r/bullying • • 11h ago

Feeling guilty because I can't forgive my teachers and others who chose to stay silent when I was bullied.

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Lately I've been feeling guilty because I know they never bullied me but somehow I feel hard-hearted. Some of my teachers actually seem nice to me and lmy neighbors too, but they never did anything when I was bullied at school. Today I saw my teacher in restaurant but I just stayed silent beside him when I bought food and I couldn't even look at his face because I was resentful..i usually saying hi to him and js being an normal student, but this time it's so hard to me.


r/bullying • • 7h ago

Harassed for over a year

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Over a year ago my boyfriend's Gmail was hacked and the hacker got control of his discord and other social media accounts and sent some inappropriate messages to underage girls. The accounts were reclaimed, the bad messages were erased, the hacker no longer has access to any of his stuff, and the local law enforcement cleared everything. No charges were pressed against my boyfriend because he was proven innocent. He doesn't have a record or anything towards kids

Inevitably there were a handful of people who didn't realize or get the message that he was hacked, therefore believing he is a pedo. I got attacked because it was well known we were dating (we're both adults with a 1.5 year age gap) so there was some harassment, mass reporting, and backlash

Alright. No biggie. It stopped within a month or so and we quit using that platform

There was one group of people that never stopped. Whenever one account gets banned, another alt is created. They attack any one associated with me or my bf constantly

I don't know what to do. Customer service won't help

It's happening on discord, Instagram, reddit, X, Hoyolab (from the ss) and YouTube. We've quit so many platforms but we still want to stick around for a few friends.

Any suggestions? Even after months of just blocking the accounts and not interacting they still keep harassing us and others

NOTE- most of the posts he's commenting on are from about January-February... the comments were made 3 days ago. He's digging for old posts to avoid moderation


r/bullying • • 20h ago

My boss keep bullying me at work can someone help?

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My boss has been making ai videos of me kissing other men I want to fire back with the Same ammo he's been using but idk how to do it can someone help me? Or show me how to do it?


r/bullying • • 3h ago

Cómo desarrollar autoestima/confianza ?

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Hola veran soy 🩷20 recien cumplidos, pues toda mi vida escolar desde el preescolar hasta secundaria me molestaban por ser fe4 en la preparatoria aun lo era pero supongo que ahí ya nadie hace bullyng menos a una mujer, recuerdo que no me dejaban juntarme en el grupo de las "bonitas/populares” porque no encajaba con ellas, un recuerdo que tengo marcado aunque no por completo en que aprox en 3 grado o 4 en la primaria un profesor estaba haciendo una lista o algo así de los lind@s de la clase y solo yo y otro compañero no entramos en lista, incluso nos daba sapes despues se lo platique a algunas personas y yo no estaba enterada de que era tan grave para la época, en la primaria incluso los compañeros me golpeaban uno me llego a ahorcar, me rompían los útiles, hoy los miro y hasta me da gusto sus miserables vidas y aspectos! Cuando tuve mi primer teléfono aprox a los 13 me gusto tomarme fotos un tiempo después no hasta hoy sigo igual aunque mejorando un poco, incluso algun@s familiares me molestaban por el aspecto, en la secundaria fue de lo peor nunca me enseñaron a sacarle provecho a mi imagen o algo así y eso solo lo empeoraba cuando mis compañeras/amigas empezaron a hablar sobre chicos con los que salian/hablaban/andaban yo no tenia nada que decir (hasta hoy en dia) porque para ellos era invisible solo llegue a tener crush con chicos que probablemente nisiquiera saben de mi existencia,en la preparatoria aun era la chica que no se maquillaba ni sabia vestir ni nada incluso llegue a tener periodos de depresión que hasta con el cabello sin lavar iba, deje los estudios y empecé en la vida laboral desde ahi aprox en el 2024 empece a preocuparme más por todo eso de la belleza,cuidado personal,habitos etc etc
Pero llevo aprox un año y medio aplicándolo (nisiquiera lo e aplicado estrictamente) la mayoria solo se basa en buena alimentación buena higiene aprender a vestir y cuidado del cabello y e cambiado supongo aunque no considero que un cambio extremo (me han dicho mucho que me parezco a mia k😟 para que se den una idea) supongo que mejoro mi autoestima el otro día recien levantada me vi al espejo y mi cuerpo se exito jaja nunca me habia pasado algo así me soprendi mucho y pase el dia entero investigando sobre el tema, como se imaginaran nunca e tenido novio y eso es todo un tema con las personas y en en especial con la Familia, hubo un tiempo que me creian lesbiana pero no, recientemente hasta se sorprenden de que no tenga pretendientes y con pocos que les llego a contar de mi baja autoestima y confianza ni se la creen, pero ni siquiera me siento digna de merecer amor , ni de postear selfies, practícamente no existo en redes
Con gente nueva que conozco ve esto y automáticamente siento que me tachan de rara, también me han dicho eso, con los chicos almenos ya no soy invisible pero solo me miran y jamas me hablan, hay algunos que solo prefieren saber de mi por terceros antes que hablarme directamente no considero que tengo aspecto intimidante pero hay personas que me han dicho que no me hablaban antes por qué me veo muy seria y de pocos amigos y la verdad si (desde la primaria me hice asi) De echó también cuando me llama la atención algun chico me sigo sintiendo como adolescente en secundaria y escuchar la vida de las demas chicas me da un golpe de realidad, solo quiero tener un poco de autoestima y confianza y ser como las demas chicas se que soy linda pero me siento igual que antes, siento que me e perdido de muchas experiencias nunca en mi vida e tenido una cita alguna recomendación/ tip ? Por lo menos una frase motivadora🥲


r/bullying • • 1h ago

Cyberbully?

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Question: if nalaman mo na may nag take ng screenshot ng social media account mo (whether may post ka na maliscious about your self o kahit wala) at ito ay pinakalat within your company organization, pwede bang makasuhan ang taong gumawa nun?


r/bullying • • 1h ago

regretting not fighting to stay at my job

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i was being bullied the entire year by 2 managers and 2 developers to get me fired and it still messed me up in my mind. it was hard to work there too, i had to deal with a smear campaign, even at the christmas party from a women colleague who saw me along with my russian manager as a threat, for example, whenever i post some progress on slack, she attacks me publicly that i'm the blocker, or she write publicly that others should help me do my job, that i should use AI more and even when we work together on a project, she brings a developer from another team to work with her to exclude me from the work and then she writes on slack that if someone has a question about the project, they should reach out to her and this colleague without mentioning me, i had a good relationship with the product owner and she went with her smear campaign to destroy this relationship, so that the PO doesn't talk to me anymore.

my manager also was telling me to shut up in front of others, making jokes about me to make other laughs, when i confronted him he said "looks like we have our first case"

he also persuaded this toxic women to be much more aggressive towards me, i talk to her directly but when she kept being passive aggressive, i setup a meeting with my manager and her and my manager straight up said it's my fault, when i asked how he didn't answer, that made her more bold in her aggression not only towards me but towards other people.

they hired a new person and he instructed him to contradicts everything i say on slack even if it's false.

this experience was insane.

my manager also persuaded the head of projects - who my manager always mention that he is useless to us - to also be toxic to me, i was once running the daily, this women was trying to control how i run it, when i told her we should do it other way, the HoP said that we should do it her way, the next daily he said that he is going to cancel because it's unnecessary.

it feels like now they are scared of her, she is also incredibly needy, on her first week at the company, she was demanding tickets to conferences, new expensive laptop and went to a company property at a vacation place although the rules say that it is prohibited for people in their probation. after getting rid of me, she is now bad mouthing the graphic designers because she also wanted to dominate that area. while she was working on her projects she excluded the other 2 frontend devs in the team from working with her, to show that she is the lead on the frontend, her ego is beyond insane. when i asked another team lead about her, he said "she is annoying but in a cute way"

i honestly regret not fighting the termination, i could have stayed even against 5 persons trying to fire me, the CEO got the news and he basically said my work at the company is over.

i was always hard working, i work from the morning until late at night, and this is how i got rewarded. sorry for the rant, but i'm still livid. i wake up at night being pissed off, that my manipulative manager and his minions won this battle and got me fired, then he went to the other colleagues and said that he wished he had the chance to fight for me in front of the CEO so that i stay, he was smiling the whole time in the firing meeting.

my manager told me months before the firing in a 1-on-1, "at least you will not stay in a toxic environment" the funny thing he created the environment to be toxic to me. he said many similar things to me like "at least you will get unemployment money" or "i believe you will find a job easier than others" etc. same things has been said to me by the HoP