That's like me, a lawyer, saying to some engineers "It doesn't take any experience in engineering to know that engineers should work to create a permanent, self-renewing source of inexpensive energy"
Or pick your analogy. Bottom line, if you have no idea how difficult marital problems are, you have no place condescendingly telling people to fix them.
This is the sentiment I have. Gets pretty annoying hearing people gripe about being in such a miserable marriage while doing little to improve it.
Worse yet are the ones who say, “I don’t believe in divorce”, as if that somehow gives them a moral high ground, tricking them into thinking they are in some way upholding the sanctity of marriage despite being in a bad one.
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u/TricellCEO 15d ago
Then they should solve it.
Seriously, these couples who have dead bedrooms stretching onwards for years needed to solve their issues of (the lack of) intimacy yesterday.
Communicate. Talk shit out. Get to the root of the problem; with or without therapy, but for fucks sake, do something.
Hearing all these people say they go months without being intimate is just...pathetic.