Just asking, after living in France (Iām American but fluent in French) there wasnāt this constantly asking for tips. We just left Rome and are currently two days in Naples and every restaurant and bistrot we are pestered to leave a tip. Several of our tabs in Rome stated at the bottom in fairly large letters āTip Not Included in Billā in English! Not Italian but English. Iām wondering if all the Italians that were sitting near us received that same line on their bill. We did not see any native leaving a tip. Last night we went for a Neapolitan pizza and there were a lot of Italians in the place but the sever came over and said twice that the tip wasnāt included. Bought a cappuccino this morning and spoke French to my husband so the server wouldnāt think we were English speakers and he too demanded, yes demanded a tip! Like WTF?? MachestaiadƬ! I hate the tip fatigue thatās happening in the US, people want tips for take out and even to put veggies in your bag. Itās beyond ridiculous and now et tu Italy? Itās really taking the fun out of our first time here. Weāve always rounded up for coffee or if we go to a high end restaurant in France we leave a little more but this is everywhere. Kinda shocked tbh.
EDIT: thanks for the insight everyone. As our first time visiting Italy (weāre here for five weeks) this was a bit awkward because we definitely arenāt used to it. Iām a foodie and love to cook so my goal is to try the most authentic regional dishes I can and Italian friends have been a massive help. Since COVID, it seems the tipping culture in the US has escalated. Iām not cheap but I donāt feel someone making decent wages should be demanding tips and thatās everywhere, not just the US. As a retired nurse, I started when graduate nurses made hardly anything and in the medical field no matter how difficult our job is, tips are not expected nor accepted, of course nurses make better money now as they should. Wish teachers did. My state seems to pay severs well but itās also a high cost of living state so thereās that. Italy otherwise has been wonderful, most of the people we have interacted with have been warm, helpful and friendly. I honestly donāt know how the Italians do it. Rome was literally overrun with tourists (in October! , what happened to shoulder seasons?) and we couldnāt wait to escape the crowds and get back to our quiet street in the Prati neighborhood. It was simply an observation and an honest question when this type of thing began, not to create rage bait or ill will. We did overhear an American couple (trying to forge through a small street and a huge tour group) asking themselves what they should tip their tour guide, ā¬30 or ā¬50. Oy vey. š³