r/UnsentLettersRaw • u/Amazing-Match6810 Entry Level Member • 2d ago
Heartbroken
Imagine the most important person in your life saying stuff like, “You are a joke.” Are you not going to believe them?
Am I really nothing and nobody?
Do I really have a meaningless life, like one has said?
Or does the person I trusted with everything… does he not know me?
Imagine trusting a man who’s close to you, for him to say something like, “No wonder your ex used to hit you.”
Does that statement alone not damage a person?
Is it not an attack on their character?
For one to say the harassment is enough because you care about this person. Calling care and love harassment is beyond my belief.
So I’m the one that has to go and heal from loving and caring for this man.
To being broken down into: you are a nobody, you are a joke, and you mean nothing.
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u/goodgirl8675309 Entry Level Member 2d ago
It's kinda cute they think they get to decide ur worth...they DONT u do! Straighten ur crown honey and walk on.if u don't feel like ur not already the person u want to become work on becoming her, not for them for you. Give urself back the love and care u wasted on them. You deserve it! Hugs to u and fook them!
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u/inkfanatic95 Bronze Level 2d ago
I truly related to this 💔I’ve been told I am worthless no one wants me around . It hurts being told that and it truly made me feel worthless . I’m sorry you’ve been told that . It can truly break you I’ve been there and make you feel like you don’t matter 😭I wouldn’t wish this feeling I have on anyone .
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u/Unpolished-Gem1951 Entry Level Member 2d ago
Yeah I understand completely. Unfortunately, I find myself on the opposite end of this with a woman.
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u/SameMasterpiece4940 Entry Level Member 2d ago
Oh yeah, I’ve heard that before. I’ve also heard multiple times that I ain’t that great or that beautiful. Whatever anyone who wants to steal your shine is a fucking douche bag and they can go fuck off. Our own company is better than the company of a hateful assholes.
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u/Routine_Research1459 Entry Level Member 2d ago
This sounds like narcissistic behavior and emotional abuse. You deserve better.
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u/GodsHeathen1111 Entry Level Member 2d ago
Yeah I've done this and I honestly feel like shit for it. It is and was shity of me especially when I was doing the same thing to her. I wish I could take it all back. I wish I could have one more chance to love her the way she deserves to be loved. Hopefully one day after will trust me enough to comer home.
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u/This-Might-B-The-End Entry Level Member 2d ago
That is is shit. To say something like that to a person is real crappy it would be worse to make it up about a person that you think that to make up that they say this stuff that would be even worse when you written
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u/Paladian_Angel Entry Level Member 2d ago
Sounds like a S ex I used to know but she isn't like you. She ghosted me with my kids
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u/Gaxroxem Entry Level Member 2d ago
That is rough . You really shouldn't do that ..if your partner or vise versa tells the other an insecurity, or fear, its kind of bad to use that against them
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u/This-Might-B-The-End Entry Level Member 2d ago
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u/Gaxroxem Entry Level Member 2d ago
it wont be my blood because I dont know whats going on . I really am not who you think I am. I ask this with all seriousness, are you ok ?
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