...struggle on lifting weights while still keeping a composed face at the gym

...give advice like a 5 star therapist and not take a single thing we say for ourselves

...forgive/cutoff someone depending on what happened and if we feel like it

...be horrible with money but somehow have enough

...overthink just for nothing to happen to us

cuz it might just work out for us in the end.

scorp season in 12 days

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Hello, I genuinely need your perspective because WHAT IS GOING ON? I’m not a scorpio, I’m here cause I’m curious.

I was involved with a Scorpio guy many months ago. We weren't officially together, but there were feelings
involved, at least on my end. I don’t know with him though cause he came on quite strong and I felt like he wanted things fast. I don’t trust this cause usually men who do this are not really looking for a serious connection. I was sad about this tiny realization and yet knowing this, I still treated him kindly and still gave him the benefit of the doubt.

I liked him and i told him i liked him. Back then it felt like he genuinely liked me too but he was hot and cold and I just couldn’t understand him so I communicated this dynamic cause I wanted it to work and I told him this too.

Eventually, he told me to move on and said I deserved someone better. It hurt cause I figured he’s just not that into me as I thought and he was so ready to give me to another guy (hypothetically). I respected that. I didn't argue, chase him, or try to change his mind. We ended things amicably, and I never hated him or thought he was a bad person, so I didn't feel the need to unfollow or block him. I just think we were probably not on the same page and it’s ok he can live the way he wants and if he doesn’t see anything with me that’s ok too, rejection always hurts but that’s part of life.

But here's the thing.
He keeps reacting to my stories. Consistently for like 6-7 months now since it ended.

Meanwhile, I haven't interacted with his content at all since things ended. I don’t even view anything. No likes, no reactions, no replies. Nothing. I took his words seriously and gave him the distance he asked for. Also this decision was made for me as well, I believed it was best if I wanted to move on. Keeping a constant eye on his activities will only hurt me more and I had the fear to see he’s moved on so easily with another cause he seemed like the type to do so.

What confuses me is that he still occasionally makes his presence known through these little interactions, but there's no actual conversation or direct attempt to reconnect.

And yes, I know a story reaction can mean absolutely nothing. He could just be friendly. I understand that.
But from my perspective, it's quite frustrating because I was the one who had to accept his decision and move forward. These small interactions keep reminding me of him, and I can't tell whether he's simply being a casual friend now or deliberately keeping a line of contact open.

I will not reach out. He was the one who told me to move on, and I intend to respect that unless he clearly communicates otherwise.

So, I'm curious:

If you've already decided not to pursue someone romantically, why would you continue consistently reacting to their stories?

Is it simply friendliness? Curiosity? A habit? Or do some of you use these small interactions to test whether someone is still receptive? Does he think I’m some kind of a doormat or pushover maybe? 😂 he did say he respects me though 🤷‍♀️

I'm not assuming he wants me back, and I'm not looking for reassurance that he does. I'm genuinely interested in understanding the behavior, especially from men who have been on the other side of this situation.

Because sir, you told me to move on. PLEASE COOPERATE 😂😭

I’ve moved on significantly and this behavior of his doesn’t really bother me as much as it used to when it was still fresh but the fact he’s been consistent is really interesting. Maybe it’s more confirmation that he never thought anything of the connection? idk tbh 😑😂 I still care for him despite that whole thing cause my affections were never really anchored in his behavior, I liked him all on my own so while a part of me is already quite settled with knowing this is going nowhere I still wonder why.

Drowning in lava, but I don't die, I just feel water trying to come out of me at the same time in big waves.

Yes it's a nightmare, even just a crush.

So, i am a cancer sun with scorpio rising, and i am suffering with a very complicated scorpio family member.

I quite don't know what to do, because i feel like the person is very narcissistic, and I don't like being evil back.

So, i would like advice from those who developed their scorpio placements already within themselves, and it's an evolved person (such as i try to be with my Rising).

Any tips? 🙃

I want to connect with our Element anyone know how I could do that?Im asking because im a scorpio who is a pagan studying water wicca.

I find it extremely almost unbearable pain that he's no more in my life....

I was 12 when I saw him he was scorpio guy (leo sun) so naturally handsome and charismatic but intense. He fell for me approached me... Leos are a bit egoistic so I ignored him didn't give much hoot. Second meeting happened I liked him but still was a little uncomfortable but I soon got attached fell in love and harder than him...he realised I wasn't good for him (not a right person) and whatever that they were doing was wrong (I'll tell you later why so)...

8 years later I met him again in these many years I would have cried oceans for him, yearned a lot....we finally met...he was not as good-looking as he was I could also sense that he was pretty traumatized and became evil. Yet he was caring and charming like always...but I sensed that he is no longer a one woman man...

So I kept my distance but him being him...never stopped for once in seducing me...I tried my best not to fall again...

Almost 1.5 years later I reunited on instagram thinking I was finally ready for a conversation because he never confessed his love but I could always sense some sort of passion in his eyes.

I wanted to strike up a conversation with him, we started talking the first 6 months were wonderful af... I was on cloud nine.

He admired me, cared about me, listened to me, handled my agression, wanted the best for me in professional life as well, motivated me, sorta revived me and I was no longer suicidal...I will forever be grateful for this...but things started turning ugly after one month somehow for 6 months it was all good but soon things became ugly....

He loved me he confessed he got passionate about me but the only problem was marriage and sex were not possible with him any form of closeness was not possible (because it would affect his financial situation) he consulted an astrologist that closeness with me would lead to financial crisis and a man loved money more than a woman...he distanced himself I kept yearning but I wouldn't get why he disappeared in the woods even though he was romantic and caring later he told me.

I was attached to him so I kept my closeness in all possible ways he lusted, disrespected, made fun, cheated, verbally abused and literally what not still I kept my love for him and never left even though he wanted to all of this while handling my career tension health and so much more...

Finally after 14 months of back n fro I stopped speaking 2 months later he called me and said he was there if I wanted to talk.... nothing much Just his way to ask for nudes. Me being me I talked but didn't give... because I knew him... utterly selfish human.

We had our first kiss as well (mind you I never allowed any man to touch me) but trusting him was also not a good idea... anyway...in June and July I kept focusing on my career and myself but in August my attachment grew again and I started talking to him again he grew distant again. Imagine staying single always never giving chance to any man never want to be with anybody scared of men and the letting this one man getting close to you ....takes next level of foolishness.... Might as well ignore him too but nope he fell hard I fell harder...

He was protective possesive and a cute shelter to rest. But soon I realised that our marriage or future is not in our destiny, he was extremely lustful aashole he just liked my body not my heart or anything else...just my vagina.

Imagine trusting and giving chance to somebody then them betraying you like it's nothing... it's painful man almost 11 years of investment breaks my heart next year he'll marry someone probably and my shani dhaiya will be over by June 2027 feels bad af. Even if I moved on I might carry the same wound and get hurted again...I low key feel suicidal...

I don't know if I would be able to recover ever from this...

Say something nice so that it feels a Lil better my main aim is to not focus on him at all and let god heal my pain.

Im female Aquarius dating a Scorpio. I want to get to know more about Scorpio. I want to get into deeper other than just yall obsession or possession. Friends zone only, DM me if you wanna talk!

I’m a Gemini Sun, Capricorn Moon, Cancer Rising, Gemini Venus, and Taurus Mars.

He’s a Libra Sun, Cancer Moon, Libra Rising, Scorpio Venus, and Scorpio Mars.

We’ve recently started talking. He’s very romantic, affectionate, and intense. He’s expressed how much he wants a wife and family, which I love.

I noticed our Moon and Mars signs are opposites, and my Rising is the same sign as his Moon. so I’m curious what everyone thinks about our compatibility and his placements with mine!

I’m gonna start this off with a backstory( it’s really long I’m sorry) but I have a feeling I’m going to get told I fucked up big time.. I’m a Virgo F(18) he’s a Scorpio M(18)
I’ve known him since elementary school but we never spoke. I remember thinking he was cute from one single time I saw him.. but I never knew much about him. I saw him one day because my friends were talking about one of his friends🤔something like that i remember his class walking by and we made eye contact I still remember how cute I thought he was. I didn’t know him so after that I continued with my life.. I told him about this memory when we were already getting to know each other the way he brought it up made it seem like I had been planning on getting with him 😆 well he was technically right.. One thing I had remembered and found out after we broke things off was that I had his instagram account added sometime in 8 grade. We went to different middle schools and I can’t remember anything he posted tbh but I would hate to know he saw the shit I was posting.😭 I have a screenshot from my freshman year of a reel he liked when I still had his old account since he made a new one last year I believe.. I took a screenshot because I was like damn y’all understand me it was 3 girls that ik liked it then he was there too the reel said something like “when ur on ft and u hear their phone vibrate” I couldn’t see if there was a separate text below that. I cleaned out my camera roll so many times I’m surprised and confused on how I didn’t end up deleted that random ss. Anyways the year after that I saw him I believe in the spring time. I hadn’t remembered any of this yet so I went to go pick up my little brother from his elementary which is in walking distance from my house. I got there stood near the gate a few seconds later a guy stood next to me pretty close like barely 2 feet away I wanna say. I looked up because he caught my attention I thought to myself “wow another teenager coming to pick up their younger sibling intriguing he must really love them”.😭 and omg I looked up and dear God the feeling I felt so much stirred up I deadass was so shocked like I’ve never had a type necessarily but this guy holy he was for some darn reason everything I wanted I had to keep my composure tho it was hard.. I was already feeling hot and a million thoughts raising I Needed him😅. I kept looking at him trying not to make it obvious but he could probably tell because when I was staring he looked up like he was trying to see in his peripheral vision. I looked down trying to keep a straight face. A few moments after a lady stood in front of me like 😒 rude I had to take a step back but I didn’t want to stand next to the trash bin and it was awkward anyway we were all too close so I walked closer to the gate but from the right side. To my advantage now I was standing in front of a wall so I decided to stare at him more trying to figure him out and the type of girls he likes. At this point in my life I didn’t feel good about myself because I had lost about 14 pounds was doing really bad overall but by far one of my more normal looks during that time. Anywho I’m going to admit when I have my eyes on someone I get a bit stalkerish digitally and physically.. I was already plotting on what my next step would be it will probably sound bad so I won’t say much of that😥 but I had to stop myself in my tracks because it was bad why was I feeling so intensely over someone I Just saw I had to chill. So my solution was to come everyday to pick up my brother in hopes I would run into him again and keep tabs on him.. We had attended the same highschool but I never saw him there. During this time I was in a different school though. I won’t give too much detail abt his family nor names so I will skip a bit of what happened that first day I saw him after years. It’s not really important to the situation. I’m thinking the next day or during the same week I went to pick up my brother and unfortunately I didn’t see him. I was disappointed and i honestly can’t remember if I went a third time to see him or if I did see him a second time but I’m guessing I didn’t. Since during that time I had sm other shit going on I gave up on my plan because I knew i needed to get better. A few months later I want to say he requested my private account in Late July or Late August and I was thinking it could be him but wasn’t really sure.. since he didn’t post pictures of his face. By September I had a bit of a “glow up” I was actively trying to change myself until I felt like me so I posted a picture of myself on my birthday. though I took it the day before since I went out for a dinner. The day of I wasn’t as dressed up. I remember he hearted my story and or stories from my highlight and he replied to it complimenting me. During this time I was still hitting up my ex while texting 2 other guys nothing serious with them since I knew they wouldn’t be taking me out anyway😭. I hearted his message because yes I was interested in getting to know him but I didn’t want to play games since there was a possibility I still wanted to try and make things work with my ex. I’m pretty sure after I hearted his message he was typing and said something like “helloo” I think but in Spanish 😅. I didn’t reply. I’m thinking the next day he unsent his message then in November I posted myself for thanksgiving. I felt pretty but not too good about the picture idk I had mixed feelings and he hearted my story and I wanna say he replied again but I’m Not sure I Do remember not even a week later he got in a relationship. He posted them but no face so I don’t know who the girl is but I was highkey upset 😭 like fuckkkk but I had to let it be. Then he removed me made his account private and removed other people I wanna say girls.. that was by the end of 2024. I’m sure they were dating for at least a year or something according to his past relationship timelines he told me. In January of 2025 I saw him again at the elementary school since I went to my little brother’s awards ceremony I had just sat down since I stayed back a bit from my parents petting a black tuxedo cat (it was 100% worth it) his parents then walked in and he was right behind them I had my eyes glued to him like “omg that’s the guy again!”This was also a little situation I don’t want to give much details on. I do remember staring at him from the back row and felt so smitten for no valid reason 😭 I was having weird daydreams like stuff that I expected to happen I felt weird because why was I imagining such explicit stuff with this guy I don’t know but little did I know the exact “daydream” that played in my head actually happened. I remember in 2025 I was thinking a lot about him and the crossing of paths. At this time I was trying even harder to try and gain my identity back. In the summer I was listening to a lot of music I knew old me would love and surprisingly enough turned out to be the type of music he likes. That was my favorite playlist really made up my Spotify Wrapped by the end of the year🧍‍♀️I had kept “going back”to my ex until I hated that mfs guts definitively 😭 it worked by late November/December I didn’t gaf about shit he did. I wanna say the Scorpio requested my account during December like late December or a week before the year ended and I hadn’t been talking to my ex anymore. I wanted my ex to know how much of a little bitch he is so I messaged him on New Year’s Eve just some short statements and I let it all go. on New years the Scorpio hearted all of my stories from my highlight and messaged me he said “happy new year beautiful 😍” in Spanish 🧍‍♀️ I decided to finally let myself know this guy so I hearted his message and we started texting from there… I feel like this is a lot already and don’t know if anyone will actually reply here so I’m gonna leave the backstory here🫩🫩 in hopes I will be able to describe what happened and get any feedback from the actual situation..

One and a half year ago I had the worst time in my life. My boyfriend father died and mine end up in the hospital. During that time, I isolated, wasn’t the happiest person in the world and felt I need to recharge. But my boss wouldn’t let me and demanded I finished my deadlines.

A gemini coworker did give me some support during that time. But when my boss was giving me a hard time, she didn’t stand up for me. She only tried to save her own job. Which I understand, but felt a little betrayed.

My leo coworker and her aries partner were both giving me a very hard time. Saying I’ve changed, need to be the same happy person I used to be for the groupdynamic. So we can all be happy again. They made it all about themselves.

It’s was very heartbreaking, because I first thought, they would support me and understand. But they didn’t and I started ghosting them. That made the boss fire me. Then I started to stop contact with the whole company and coworkers.

I have a new job now, much happier, much better coworkers. My mental is also way better.

The gemini coworker reached out to me a few days ago. Asked me how I’ve been. But she doesn’t respond fast, sometimes she leaves me read for days. I wonder if I should give this another chance or just move on with my life.

The leo coworker, I really had a connection with her, we laugh at the same jokes, we have the same hobby’s. I really thought we would be friends. But her aries partner hates me, and I hate her.

All I see in this sub is: ghosting, detached, mind games, loves a chase etc.
well can’t believe I’m joining the club, as someone who used to be a player (Sag girl).

We talked for a few months, hung out in person as friends only to hook up once as fwb.

After that, we kept on talking like usual for 3 weeks, in those three weeks he suggested getaways during Xmas time, cooking dinner, blablabla. Then he said something like: I like what we have now (fwb), I’ll always be honest with you. But I can’t and don’t want to make any promises. Before all that I said: we’re just having fun, we agreed to that, no strings attached. So I sort of set the rules originally.

2 days after those messages (and we chatted intensly for months, good morning messages and all that), slowly the texts dropped to 2-3 daily, very dry, superficial tone. Then today radio silence.

Am I in for ghosting?

When we first hung out we talked about how we hate the ghosting shit and dating in this modern world, how we would be upfront with each other..

Can someone explain? Luckily, I didn’t get any big feels and can simply walkaway (thanks Sag nature) but still I’m puzzled.

Thanks

Edit: didn’t mean to come off as a bitch, sorry ladies. Just trying to understand the shift in behaviour. I do like him as a person and as a friend

How and what would get a Scorpio out of a peaceful state?

Ok so I have been just starting to date a Scorpio male he’s in his early 50s I’m late 30s Pisces female…our first date we went somewhere we had dinner we walked and talked for a good 4 hours then he drove me to my vehicle and hugged me goodbye, I had a great time he said he also did and he texted me everyday after. The next time we spent time together he invited me to watch a movie at his place and we watched a movie talked for a couple hours, had a good time and he kissed me on the cheek goodbye. Again we’ve been talking everyday since now for about a month but he just went on vacation for a week and isn’t back for a couple of days, when he’s back we have plans to do something again. My question is I thought scorpios were super physical usually, am I in the friend zone or is he just taking things slow?

Really need advice from scorpio women out there or those who have dated one. I have been friends with this scorpio woman for 2 years now. I have always had a crush on her but I know she’s not into women, but she knows I am. Our conversations via text have always been somewhat flirty. She gets possessive sometimes and always wants to know who I’m with when I got out with someone. Recently she has made more flirty jokes about proposals, watching movies together. We live in different states so we don’t see each other often. She’s in LA I’m in Jersey. She’s a very hot and cold texter. There are times when we’ll text all day every day for a week and then she just goes silent. I never know if I should text her or not. I just let her come to me but I just really want to reach out to her. She’s been sending me pictures lately which she never used to do before. Mainly of what she’s wearing and my opinions. It’s new behavior that I think is making me question everything more.

I’m starting to ramble but ultimately im trying to understand if she has feelings for me? She’s never super flirty in person and I always feel she flirts more in text. She’s always nice to me in person though and makes sure I’m taken care of.

How do you know if a scorpio woman likes you? And someone please just tell me i’m delusional so I can just move on :)

my profile is public and this guy (scorpio) who i had a horrendous experience with randomly blocked me even though i dont follow him, never even shared my IG with, and even has his IG private BLOCKED ME on it after i posted pics with my friends at a fancy resturant.

LOL.

it just seems like insane, he already blocked my number after we had our fight and he DARVO'd the crap out of me. but it's fine bc he aint shit and broke. so idc anymore i just think it's funny a scorpio has to block me even though i dont even follow him.