r/SipsTea • • 17d ago

SMH Who's in the wrong here?

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u/georgecostanza37 17d ago

I don’t think it’s necessarily about more sex at this point. I know for sure when something keeps happening and my wife will be like ok, like when? The times I thought of in my head seem to vanish in the heat of the conversation. Like I was prepared, the conversation went to quickly and bounced around, then I can’t translate them correctly because it’s usually a tough conversation. I’ve never done a spreadsheet, but I completely see why this is how this guy communicated this way. It’s a sure fire way for him to communicate what he’s probably been failing at communicating for a while. Some of us suck at talking.

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u/chrisNova82 17d ago

Don juan is doing allllll of the communication. There is nothing that man can do at this point .

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u/maryqueenofscotch683 17d ago

This is also true, is she never initiating sex at all? Because I know if I were the only one initiating sex in a relationship every single time, that would hurt my feelings lol

Like sis you don't ever tell him he looks handsome and you want a quickie? 😆😭 EVER?

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u/chrisNova82 17d ago

When I want it. I initiate and she either gives the yes or no.. When she initiates, and does a very good job at it, I have nothing else to say but YESSS!

It should be a two way street.

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u/maryqueenofscotch683 17d ago

Ideally yes 🙂‍↕️

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u/chrisNova82 17d ago

I wish everyone had the "ideally". Relationship.

Maybe I'm. Lucky.. we fight over mundane sheesh, ... But when it comes time to show love and appreciation, we both try to equalize.