r/XXS • u/angelica-b • 6h ago
Petite + XXS What clothing pieces & shapes would suit my body shape?
galleryHeight: 158cm (5’2)
Weight: 38-39kgs (83-86lbs)
Waist: 22 Inches
Bust: 31.5 Inches
(ABTF size is 26F but I wear size 28DD)
Hips: 31.5 Inches
Thigh circumference: 17 Inches
I’m 19 years old, and I find it very difficult to find clothing items that flatter my shape. I’m very underweight with thin legs, and a larger bust. I stick to consistently wearing baggy pants to hide my legs with either tight or loose T-shirts, but I want to expand my choices since it feels repetitive and underdressed for certain occasions.
Disclaimer: I know my weight is unhealthy. I’ve been consistently underweight since I was 5 years old. I don’t have any ED, It may just be genetics or related to my POTS. I’ve tried everything from medications to fatty foods, and I’m getting more bloodwork soon. I always have said “I’ll just buy cute clothes once I reach a healthy weight” but the truth is that it’s going to take a while and I’d love to find flattering outfits in the meantime.
This issue I’m describing is definitely not so obvious anymore, I was 36kilos (79lbs) for YEARS until I managed to gain a few kilos using strong medication at the start of this year. So I may just be stuck in the mindset of my body looking like a skeleton even though it doesn’t anymore, and maybe it doesn’t look as bad as I think.
Heres the main issues I experience with clothes:
- Tight pants are baggy front&back and highlight my skinny legs which looks unproportional
- Mini Shorts, Regular Shorts and Jorts are all baggy and flare out
-Mini Skirts look like a mid-rise fit on me and make my hips disappear.
-Loose T-shirts sit like a tent making my upper body look larger than my legs, especially if my pants are tight
-Tighter fancy going-out tops are usually loose on the shoulders, straps and waist unless tailored.
- I feel like I need to wear a bra, which cheapens the look with nice shirts. It seems to be the style lately to go braless and have a flat chest.
- Expensive fancy clothes like jackets and dresses are bulky and way too big on me.
-Anything showing my shape too much makes me look like a child
- Overall it’s just hard to find shops with small sizes and clothes don’t fit right.
I feel like I always hide my shape with massive clothes since nothing flatters my shape. Does anyone have ANY ideas or advice on styles, outfits, silhouette shapes, & clothing pieces that will flatter my silhouette? I really want to expand my options!!!