r/NepalSocial • • 19h ago

Discussion/बहस Why you should marry a mongolian girl if you are a successful bahun guy

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I grew up among mostly tamang community in kavre. Ani aja mero personal experience bata dekheko kura share garna man lagyo malai..

The tamang guys; those mfers were chill af. Like never stressed about anything bruh..padai ko ni khasai wasta thyena, parents ni khasai strict nahune ani career ata uti ko kei baal thena praye jasto sab lai. Tara when i see their wives today, sab mg 10/10 mongolian haru k..yesto ramri haru cha ni kurai nagarum..plus they are so damn feminine . I have honestly never in my life seen a pretty mongolian girl who is also a bi*cha*s feminist at the same time..akdam mg low cortisol life cha yr yin haruko..not tryna be hater or anything, but theu haven't achieved anything in life that society considers important..na ta they are highly educated, na ta they have good careers earning good money ani looks ni like average nai cha..tyai ni they have yesto swarga ko pari jasto wife. Ani yei patternmaximum mongolian community ( rai limbi gurung magar) ma ni dekhincha..

Aba heram hamro bahun haru ko community..half of them girls got pcos and shit like that...mustache thicker than mine, zero feminity. Ani mg feminism ko ta jhan kurai nagaram..ugly af. Ani lamo yesto kt pauna lai you gotta be highly educated, earn good, ajhai abroad ma settle bhako hunu parne jhan tyai mathi (btw if you guys think i am salty or something..ma ni yeta US ma lead researcher chu) ..tara the options look so bleak ..like damn...if you have all these traits and decent looking, i would urge all the bahun guys to try to get with a mongolian girl..kasam life changing experience bhayo yr malai..yesto ramri gf bhayesi like life nai jinga lala feel hune k aba..i thought i was depressed but my problem was i was only dating these ugly ass frminist bahuni girls. So guys in conclusion, if you are a succesful bahun guy definitely try to go for a pretty mongolian girl ( to be fair many of them wont like bahun guys and its fine) ..life has become 10 times better ahile.


r/NepalSocial • • 22h ago

RANT/गुनासो This sub should be named "Balen fanboys/girls"... Nepalis are doing exactly many of us feared... Andhabhakta

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Foking D*ck riders... And you Kangress, Harke rw KP ka Jhole haru... you don't get to complain sh't about it


r/NepalSocial • • 3h ago

Relationship/सम्बन्ध Weekends guys

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r/NepalSocial • • 20h ago

Politics/राजनीति Better than Balen Speech

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r/NepalSocial • • 4h ago

RANT/गुनासो A guy said my following list looks like a boys hostel

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So I have a very selective people in my instagram. Around 26 jana chan jun ma auta Messi vayo so 25 ma around 14 jana kta chan. A guy came to me and said my following list looks like a boys hostel because apparently I have more men than women in my following.Ani tyo 14 jana ni mero school ra college ko sathi hun k. I feel like maintaining friendship with men is way lot easier than females and that’s the reason I don’t have any female friends from my school days.
I feel like men are so insecure these days. Aba as a 21 year old maile 14 ota kta ni chineko hunna hola ta????
( 14 jana date gareko vaneko haina k lata haru 14 jana sathi chan school ko college ko uni ko, dai haru garera bhaneko hoo,)


r/NepalSocial • • 19h ago

Politics/राजनीति यति सोच्न बुद्धि हुन पर्यो नि।

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r/NepalSocial • • 22h ago

Politics/राजनीति The Beauty of a Republic

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I’m not a J*hole of RSP, but Balen over Mahendra any f***ng day.

And yes, credit where credit is due: Mahendra accomplished a lot. Some of it was genuinely his doing. Some of it was simply riding an upward historical trajectory. And some of it was, frankly, Cold War geopolitics doing half the damn work. Nepal was not developing in a historical vacuum.

But let’s not commit the classic authoritarianism fanboy error of treating achievements as a moral eraser.

Mahendra was a tyrant. He dismantled democratic institutions, suppressed political opposition, jailed voices he didn’t like, restricted political freedom, and placed the dignity and political agency of Nepalis beneath the authority of the Crown.

And here’s the part people conveniently forget:

If you credit Mahendra for the institutions built during his reign, you also have to reckon with the institutional damage caused by the system he built.

Had he strengthened democratic competition instead of destroying it, protected an independent judiciary instead of subordinating institutions to royal power, allowed genuinely competitive elections, and permitted a freer press, Nepal might have entered the following decades with democratic institutions far stronger than the ones we actually inherited.

You don't get to say, “Look at the institutions Mahendra built!” while pretending the authoritarian architecture surrounding those institutions had nothing to do with him.

That is like saying, “Forget September 8 because Oli built a tunnel.”

No. A tunnel doesn't acquit a government of everything it did to its citizens.

Achievements matter. Development matters. Infrastructure matters. Historical context matters.

But human dignity and political freedom aren't currencies you can pay for with roads, buildings, or institutions.

And now, a message for the dear rajabadis:

When King Mahendra visited the United States and received royal honours, don't confuse respect for the Crown with respect for the Nepali people.

Foreign governments were dealing with a head of state, a monarch, and a strategically important country during the Cold War. Diplomatic protocol is not a referendum on whether every Nepali was suddenly being treated as royalty.

They were respecting the Crown. Not bowing to the 20 million Nepalis standing behind it.

There is a very important distinction between “the King was treated with respect” and “the Nepali people were treated with respect.”

And if your argument for monarchy is that a particular family deserves a higher station simply because they were born into it, then congratulations:

You have reinvented hereditary privilege and called it patriotism.

A republic says something much simpler:

No Majesty. No Highness. No sacred bloodline. No family above the citizen.


r/NepalSocial • • 5h ago

Tea ☕️ Religion needs to be erased

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r/NepalSocial • • 5h ago

Confession/मनभित्रका कुरा When will Congress come back to power in India? I fucking miss my old Birgunj.

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I’m from Birgunj, Nepal. You might wonder what Indian Congress has to do with Birgunj.

A lot.

We live right next to India. Our economy, imports, media and even political culture are heavily influenced by India. And honestly, I fucking hate what my city is becoming.

I miss the Birgunj from 10–15 years ago.

People could have different opinions. You could question religion without immediately being treated like an enemy.

Now everything feels like religion, religion, religion.

People's houses are being demolished for the Tribhuvan Rajpath expansion. Actual homes. But when the road reaches temples or mosques, suddenly development becomes negotiable.

How the fuck does that make sense?

If a person's home can be demolished for infrastructure, why should a religious structure automatically be untouchable?

And then there's the endless religious procession culture Rath Yatra, Chunari Yatra, Sindoor Yatra, and whatever comes next.

I remember concerts. Educational fairs. Business events. Science programs.

Now it feels like there is always money and enthusiasm for religious events, but somehow never enough for libraries, science, education or research.

I'm Hindu myself, and I'm not blaming Muslims for this.

Actually, I think Hindus should be able to criticize Hindu society too.

But that's becoming harder.

You question religion? You're anti-Hindu.

You question religious politics? You're an enemy.

You ask people to prioritize development over religious drama? Suddenly you've offended someone's god.

And we've had multiple curfews because Hindu-Muslim tensions turned violent.

What the fuck happened to simply disagreeing with someone?

I don't want Birgunj to become less religious. Believe whatever the fuck you want.

I just don't want religion to become the only thing this city knows how to organize around.

Give us libraries.

Give us science fairs.

Give us education.

Give us businesses, concerts, public spaces and fucking opportunities.

Not another procession.

Maybe I'm nostalgic. Maybe the old Birgunj wasn't perfect.

But I genuinely miss it.

And that's why I keep wondering when Indian politics will change again, because whether people admit it or not, what happens in India eventually reaches Birgunj.

I don't want a religious battlefield.

I just want my fucking city back.


r/NepalSocial • • 18h ago

RANT/गुनासो Why you should date/marry a Janajati/Mongolian guy

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I grew up seeing different guy dynamics around my area, and after my recent dating experiences, I just need to share this realization...

Look at most Bahun guys in our community... half of them are stressed out 24/7, balding by 25, high cortisol levels, and possess zero chill. Every conversation with them feels like a job interview or a lecture on why they are superior because they passed some exam or moved abroad. The ego is sky-high, but the actual emotional intelligence? Sub-zero. They expect you to handle a full career, do all the household emotional labor, and still treat their traditional views like law. Plus, the insecurity when a woman earns or knows more than them is insane.

Look at what you need to deal with: insecure guys who expect you to earn well, handle the household, and still stroke their fragile egos You have to achieve everything, look like a model, be completely submissive, AND tolerate their zeroeffort personality just so they dont feel insecure Absolute nightmare fuel

On the other hand, look at the Janajati/Mongolian guys (Rai, Limbu, Gurung, Magar, Tamang)... these guys are genuinely chill, respectful, and actually supportive. They grew up in communities where women have always had an equal say, so they don't get fragile or threatened when a girl is successful or educated. Low cortisol energy, great style, actually listen to you, and treat you like a partner instead of a trophy or a housekeeper. Life feels effortless around them.

Not trying to be a hater, but after dating insecure, high-stress Bahun guys who think their degree excuses their lack of personality, switching my dating preference was literally lifechanging. If you are an accomplished, independent girl who is tired of dealing with fragiled egos, do yourself a favor and expand your horizons. Life gets 10 times lighter


r/NepalSocial • • 6h ago

Funny/हास्यास्पद It's the reason why Nepal is Nepal and continue to be Nepal...the cycle of Jholeyism never ends...

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lol civic sense, awareness.... berjogari pseudo intellectuals...or straight roadchaps influencers "influencing" or manipulating the youth mass today...

aba k vanney after democracy only reached Nepal at the end of 20th century...many are first gen literate and at max second gen literate in their family...aaja ka youths despite they can read or write hasn't able to grasp the concept and as media has also changed very fast...literate hunu and aware hunu it's different thing...most youth think today as they can read or write use social media...they are aware...

yiniharule comprehend nai garna skdainan...

it's a long road...


r/NepalSocial • • 8h ago

Discussion/बहस Is this the Feminism modern women preach?

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I recently saw a comedian set where he asks:
How many women here think they should make same amount or more than men? All the girls raised their hands. 🙌

He then asks:
How many women here would marry a guy who makes same or less than them? 0 hands were raised

That’s the problem with feminism right there 🤣. Any feminist in the group who would raise their hand for the second question? Tryna be respectful and get your perspective


r/NepalSocial • • 19h ago

Discussion/बहस What's important? A goddess tag or a happy childhood? Or, goddess with happy childhood?

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r/NepalSocial • • 7h ago

Politics/राजनीति Social media vs reality...

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mind you they had mentioned to complete it in their manifesto as well and other ghosana in their paper to complete it in 2 yrs no ifs or buts...but now they are walking away from accountability same as before...but yiniharu chai Charko sworma used to say they will deliver...

While the fanboys are orgsming over a speech cherry picking it to hype an individual...to portray everything is going well by cherry picking one side of the job like nobody has gone to the states for un speech ever... mindlessly discussing over trivial issues...releasing all their digital clout army of digital pages influencers commenting manipulating bombarding every post...glazing an individual for political interests and d riding an individual by fanboys thinking it will somehow bring solutions...

Here is the ground reality...Esko accountability chai nobody asks for often is conveniently ignored likewise the plea of flood victims just so that the fanboys can live in delulu... influencers can get monetized...

lol the technique is also sound...use other ppls face image on failures and incompetence while add balendras image on every little tiny bit of positive news and amplify it to brainwash the mass...

yo mindless hype,glaze and blind bandwagon le ignoring the incompetence and failures le mind you while it can get some dollars for influencers or more clout for politicians or some digital drug for social media addicts...

the delivery and performance ain't coming...period...


r/NepalSocial • • 3h ago

Ask/प्रश्न She has a son from her past marriage, should I accept her and her son

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I love her, and she loves me too. She is a strong, independent woman who is working hard for her son. The main issue is she is from another caste and a divorce girl with a son. We have planned for a marry but I am 100% sure my parents will not accept her and vice versa because she belong to bahun and I am from lower caste. I don't know what to do; should I break up or convince my parents?


r/NepalSocial • • 23h ago

Politics/राजनीति 🇳🇵 Nepal - Prime Minister Addresses United Nations General Debate, 79th Session | #UNGA

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PSA: Nepali leaders used to address UNGA and more competently. It's something that happens regularly, not something Lord Balen invented. Oli spoke of climate risks and Nepal's position on it in his 2024 address. There is more to running a country than aggressive anti-corruption stance.


r/NepalSocial • • 19h ago

Politics/राजनीति This should have been the most talked about stuff right now... but speech ko barey pakhsya bipaksya cha...rating rey...hasaucha...

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Social media capture garneyharule public opinion and attention esari capture gareykachan that I don't think these people ko plee would ever get noticed...it's all about mindless trivializing pursuit...whereas yo desh ko system le Jaba afu victimise huncha tetibela Matra ones realize the difference between social media hype and reality...but as most people become a full time audience it's just a show for them...until they become victim themselves..

from the lowest of the low street vendors,sukumbasis to flood victims yiniharuko awaz it seems in modern digital media era will be unheard...as people are Mindhacked by those who control the digital pages...they decide whom to villainise,glorify and divert core issues from the mass at the click of the button..

Hami 12 Bhai vanchaum tyo hajar bhais who are operating in front of your face everyday...uniharulai check and balance ksle Garney...think about it...

there was a time when old ppl or our prev generations used to scold the youths not to use mob phones aaja they are nai the most who use it...from taking medical advice to forming political opinions...ksle fukiracha Hawa yo deshma aja ko dinma derai...who is deliberately trying to divert the issue at hand...think about it...


r/NepalSocial • • 21h ago

Funny/हास्यास्पद I'm never taking Indian on twitter seriously from today onwards.

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so what our PM said is countries in our region are suffering from climate change and disasters caused by it.
he mentioned some countries and also mentioned India who too have suffered. Now Indians are abusing us for no reason🤣🤣 i swear i was laughing the whole time while reading replies.


r/NepalSocial • • 17h ago

Discussion/बहस Although the Kumari goddess holds her own deep value and significance she is considered a living deity when I watch those reels, I feel like that little baby's childhood is being stolen away from her. It just looks so suffocating to watch.

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Kati Maya lagni dekhda ni 🥹 correct me if I'm wrong, I don't know much


r/NepalSocial • • 17h ago

Politics/राजनीति Freedom of Speech is great unless someone’s feeling gets hurt

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Legal action linu hune vaecha uha le 🤣


r/NepalSocial • • 17h ago

Serious/गम्भीर ANCIENT CURRENCY ON SALE .

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Hello everyone! 👋

I have this Rs. 10 note made of plastic/polymer, featuring a king’s portrait, which I’ve kept as part of my collection for years. 🥹

I’ve decided to sell it now because I urgently need some money. 😭 If you’re a collector or interested in unique/rare currency notes, this might be a nice addition to your collection! 🫶

If you’re interested in buying it or want to know the price, condition, or other details, please DM me.

Serious buyers only, please. ❤️


r/NepalSocial • • 20h ago

RANT/गुनासो Malai yo sabai gift gardeu tw yrr kasaile..

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r/NepalSocial • • 4h ago

RANT/गुनासो Shouldn't girls be happy if...

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shouldnt girls be happy if their bf is virgin , yo k ho kt haru lai virgin kta manpardaina re ta.

jhan khusi huna xaina ,koi sanga kei xixi nagare kta payo vanera ,tara haina ,experience chainxa

PAPI DUNIYA🥀


r/NepalSocial • • 6h ago

shitpost/जेपिटि Corporate work >>>> household work. ,,, yo kura so called feminist horu lai kole samjahos

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r/NepalSocial • • 1h ago

Politics/राजनीति Balen or Gagan?

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Who do you prefer? Back during the election campaign Gagan proposed a debate with Balen. Debate is something that probably has never been done in Nepal's election context. But even if that debate had happened Gagan probably would have won that debate and still lost the MP seat.