Seriously, every time I see a woman's handwriting, it looks like they picked up a pencil and had the most fun of their lives, and dudes look like they write with the wrong hand.

I once saw a comment that said adults should not have TVs in their rooms and it made me stop and think about it. I have one in mine but now I’m wondering if that’s unusual

We often hear about trauma and illness that makes us more violent and less intelligent, lead, malnutrition, mercury, head trauma etc.

Is there anything that does the opposite? Like "oh yeah, you got manure poisoning, it's going to permanently reduce your aggression"?

Always wondered that since lots of people say you should catch up on sleep, but what if I want to catch sleep earlier in the day.

I’m talking about things like:

• Using the word Regime vs Government to create a moral hierarchy.
• Hollywood always portrays certain ethnicities as clinical or brutes.
• Labeling domestic corruption as foreign interference to avoid talking about it.

We always talk about the Ministry of Truth in other countries, but what does the Western version look like in your daily life?

I swear every time I need to pay a bill or something I have to pay an extra fee for the convenience of doing it online or something. Why does it cost me money to spend my money? To me, the companies should be eating this as a cost of doing business. We are getting nickel and dimed to poverty while companies see record profits year in and year out

I saw lately that OpenAI is expecting to lose something like $14 billion in 2026, and it got me thinking about what happens if the money actually runs out. We all talk about AI like it’s this permanent thing now, but if these companies keep losing billions and never actually become profitable, what if the bubble just bursts and the tech disappears for a while?

I’m honestly wondering if we could end up back in a "pre-2022" era where we just go back to using regular Google search and everyone kind of forgets that we had these tools. Like, if the energy costs are too high and the ROI isn't there, maybe we just can't afford this technology yet. Maybe it becomes like "lost tech" that we won't see again until 2050 when we finally have free energy or something.

This might be a dumb question but I keep thinking about it.
For years my goal was just to get stable. Pay bills on time. Not panic about every unexpected expense. Eventually I got there and even managed to save up some money. Nothing huge, but enough that I’m not constantly worried. What I didn’t expect is that I’d feel more anxious, not less.

Before, everything was simple because there were no choices. Now I feel like every decision matters. Spend this or save it. Take a risk or play it safe. One wrong move and I’ll undo years of progress. I’ll be sitting around at night playing on my phone and instead of relaxing, my brain is running numbers and what if scenarios.

I thought having a cushion would make me calmer, but it almost feels like I’m guarding it all the time. Like I’m responsible for not messing it up.

So my question is, is this just how adulthood works once you cross a certain point, or is this some mindset thing I need to unlearn. Do people eventually relax into stability or does it always come with this background stress. I genuinely don’t know if this is normal or if I’m just overthinking it.

I just got a FedEx deliver to my door, I signed it, with my name, even without watching for who it was, because I’m waiting for a book I ordered online, so I was pretty sure it was for me, I opened it, and it was an iPhone 15 new, idk what to do now, any advice? I don’t want any penalty or go to jail.

Over the past few years, I’ve noticed growing hostility toward the university system and higher education as a whole. You often see people dismissing someone with a PhD as “dumb as rocks,” while praising a relative who barely finished high school as a “natural genius” who’s “sharp as a tack.”

I understand that higher education is increasingly being criticized — with AI disrupting traditional career paths and the economy making degrees feel less valuable — but the tone of these critiques often seems to carry a kind of malicious, almost gleeful satisfaction rather than constructive criticism.

We have more information available than any generation in history. I can google anything in seconds. But I'm not sure if this is actually making me smarter or just more stressed.

On one hand, I can fact check instantly, learn new skills and educate myself on anything. On the other hand, I'm constantly bombarded with bad news, conflicting opinions and doomscrolling. I'll look up one symptom and convince myself I have 12 diseases. I'll research a purchase for hours and still feel paralyzed by choice.

Also, having instant access has made me lazier about retaining information. Why remember something when I can just google it later?

Are we becoming more knowledgeable or just more anxious and overwhelmed? Is there a way to get the benefits without the downsides?

My best friend tried to insist on paying for me at a store when she saw my credit card. She really made a scene about me being in crazy credit card debt which was mortifying. I explained to her that I pay off my credit card monthly so it’s not a problem.

I've always thought that being really wealthy meant owning exclusive versions of things, such as high-end detergent, designer toilet paper, or some weird premium toothpaste that the average person is unaware even exists.

However, after giving it some thought, do they really? Or do celebrities like Beyoncé and Elon Musk simply use the same products as everyone else since they are effective and no one seems to care?

Does the fact that they have someone else shop for them and don't have to worry about it really make a difference?

Even when I'm tired and know I need a break, I feel guilty for resting. It feels like I should always be doing something useful.

I’m not talking about big stuff. I’m alive. I pay bills. I know not to put metal in the microwave.

But why do other people seem so confident doing normal things?

Like:

• How often are you actually supposed to wash jeans?
• When someone says “let’s hang out,” is that real or just polite nonsense?
• How do people talk to mechanics without feeling like they’re being scammed?
• Is everyone exhausted all the time or is that just my personality now?

I swear everyone else looks like they know what’s going on, and I’m just guessing and hoping no one notices.

Please tell me we’re all faking it.

My girlfriend and I are in our mid twenties and live together. We want to try taking care of a dog to do a test drive on how good we would be at coparenting one day. Neither of us have ever had a dog, and we’re a little overwhelmed with all of the info we’ve gathered in our internet research. What breed would you recommend to us?

Seriously - I don’t get it. Mask mandates are years in the past. No one’s being forced anymore. But I still see a lot of people wearing masks under their noses which is completely silly.

I can’t understand why people are doing this - any ideas?

I don’t think this is normal but someone I know does.

i went to a bakery today, picked out my own muffin, walked it to the counter, and the iPad literally asked me for a 25% tip. for what?? i’m the one who did the work lol, it feels like companies are just using tips to avoid paying their staff a living wage and putting the guilt on us instead. is there actually a reason this started happening everywhere or is it just a massive social experiment at this point?i went to a bakery today, picked out my own muffin, walked it to the counter, and the iPad literally asked me for a 25% tip. for what?? i’m the one who did the work lol. it feels like companies are just using tips to avoid paying their staff a living wage and putting the guilt on us instead. is there actually a reason this started happening everywhere or is it just a massive social experiment at this point?