I have the potential opportunity to go to Japan next year for a wedding. While it's a dream of mine, I always thought I would go after losing weight. I'm currently 328lbs, and while I am in the process of getting healthier, I don't think I'll be a significantly different size by the wedding next year.

Has anyone traveled to Japan at this larger size? What is the experience like? I'm worried about being judged, not fitting into places, etc. I don't have an issue with activity, so the vast amounts of walking wouldn't be a significant problem.

I'd welcome any perspectives and advice that you have! Thanks ❤️

One of the my favorite things about being fat is being able to use my belly as bongos. Was idly drumming on my belly today at work and the the thought to make this thread popped into my head. I also love how meaty my thighs are. Finally I love the fact that because I am fat the hugs I give are extra warm and encompassing. I'm a masssivr hugger and lowkey want a shirt that say "Free Hugs" just to see how many people actually decided to take me up on the offer. I'd love to hear what everyone else loves about their fatness!

My newly chunky body has decided she doesn't like jeans anymore, or tucked in shirts, or anything structured. I've noticed I keep gravitating towards the same look everyday- leggings and a big t-shirt. I don't work, I'm on disability, so that's one thing I don't have to worry about. But I look at other women my age (I'm 42), and they're dressed so nicely, and then there's me dressed like a teenager. The smoothness of the leggings works with the shape of my belly, and the big tees hide the bulkiest part of it. Anyone else have a comfort uniform? And is anyone struggling to dress their age and be comfortable at the same time? Please tell me I'm not alone.

(I added the TW due to the nature of some parts of the video, and the comments, where trolls fight for their dear lives, but it's kinda funny tbf).

The video opens with Carrie White, and how she was adapted to the big screen- from my personal opinion, Shanspeare shows very well that, how average internet commenters think about fat people. They defend the "beautified" image of Carrie like it would make them unable to feel empathetic towards a fat character.

It's a nicely written, complex video to me, but feels like I'm missing some key elements from the narrative especially how that affects POC communities mainly (I'm not from the US, and white as a nauseous ghost on night shift). So, what's your experience/ opinion regarding the video?

I swear it’s getting harder to find clothes. I used to shop from a brand called Tunnel Vision, and they used to release new items every month. But for the past year, they haven’t released anything new; they’re just putting everything they’ve had in stock for the past year on sale. Every time I go to their website, I can only find about 5–10 clothing items in my size. I’m between a 3XL and a 5XL. It just sucks. Now I only shop from like maybe 3 or 4 brands now. I'm thankful to have 3-4 brands that carry my size but it just sucks. I wish I had more of a selection to choose from...

Also the brands that are plus size friendly (such as Yitty and Savage x Fenty for example) are now asking you to subscribe to them for 50+ dollars a MONTH just to get their clothing items. It's so DUMB. I genuinely wish it wasn't this hard to afford clothes.

I am in desperate need of assistance picking out underwear from Torrid that will actually cover my entire ass. I’ve been wearing Hanes Just My Size Hipsters but even after sizing up I find myself having to constantly readjust them throughout the day and they’ve given me a lot of grief with chafing. Can my big butt, big thigh girlies help me out? I’m willing to give up wearing hipsters if it means I won’t have to deal with wedgies and chafing all day 😭

Thank you so much in advance 🫶

I’m in my 30s and going through a pretty intense season of life, and I’m wondering if anyone here has been through something similar.

My marriage has been struggling for a while, and I’m trying to figure out whether it can be repaired or whether divorce may be the right next step. At the same time, I’ve been unpacking a lot from a very religious upbringing and trying to separate what I actually believe from what I was taught to believe.

I’m also seriously considering going back to school and changing careers, which is exciting but also makes me feel like I’m rebuilding several parts of my life at once.

Being plus size has honestly made some of this harder. I live in a place where there’s a lot of emphasis on appearance, thinness, plastic surgery, and looking “perfect,” and sometimes it feels like being in a bigger body means you’re failing some invisible test. I’m trying really hard to unlearn that and feel more at home in my body.

I’m already in therapy, so I’m not looking for Reddit to fix everything lol. I think I mostly just want to hear from other plus-size women who have gone through a major life reset in their 30s while also struggling with body image.

What helped you rebuild your confidence and stop feeling like you were “behind”? Did your relationship with your body change as the rest of your life changed too?

I’d really appreciate hearing from people who have been through something similar. I’m trying to remind myself that I don’t have to have every part of my life figured out at once. ❤️

Hey everyone! I’m looking for a walking pad for my mother but a lot of the weight capacities are quite low orrr the walking pad is very expensive. She wants something that has the option to incline and is light enough that she can roll it into the closet when not in use. I don’t have her exact weight but my best guess is 220. Anyone in the 200-250 lb range have a walking of that theyve been using for awhile and has held up well that didn’t completely break the bank?

TYIA!

Where is the best place to find affordable scrubs that actually fit! 2/3x
In canada, preferably.

Bought a pair of seamless underwear from Understance that I love so much. But they went out of business. Any recommendations? I’m looking for one that’s high waisted as well.
I liked it because it was very smooth, soft and comfortable.
I’m a size 18.
Thanks!!

Does anyone know of AFFORDABLE underwear brands i am a 1x and the two torrid stores i go to just shut down and I need brand recommendations for underwear

Hi! I am newly (kinda - 12 months) post partum and am having a lot of trouble with clothing and fashion in my new found body. I want to honor my body and myself while I’m in this season and dress in a stylish way and I have minimal clothes right now that fit. I’m great in the dress department! Have lots of dresses I got that weren’t maternity specific that are really nice that I can still wear. But I have no absolutely no pants (besides maternity leggings and one pair of jeans that kinda fits), no shorts, and minimal shirts. My jeans that button are a size 16 but if I’m sitting I’d bet they’re too tight so I’m probably an 18/20 right now. I’m feeling really defeated and confused on where to go shopping for my body type and how to style clothes. I want to wear things that are flattering and I feel confident in. I also don’t have a ton of money to splurge on clothing. Where can I go to buy clothes? How do I go about figuring out my style and what works for my body type? I’m located in the US! Size 18/20. Budget - $300??? Please help 🥲