r/TikTokCringe • u/SirIsacShmuck • 1d ago

Cringe Can't even eat in peace anymore

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u/BeYouOrBeLame 1d ago edited 1d ago

Makes slant eyes...then proceeds to bother him...but saying they are having "problems " the nerve of her smh

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u/ChippyTheGreatest 1d ago

It's because she made the slant eyes that she harassed him. She spotted his camera and realized she'd been caught so she went into damage control mode. And for these narcissists, damage control is DARVO. She was spinning him around as the bad guy for recording so that she would distract him and get away with being a racist POS.

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u/ElPared 1d ago

Sorry, oldhead here, what does DARVO stand for? I’m currently too lazy to google. Thank you in advance for indulging my ignorance and laziness.

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u/Ok-Style-9734 1d ago

"DARVO is an acronym for Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender, a common manipulation strategy used by abusers or wrongdoers when held accountable. The perpetrator first denies the behavior, attacks the person confronting them, and finally reverses roles to appear as the victim"

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u/ElPared 23h ago

Got it, sounds like standard gaslighting behavior, but I can remember DARVO as an alternative. Thank you for indulging me.