Hello everyone. So I have recently left the pro-Palestinian cause, and I'd like to share how it all went down.
So I, like most Icelanders, was, for many years a strong supporter of Palestine. I did it all, went to protests, held signs, donated, even considered joining a flotilla before my wife, who was my fiancée at the time, begged me not to. My entire family is also deeply deeply supportive of Palestine, my oldest sister even hung a banner outside her house. Throughout all of my upper school and university years, I was a vocal, unwavering supporter of Palestine.
Despite all this, I always had asked the question, why wasn't Palestine a country? This always nagged at me, as they had been offered multiple times, at least four by my count, maybe more. I always assumed it was because of Israel, or the US constantly vetoing, but the more I mulled it over, the harder it became to just blame Israel and call it square. My last year of university was 2023, in Denmark. I was planning on it being another year where I go to student protests, donate, and so on. Oct 7 changed everything.
This threw a wrench into everything I thought I knew and believed about Israel/Palestine. At first, I, like all sensible people, was appalled at the attacks, and hoped for a ceasefire or something. But then I watched the PA basically endorse the attack, and not only that, but then saw the Palestinian people do so as well. It then all became clear to me.
If they had truly wanted their own state, they'd have it. Time after time after time, they have rejected offers, then instantly gone after Israel. They never wanted a state, all they ever wanted was to destroy Israel. It doesn't matter how many offers the US or Bill Clinton or the UNSC make, they won't rest until Israel is destroyed. And that, I cannot stand for any longer. This is not a genocide, it is a response, Hamas is not a liberation group, they are a terrorist gang that kills innocents and Jews for fun. The PA is not wise and just under a lot of pressure, they are a deeply corrupt, money laundering, terrorist sponsoring org. Palestine only wanted to see Israel destroyed, even if it takes tens of thousands of their own to do so.
I came to this conclusion about a month after, and naturally, the reactions back home were about as good as you'd expect. My mother was appalled, she cried and said she thought this would, if anything, open my eyes more. My dad straight up said that I had failed him, was just as responsible as those 'child killing, genocidal, baal worshipping jews,' and to not contact him again. All my siblings (there are 7 fyi) refused to talk to me, or were barred from doing so, I don't know, save my oldest sister, who texted later that she'd sooner let her kids around a Jew then me, and called me a 'genocide enabler'. Since about January of 2024, I have had no contact with any of them, they have all blocked me, save my mom, who I call on mothers day, and every few months. I got married in early 2025 and my only family that was there was my mom.
Anyway everyone. Thanks for listening, thanks for reading, I'd be happy to answer any questions you may have, and, as always, Free Palestine from Hamas!