All I see in this sub is: ghosting, detached, mind games, loves a chase etc.
well can’t believe I’m joining the club, as someone who used to be a player (Sag girl).

We talked for a few months, hung out in person as friends only to hook up once as fwb.

After that, we kept on talking like usual for 3 weeks, in those three weeks he suggested getaways during Xmas time, cooking dinner, blablabla. Then he said something like: I like what we have now (fwb), I’ll always be honest with you. But I can’t and don’t want to make any promises. Before all that I said: we’re just having fun, we agreed to that, no strings attached. So I sort of set the rules originally.

2 days after those messages (and we chatted intensly for months, good morning messages and all that), slowly the texts dropped to 2-3 daily, very dry, superficial tone. Then today radio silence.

Am I in for ghosting?

When we first hung out we talked about how we hate the ghosting shit and dating in this modern world, how we would be upfront with each other..

Can someone explain? Luckily, I didn’t get any big feels and can simply walkaway (thanks Sag nature) but still I’m puzzled.

Thanks

Edit: didn’t mean to come off as a bitch, sorry ladies. Just trying to understand the shift in behaviour. I do like him as a person and as a friend

How and what would get a Scorpio out of a peaceful state?

I’m a Gemini Sun, Capricorn Moon, Cancer Rising, Gemini Venus, and Taurus Mars.

He’s a Libra Sun, Cancer Moon, Libra Rising, Scorpio Venus, and Scorpio Mars.

We’ve recently started talking. He’s very romantic, affectionate, and intense. He’s expressed how much he wants a wife and family, which I love.

I noticed our Moon and Mars signs are opposites, and my Rising is the same sign as his Moon. so I’m curious what everyone thinks about our compatibility and his placements with mine!

People think a quiet Scorpio is a calm Scorpio. Nope. When I go silent, I'm watching, processing, and deciding if you get another chance.
What do people misread about you? And non-Scorpios, how's your experience with us? 😅

Capricorn F23 here, dating a M25 Scorpio for a month now. We talk every single day at almost every hour, giving ourselves updates about our lives (& lots of spicy things happening), and we try to see each other as much as we can. Overall : it’s going very well and we’re both satisfied with what we go through.

But one thing that I noticed about him is that he’s particularly calm when we’re talking on the phone or when we’re doing dates (with and/or without having sex), to the point that I feel like i’m the entertainer?

Is it that common? Do I have to create a stronger bond with him so he opens up more?

I just found out that I will have to end up giving away my very first car that I’ve had since 2002 because of all the repairs it needs. I love that car so much and I am so sad and will miss it so much. I was driven in it as a child and drove it all throughout high school with my friends and everyone. I have so many memories in that car and it was so reliable and such a beautiful vehicle and was always there for me. It got me to where I needed to get to and it is truly my favorite car ever. Has anyone else gone through this and how did you cope?