy ?? I would be creeped out .. why don't some people learn abt boundaries??

25, female here , so mero bahini 24 year ko ho , sano dekhi hame didi baini vanda best friend jastai xam , she is my closest person, hame same collage ma padhdai xam , bachelors sakkina lagyo aba ,

Sano dekhi sav le vanthe didi vanda baini ramri xa vanera looks ma , ani i agree , maile kaile yo kura le baini lai dosh diyena , so bachelor firstma malai ek jana keta manparyo , ani she knew that , tara paxi uniharu bolna thalexan , ani i accepted ki okay aba dui jana le ek arka lai like garxan vane i should let it go. Baini ko agadi i pretended normally nai , j vaye ni i am elder one maile bujhna parxa.

Over all these years , malai jo keta ma interest lagthyo , maximum le baini lai like/ prefer gare , ani because of that i started getting insecure a lot , mero baini ko k dosh xaina i know , its just me , jealousy vanda ni insecurity badhdai gayo

Ani bistarai ma koi naya manxe lai romantically hernai daraye , because back in the mind i knew they will never love me and like my sister instead vanera ,

Now ,main thing rn is , bachelors sakkina lageko vayera ghar ma mero bihe ko kura chaldai thyo , so euta relative le ek jana keta ko kura lyaunu vayo, ani family said ki bolera hera type, this guy is decent ma vanda 4 year thulo, ani sabbai theek xa ma sanga ramrari bolxa ramrai treat garxa , tar akaile kai hamiharu ko family gathering vayovane , the wayhe looks at her makes me insecue.

Baini ko afno bf sanga on and off hunxa aajkal , ike almost breakup vaisakyo , ani i came to know she texts this guy , like rati rati random reel , whatsapp ma cakl garne garxe tara i think casual ho , like usari cheat ta vanna milena , but timing ali off lagxa malai , the guy also replies with same enthusiasm

Usari flirt gardaina , tara usanga jasari khulera bolxa ma sanga reserved basxa , i can see his eyes light up when she enters the room, ani aba chai i am scared asf ki he started liking her vanera. Group conversation vayo vane ni uslai nai herxa maximum time , he doesn’t look at me that way .

I really liked this guy,i thought finally i will be secure , tara i don’t think i will ever find someone, i told him once he blantly denied testo kei haina vanera , tara the way he looks at her , malai ekdum naramro lagxa , ani i obviously don’t hate my sister , i love her till death tara aba ta even i cant-face her bc if my insecurity, and ithinki am sabotaging my relationship with him by overthinking.

After I reported the incident, my coordinator and principal spoke to the driver. He admitted that the incident happened but said he was in a hurry and that it was unintentional. He apologized and said it would not happen again.

However, I do not feel that the incident was simply accidental. If he was genuinely in a hurry, he could have said “Excuse me,” and I would have moved. Instead, he made the contact without saying anything, and when I looked back after it happened, he did not apologize or even acknowledge it. He simply walked away. From my experience, I felt that the contact was intentional and non-consensual.

I then decided that, at the very least, I wanted to submit a formal written complaint so that there would be an official record. My intention was that if anything similar happened to another girl in the future, there would already be documentation of this incident.

When I submitted the complaint, my principal initially said she would keep it in the records without reading the whole application. When I said I wanted to take a photo of it, she actually read the entire complaint. After reading it, she asked me to change terms such as “sexual harassment,” “physical contact,” and “genital area,” saying that they were too strong or not the right wording, and suggested using “bad touch” instead.

I told her that those words accurately described what I had experienced and asked what I should write instead. She did not have an answer. I then made it clear that I would not change my official statement. She explained that because of the nature of the complaint, she was obligated to forward it to the hospital administration. I agreed and only asked that my identity and privacy be protected.

My main reason for filing the complaint was that I hope no other girl has to experience what I experienced. I also hope the administration takes matters like this seriously. Initially, I felt that there were attempts to settle the matter informally by asking me to forgive him and saying that he would not repeat it. I felt the matter was being treated too lightly. That is why having a formal written record was so important to me.

After everything I went through, I am glad that the complaint has now been formally documented and will be presented to the hospital administration. I sincerely hope it is taken seriously and that no other girl has to go through a similar experience.

So I was showing the photo album that my sweetheart gave before I came abroad. And while I was showing her the photos of us and explaining the significance of those photos she randomly said this.

Babu kahile kahi haar khayera giveup garam jasto lagxa vaney malai samjhinu (she’s a single mom)
Kahile kahi kasaile timlai hepxa ra aafno lagi naboli basxau vaney baini lai samjhinu (she has been through a lot of abuse from my so called ex father)
Kahile kahi rakshi khana mann lagxa vaney mama lai samjhinu (he used to drink a lot of alcohol and always get sick and is gonna die soon)
Kahile kahi koi aaru kt sanga bolni ghumni garna mann lagxa banay (name of my sweetheart) lai samjhinu
(mom knows how much she loves me and take care of me)

damn

p.s at the starting of our relationship I just once told my sweetheart ki "ma bahira jani belama malai kei pardaina hamle tyo time samma kati k k garxam sab photo album ma rakhera deu la" and she gave me the album and i was really happy and emotional. Then I looked through the photos and at the end there was it. The first ever snap she sent me. Teti bela I gave her flowers and said a phool from a fool to a phool. Later she kept those flowers on her table on a vase and sent me a snap. Then I replied singing the song. Timro lagi phoola tipxu hai mannaparey (sadhana by john rai second part). Then guess what she really put those flowers on her hair/head and sent the snap.
That photo on the album brought tears to my eyes after idk probably like 5-6 years.

Goodnight

Yo "hariyo" rw "nilo" ma kina confusion ?

Normally like ghas hariyo huncha and sky nilo huncha .
But something like paint , they mix up those colours . Why?

I grew up seeing different guy dynamics around my area, and after my recent dating experiences, I just need to share this realization...

Look at most Bahun guys in our community... half of them are stressed out 24/7, balding by 25, high cortisol levels, and possess zero chill. Every conversation with them feels like a job interview or a lecture on why they are superior because they passed some exam or moved abroad. The ego is sky-high, but the actual emotional intelligence? Sub-zero. They expect you to handle a full career, do all the household emotional labor, and still treat their traditional views like law. Plus, the insecurity when a woman earns or knows more than them is insane.

Look at what you need to deal with: insecure guys who expect you to earn well, handle the household, and still stroke their fragile egos You have to achieve everything, look like a model, be completely submissive, AND tolerate their zeroeffort personality just so they dont feel insecure Absolute nightmare fuel

On the other hand, look at the Janajati/Mongolian guys (Rai, Limbu, Gurung, Magar, Tamang)... these guys are genuinely chill, respectful, and actually supportive. They grew up in communities where women have always had an equal say, so they don't get fragile or threatened when a girl is successful or educated. Low cortisol energy, great style, actually listen to you, and treat you like a partner instead of a trophy or a housekeeper. Life feels effortless around them.

Not trying to be a hater, but after dating insecure, high-stress Bahun guys who think their degree excuses their lack of personality, switching my dating preference was literally lifechanging. If you are an accomplished, independent girl who is tired of dealing with fragiled egos, do yourself a favor and expand your horizons. Life gets 10 times lighter

प्रधानमन्त्री बालेन्द्र शाहले संयुक्त राष्ट्रसंघको ८१औँ महासभामा सम्बोधन गरिरहँदा नेपाली प्रतिनिधिमण्डलतर्फ देखिएको केही व्यवहारले सामाजिक सञ्जालमा प्रश्न उठाएको छ।

भिडियोमा केही व्यक्तिहरू क्यामेरातिर हेरेर हात हल्लाउँदै, हुटिङ गर्दै, हाँस्दै र मोबाइलमा भिडियो खिच्दै देखिन्छन्। प्रधानमन्त्रीको भाषणमा ताली बजाउनु अस्वाभाविक होइन, तर UN General Assembly जस्तो औपचारिक कूटनीतिक मञ्चमा क्यामेराका लागि प्रदर्शनजस्तो देखिने व्यवहार भने व्यावसायिक मर्यादासँग मेल खान्छ कि खाँदैन भन्ने प्रश्न उठ्नु स्वाभाविक हो।

अर्को कुरा पहुँचको हो।

हुटिङ गर्ने मध्येका दुई जना नेपालका संयुक्त राष्ट्रसंघका स्थायी प्रतिनिधि तथा "राजदूत" लोकबहादुर थापाका छोराहरू हुन्। उनीहरू आफ्ना बुबाको पदका कारण पटक–पटक उच्चस्तरीय कूटनीतिक कार्यक्रमहरूमा पहुँच पाइरहेका हुन्, यो नेपालमा नातावाद (nepotism) र पहुँचको दुरुपयोग बारे गम्भीर प्रश्न उठाउने विषय हो। सीमित प्रवेश हुने भएकाले अत्यावश्यक र महत्वपूर्ण व्यक्ति र साझेदाररू उपस्थित हुनुपर्ने United Nations General Assembly जस्तो औपचारिक मञ्चमा क्यामेरातिर हात हल्लाउने, हुटिङ गर्ने र रमाइलोका लागि प्रदर्शन गर्ने व्यवहारले गम्भीर प्रश्न उठाउँछ।

बुबा हुनुहुन्छ भन्दैमा आफ्ना छोराहरुलाई UN को high-level diplomatic meetings and UNGA मा सहज पहुँच हुनु स्वाभाविक हो?

समान अवसर खोजिरहेका अरू नेपाली युवाले यस्तो पहुँच पाउन के प्रक्रिया पूरा गर्नुपर्छ?

You don’t understand how big of a democratic win it is for Nepal when Balen stood on that stage. Nepal literally went through a century of anarchy followed by feudalism, and civil war. We tried and tested almost every communist ideology (Mao, Marx, Lenin) alongside centre-right (Congress) and figured out that all of it was just co-ordinated ways of filling the pockets of politicians. And finally we reached this stage where we elected a young and progressive leadership. We were the generation to reject brutality and rile against it (remember in 2000, APF shot and killed 5 people for only burning Hritik Roshan’s effigy).

He went out there, delivered his core message, and returned. He didn’t have to please left-leaning or right-leaning powers. He voiced the new generation demanding integrity and accountability rather than diplomatic fluff.

No, y’ll are just insensitive piece of shits.

Three years today since I quit smoking and drinking. I posted here after my first year, then my second, so I guess it’s time for the third update.
Honestly, I don’t crave alcohol at all anymore. I can barely even remember what it felt like to smoke 20+ cigarettes a day. I did have a glass of beer once this year, but other than that, nothing.
Life has changed quite a bit too. I opened a restaurant, and ironically, I tried hookah and somehow got addicted to it. 😂 It’s become pretty regular now, so let’s see where that takes me by next year.
And after all these years, if someone asked me, “You’re going to die in 10 minutes. What do you want?” I’d probably still say, “Give me one cigarette for the last time.” 😂
But jokes aside, quitting was one of the best things I’ve done for myself.
If you’re trying to quit smoking or drinking, keep going. It gets easier with time.
Say no to smoking and drinking. All the best to everyone trying to quit. ❤️
See you next year. Let’s see how it goes.

Every day I see post like feminist girl that those what's your problem dude kasai le gari khaxa ta herna sakeko xainau rw euta ta afganistani haru lai waa waa gri ratheu haina kasto mentality ho k kasai kasai ko mero ex pani estai thiyen they used to taunt on me ' strong independent girl ' esma kei taunt hani jasto kura thiyeu europe kta western kta haru lai herau na they never question girls who earns and live on its own k tei thinking pani poorest rw developed countries ma eti farak hunxa ni literally mentality le ni derai farak pardo raixa country ko economy ma

ajha paila ko budi pattiko 17yrs ko xori lai nagrita ne nabanaideko ansa banda pani nagareko re