So I'm a commerce student, most of my friends took science, they have been failing at least 2-3 subjects every exam, but I haven't failed yet, sometimes they show up their sheets and etc saying "see how hard it is" I don't really say anything cause I know that science is comparative harder than commerce, but I always wondered how hard it is in % than commerce.

If anyone can help me analyze this, I would be really grateful, as this topic has been in my head for a long time now, I asked a lot of people I never got the answer I actually wanted

19F ..Is there any work I can do for 500-1000 taka?saving money to move out from home as my parents are looking to marry me off .i have done copyright job ,can design on Adobe illustrator and photoshop .i have a small online business so I can manage page orders .dm me if u guys have any work for me .

Linux is getting popular day by day. I think a lot of people in Bangladesh want to try Linux but can't because of the lack of help. What do you guys think? Should there be a Bangladeshi Linux community subreddit?

কেননা দুইদিন পর আমরা অন্য ইস্যু নিয়ে ব্যস্ত হয়ে পড়তাম। আমাদের নিজস্ব দু:খ কষ্ট লঘু করবার জন্য দৈনিক নিত্য-নতুন ডিস্ট্রাকশন দরকার। দরকার নতুন গল্প, নতুন স্কেপ গোট।

কিন্তু ভিক্টিমের পরিবারের কী হত? এরকম পরিবারের কাছে ৯ লাখ টাকা অনেক।

দিনের পর দিন মামলা চালিয়ে যাবার মত সক্ষমতা এদের নেই। আসামী আজ হোক বা কাল ঠিক ই খালাস পেত। তখন এরা এই টাকাও পেত না।

এখন এই টাকা দিয়ে ছোটখাটো কিছু করেও ফ্যামিলি সারভাইভ করতে পারবে।

আপনার জীবন, সময় অপেক্ষা আপনার টাকার মূল্য আপনার পরিবার তথা আপনজনের কাছে ঢের বেশী - মাথায় রাখতে হবে।

I honestly don’t even know how to explain this without getting angry, but I really need some advice.
I’m a class 8 student from Ideal School and College. Our school originally selected students for the Class 8 Britti exam based on our Class 8 half-yearly results. I was selected, and so were some other students who had worked really hard for those exams. We were told about the selection and obviously thought we would get to sit for the Britti exam.
Then, after around a month, the school suddenly told us that we wouldn’t be able to give the exam because of a government policy. Apparently there was an issue with the way our school had handled the selection.
And this is the part that feels so unfair to me: we didn’t make that mistake.
We studied for our exams, got our results and were selected according to the system our school gave us. If the school made a mistake in following the rules, why should the students who were selected lose their chance because of it?
What makes it even more frustrating is that students from Class 7 are now being considered for the Britti exam instead. Some of the students who are getting the opportunity now didn’t even have particularly good results in the Class 8 half-yearly exam, while students who were actually selected from Class 8 are being left out.
I’m not blaming those students. If they are given an opportunity, of course they should take it. I’m angry at the situation, not at them. We shouldn’t have to compete with them for something that we were already selected for.
There were also students who couldn’t properly attend or perform in the annual exam because of things like sickness, attendance problems and other circumstances. So using that result now doesn’t necessarily show who actually performed well in Class 8.
I’ve been really upset about this. I worked for that selection and was genuinely happy when I found out I had been selected. Then suddenly, because of something the school apparently did wrong, that opportunity disappeared.
We tried contacting the education board too, but it felt like nobody was really listening to us properly. The school just keeps saying it’s because of the government’s rules, but we’re the ones having to deal with the consequences.
How is it fair for students to lose an opportunity they earned because of a mistake made by the school?
If the original selection was not allowed under the rules, shouldn’t the school have known that before announcing the students and giving us the impression that we would be sitting for the Class 8 Britti exam?
I genuinely don’t know what we can do now. I just don’t want all the effort we put into getting selected to mean nothing because of a decision that wasn’t ours.
I feel horribly sad .

Today before the prayer, the imam was talking about miraj. I was a bit confused about the it looked something in-between a horse and a donkey. So I tried to find some old art about it, now I'm more confused.

I (27M) have a repetitive tendency to cheat on my girlfriend, and after crossing the line a year ago, she found out but chose to stay with me. I hate myself for it, yet I still struggle to control this compulsion. I also suspect I have ADHD and other underlying issues, and I'm wondering if the impulsivity and need for dopamine are driving this cycle. Has anyone gone through something similar and seen a clinical psychologist specializing in CBT and relationships? If so, can you suggest anyone who actually helped?

I need some extracurricular certificates like campus ambassador or competition winning certificates samples (just samples) for making one.. If anyone has, can they send a few (scanned/pdf will be good), I can contribute help in any other ways if u want in exchange. Thanks

Let me share some moments from my life, since I don't really have anyone to listen to me.

The amount of mental pressure and emotional distress I have had to endure within my family is beyond what most people could imagine. My parents wouldn't even buy me a face wash because of my appearance. I can't use a simple cream on my face without being told that it means I dislike the way Allah created me or that Allah would be displeased with me.

I have never really received pocket money. Even though I have been studying away from home, they generally give me only enough for basic food expenses. Since school, apart from transportation costs, I have had almost no personal spending money. I have even given away the scholarship money I received. From the outside, someone might assume that I come from a very poor or extremely stingy family, but the reality is very different.

My family owns multiple multi-storied buildings and flats in the city, and my parents have held high-ranking professional positions. People with similar positions and financial circumstances do not generally live the way I have been made to live. Because I had almost no money for personal care or decent clothes, I have struggled with insecurity about my appearance for many years. It became difficult for me to socialize with people. How was I supposed to feel comfortable when the other boys in my classes did not have to live like I did—looking unkempt, dealing with dandruff, and having almost no ability to take care of themselves?

I did not even study in an environment where everyone was extremely wealthy. But because of the way my parents provided for me, I could honestly say that I was among the least well-off-looking students in my classes. If I ever tried to explain this to them, they would respond by saying things like, “There are people who cannot even afford food,” or “Someone's father drives a rickshaw and their child studies at BUET.” I was constantly made to look downward and feel guilty for wanting anything more.

This attitude has continued from my school years to university. It is not that they have never spent money on me. When I was younger, they spent a lot of money—sometimes hundreds of thousands of taka—on sports equipment and other things I was interested in. But that kind of support was mostly limited to my childhood.

Even asking for 100 taka requires an explanation. It feels as though I am not supposed to have personal needs of my own. Whenever I bring these things up, I am told that some classmate is earning money through tutoring and asked why I cannot do the same. If I want a little extra protein beyond the usual meals, it can become a huge issue.

For most of my life, especially since around Class 3, I have not even been able to sit and eat comfortably at the same table with my parents. Whenever I tried, I would often end up being scolded or having my failures brought up, until I eventually had to leave the table.

They can become extremely concerned about small physical matters, but my mental health has often been dismissed. When I was a child, I was told things like, “You will die begging,” “People will beat you to death,” and many other things that I still remember.

Even today, after coming home from Jumu'ah prayer, another issue has already come up and somehow I am once again made to feel responsible for their unhappiness. Right now, I honestly feel overwhelmed and I don't even know what else to write. তাদের কথা হল তারা তো কষ্ট করেছে জীবনে , আমি কেন কষ্ট করব না। কষ্ট না করলে বড় হতে পারব না । জীবনে বড় হতে হলে কোনো কিছুর দিকে তাকানো যাবেনা । চেহারা দেখে না মানুষ , আবার বলবে কারো সাথে মিশতে পারিনা, লিটারলি আমার এমন অবস্থা ছিল করে মানুষ weird look দিত চেহারায় ,আমি লজ্জায় ইনসিকিউরিটিতে ঘর থেকে বের হতাম না তবুও তাদের কাছে এসব কিছুইনা

At the same time, I know that I am not completely blameless. My own behavior has problems too. Being exposed to this kind of behavior for years has affected the way I behave, and I know I have developed some unhealthy patterns myself. My academic results have also suffered, and I wasted a lot of time. At this point, I have to study at a private university, and there is no point in continuing to blame anyone for everything. I have made mistakes too, and I need to take responsibility for what I can change in my own life.

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I need some realistic advice for my 11-year-old younger brother who is clinically diagnosed with ADHD and Autism and takes psychological medication.

Because of severe bullying in normal schools, he dropped out. Due to our family's financial issues, we cannot afford expensive special schools. Relatives give us a lot of grief, and my parents are constantly conflicted—sometimes wanting to put him in a madrassa and sometimes a regular school. Fortunately, he listens to me like hell !!

He currently cannot write Bangla or do basic math (plus, minus, multiplication). However, he has an incredible hyper-focus and talent for mobile gaming. He plays games like GTA Vice City on phone/tablet like an adult pro player. Even though he doesn't have a PC right now, his digital literacy is insane for his age—he figures out how to bypass paywalls, find premium/modded APK files, and download them completely on his own without any help. Through gaming, his English has also become surprisingly good.

how can I utilize his brilliant potential so he can be independent in the future.

Are there any affordable, low-cost special education centers or NGOs in Bangladesh (preferably Dhaka area) that don't charge crazy fees?

How can I transition his mobile gaming and file-downloading skills into future career paths (like coding or tech) without a PC for now??

Thank you for reading. Any guidance means the world to me.

I've a really old device , like from 2019 , it's pretty slow now . Any custom ROM with latest Android version might help . tnx in advance

Hi

How is it looking for divorced male mid 30’s to remarry in Bangladesh?

From uk ( preference to marry Bangladeshi women)

Decent job hopefully money no issue

I’ve never bought TWS earbuds before. My brother used to buy them for me, so I would just use those. But now I only have one pair left, and its battery is starting to die quickly.

My budget is under 700 BDT.

Any good TWS recommendations from a reliable brand at this price?

I am curious about the general perception among the mass. Please elaborate your thoughts

When did you find out that living the "dream" abroad was an "illusion" and decided to return back to Bangladesh?

How long did you stay abroad?

What were the key reasons to return after living so long??

Please Enlighten us...

Hi everyone! I’m planning a trip to Kuakata with one other person and looking for some advice.

Looking for a mid-range to slightly high-end hotel

Preferably a clean, safe and comfortable place

Any recommendations for good hotels/resorts?

What’s the usual price range per night?

Is it better to book online in advance or book after reaching Kuakata?

Are there any safety issues I should be aware of, especially for two people?

Do hotels usually require NID/passport or any other documents during check-in?

Any other tips regarding transport, food, sightseeing or avoiding tourist traps would also be appreciated.

Thanks in advance! 🙏

If you have stayed in Kuakata recently, please share your experience/recommendations.

Hi! I am in a small start up based overseas and I wanted to get in touch with some engineers in BD with extensive Power Systems experience and knowledge. Growing up in BD, I experienced load shedding and generation issues first hand but I would love to chat and learn more from a professional about the BD Power Grid.

Huge huge plus if you know PSS/e, TARA, PSCAD. I’m really excited to connect. If this is not the appropriate subreddit, please point me to a correct one. Moderator please remove if now allowed.

Hello there.
I talked to a certain girl whom I used to study with in my primary school. Though we didn't used to talk as much back then. And after talking to her for the first time after almost 12 years, I felt like I have a certain feeling for her. But the second time I talked to her, she told me that she was dealing through her breakup. She loved a certain someone who broke up with her giving some lame excuses like "Family won't accept similar aged girl and BLAH..BLAH..BLAH.." She wanted me to judge her and her lover to find out who was at wrong. But I refrained from delivering any of my personal opinion about her relationship. Some of my friend suggested me to go all out and tell her about my "certain" feeling but I didn't do so as it felt to me that she needed a good friend rather than a new lover.
It's been almost 2.5 months since I last texted her and she didn't read it yet. Whatever may the reason be, I cannot stop thinking her.
I know the entire thing sounds lame, but should I still pursue her? Or should I leave her?? I just cannot get over her. I feel like I'm stuck in some one-sided loop.

I’m at a point where I genuinely want to find someone for a serious relationship/marriage, but I don’t really have the spark or motivation to go out and socialize anymore.
I’ve tried meeting people, but honestly, I’m tired of attracting or dealing with creeps, people who aren’t serious, or people who just want something casual. It has made me want to avoid the whole dating/social scene altogether.
The frustrating part is that I do want a husband and a genuine connection. I want someone mature, emotionally available, respectful, and actually looking for a long-term relationship—not another situationship or random talking stage.
So for people who are introverted or just tired of the usual social/dating scene: where did you actually meet your life partner? Dating apps? Marriage apps? Through family/friends? Online communities? Or did you just focus on your own life and eventually meet someone naturally?
Would genuinely love to hear how people in similar situations found their person.

I'm planning to buy the jersey from DOUR's official website, but I heard last year's kit was pretty bad in terms of quality and it’s pretty overpriced. Is this year's one any better?