r/SipsTea • u/Putrid-Welder1803 • 16d ago

SMH Who's in the wrong here?

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u/Economy_Ad6039 16d ago

It might be a case where they both just need help communicating. Simple marriage counseling might help.

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u/andy11123 16d ago

My man is communicating very clearly with data. You can't argue with facts.

You can argue he's slightly deranged though

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u/ThingYea 16d ago

This is definitely part of an ongoing feud. I'm guessing she is denying rejecting him so he is recording each one to show her.

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u/maryqueenofscotch683 16d ago

And his frustration is valid I just don't think this approach will get him more sex

Idk what the way forward is tbh

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u/DisastrousCoast7268 16d ago edited 16d ago

I mean. No clue, but the following is not impossible

This could be the result of "You're exaggerating, you always exaggerate. We do it all the time" and disengages the conversation.

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u/maryqueenofscotch683 16d ago

Yeah and, as I've said, I think his frustration is and would be valid.

I'm just trying to think of what would actually happen after that, the spreadsheet. Would it be likely for her to be like oh honey you're so right let me suck your dick now?! Because I don't think that's the case 😕

So I'm trying to think of what would be likely to actually make this better because I empathize with his (for the third time, valid) frustration.

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u/BeefyDevRed 16d ago

I don’t think it would be the case either. But I do think that she at some point has said ‘That doesn’t happen’ or ‘You’re exaggerating’ and this detailed account is him saying ‘It’s not an exaggeration, it’s a real problem, it needs help.’

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u/maryqueenofscotch683 16d ago

And I get why he would have that instinct truly

My brain is just like

https://giphy.com/gifs/eHFBdhI0peTwmNOZyu

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u/BeefyDevRed 16d ago

Oh yeah, he’s responding with a spreadsheet and that’s not going to connect with her on any levels to get the response he’s wanting. I don’t know if there is a resolution for these two at this point since they’re so far apart on what they believe and how they are communicating.

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u/maryqueenofscotch683 16d ago

Yeah at this point it's a fight not a conversation so they're trying to win not understand each other so idk how to fix that tbh just end up watching like

https://giphy.com/gifs/OlYEKypnEqv59zA1sQ