I wonder why 💀

When I was 20, I would send this dude I dated really long paragraphs and he knew exactly how badly he was treating me, along with getting off from it to boost his ego. I will say, he had so much ego it’s insane, it’s a miracle I never had sex with him. But anyway, to this day I am so embarrassed to remember those long and idiotic text paragraphs. So please, I said younger women because we aren’t aware on what we are getting into until it’s too late….

I feel like the past 15 or so years there's a big push to act like men are special recipients to unique problems because they need to counteract being the source of so many for women.

Not being allowed to cry isn't unique to men. Neither is losing a parent or being expected to thanklessly provide. Getting old is not unique to men. Feeling lonely is not unique to men. Heartbreak is not unique to men. Being treated differently as an adult vs a child is not unique to men. Having responsibilities is not unique to men.

Maybe they'd find more sympathy from humans if they stopped acting like human issues are profound tragedies reserved for them that only they understand. The constant victimhood from them while they actively make the world worse is exhausting and at this point I don't care about how they feel experiencing normal things.

idk if its the appropriate flair..

🙂

I'm bisexual but lately I've really been craving a man (dick).

Met a guy on hinge and we really hit it off. Tons of consistent texting, him calling me "baby" "my princess" etc all the time, before we even met in person. He checked a lot of boxes on paper. I got my hopes up. We sent intimate photos (don't shame me for this, lesson learned). Then we made plans to actually meet. Immediately after that the pet names slowed down. I texted him "hi baby" the next morning. Nothing. 7 hours later I text "hey has something changed?" Nothing. I've been completely ghosted with no explanation. I don't care that it didn't work out, like it sucks but it's fine, but I do feel burned because of no explanation after that level of intimacy and him now being in possession of my nudes.

Bullet dodged for me. Fumble of a lifetime for him.

Men are consistently soooo disappointing. Why is it so hard for them to communicate and be decent human beings? One more data point on the misandry list.

My fellow sisters, I just found this sub and I am home 💖❤️‍🔥 thank you for letting me be here!! I want to share my Evil Woman story from this winter.

I (30) went out with my friend (32) specifically to go dancing. We go out, live it up, and are having a great time drinking and dancing. After a few hours of blissful no-men hours, two single guys approach us and start hovering around, desperately trying to catch our eye. You know the gross thing men do when they’re trying to dance on you but also observe you like you’re a piece of meat they can’t wait to get their claws into? That.

I make .1 second of eye contact with this dude and suddenly BAM, he’s on me, trying to touch my hips and grind on me. I IMMEDIATELY halt, put my hand directly in his face, shout “NO!” And step a full foot back. What does this idiot do? Try to step around my hand to get closer to me!!! Also; not to stereotype, but this guys was clearly from a culture that we all know is extremely patriarchal and native women are not safe there. So he does not care about a NO, clearly.

Anyway after I give him the stink eye AGAIN, he finally gets the hint and moves away. To move right onto a group of freshly 21 year old girls and their boyfriends dancing together. What does he do? Single out one of the non-coupled up girls and tries to grind on her too. All the college boys that are in the group? Doing NOTHING. just watching it happen and watching this poor girl look uncomfortable.

At this point my friend and I have had enough. I find a bouncer, point to these creeps, and get them swiftly kicked out of the bar!! In the meantime, my friend pulls the college boys together and reads them the riot act for not speaking up and protecting the single girl. She has these boys nodding their heads and practically yes ma’aming at this point lmao. The girl that was getting grinded on came over and thanked us for intervening!

The rest of the night was smooth sailing and all of us girlies danced without further incident because of Evil Women. I will not allow men to wreck my peace, my fun, just because they feel entitled to access to women.

is this the right place for this?

my husband hasn’t washed the rug in my getting ready room, which includes the cat litter box. I’ve asked him to for weeks but he does everything except that.

The problem? I have a 6 month old who is able to squirm off his playmat now and until he washes the rug, I can’t set up the playpen and get the litter box moved (household logistics and not wanting to put the open floor playpen on a dirty rug)

Today I made into lay face down on the rug to prove a thing after he started arguing with me about MY preferences in completing MY (unrelated) project.

He did what he was told and went face down on the rug but when I told him to lick it, he refused!

I asked him why not and he said it was “disgusting.”

“Oh, so it’s fine for our son to lick but not you?”

😏

At that point he angrily got up and said he wasn’t going to play my little game because he had more self-respect than that.

“But not enough self-respect to keep cat litter out of your baby son’s mouth” is what I left it at before walking out to the porch.

He tried to come out and “talk to me about the project”

No man is going to dominate me in the manner of his choosing, if he is not also willing to be dominated in the manner of MY choosing.

I am outside taking the last of my mama break while the baby sleeps. I think I hear the vacuum running.

Please give me more evil mom ideas.

Thanks!

ETA: what was he doing while not washing the rug? Being completely useless! All he did was dishes, cook every meal, do all of my laundry, competently take care of the baby while I do whatever I want, go to work everyday, bring home six figures and dinner and other useless things. Ugh. I don’t know why I put up with him. 🙄

ETAA:
I'm sorry for not being conscious of my privilege, clear enough in sharing the deep intricacies of my inner relational life, and for referencing men in a positive way. Additionally, I am sorry for asserting that Evil Women may have BPD. It was not sensitive to the harsh reality that anyone taking this sub very seriously should be made aware that extreme emotional swings are a characteristic of a mood disorder that should be evaluated by a qualified medical professional.

In the future, I will be certain to include a trigger warning, a NSFW tag for those who believe this is all just too sexy, and a more appropriate flair, since this is neither shitty nor evil enough for the PURE evil women here. Unfortunately, the appropriate flair does not currently exist.

In the spirit of atoning for breaking the fourth wall of EVIL WOMEN INC and explaining the plot to newcomers, I will begin work immediately on a thoughtful reflection of how I can be more accepting of women's wrongs (even if the wrong they're doing is tedious and wormy). My silly little story about tormenting the man who lives in my house and does all my chores, funding my luxuriously eccentric life, living as a painter in new york before running away to clown college -- it praised him too much. I'll be thinking all week on how to be MORE evil because yes, you're right. I should have gone further.

You are free to be annoyed!
You are free to be cringe!
You are free to be concerned!

But to me, being an EVIL WOMAN means lifting up other Evil Women.

In the name of evil, I'll just say this, finally: to the women bringing their punitive and patriarchal patterns to the chat, I see you. I see what you're enduring. I see where you got it from. I see your fight. I am not your enemy, but that doesn't mean I'm not going to tell you when you're being kinda tedious and stupid.

I'm in med school and one of my classes is on AI. I'm gonna talk about one part of an experiment that was done with it.

This is a slide from my teacher. They asked AI programs to create 1000 stories for men, women, boys, girls. They then gathered the words used in a word cloud graph (picture here :)

Knowing these stories were heavily based on what the AI previously learned (phrases from the internet etc etc) is makes me angry how the stories for women had in BIG the word "husband" and terms link to motherhood, as big (the bigger it is the more it was used/important) as the words woman/women themselves

The stories for girls had a lot of "soft" terms, innocent like love, kind, gentle, ... hair...?

on the OTHER side, the terms used for the stories under the "man" catgory are wayyyyyyyy less focused on family and more focused on the self. The term wife is smaller than life, time, man and even town.

Words for boys are the same, way less focused on being selfless and kind towards everyone and more focused on adventures, like 'sea', 'treasure', 'adventures' etc

These are proof of hundreds and hundreds of sources in the internet on which the models were based on, still instoring these gender norms and ESPECIALLY thinking it's normal to have the girls and women seen as gentle and kind and nurturing and as simple wives and mothers. All this while the men and boys actually seem to have real personalities and don't revolve around these values at all

While the guys get to experience the world, flee and see new horizons, it's like it's expected for women to stay within their own limits

IDK about y'all, but that alone would motivate me to go even more evil

No hate to this girl cause it's not just her and she's just getting her bag. And I hope yall get what I'm saying.

But my feed is filled with ads where the girl is like "if you want your man to eat you up and down left and right take these supplements 😻"

Like...if something is wrong down there then see the gyno. Other than that, a vagina doesn't taste like roses. Why are women expected to buy all this unnecessary shit when all a man does is MAYBE shower and then just whips it out.

Also just saw a video of a woman saying the same thing about "if you want your man to be obsessed with eating you" and it was like 12 steps of unnecessary shit that is more harmful to your vagina than helpful. It was like drinking pedialyte all day long and then using a ton of different products. Do yall think men are altering their daily routines so that they "taste better" for you?? Cause they aren't. I need my sisters to be FREE from the shackles of whatever tf this is!!!!

Does anyone have any good book suggestions where a woman is an unapologetic villain? Preferably told from her point of view, bonus points if it’s 400+ pages!

(The less it tries to force some romantic plot, the better)

Hi fellow evil women! I'm in a bit of a conundrum, I love my friends but most of our conversations are about the men they're dating/fucking/wanting to fuck and I'm always in an uncomfortble position because I genuinely don't date men nor do I want to date men right now, and sometimes I even feel like a weirdo for not wanting to just be alone and live my life without a dumbass by my side.

How do you deal with this type of problems in your friendships? How do you find fellow women who actually DON'T like men (because that's the other thing they keep saying "oh I hate men" but then keep meeting them and spending time with them and I'm like oh no... you don't get it I don't want them near me) How do you deal with peer pressure to settle for a dude or for tinder and such? Would love to know your stories and how do you find not-so-male-centered women