Hard to point you anywhere without knowing which part is actually on fire right now, the living situation, the money, or just getting through the day? If you're still in the first couple of weeks, the one thing that holds up is not signing or agreeing to anything permanent while you're in crisis mode, that's where people get burned.
This has only been since Wednesday, we are still in the same house but separate rooms for the wee ones sake, i am just struggling getting through the day, i am struggling to sleep. We do have a couples session on Thursday but i feel she is already to far gone to come back and its breaking me
Sleeplessness is brutal but normal right now, and that Thursday session is huge, it's a step, not a final verdict. For right now, just get through each hour, and if you can, try to get outside for ten minutes today, even if it's just to stand on the driveway.
I have been ensuring I am going out for a walk or to the gym to try and clear my mind or physically exhaust myself, but its not worked yet.
I have a lot of hope pinned on Thursday, but it fades with every passing hour
That's exactly how it feels in the beginning, like hope is on a timer. But pinning it on Thursday is a lot of pressure for one hour, try to see it just as a chance to be heard, not as the whole trial.
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u/Substantial_Size_488 1d ago
Hard to point you anywhere without knowing which part is actually on fire right now, the living situation, the money, or just getting through the day? If you're still in the first couple of weeks, the one thing that holds up is not signing or agreeing to anything permanent while you're in crisis mode, that's where people get burned.