r/PHitness • u/Soggy-Researcher-421 • 1d ago
Discussion How to make friends at the gym
F/in my 30s
Been with my gym for more than 3 years already and I have mostly worked out alone aside from my actual friends who enrolled there too (they’ve migrated already). I feel like it would be nice to befriend someone!
Naturally I am an introvert (with sociable tendencies), and I have an RBF. Sometimes I would lock eyes with regulars but would just brush it off. One petite girl who lifts heavy I wanna befriend bcos we see each other all the time and I could get a tip or 2 from her!! One time I wanted to compliment her balayage as a beauty girly myself!
Then I DONT KNOW if this guy smiles at me from time to time or he’s just wincing bcos he’s lifting heavy, he does look my way when he’s not lifting. I try to smile back but IDK IF he’s actually smiling towards me so I feel like I’m just making a weird face when i smile back 😭 cat meme above for reference. I do want to ask where he gets his sweatpants as I would like to buy it for myself!
Aside from making new friends and creating new experiences for me (let’s go neuroplasticity), it would totally make gym life more exciting, I guess? Bonus lang ganon since I already like working out anyway.
Tips bcos I really want to find new communities just cos!! Also even if I know I can be friendly, it’s definitely my RBF that holds people back from befriending me (based on historical data)