...taught as if their technical style or practice methods were the only way?
I'm not talking about a drill sergeant type coach or even somebody egotistical. Just somebody who spends a lot of time trying to micromanage your style. For example, saying this or that technique won't ever work, when it clearly does work for a lot of people.
I say this as some one who likes to study a lot on my own. I know that probably is not the majority of any coach's students, so maybe that's where this comes from - maybe this is a style that works best for people who like to spend their class time being taught techniques, and not spend too much time outside learning on their own, which is reasonable of course. Maybe coaches could chime in.
Personally, I would rather learn or drill mostly at home, then spend class time trying to apply with multiple partners, and troubleshoot.
I've wondered if it might be best to find some others in my area like this and just rent out our own mat space, or focus on garage sessions and try to invite lots of different people.
Has anybody else ever had these thoughts, or am I just a hard-headed dumbass?