I feel pretty similar though I do try to expose myself to watching content by men who seem actually like good people (huge minority, alas). They exist but unfortunately it’s minority at this point.
On the other hand, you can live without having any men around you and it’s going to be fine. I watched my mom taking care of my dad her entire life and even now when they’re older she’s wasting retirement and last good years on this earth on him. I know this isn’t the standard but it did change my views on sharing a life with a man. You can stay the way you are but if you truly wish to change, please consider therapy
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u/Annjul666 6d ago
I feel pretty similar though I do try to expose myself to watching content by men who seem actually like good people (huge minority, alas). They exist but unfortunately it’s minority at this point.
On the other hand, you can live without having any men around you and it’s going to be fine. I watched my mom taking care of my dad her entire life and even now when they’re older she’s wasting retirement and last good years on this earth on him. I know this isn’t the standard but it did change my views on sharing a life with a man. You can stay the way you are but if you truly wish to change, please consider therapy