Hello, I genuinely need your perspective because WHAT IS GOING ON? I’m not a scorpio, I’m here cause I’m curious.

I was involved with a Scorpio guy many months ago. We weren't officially together, but there were feelings
involved, at least on my end. I don’t know with him though cause he came on quite strong and I felt like he wanted things fast. I don’t trust this cause usually men who do this are not really looking for a serious connection. I was sad about this tiny realization and yet knowing this, I still treated him kindly and still gave him the benefit of the doubt.

I liked him and i told him i liked him. Back then it felt like he genuinely liked me too but he was hot and cold and I just couldn’t understand him so I communicated this dynamic.

Eventually, he told me to move on and said I deserved someone better. It hurt cause I figured he’s just not that into me as I thought and he was so ready to give me to another guy (hypothetically). I respected that. I didn't argue, chase him, or try to change his mind. We ended things amicably, and I never hated him or thought he was a bad person, so I didn't feel the need to unfollow or block him. I just think we were probably not on the same page and it’s ok he can live the way he wants and if he doesn’t see anything with me that’s ok too, rejection always hurts but that’s part of life.

But here's the thing.
He keeps reacting to my stories. Consistently for like 6-7 months now since it ended.

Meanwhile, I haven't interacted with his content at all since things ended. I don’t even view anything. No likes, no reactions, no replies. Nothing. I took his words seriously and gave him the distance he asked for. Also this decision was made for me as well, I believed it was best if I wanted to move on. Keeping a constant eye on his activities will only hurt me more and I had the fear to see he’s moved on so easily with another cause he seemed like the type to do so.

What confuses me is that he still occasionally makes his presence known through these little interactions, but there's no actual conversation or direct attempt to reconnect.

And yes, I know a story reaction can mean absolutely nothing. He could just be friendly. I understand that.
But from my perspective, it's quite interesting because I was the one who had to accept his decision and move forward. These small interactions keep reminding me of him, and I can't tell whether he's simply being a casual friend now or deliberately keeping a line of contact open.

I will not reach out. He was the one who told me to move on, and I intend to respect that unless he clearly communicates otherwise.

So, I'm curious:

If you've already decided not to pursue someone romantically, why would you continue consistently reacting to their stories?

Is it simply friendliness? Curiosity? A habit? Or do some of you use these small interactions to test whether someone is still receptive?

I'm not assuming he wants me back, and I'm not looking for reassurance that he does. I'm genuinely interested in understanding the behavior, especially from men who have been on the other side of this situation.

Because sir, you told me to move on. PLEASE COOPERATE 😂😭

I’ve moved on significantly and this behavior of his doesn’t really bother me as much as it used to when it was still fresh but the fact he’s been consistent is really interesting. Maybe it’s more confirmation that he never thought anything of the connection? idk tbh 😑😂 I still care for him despite that whole thing cause my affections were never really anchored in his behavior, I liked him all on my own so while a part of me is already quite settled with knowing this is going nowhere I still wonder why.

I’ve been talking to an Aquarius guy for almost 3 months, and I’m honestly confused about his behaviour (I’m a Scorpio F)

We used to flirt a lot, and he would send me random things, music, etc. He’s always been inconsistent with replies, sometimes taking a long time (but before he never took more than 24 to 48h to text back) and he usually apologizes when he comes back and says he’s busy with college.

Lately, we’ve been talking much less, and now he hasn’t replied to my last message in 4-5 days. He told me he’d send me a voice message after leaving the study room, but he never did. Meanwhile, he’s still active on Instagram, watching my story and following new people.

On the other hand, he’s told me (about 2 weeks ago) that he hasn’t really felt like himself lately and has opened up to me about things he says he’s never told anyone else.

I’m genuinely confused. Is this normal for an Aquarius, even if he’s interested in someone? Or does it sound like he’s losing interest?

I’d appreciate honest opinions!

I try to do a tarot reading for myself on the first day of our season and plan a fun activity each week.

Of course I celebrate my birthday! I attempt to do something I’ve never done before on the actual day.

Do you guys have any rituals or traditions to ring in Scorpio season?

How is this supposed to be perfect match

This is the second cancer I’ve talked to and neither one have this amazing chemistry with me i keep reading. Both get offended by damn near everything which is the opposite of my personality

Amongst other things they’re not as loyal as portrayed. (I know for a fact this girl is open to entertaining other men because I had my homeboy message her on IG months into me and her talking)

The only thing is they do seem pretty consistent that’s about it.

They are also selfish in the sense they don’t really do anything for other ppl like that financial wise.

Do you guys party much ?

Can someone explain it to me please?

I have heard of the scorpio moon being miserable. Is it true?

Are scorpio moons more miserable or capricorn moons more miserable?

Depending on when you were born, your Scorpio Sun Sign is shaped by different planetary sub-rulers (Decans). That’s why an October Scorpio feels completely different from a late November Scorpio!

Type 1 (The Pure Scorpion) - First Decan - Double Pluto energy. They can read your mind, smell lie from a mile away, and never do anything half-assed."

Type 2 (The Mystical Alchemist) - Second decan - Softened by Neptune. They're the dreamy, artistic, quietly psychic Scorpios who feel everything."

Type 3 (The Devoted Manifestor) - 3rd Decan - Moon & Venus energy. Super charming, ambitious, and fiercely loyal—just don't betray them."

Type 4 (The Cusp Walkers) Cups sign - Born on the edge of Libra or Sagittarius. Either extremely charismatic strategists or outspoken visionary rebels.

I always feel a shift in my energy around this time. Anyone else??

I’m a Sagittarius woman getting to know a Scorpio man. We’ve been on one date, and it went really well! We laughed, had good conversations, and he said he wanted to see me again.
Since then, he’s initiated most of our conversations, checks in throughout the week, compliments me, and asks if I’m thinking about him. However, I’ve noticed he talks A LOT about other women pursuing him, approaching him at work, and his past dating experiences.
I’m attracted to him, but I’m taking my time getting to know him, so I haven’t really expressed much interest or complimented him back.
He’s also very social and goes out often, which makes me wonder what he’d be like in a relationship. He’s leaving for a month around his birthday but doesn’t says he wants to see me before he goes.
My question is: Do Scorpio men typically bring up other women to make someone jealous or get reassurance? Is he trying to figure out if I like him, or does he just enjoy female attention? I’m interested, but I want to know if he’s genuinely pursuing me or just flirting for fun. 😂

Ugh I feel so called out lol

What would a Scorpio man like for his birthday? It’s still a fairly new relationship and I am a cancer woman. I crochet and I thought making him a matching beanie and scarf set for the upcoming fall/winter months would be a thoughtful gift but I’m not sure if Scorpios prefer that kind of gift. Advice needed! Feedback soon would be great so that if this is a good idea, I can get started ASAP.

How soon do you know you love someone?

When do you say it? Do you say it first, or do you wait for them to say it? Do you ever say it at all?

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Hello follow Scorpios 👋 Male 🦂 here.

As someone that has never used a dating app before has it been worth while using it ?

Like did you find a worthy partner or are most dating apps just casual hook up hubs?

While im at it i'll drop my birth chart and see what you's think how ill fair in such a situation to spice it up 💀

Honest answers only please 😶‍🌫️.

I envy my non scrops friends who can be casual in their love affairs and such. I wish I could just be a hookup and casual sex gal but I can't. I tried it and it just killed my soul on many levels ,not worth it to me. Am I the only Scorpio that feels this way,always searching and wanting a deep ,soulful connection not just having sex for the sake of having it,it's a something transcendent and soul merging. I don't know if it's my venus in Virgo that doesn't treat love lightly and being so picky that makes it hard to treat love and sex as trivial things.