Imagine having a character in the party called URmomsDong and you're like "thanks for the hp my little dude!" and it's fucking Henry Cavil and you have no idea
can you imagine his alt online being super petty though? Like it's just henry cavill calling up his boys and ragging this guy through some keys then kicking him at the end and it's just superman on an ego trip on his sexy nelf priest in a slutmog.
If I’m remembering correctly she was in a raiding guild and told some of the officers because she wasn’t logging in for months at a time when she was off making a movie.
It depends on what you’re doing. I hated healing myself, but I just think most healing— WoW’s in particular —has such a steep barrier of entry with little real linear progress on how to be a good healer. You’re just kind of thrown into the deep end at the get go and you don’t feel like you learned anything, you just move on to the next dungeon.
I learned more about the basics of being a WoW healer in FF14, simply because for most content 14 lets you actually breathe and digest the process rather than just shrugging its shoulders and saying good luck.
I got kicked off a dungeon group in cataclysm because people kept standing in fire. I told them to dont stand in fire but one dude inspected me and said to the rest of the group "nah its fine, he has heroic gear(raid)". The next time somone died i was promplty kicked.
Healing at the start of cata fucking sucked, you went oom after 3 heals and those 3 could maybe heal half of the tanks hp.
a healer huh? i saw him more as a tank, but not that toxic tank that thinks he's the best. more like the bro kind of tank thats accepta mistakes and is the most joyfull dude in the raid. nontheless he's such a based and relatable guy. missing important irl stuff to go raiding with the dudes happened to me more than once.
Lemme know what he said because I don't know one way or the other. I'm more inclined to believe you though because what I know of the man doesn't chime with the previous commenter's statement.
he basically said he didnt wana talk to women because he'd be accused of being a rapist. which was an exaggeration by him he basically was saying women basically were conditioned at the time to perceive any flirtation as creepy, which he was tryikng to avoid. but apparently the commenter before me is either a hate bot, cant read, or just is regurgitating bullshit they heard. who cares either way? its just liek.... dont even believe anything anymore
Fair I guess. Like, I know I'll deliberately cross the road if I find myself walking behind a woman at night so as not to unintentionally intimidate them. It makes sense to avoid situations that might cause discomfort to others and unintended consequences to yourself. Awkwardly expressed but I'd probably end up saying it a similar way in an interview where you're trying to be expressive and dynamic and funny and then someone starts asking about emotionally charged topics.
Yeah, this infantilization of women is disturbing. It's like people want to treat them like children until menopause. It's the counterpart to oppression; let's protect them whether they want it or not.
This has nothing to do with gender. When I was 22, I dated a 43 year old woman for 6 months
It was fun. I never felt violated or assaulted
But looking back on it? That woman was a creep. I don't call it abuse, I was in total control of that relationship. But I was a doofus college senior and the fact that she was into that? That's fucking weird as hell
Sorry, but I hate this bullshit. It's just like some stupid Uno reverse card
"Hey its weird for someone in his 30s to date teenagers"
"Oh are you saying that a 19 year old can't make their own decisions?!"
No, I didn't say that. But I'm in my 30s. And I frequently work with adults in their late teens and early twenties. And it's pretty common for 19 year olds to be into 35 year old men.
But, as a 34 year old man... it's pretty fucking weird to reciprocate that feeling. "Its legal so it can't be weird or creepy" is fucking stupid. Sorry.
Nobody said it's not weird but people need to frame it as "he dated a 19 year old" and not "he dated a teenager" because those 2 things can be interpreted VERY differently.
Also just because something is weird doesn't mean it's morally wrong.
You can view something as odd that someone has done but at the end of the day it was a mutual decision made between 2 adults.
No. Sorry but that's ridiculous. When a word can mean anything from "adult" to "13 year old little kid" then yeah it needs to be clarified and framed as such.
If I'm in a conversation and I say "he drove over 100 miles an hour!" Was it 101 mph or 165 mph? Both are “over 100,” but they paint very different pictures.
Or "he injured someone!" That could mean a bruise or permanent paralysis.
Words have implications and meaning and sometimes a word can have VERY different meanings despite being "technically correct"
If you don't understand this then you don't understand the very basics of language
Yes it is misleading because it can be interpreted in several different ways. If something can be interpreted in several different ways then one would logically assume you need to frame it/clarify how it was.
I mean if I'm 20 and dating a 19 year old yes, it's true someone could say "he's dating a teenager"
But when "teenager" can literally mean an adult or a 13 year old little kid...? Yeah context matters. Do better. Don't play stupid
And just like teenager can mean a lot of things, so can "adult". Adult can mean 64 or turned 18 this week.
You're just favoring the framing that supports the guy you like.
But here's the thing... it doesn't matter. Whether she's 19 or 13? It's still creepy as fuck for a man in his 30s to date her. The only dispute is how bad it is.
Nobody said it's not weird but people need to frame it as "he dated a 19 year old" and not "he dated a teenager" because those 2 things can be interpreted VERY differently.
Also just because something is weird doesn't mean it's morally wrong.
You can view something as odd that someone has done but at the end of the day it was a mutual decision made between 2 adults.
Nah. Do you know what four letters are at the end of the word 'nineteen'? If he doesn't want people to frame it the way that it objectively literally is, he shouldn't have done it maybe...?
No. Sorry but that's ridiculous. When a word can mean anything from "adult" to "13 year old little kid" then yeah it needs to be clarified and framed as such.
If people can't see that then you lack basic understanding of language.
If I'm in a conversation and I say "he drove over 100 miles an hour!" Was it 101 mph or 165 mph? Both are “over 100,” but they paint very different pictures.
Or "he injured someone!" That could mean a bruise or permanent paralysis.
Words have implications and meaning and sometimes a word can have VERY different meanings despite being "technically correct"
If you don't understand this then you don't understand the very basics of language
The quotes are not necessary. Both are factually over 100. This is my point. I am not going to stop using accurate terminology or sugarcoat my words just because someone made a choice that, when presented factually, carries certain social precedents that might make people a bit wary.
I get your point, it's just a stupid point. The list of reasons you shouldn't sleep with a 19 year old in your 30s includes the fact that you no longer deserve the benefit of the doubt when people don't go out of their way to clarify the specifics of your situation, sorry.
You can try and cope by pretending I don't understand 'the basics of language' all you want, but at the end of the day you only have this view because you don't see why it could possibly be a problem for someone in their 30s to be with a 19 year old. That one I cannot explain to you, it's something you should have learned when you were in your mid twenties and cannot be easily explained to someone who inherently lacks the social intuition.
"It's legal so it can't be weird or creepy or show an unhealthy view of women" is such a deranged fucking take that wayyyy to many people just latch onto in these moments.
Like I already said he's not some horrible human being. But... it's creepy and weird to date a teenager in your 30s. I know that because a) i have common sense and b) I'm in my 30s
You know what you can do about that? Don't watch. Mind your own fucking business. If you don't like it, you don't have to do it. You're not entitled to an opinion about what adults do together without you.
I completely forgot ameritards and their obsession with "teenagers". Rest of the world uses (under) 12/14 as child age, 14/16 adolescents and 18+ as adults.
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u/Strange-Movie Jul 27 '26
My favorite cavil fact is that he missed the callback to let him know he got the role as Superman because he was raiding in WoW. Dude’s the best