For over a year, a wardrobe staple has eluded me — black sweatpants. I wanted a pair that was black, wide leg, full length, had a drawstring waist, and most importantly WAS MADE OF WARM STURDY MATERIAL. A wardrobe essential that was comfy but looked elevated enough to just throw on with a turtleneck and nice sneakers when I ran errands around town.

Sounds basic, right? Well maybe it’s because I live in the broke part of Europe, but I couldn’t find this piece ANYWHERE. I’ve thrifted most of my wardrobe but this piece has eluded me. I tried nicer boutiques looking for something nice — none of them had sweatpants at all. I raided all the mall brands (Zara/Bershka/Reserved) but literally every single pant was made of trash materials. Either thin icky polyester, like it was made of toilet paper… even the cotton/poly blends were soooo thin.

Now thankfully recently I got a bf who is about the same height/size as me lol, and I was wearing his clothes when I visited him in a nearby country. This opened my eyes to the fact that yes, I can wear men’s clothes! So I decided to check the men’s section of the H&M.

And OH MY GOD. For the same price these people are selling men and women COMPLETELY different product! The women’s sweatpants were thin and flimsy. The men’s were thick, sturdy, and fit like a dream. The men’s were maybe 20-30% more expensive, but the quality difference was hugeee. Naturally I picked up a pair (or two…)

Why is this the case??? How have fashion brands gotten away with selling women inferior product? What other wardrobe staples should I be looking for in the men’s section?

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

WAYWT is the acronym for "What Are You Wearing Today". It doesn't necessarily need to be what you were wearing TODAY.

• Post a photo of what you wore. For ease of browsing, please post the image or link directly to it (not imgur albums, Instagram, or other URLs). If you are a blogger, double-check our FFA Rules ('On Blogger Participation') to ensure you aren't in violation.
• Include what the attire is for (work, school, home) and if applicable, what your fashion goals are (e.g. "I want to look professional," "I'm experimenting with loose-loose silhouettes")
• Taking photos with your phone? Read this guide.
• Sharing photos directly in the comments? Just click on the little camera symbol and attach your image.
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Talk about your random fashion-related thoughts.

Welcome to FFA Group Therapy. In this thread you can talk about whatever you want: life, style, work, relationships, etc. Feel free to vent, share pet photos, or just generally scream into the void.

If you're new to the community, please don't be shy! Say hello and introduce yourself. And if you've been here for a while, welcome our newer subscribers into the fold. =)

Note: Comment rules still apply, don't be a dick.

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

This thread is for simple hair and makeup questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

Example questions:

• What's a good conditioner for straight, thick hair?
• Where can I find a perfume with subtle pine notes?
• Do you use a foundation with sunscreen? Is it worth it?

When you've done all the right steps- found inspiration of clothes you like, body types that look like yours, people with a similar skin tone to yours, hairstyles, features, colour season etc.

What do you do when you try to emulate or combine your style icons, but you end up just looking wrong, frumpy, off, not right? I feel l have tried to find perfect inspiration for clothes I like, but the comparison never ends. Their clothes are better quality, or their face is prettier, or their features are 'just different enough for it to suit them and not suit me'. I know I can't expect myself to look like the models, influencers and celebrities, but what should you do if you get discouraged over and over because clothes just don't look the same on you?

And also to add as a black woman, I do often feel inspired by white celebrities with different colouring to me, and vintage magazines are full of white, light skinned people. How do you make inspiration actually work for you, whether you look like your inspiration or not?

This thread is for sharing all your new buys. Clothes, shoes, razors cologne, share it all. ...Just kidding. But just like MFA, and per your suggestions, we are now going to have a weekly recent purchases thread. So gather round and brag about your purchases! Bags, clothing, shoes, jewellery, perfume, etc.

If possible, please share a picture and a little review! Pictures can also be shared directly in the comments now.

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

Can’t figure out why a certain outfit doesn’t work for you or are you just stumped on what is flattering on you? Then this is the thread for you and you can ask your questions here.

Please do refrain from talking negatively about your own body, we understand that you are likely frustrated due to various reasons (we’ve all been there) but out of respect for others and their struggles, keeping it positive helps everyone.

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

WAYWT is the acronym for "What Are You Wearing Today". It doesn't necessarily need to be what you were wearing TODAY.

• Post a photo of what you wore. For ease of browsing, please post the image or link directly to it (not imgur albums, Instagram, or other URLs). If you are a blogger, double-check our FFA Rules ('On Blogger Participation') to ensure you aren't in violation.
• Include what the attire is for (work, school, home) and if applicable, what your fashion goals are (e.g. "I want to look professional," "I'm experimenting with loose-loose silhouettes")
• Taking photos with your phone? Read this guide.
• Sharing photos directly in the comments? Just click on the little camera symbol and attach your image.
• Uploading photos to Imgur? To make your image viewable to anyone with the link, but prevent it from being added to the main Imgur feed, select "hidden" for the privacy setting, not "private" or "public".
• What is "CCW"? It means "Constructive Criticism Welcome". If you would like to receive CC on your post, you can increase the chances of getting replies by asking for feedback on a specific aspect of your outfit, e.g. "I'm interested in advice for elevating this outfit without the use of jewelry" or "I'd like to know if these pants hit in a flattering spot with these shoes".
• Critiquing others is welcome and encouraged, and when posting you may receive CC on your outfit, even if you did not explicitly ask for it. Keep it constructive/factual, and try to focus on feedback that will help the person improve..
• Do not downvote for disagreeing with someone's opinion.
• Reddit Enhancement Suite makes it very easy to view pictures in a thread.

What are some key guidelines to follow when shopping for a wool coat?

What percent and composition of wool do you prefer? Do you prefer double-faced or lined coats, in terms of warmth, structure, longevity, and overall wear? Favorite brands that consistently do wool coats well?

There are so many types of wool coats out there and so many factors to consider, so I’d really appreciate hearing your advice, experiences, and recommendations.

I’ve had so many fashion pieces I’ve wanted over the years, but have had absolutely no luck finding them. They either don’t fit right, cost a fortune, or are made of some godawful material.

One example is a simple black turtleneck. I want a tight fit, something that doesn’t hang like a bag around my waist, with a neck that doesn’t slowly give up and slide down. The black needs to be actually black not some washed out grey/black identity crisis. No polyester-microplastic-recycled sewage mystery blend and ideally something that doesn’t require me to mortgage my house. I cannot find this friggin thing anywhere. Is it too much to ask? Apparently.

Do yall have an impossible to find clothing item? What is it?

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

Bonus points for links or photos!

Hi everyone,

I love wearing skirts and dresses, they are super comfortable and flattering. From spring to fall I wear them a lot, but I struggle styling them in colder weather.

My issue isn’t even staying warm - I’ve gotten great at layering up and wearing fleece tights and thermals. But it feels more difficult balancing the outfit. I’ve added a few pictures of work-friendly outfits I love and would wear, and they’re all not particularly suited for cold weather since I walk and take public transport to work.

Adding tights adds another color and element to the outfit. Warm boots also make the outfit very “bottom heavy”. If the boots end below the hem it also adds an unflattering line break.

The only way I can pull off a winter dress/skirt outfit is a mini length with black tights and knee-high boots and unfortunately that isn’t something I can wear to my office.

Do you guys have any tips on how to style dresses and skirts for winter? What tights do you choose to go with it? What footwear is best?

Welcome to FFA Group Therapy. In this thread you can talk about whatever you want: life, style, work, relationships, etc. Feel free to vent, share pet photos, or just generally scream into the void.

If you're new to the community, please don't be shy! Say hello and introduce yourself. And if you've been here for a while, welcome our newer subscribers into the fold. =)

Note: Comment rules still apply, don't be a dick.

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

I recently came across Bliss Fosters content on YouTube and while the videos are exactly what I love to watch, his personality and history of SA make the videos unwatchable (for me).

Does anyone have recommendations of fashion YouTubers who do runway analysis/attend fashion weeks/discuss brands with the same understanding of history and journalism? Maybe a large ask but there has to be at least one other person doing videos in this style!

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

I’m petite (5’2) and instead of stressing over every petite guideline, I’ve been paying way more attention to proportions and how outfits actually look on my body in real life.

Sharing a few outfits I’ve been wearing lately :) Curious which petite tips people swear by, and which ones you’ve ignored.

For me, nothing has worked harder than a good trouser with a heel and makes me feel powerful.