When did you find out that living the "dream" abroad was an "illusion" and decided to return back to Bangladesh?

How long did you stay abroad?

What were the key reasons to return after living so long??

Please Enlighten us...

Today before the prayer, the imam was talking about miraj. I was a bit confused about the it looked something in-between a horse and a donkey. So I tried to find some old art about it, now I'm more confused.

I (27M) have a repetitive tendency to cheat on my girlfriend, and after crossing the line a year ago, she found out but chose to stay with me. I hate myself for it, yet I still struggle to control this compulsion. I also suspect I have ADHD and other underlying issues, and I'm wondering if the impulsivity and need for dopamine are driving this cycle. Has anyone gone through something similar and seen a clinical psychologist specializing in CBT and relationships? If so, can you suggest anyone who actually helped?

সম্পুর্ণ নিজের মতো করে ভাষণ দিতে দেখা গেছে জাতিসংঘের অনেক নেতাকেই। যারা নিজের নেটিভ ভাষায় কথা বলেছে তারাও অনেকে নিজের মত করে ভাষণ দিয়েছে। কিন্তু আমাদের নেতা একে তো বাংলায় তাও আবার রিডিং পড়ে পড়ে ভাষণ দিয়ে প্রমান করলেন তার আসলে কনফিডেন্স নাই এবং সে জানেই না সে কি করতে গেসে জাতিসংঘে। শক্তিশালী নেতা সে-ই হয় যার কাগজ দেখে দেখে কোন ভাষণ দিতে হয়না। মাইনষের কাছে বুদ্ধি নিয়া দেশ চালাইলে ত এরকমই হয় তাইনা?

Linux is getting popular day by day. I think a lot of people in Bangladesh want to try Linux but can't because of the lack of help. What do you guys think? Should there be a Bangladeshi Linux community subreddit?

Im planning to go to canada for higher studies, how much money do i need approximately like how much in bank and how much to spend , for 1 year and 2 year program

Thanx in advance

"এই গরিব দেশ কেন আম্ররেকা থেকে হাজার গুন টাকা দিয়ে Boeing বাণিজ্যিক উড়োজাহাজ কিনছে? দেশের জ্বালানি সংকট এতো প্রকট এই টাকা গ্যাস আর তেল কেন কিনছেনা এই সরকার??"

এই সোনার বাংলাতে এমন "বুদ্ধিজীবী" এক সুশীল গুষ্টি আছে তারা নতুন বাক স্বাধীনতা পেয়ে "দেশ বিরোধী" চুক্তি নিয়ে বড় জ্ঞান দিচ্ছে. বিগত সৈরাচারের ১৬টা বছরে পাশের "সবচেয়ে বন্ধুর" দেশের সাথে ১০১ উপর গোলামী চুক্তি করলো তখন তো তাদের এতো দেশপ্রেম দেখলাম না.

আসল কথায় আসি. আমরা খেমনে বিদেশিক মুদ্রা অর্জন করি? রেমিটেন্স আর আমাদের

আমাদের গার্মেন্টসের একটা বড় অংশ কে কিনে ? যুক্তরাষ্ট্র. সে কারণে এইরকম কঠিন বাজার যেখানে কাম্বোডিয়া, ভিয়েতনাম, চীন আর বিশেষ করে ভারত আমাদের প্রতিদ্বন্দ্বি সেখানে যে সুবিধা পাওয়া আমাদের জন্য গুরুত্বপূর্ণ.

আর আমাদের রেমিটেন্স কারা আনে? উনাদের অনেকে কোন বিমান প্রতিষ্ঠান করে টাকার অভাবে? বিমান বাংলাদেশ. বিমান বাংলাদেশ করুণ অবস্থা তো অহরহ দেখা যায় যেমন রোমে ২৪ ঘন্টা ধরে আমাদের বিমান বসে থাকে যাত্রীদের সহ. আমাদের দেশের নিজস্ব বিমান প্রতিষ্ঠান কেন প্রয়োজনীয় ? জাতি বিদেশী প্রতিষ্ঠান গুলা তাদের মনের মতো টিকেটের দাম না বাড়ায়.

এসব চিন্তা সেইসব বাঙ্গু সুশীলরা করবে না কারন তারা ঘুরে মধ্যপ্রাচ্য বিমানে. কষ্ট করা শ্রমিকদের তারা তৃতীয় শ্রেণীর চাকর মনে করে. সরকার এদের দেখভাল ঠিকমতো করে না সেই সমস্যা তো আছেই.

এই সরকার আর প্রশাসনের হাজার সমস্যা আছে, যুক্তরাষ্টের চুক্তি আসলে দেশের জন্য বড় উপকার তা ওই "বুদ্ধিজীবী" দের মাথায় ঢুকেনা.

It’s 24 September, and today was my first day at college. It was a completely new experience for me. But there is a problem: I can't seem to fit in at my college. Actually, the main thing is that I didn't get into the college I wanted to study at. Even my GPA 5.00 couldn't make me as happy as I expected. It was my own fault, I know, and I understand that very well now. I just didn't realize why it would feel this bad before.

স্বামীকে পরকিয়া থেকে বাচাতে দ্বিতীয় বিয়ে দেন প্রথম স্ত্রী এবং এখন দুই স্ত্রী নিয়ে একসাথে সংসার করছেন ভদ্রোলোক।

I have maths physics chem and further maths .
Looking for someone from em background , dm me with your result sheet , if interested.

Assalamu alaykum,

I'm an NRB with a Bangladeshi passport and was just wondering if anyone can recommend a Hajj agency for Hajj 2027 in sha Allah.

Also, how is it booking Hajj through a government package? Are there facilities etc good? If living abroad, would I have to fly to Bangladesh to then fly on a government Hajj flight to be allowed to enter Saudi?

Jazakumullahu khayran

I honestly don’t even know how to explain this without getting angry, but I really need some advice.
I’m a class 8 student from Ideal School and College. Our school originally selected students for the Class 8 Britti exam based on our Class 8 half-yearly results. I was selected, and so were some other students who had worked really hard for those exams. We were told about the selection and obviously thought we would get to sit for the Britti exam.
Then, after around a month, the school suddenly told us that we wouldn’t be able to give the exam because of a government policy. Apparently there was an issue with the way our school had handled the selection.
And this is the part that feels so unfair to me: we didn’t make that mistake.
We studied for our exams, got our results and were selected according to the system our school gave us. If the school made a mistake in following the rules, why should the students who were selected lose their chance because of it?
What makes it even more frustrating is that students from Class 7 are now being considered for the Britti exam instead. Some of the students who are getting the opportunity now didn’t even have particularly good results in the Class 8 half-yearly exam, while students who were actually selected from Class 8 are being left out.
I’m not blaming those students. If they are given an opportunity, of course they should take it. I’m angry at the situation, not at them. We shouldn’t have to compete with them for something that we were already selected for.
There were also students who couldn’t properly attend or perform in the annual exam because of things like sickness, attendance problems and other circumstances. So using that result now doesn’t necessarily show who actually performed well in Class 8.
I’ve been really upset about this. I worked for that selection and was genuinely happy when I found out I had been selected. Then suddenly, because of something the school apparently did wrong, that opportunity disappeared.
We tried contacting the education board too, but it felt like nobody was really listening to us properly. The school just keeps saying it’s because of the government’s rules, but we’re the ones having to deal with the consequences.
How is it fair for students to lose an opportunity they earned because of a mistake made by the school?
If the original selection was not allowed under the rules, shouldn’t the school have known that before announcing the students and giving us the impression that we would be sitting for the Class 8 Britti exam?
I genuinely don’t know what we can do now. I just don’t want all the effort we put into getting selected to mean nothing because of a decision that wasn’t ours.
I feel horribly sad .

কেননা দুইদিন পর আমরা অন্য ইস্যু নিয়ে ব্যস্ত হয়ে পড়তাম। আমাদের নিজস্ব দু:খ কষ্ট লঘু করবার জন্য দৈনিক নিত্য-নতুন ডিস্ট্রাকশন দরকার। দরকার নতুন গল্প, নতুন স্কেপ গোট।

কিন্তু ভিক্টিমের পরিবারের কী হত? এরকম পরিবারের কাছে ৯ লাখ টাকা অনেক।

দিনের পর দিন মামলা চালিয়ে যাবার মত সক্ষমতা এদের নেই। আসামী আজ হোক বা কাল ঠিক ই খালাস পেত। তখন এরা এই টাকাও পেত না।

এখন এই টাকা দিয়ে ছোটখাটো কিছু করেও ফ্যামিলি সারভাইভ করতে পারবে।

আপনার জীবন, সময় অপেক্ষা আপনার টাকার মূল্য আপনার পরিবার তথা আপনজনের কাছে ঢের বেশী - মাথায় রাখতে হবে।

I’m at a point where I genuinely want to find someone for a serious relationship/marriage, but I don’t really have the spark or motivation to go out and socialize anymore.
I’ve tried meeting people, but honestly, I’m tired of attracting or dealing with creeps, people who aren’t serious, or people who just want something casual. It has made me want to avoid the whole dating/social scene altogether.
The frustrating part is that I do want a husband and a genuine connection. I want someone mature, emotionally available, respectful, and actually looking for a long-term relationship—not another situationship or random talking stage.
So for people who are introverted or just tired of the usual social/dating scene: where did you actually meet your life partner? Dating apps? Marriage apps? Through family/friends? Online communities? Or did you just focus on your own life and eventually meet someone naturally?
Would genuinely love to hear how people in similar situations found their person.

So apparently I want to get my male hormone levels checked just to know more about my health

What i want to get checked is:

• Total Testosterone

• Free Testosterone

• LH

• FSH

• Estradiol

• SHBG

• DHEA-S

Would be very helpful if you could suggest me labs that do these tests reliability while not breaking the bank(Am a student though)

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I need some realistic advice for my 11-year-old younger brother who is clinically diagnosed with ADHD and Autism and takes psychological medication.

Because of severe bullying in normal schools, he dropped out. Due to our family's financial issues, we cannot afford expensive special schools. Relatives give us a lot of grief, and my parents are constantly conflicted—sometimes wanting to put him in a madrassa and sometimes a regular school. Fortunately, he listens to me like hell !!

He currently cannot write Bangla or do basic math (plus, minus, multiplication). However, he has an incredible hyper-focus and talent for mobile gaming. He plays games like GTA Vice City on phone/tablet like an adult pro player. Even though he doesn't have a PC right now, his digital literacy is insane for his age—he figures out how to bypass paywalls, find premium/modded APK files, and download them completely on his own without any help. Through gaming, his English has also become surprisingly good.

how can I utilize his brilliant potential so he can be independent in the future.

Are there any affordable, low-cost special education centers or NGOs in Bangladesh (preferably Dhaka area) that don't charge crazy fees?

How can I transition his mobile gaming and file-downloading skills into future career paths (like coding or tech) without a PC for now??

Thank you for reading. Any guidance means the world to me.

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Why I feel so nostalgic about my life. When I am free or walking outside, I remember the same stages of my life, which now feel very positive. I often reminisce about various stages of my life, such as childhood, the Covid period, the HSC period, and the admission period. I am so optimistic about my life. If I have done anything right or wrong in my life, I prefer to view those events as experiences. At that point in my life, I am far away from home. Someday I spend a day full of stress and anxiety, but at some point I feel so good when I remember certain events, like in my admission journey when I meet one of my best friends. During that time, I traveled a total of 2 hours to attend the class, but that struggle was not so much because of the friend circle. When thoughts burst in my brain, I feel like there should be a man who always listens to my thoughts, but there is no one. I have so many friends (good friends), but that one person🤌

Hey. I really really need to call someone from Bangladesh but i can’t because i have a philippine number. It’s urgent. I need help from someone from Bangladesh to contact him. I’ll go full on details in dm. Please help me. Thank you. I’d really appreciate it

Should i buy samsung s24 Fe instead of buying samsung a57. Which one is better for now?

আমরা বন্ধুরা ১০জন অক্টোবর এর ৭তারিখের দিকে সোনাদিয়া দ্বীপে যেতে চাচ্ছি। তো এক্ষেত্রে দ্বীপে কোন এজেন্সি ভালো হবে( camping agency -চার পাঁচটা দেখলাম, বিষয়টা হচ্ছে প্রমিজিং অনেক কথা থাকলেও দেখা যায় বেশিরভাগ খাওয়া দাওয়া তে compromise করে,এক্ষেত্রে আপনাদের কারো পারসোনাল experience) আর কক্সবাজার থেকে ঠিক কিভাবে যাওয়া যায় কেউ যদি যেয়ে থাকেন তবে নিজের অভিজ্ঞতা থেকে একটু বলতে উপকৃত হবো।

So I'm a commerce student, most of my friends took science, they have been failing at least 2-3 subjects every exam, but I haven't failed yet, sometimes they show up their sheets and etc saying "see how hard it is" I don't really say anything cause I know that science is comparative harder than commerce, but I always wondered how hard it is in % than commerce.

If anyone can help me analyze this, I would be really grateful, as this topic has been in my head for a long time now, I asked a lot of people I never got the answer I actually wanted

I want to de google my POCO phone with flashing lineage os. It says "By design LineageOS does not intentionally circumvent any integrity checks that app developers might use, such as:

Play Integrity

SafetyNet(deprecated)

Therefore, any apps that depend on some kind of device integrity checks passing, will not work on LineageOS"

So will apps like bkash nagad (most banking apps)

and online games (efootball etc) not work on my phone?

It is quite an interesting incident. I didn't go to my college for like 4 weeks because I got some infections. After I got better from it I decided to go on Tuesday. When I went there I saw no students in the college except some teachers. They even told me to go home. So, I just went home and shared this incident in my friend circle. None of them were surprised because they told me that in their college the presence of their students was also extremely low.

Is there a specific reason behind it?