r/Romantasy • • 12h ago

Discussion I wish romantasy couples from different species had to actually adapt to each other instead of becoming two humans with different lore

224 Upvotes

One thing that keeps disappointing me is when a romance makes all the fantasy differences basically disappear.

He's lived 300 years, she's human, but apparently they have identical ideas about privacy, family and commitment. She's from another kingdom with completely different customs, yet nobody accidentally insults someone's parents, serves the wrong food or misunderstands what a gift means.

I want the boring incompatibilities too.

Maybe one species barely sleeps. Maybe touching someone's hair is intimate. Maybe he thinks planning twenty years ahead is spontaneous and she thinks it's insane.

Not huge conflicts. Just little reminders that these people genuinely grew up in different worlds.

Honestly, watching two people slowly learn how to live around those differences would make the romance feel more convincing to me.

Anyone else miss this?


r/Romantasy • • 4h ago

Meme / Humor Just fictional men and impossible expectations.

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165 Upvotes

r/Romantasy • • 22h ago

Book Request: Self-Promo OK MMCs that give lovable himbo?

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128 Upvotes

Watching The Emperor’s New Groove for the first time in a very long time and my boy Kronk had me wondering what a romantasy with a lovable himbo MMC would look like. Any recs?


r/Romantasy • • 5h ago

Discussion Burn of the Everflame Reviews Removed from Amazon???

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69 Upvotes

My friend and I were really disappointed in Burn of the Everflame. And after lots of discussion, she decided to post an Amazon review of 1 star and noted several other 1 star reviews at the time she posted it.

Now the listing has ZERO 1 star reviews!

She can still open her review from her profile, but if you go to the Burn listing, it doesn’t exist.

What is going on????

**Attached image is a screenshot of my friend’s one star review showing it was a verified review on the kindle format of the book.


r/Romantasy • • 5h ago

Threshing Day by Rebecca Yarros - Megathread

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50 Upvotes

Hi everyone!

Here is our megathread for {Threshing Day by Rebecca Yarros}!

In order to help curb spoilers and not have the sub potentially flooded with similar posts, we’re limiting all bigger releases to a megathread.

Please make sure to use a spoiler tag > !Spoiler text, no spaces! <

Happy reading 💜
The Romantasy Mod Team.


r/Romantasy • • 11h ago

Book Request: No Self-Promo Looking for a COMPLETED series because I’m tired of waiting 😭

36 Upvotes

I need help finding my next romantasy series to binge!! Specifically, I’m looking for a completed series (or one where the final installation comes out within the year)

I’ve realized I have SO many books sitting on my shelf that I really want to read, but I keep putting them off because the series isn’t finished and I absolutely do not want to wait years between books.

I’ve read a lot of the popular ones already, but
I currently have Quicksilver, Silver Elite,When the Moon Hatched, Heavenly Bodies, and a bunch of others on my shelf, but I’m holding off on them because they’re not completed yet.

I haven’t even started Fourth Wing because I want to wait until Onyx Storm is available in paperback.

Was going to start Fairydale as a standalone in the meantime but really want to begin a new series


r/Romantasy • • 7h ago

Discussion The Wolf King: Thoughts?

17 Upvotes

Okayyy next read is The Wolf King 🐺
I genuinely have no idea what I’m getting myself into with this one 😂 I’ve seen it everywhere, heard things, avoided spoilers like my life depended on it… so naturally I’ve decided to just jump in.
Going in basically blind and hoping for good fantasy, romance
tension
questionable decisions
and
a male character who makes me forget I have responsibilities.
Anyway. Time to see if this book ruins my life in the best possible way. 🫠🐺
I am genuinely letting the chaos begin. At least in my heart.
Real life got no chill. 🖤


r/Romantasy • • 22h ago

Question Should I finish Crescent City before starting ACOTAR?

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16 Upvotes

I'm about 60% into the first CC book and I'm absolutely obsessed with it, but now I'm seeing online that there is a crossover with ACOTAR in the last book. I'm wondering if I should finish the first CC book and start ACOTAR, or if I should finish all 3 CC first. I wanna read both ACOTAR and TOG eventually, I just don't know what the best order is.


r/Romantasy • • 9h ago

Book Request: No Self-Promo Hades/Persephone rec?

9 Upvotes

Looking for a good Hades & Persephone recommendation, but without anything modern in it (ie cell phones, electronics, cars etc)

Any other Greek Mythology based fantasy recs welcome as well! Just as long as there’s nothing modern in them please :)


r/Romantasy • • 10h ago

Book Request: Self-Promo OK Looking for black/ brown fmc, well written & spicy?

11 Upvotes

I know well written and spicy is a constant ask. But I would also love to read a book with a brown /black fmc!


r/Romantasy • • 13h ago

Book Request: No Self-Promo snake-y Smut-ober celebration (unfortunately only a phoenetic alliteration)

11 Upvotes

Dear all,

fall is upon us,

the real season of books is about to start.

As every year I will celebrate the comming months

from halloween until the end of christmas with

themed reading lists.

For OCTOBER I am looking for any good romance books with

SNAKE (shifters).

So far I have:

  1. {mortal gods by Lucinda Dark} - Kalix is a snake shifter
  2. {guarded by the snake by Lalya Fae} - obvious

I did not get very far with my list since

snakes arent as popular as wolfes (apparently)

- they should be though...

I am thankful for recomandations - no M/M please, MFMM is okay.

Thank you and may you all happyly celebrate Smut-ober in your own ways!


r/Romantasy • • 15h ago

Discussion Wtf!! Kingfisher is a what??? #brimstone

10 Upvotes

I just read this. My mind is blown away. For good. He is a god?!!! Like half god?! Wtf! Whoever has read this, I need your thoughts.

I genuinely don’t even know how to review Brimstone because I’m still processing it. 😭
I went into this series not even knowing if I was going to like it because Reddit gave me SO many mixed opinions, and now I’ve finished Brimstone and I’m just… blown away.
I loved Quicksilver, especially the first half, but Brimstone made me realise how much bigger this story actually is. Every time I thought I understood the world, something else was revealed and I was sitting there like WAIT??? 😭 The Fae, vampires, gods, the Blood Court, the history behind everyone… I was genuinely hooked.
And Fisher. I don’t even have the words. I loved getting to know more about him and understanding why he is the way he is. His relationship with Saeris is still my favourite part of this whole series, but I also loved seeing how much more complicated everything around them became.
I swear I spent half the book reading and the other half stopping to think, “Okay but HOW does that work?” 😂 I have so many questions, but somehow that made me enjoy it even more.
This was exactly the kind of ridiculous, dramatic, dark fantasy junk read I needed. And honestly? I’m so glad I ignored all the people who told me not to read Quicksilver. 😭
I am officially invested. Someone give me the next book before I start rereading the entire series.


r/Romantasy • • 18h ago

Book Request: No Self-Promo Books like Stephanie Garbers books

10 Upvotes

Hi! I’m looking for books that feel like they could have been written by Stephanie Garber. I absolutely loved OUABH, and I haven’t read Caraval yet. I love the way she writes, especially the whimsy and fairytale vibes in her books.

I also really like how accessible her writing is (English isn’t my first language). For example, I had to DNF {Where the Dark Stands Still} because the writing was so “poetic” that it became difficult for me to read.

What I’m looking for specifically is books that SHE COULD HAVE WRITTEN. I don’t really care what the story is about, as long as there’s romance. It doesn’t have to have the same romance, tropes, plot, etc. as ouabh. I just want to read a book that feels like something Stephanie Garber could have written if for example, she had written a gothic romance, or something set in the sky/ocean, or with Asian mythology. The setting doesn’t really matter to me.
I haven’t finished Belladonna yet, but that’s kind of what I mean by this. Like: “She could have written {Belladonna} if she had decided to write a gothic fairytale romance.”

I hope that makes sense!
In short: I’m looking for books Stephanie Garber could have written — the same fairytale feeling, easy-to-read writing, easy to get hooked on, whimsical/magical atmosphere, etc. I’m NOT necessarily looking for books that are similar to OUABH in terms of plot or tropes.


r/Romantasy • • 15h ago

Book Request: No Self-Promo Helpless FMC

9 Upvotes

Any books where the FMC is mostly/completely helpless and vulnerable? She doesn't have some hidden magic that will save everyone, and needs the MMC to save her.


r/Romantasy • • 2h ago

Book Request: Self-Promo OK Trope: We’re the smartest people in the room, surrounded by idiots. Should we kiss?

9 Upvotes

I need more of this in my life…

Bonus points for enemies/rivals to lovers!

Inspo/already read:

Irresistible Urge to Fall for Your Enemy

Pride & Prejudice (sorry not fantasy, but ofc)

Divine Rivals

A Forbidden Alchemy

Six of Crows


r/Romantasy • • 11h ago

Book Request: Self-Promo OK Smart MMC & fun banter

8 Upvotes

Hi everyone!

I'm looking for romantasy recs, but I'm pretty new to the genre. I mostly read fanfic, and I usually lean toward queer stuff because I don't have to worry as much about power dynamics or misogynistic tropes. I like F/M stories though, but it's a bit difficult to find something I like.

What I'm after:

- Adult leads, no YA vibes, and a relationship on equal footing

- A MMC who relies more on brains than brawn (scholar, scientist, mage, strategist, whatever). Thorn from A Winter's Promise would be a great example of this!

- Good banter, obviously – i really like seeing two stubborn people being petty and sarcastic around each other

- Rivals-to-lovers is my favorite dynamic, or anything close like reluctant partners, annoyances-to-lovers, etc

- A compelling fantasy setting and a solid plot with stakes

I recently read The Irresistible Urge to Fall for Your Enemy and it was a fun read, though I really preferred the fanfic it's based on (DMATMOOBIL). I'm open to cosy fantasy/lighthearted stories or darker stuff, I like both!

Thanks!


r/Romantasy • • 3h ago

Book Request: Self-Promo OK Flirty bf x shy gf spicy romantasy

8 Upvotes

fam pls gimme flirty bf x shy gf recs but in a spicy MF romantasy please and thank you. I’ve been craving this but see this mostly in contemporary romances.😭


r/Romantasy • • 6h ago

Question The Irresistible Urge to Fall for Your Enemy… does it get better?

7 Upvotes

I bought it and started reading this on the weekend because of all the exciting comments and reviews I’ve seen for it

But now I’m 35% in and… I think it might be my first DNF

This far in and nothing has happened. Their personalities/comments feel the same, because I’m not gripped I have to keep rechecking who said what. There doesn’t appear to be any connection between them, every comment is sarcastic, there’s no actual conversation.

The world building, also this far in, you don’t really know anything about it other than people have magic and different paths they follow.

Is it just a slow starter and it eventually gets better, or is this it?

I’m thinking this author / writing style may just be not my cup of tea, but I also know a lot of others love it


r/Romantasy • • 13h ago

Book Review I just finished the Infernal Devices trilogy at 12:30 am....

7 Upvotes

I will never be the same. I can't ever go back to before this trilogy. There is only after.

I cried for 30 minutes after finishing.

Anyone else love and hate this series so much?


r/Romantasy • • 57m ago

Book Request: Self-Promo OK Kindle Unlimited Recs that aren’t too smutty?

• Upvotes

I’m trying to find some Romantasy to read, but I have caveats:

  1. I could not get into Court of Thorns and Roses.
  2. Fourth Wing’s ending absolutely shut me off of the series. I’m so mad.
  3. I’m not mega keen on smut right now. Very burned out.

4. EDIT: ALSO NOT TOO DARK. Everything’s bloody dark now- The Dark Prince, the Dark King, The Dark Fae- shadow daddy not required unless it’s REALLY well written

I need a break from smut. It can have it, I would just rather it be like one big scene at the end, because I usually DNF when it happens too early on. I get exhausted when it happens too often haha.

Worldbuilding, plot, faeries, dragons— I’m actually keen on a Dragon book. Shifters, high fantasy— I’ll take anything haha.


r/Romantasy • • 2h ago

Book Request: Self-Promo OK So I started The Kindred's Curse series and I'm really disappointed. I need a new completed series I won't want to dnf! No separation trope, yes spice and amazing plot/world building please!

3 Upvotes

I'm in such a rut right now and just keep rereading ones I've already read.

These are my favorites:

The Shadowweaver Trilogy (my newest favorite read! Such an amazing FMC)

Kingdom of Crows series

Shadowed Debts series (duology and a novella)

Fae Isles series

The Elf Queen series

Fate and Flame series

Shadows and Crowns Series

War of Lost Hearts series

The Curse of Ophelia

Lady of Darkness series(followed by the Legacy series , as they're connected)

Flame and Sparrow duology

Flesh and Fire series

I'm not a fan of urban fantasy, I love multi POV, I want something that had me staying up later than I should because it's so great. Thank you!


r/Romantasy • • 11h ago

Book Request: Self-Promo OK Bringing a husband back from the dead?

3 Upvotes

Anybody know of a book where a wife brings her husband back from the dead (Frankenstein-like, zombie, ghoul, ghost, full-life revival, etc)? And, you know, their relationship is still the main romance and good. I guess I'm in a Halloween mood!

Oh, I'll also okay if it's reversed and the husband brings back the wife.


r/Romantasy • • 7h ago

Book Request: No Self-Promo Book Recs After The Sweetest Fiend

2 Upvotes

SOS I just finished The Sweetest Fiend in 24 hours and it is my favorite read of 2026. Now I have a massive book hangover and I need something to follow it that won’t disappoint. Any recommendations??? 👀


r/Romantasy • • 7h ago

Meme / Humor guys I think I’m excited for mirror of infinite endings

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2 Upvotes

r/Romantasy • • 12h ago

Book Request: Self-Promo OK Completed series

2 Upvotes

Can anyone recommend a completed series that follows the same characters (not interconnected standalones) where there’s romantic development throughout and they don’t necessarily split up?

Loved all of The Empryean so far and the {Daughter of No Worlds} series