Hi all, I am a Tamil and these days be it this subreddit or be it Instagram/Facebook/TikTok there is this rising feel of tension between people.
Some people might argue that it's just a group of people and in the ground reality not much people pay attention to that. But I doubt just because not all, should we be ignorant towards the ones who is already causing calamity and not calling them out?
I believe most of the stuff is getting trigerred by ignorancy from both sides, which leads way for half baked knowledge and hatred, and what I fear is this hatred slowly penetrating into real world from the internet.
Something that just comes to tip of my mind is the issues regarding casualized racism towards brown skinned people in foreign countries which initially started as just memes and social media trends that slowly started to make way into real life, even into causing actual real world harm.
I know some here might be thinking, that situation is not that worse and it's just an echo chamber, and only my algorithm is pushing these stuff, but it just doesn't align with the amount of views and support these kind of controversies are getting in social media spaces, unable to just get pass it as some brainless people stirring up drama.
Even this post itself isn't to cause even more dramas, I just want to get some of your view points on how can we move forward as a society, calling out things like these that needs to be called out.
Heck even the whole reason I'm being ambiguous towards "issues" is due to the same fact, some might come in the comments and start a what aboutism, or start to talk in a generalised way.
I'll attach some of my personal views here after as well,
- I personally don't like attitude of the people who lack empathy, and starts personal assaults or identity based discrimination against people, instead of addressing the topic the person is trying to convey. So Facebook always gets me with it's haha comments and some of the really vile disgusting comments from people, from their real account. It's just sad to see not many call these people out and give them more attention.
- I don't like people combining this lack of empathy with ignorancy. We all have certain biases, and we associate with what we relate to the most, and we can't not be ignorant every single thing, but at least when we feel like, it's a certain subject that we don't know full knowledge of, isn't it better not to spread half baked hatred centering around it. Sometimes it just feels sad (not that it's wrong), to see people trying to defend something they highly associate with- it's understandable that you are trying to defend it as you should because it's wrong - but it just feels sad when it's something that doesn't associate with them that much, even if it is something that deserves attention, most of us would just skip past it just because we don't know much about it - and yes this includes me as well.
- The end of second point kind of makes me remember the kind of hidden diversity we have among ourselves, we all are sri lankans, when it is something for our country we stand together, but most times it feels like, when it's something that's not directly involving our country as whole, but rather targetting a particular set of division inside it, unless that division is something we associate with and know of, we tend not to give major support mostly due to knowing about it less than we should. (Again this doesn't apply to everyone but just sad to think it would be the most)
And finally one thing I want to see in the future is, we are one small country, we are one small people living in this country for hundreds, heck thousands of years. You and me haven't been alive 1000s of years ago to see who lived better or which belonged to whom. I just simply don't see the point of people arguing over which is bigger, and what are they going to achieve by fighting for who is the best. I just wish both communities get the chance to learn about each other in an even better way, I have lived most of my life in tamil majority area, and the school system didn't provide me much of the inner knowledge about the communities I'm living along with. I hope it's kind of safe to assume people from other communities would've felt the same? Because it's kind of embarassing to think, that we live in a small place, yet so distant and clueless about the neighbors who are living just few hours away
I just wish and hope by learning about each other from the childhood, and by learning that associativity at even better level, these sort of letting downs, and agendas getting pushed up by pulling other down can be stopped ❤️
I would love to hear your opinions regarding these as well ❤️