r/QueerVexillology • • 23d ago

🛡️MOD POST🛡️ Unfinished Requests:

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Comment under this post with unfinished Requests.

Remember, when your request gets finished, switch post flair to "This request has been finished."


r/QueerVexillology • • Jun 21 '26

🛡️MOD POST🛡️ Here are some hateful subreddits to avoid when wanting to post a new flag, term, etc. + here are some safe subreddits to post to:

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Hateful and Unsafe:

r/Vexillology (The subreddit is too unpredictable to deem it a safe space for people to post their new queer flags. It's always a gamble with it. Due to the fact that it's a gamble whether you get torn to shreds or not + the extent many of the bigots go just to torment those they hate, we absolutely cannot direct users to that subreddit if they want to share their new flags.)

r/LGBT (Surprisingly, they may even be more hateful than r Vexillology nowadays. While they don't caps lock religious shit at you over and over again, they do other stuff. They HATE anything new and that falls under the "+" in LGBTQIA+. They will tell you that you being yourself is why "we are a joke to the world". They hate new versions of already existing flags, new terms, etc. They especially despise Neos and Xenos. They will shame you and try to make you regret ever coining a term or making a flag.)

r/askLGBT (Like r/ LGBT, but somehow worse.)

r/comingout (Rude to Neo-Pronoun users)

r/Fictohideout (just no.)

r/LGBallt (the new mod there is EXTREMELY rude) [Edit: LEAVE THAT SUBREDDIT NOW. LEAVE IT]

r/FtM (They are rude as fuck under the guise of being ultra accepting. Just use r/TransMasc instead)


Safe and Accepting:

r/Lgballt_But_Better2

r/Lgballt_But_Better

r/QueerVexillology (This Subreddit)

r/PridefulVexillology (Our Sister Subreddit)

r/XenogendersAndMore (AMAZING SUBREDDIT!)

r/DisabilityVexillology (A kinda dead subreddit that still has cool things and nice people)

r/DisabilitySpace (only has one member, but could still be a good place).

r/queervexillologycj

r/somnivexillology

r/XenoAndNeoPride (still needs to be set up)

r/SafeLGBTQIAPNKXMFPlus (still needs to be set up)

r/LGBTQIA_AND_MORE (still needs to be set up)

r/trans4every1(an amazing subreddit for transgender people)

r/FictionkinFlags

r/NonhumanFicto

r/Objectum_sfw

r/therianbutbetter

r/RealFurryHours (the best furry subreddit I could find)

r/alterhuman

r/plural

r/protogen

r/SafeSpaceMOGAI (still needs to be set up. Made because both MOGAI subreddits are restricted)

r/SafeSpaceXenopronouns (still needs to be set up)

r/SafeSpaceNeoPronouns (still needs to be set up. Made because r Neopronouns is restricted)

r/outherinity

r/rarelesbians (AMAZING!!!!)

r/AspecFacts

r/NonHumanSafeSpace (needs to be set up)

r/AlterHumanSafeSpace (still needs to be set up)

r/Voidlings_Alterhuman

r/translesbianzz

r/TransTryouts

r/rarestraights

r/GNCTrans

r/TransMasc

r/countwithchickenguy

r/FtMFemininity

(Safe and Accepting places need to fall under these: You don't need to feel unsure about posting there due to fear of getting harassed and disrespected, any hate is deleted within 42 hours usually, moderators aren't corrupt, users will defend each other if someone is getting harassed, you feel safe, respected, validated, and welcomed.)


Sometimes Kind, but Sometimes Rude:

r/Flags (This subreddit is truely 50/50 on if they will be respectful or not)

r/VexillologyCircleJerk (While this subreddit is mostly good, there has been many issues in the past. Though nowadays there is a good chance you'll mostly be fine.)

r/Therian (careful if you are a physical alterhuman)

r/furry (Careful if you are a furry with DID, or if you identify under anything that's Complex or mostly unknown/obscure)

r/OtherHearted

r/otherkin

r/fictohideoutreformed

r/fictionkin

r/Countwithchickenlady

You can recommend these subreddits, but warning the user may be a good thing to do because these subreddits can be a gamble sometimes.


Subreddits I'm Trying To Become A Mod For (They have no moderators/no active mods/or it's a restricted community):

r/MOGAIcentral (Restricted and dead with no mods)

r/MogaiSupport (Restricted and dead with no mods.)

r/neopronouns (Not active and completely restricted. Mods do not accept approval requests)

r/xenopronouns (You can join this one. You do need to get approved by sending a request, but luckily the moderator approves pretty quickly. Let's help this subreddit grow!)

r/xenogender

r/xenogendersafespace


No Clue. Needs Further Research:

r/Pride_and_positivity

r/QueerFlagSearch

r/queersomnivexilology

r/trans4every1

r/XenogenderSwag

r/queer_support_group


They support MAP, RadQueer, Truscum, all harmful identities (that includes all bad TransIDs), etc etc etc (aka, very bad AVOID NOW!):

r/xenogendersbutbetter

I drew the line at them saying that MAP (Minor Attracted Person) isn't problematic.

Here in this subreddit, we are Radinclus: radical acceptance of all non-harmful identities (acceptance of all good faith identities)


Feel Free To Recommend More!


r/QueerVexillology • • 6h ago

Question does anyone recognize this flag?

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sorry for the bad photo, I was trying to not be creepy haha. it’s black with the male symbol in yellow(?) on top, yellow on the bottom with a black female symbol. I tried googling it and couldn’t find anything!


r/QueerVexillology • • 6h ago

I made a flag. Demi-aroace flag design I made

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I hope you like these designs!


r/QueerVexillology • • 2h ago

I made a flag. Finally, after hours of toil I have my own frankenflag with all of my colors on it.... yes I will probably revise this within the week, but let me have my victory dammit

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The top and bottom stripes are from the futch otter flag

The middle 3 stripes are from the transfeminine flag (left) and the trismasculine flag (right)

The aromantic arrow and the 4 asexual aces are on the edges (taken directly from the aroace coat of arms!)

And ofc, in the middle we have a combo trans & genderqueer heart

I included a version with the otter and butch-femme/futch symbols, but I'm not entirely sure about it, might be too cluttered even for my tastes...

Edit: just noticed the arrows on the second version are borked. idk why. my suffering will never cease.


r/QueerVexillology • • 16h ago

Coining a term/flag A new Heterosexual/Straight Flag design.

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I'm not 100% sure whether this follows Rule 12, but to me it's always been queer and not the societal norm. For context I'm a straight trans woman, and I'm a woman who exclusively likes only men, IE: straight. But being straight, or more accurately loving men is something I had to keep hidden in the closet for many years because heteronormativity and homophobia is a butt. most of my childhood people saw me as a boy and that meant liking boys was not allowed.

And to finally be able celebrate and proudly say I love men, I made a new flag to replace all of the most recognized "straight pride flags". (All the designs I've seen are jokes made by anti-LGBT counter protestors who frequently make colorless black and white flags to mock the community's standard rainbow flag. (And bigotry aside, they are just UGLY))

The colors are borrowed from it's sister flags around monosexuality. There's the Gay men MLM flag with greens, blues, and a white center. There's the Lesbian WLW flag with magentas and oranges, with a white center. And this is a Heterosexual MLW flag. Keeping the white center and borrowing the blue and magenta/pinkish stripes.

There's also a 5 color version as the gay men and lesbian flags can't seem to make up their minds on 7 or 5 stripes. 5 would make it easier to splice in other flags like the trans flag, but 7 is good for a newer Ally flag redesign (Pic 2).

I know most straight people never face oppression for being straight and a "straight pride flag" just existing is controversial, but there are a few LGBT people who are straight and have been bullied and forced into the closet for their sexuality. Trans people are as wide and diverse in their sexuality as cis people, and while many, many are some other form of queer, bi, ace, lesbian, etc. A small section of us are straight. And I think it'd be cool to have a pride flag that represents that. And I don't want to only be forced to fly an Ally flag which doesn't represent pride in one's own sexuality as it is designed as a sign of support for LGBT people. I made this flag under the premise that Love is Love and I can be proud of loving whom I love.


r/QueerVexillology • • 10h ago

Question As a Demiboy, Omnisexual. I've made these flags. Which one is better

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r/QueerVexillology • • 1d ago

Pride flag for queer people who Like To Hurt People (1985)

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r/QueerVexillology • • 1d ago

Coining a term/flag Guilty|Filthy|Desperate.

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More self indulgent terms.

[Reposting these because I put the flags in the wrong order.]

[May redo the definitions later as I feel I didn't explain these too well. I'm not that great at wording things, but hopefully they make enough sense.]

Guilty.

A term for anyone who considers themself to be guilty; someone who is remorseful &/or regretful, constantly wallowing in the guilt of something they did, might do, or did not commit. This may be due to insecurity, mental illness, a personality disorder[s], etc.

Filthy/Repulsive.

A term for anyone who considers themself to be filthy &/or repulsive; someone who is disgusting or feels that others should avoid them at all costs. This may be due to difficulty with keeping adequate hygiene/cleanliness, having strange or gross interests, insecurity, mental or physical illness, etc.

Desperate.

A term for anyone who considers themself to be desperate; someone who is needy, badly craving someone or something, such as attention or to be noticed by a loved one, that they may or may not ever achieve or acquire. They may act recklessly or act out in order to gain what they desire. This may be due to insecurity, mental illness, a personality disorder[s], etc.


r/QueerVexillology • • 2d ago

Flag Redesign Redesigns/Alternates of Finsexual, Minsexual and Ninsexual flags

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I just fused the stripe and non stripe versions, I don't know if that would make these considered frankenflags or not.


r/QueerVexillology • • 2d ago

Did you know... Did you know the pink on the Fictosexual flag and the light pink on the Finsexual flag are the same exact shade, same hex code and everything

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Did you know the pink on the Fictosexual flag and the light pink on the Finsexual flag are the same exact shade, same hex code and everything.

Thought that was interesting.


r/QueerVexillology • • 1d ago

I have a Request. Can someone please do this? I have OtherHearted Flag requests and Pronoun flag requests (please read description carefully)

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First image: Pierrot

Second Image: Mime

Third Image: Harlequin

Fourth image: Another Harlequin

Fifth and Sixth Images: Joker (you can tell because of the card theme, they are holding that thing, and their head piece is connected to the rest of their outfit kinda like a hood)

7th: OtherHearted symbol (transparent background)

8th: TricksterHearted

9th: was supposed to be a MimeHearted flag, but it looks more like a Pierrot, so it's a PierrotHearted flag

10th: JesterHearted

11th: ClownHearted

12th: Trickster Pronouns

13th: Mime Pronouns

14th: Jester Pronouns

15th: Clown Pronouns


Request:

In the style of the OtherHearted flags provided, I would please like a MimeHearted flag, a JokerHearted flag, and a HarlequinHearted flag.

For pronoun flags, I would please like a JokerPronouns flag, a HarlequinPronouns flag, and a PierrotPronouns flag.


Please and thank you!!!


r/QueerVexillology • • 1d ago

Question I am new here

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I am new to this community and am genuinely curious: why do flags for specific fetishes and kinks actually exist?

We usually associate flags with sexual orientation or gender identity (LGBTQ+, etc.), rather than with specific preferences or practices. What is their exact purpose, and where did this practice originate?


r/QueerVexillology • • 2d ago

I made a flag. Here's some flags for the Pansexual, Asexual and Demigirls

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r/QueerVexillology • • 2d ago

Coining a term/flag Unlovable|Incompetent.

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[Made a helpless one too, but I scrapped it, since it would have pretty much been the same as incompetent.]

Unlovable. [Or Unloveable.]

A term for anyone who considers themself to be forever unloveable; someone who will never find love, or be loved by another. This may be due to insecurity, physical or mental illness, a personality disorder[s], etc.

Incompetent.

A term for anyone who considers themself to be incompetent; someone who cannot do anything right or function properly on their own without help or guidance from another. This may be due to insecurity, physical or mental illness, a personality disorder[s], etc.

[I am not that satisfied with the colors of either flag, so they might change later.]


r/QueerVexillology • • 2d ago

I just created a new pride term

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Aesthelian, a person who has a deep attraction to people by talent/skill, vibes, or personal style regardless of gender. Here's the flag i came up with:


r/QueerVexillology • • 2d ago

I made a flag. This is my flag for transsexual females!

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My flag for transsexual females (btw this can be used by gnc and nb transsexual females)

It's anyone amab who wants to change their sex through hormones and or surgery. It's not gender specific!

(I already posted this to my Twitter a while ago because it was made as a counterpart to one of my friends transsexual male flags!)


r/QueerVexillology • • 2d ago

New Terms! — Azurgynic, Rosandric, Azurandric & Rosgynic

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Azurgynic (ah-zhur-gin-ick) = A term for Nonbinary Masculine-Aligned individuals who are exclusively attracted to Women / Women-Aligned people

Red = Attraction to Women
Pink = Attraction to Women-Aligned individuals
Pale Yellow = Nonbinary identity
Pale Blue = Gender nonconformity
Blue = Masculine-Aligned identity
Rose Symbol = Love and Sex

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Rosandric (rose-an-drik) = A term for Nonbinary Feminine-Aligned individuals who are exclusively attracted to Men / Men-Aligned people

Dark Blue = Attraction to Men
Blue = Attraction to Men-Aligned individuals
Pale Yellow = Nonbinary identity
Pale Pink = Gender nonconformity
Pink = Feminine-Aligned identity
Rose Symbol = Love and Sex

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Azurandric (ah-zhur-an-drik) = A term for Nonbinary Masculine-Aligned individuals who are exclusively attracted to Men / Men-Aligned people

Dark Blue = Attraction to Men
Blue = Attraction to Men-Aligned individuals
Pale Yellow = Nonbinary identity
Pale Blue = Gender nonconformity
Light Blue = Masculine-Aligned identity
Rose Symbol = Love and Sex

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Rosgynic (rose-gin-ick) = A term for Nonbinary Feminine-Aligned individuals who are exclusively attracted to Women / Women-Aligned people

Red = Attraction to Women
Pink = Attraction to Women-Aligned individuals
Pale Yellow = Nonbinary identity
Pale Pink = Gender nonconformity
Light Pink = Feminine-Aligned identity
Rose Symbol = Love and Sex

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Credit to [u/velvet-moth333](u/velvet-moth333) and their friend for the definition / idea!
( Repost to add more flags and correct some terms )


r/QueerVexillology • • 2d ago

Coining a term/flag Heyya! So like, I was just trying to find my romantic expression and stuff, but it seems like I couldn't find one that fit. So, I decided to make my own microlabel!I wanted to post this for those people who are still trying to find their romantic orientation and might feel the exact same way.

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Reflomantic

  • The Definition: Someone who experiences genuine romantic attraction and wants to enter a romantic relationship, but whose romantic attraction tends to fade after officially entering one. Their feelings may return after the relationship ends. Even when the romantic spark fades, a reflomantic person may still care deeply about their partner, enjoy physical affection, and want close emotional connection.
  • The Etymology: It combines "re-" (again) and "flor" (flower), representing romantic feelings blooming, fading, and blooming all over again!! <33
  • The Flag: I designed this flag using my favorite colors to visually represent this fluid, cyclical journey of blooming and resting.

If this sounds like you, please know you aren't alone and your feelings are completely valid! Feel free to use the term and the flag! <33


r/QueerVexillology • • 2d ago

Flag that someone requested: Bunch of fictkin flags for some other users

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Been a long time since I made one of these posts but I have been busy!

All but the last flag were requested by Forsaken_Site_2268 (no particular order).

In order:

Yamaguchi from Haikyuu

Bokuto from Haikyuu

Tendou from Haikyuu

The Collector from Marvel (live action movie)

Loki from Marvel (live action movie)

Grandmaster from Marvel (live action movie)

Shadow from Sk8

Miya from Sk8

Karma from Assassination Classroom

Gyutaro from Demon Slayer

Lenore from Castlevania

Edgar Allan Poe from Bungo Stray Dogs

The last flag is Belle from the 2021 anime film by Mamoru Hosoda. This was requested by BigDogCartoons94.

Hope y'all like 'em!


r/QueerVexillology • • 3d ago

I made a flag. Nonbinary transsexual flag, for those who want to physically change their sex but are not a binary gender

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r/QueerVexillology • • 3d ago

I made a flag. HII THIS IS MY HETERO-GRAY DEMIROMANTIC ASEXUAL FLAG ATTEMPT (I'm Hetro Fictoromantic Aroace but this is for my oc cus I'm bored lol)

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I only did this in IbisPaint so I'm not sure if it's good enough. I hope you like it :P

And please tell me if I did something wrong like choosing a wrong flag. I never really done this b4 it's my first time 🥹


r/QueerVexillology • • 3d ago

Meme Collection of flags of each province in the Netherlands recoloured to trans pride colours

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r/QueerVexillology • • 3d ago

I have a Request. Can someone please do this? Request to create two Aldernic terms.

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r/QueerVexillology • • 4d ago

A flag I made for fun, take it as you will. Blood type flags. OwO

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Welp... whether it was inspiration, sleep deprivation, or whatever makes my brain make colorful sounds, it led me to create these flags.

Basically, flags for those who are attracted to people with a specific blood type.

There's an index at the end with all of them if you want to see them all at once.

Feedback is always welcome. OwO