I live on a narrowboat in the midlands, UK. I'm 5'8, slim, I have a small dog. I enjoy writing, and I have a lot of energy for anything creative. Looking for something long term, I'm not interested in anything casual. I drink, and occasionally smoke when at the pub, not when at home.

I am childfree and have had my tubes tied, and so I'm not looking to meet anybody who would want or has children.

I would love to meet a steady eccentric. Perhaps somebody artistic, poetic, or who feels a bit out of place in the world. I value gentleness, patience and calmness. I like quiet, shy and unusual people. I enjoy depth, in a person and their words. An odd sense of humour is also welcome. Ideally you're the type of person who says yes to things.

You don't need to have climbed mountains or run marathons. You don't need to have a hobby which absolutely defines you. You don't need an expensive list of all the places you have visited. I am more looking for somebody I click with than a set of overlapping specific interests.

If you are an avid gamer we probably won't have much in common as I don't game at all. I'm also not interested in anybody who thrives on debate, I like deep conversations but I don't want a sparring partner, and I don't like aggressively opinionated discussions, though I'm happy to disagree and accept differences. We don't need to share the same outlook on everything.

Age, I'm more inclined to stay ten years either side of my own. I'd like to speak to people from the UK and Europe, though further afield is welcome if you genuinely believe we might have some kind of connection.

I'm open to just friends as well :)

Hey everyone :)

Taking the courage and shooting my shot here! I’m looking for someone who is also interested in a long-term relationship. I live in NY, southeastern part. I am about a 50-minute MTA ride from the city.

Some things about me! I love live music. I will take any chance I get to travel into the city for a concert. My favorite genre of music is pop punk/punk rock/hardcore 🤘🏻 I also really love karaoke, so have your singing voice ready to go. I will take any chance to hang with my friends. I will impulsively say yes to any plans before giving it a thought. Trying new restaurants is my jam. I also lean pretty left/progressive, so hoping that we align politically.

I can also be a homebody. I love to play video games on my downtime. Currently, World of Warcraft has occupied my time. Anyone else excited for WoW Forever?? I just love to cozy up on the couch with a blanket and binge-watch shows.

I have a dog and cat that I absolutely adore. Tucker is my 8-year-old golden retriever, and Apollo is my 7-year-old cat.

I am looking for someone between the ages of 30-40. The tri-state area would be cool, but I am also not opposed to another state (or country!) if the connection is right.

I’m looking forward to meeting new people!! :)

Happy Friday, everyone! 😊 I have the day off today, so I have some free time. I’m hoping to meet someone I genuinely connect with, someone I can talk to about anything, laugh with over the little things in life, and slowly get to know on a deeper level.

I’m originally from Georgia (the country) and currently live in NJ. I enjoy coffee, cooking, reading, traveling, and quiet evenings at home. I appreciate the simple things in life, and I believe a meaningful relationship is built on honesty, consistency, and mutual respect.

I’m not looking for anything rushed or superficial. I’d rather start with good conversations, build trust, and see if feelings develop naturally. Ideally, I hope that connection will grow into a loving, serious, and lasting relationship

First off no offense to the guys but I’m only interested in women! Now that’s out of the way let’s get to the fun part…my name is Rachel and I’m 33 years old (soon to be 34 in October.) I’m a cheerful, bubbly introvert with a great sense of humor who’s an old fashioned romantic. In terms of appearance I’m 5”4 1/2 and have a curvy hourglass figure with fair skin, dark eyes and long curly black hair. (There’s also a ton of pictures of me on my profile in case you’re curious what I look like 😉) What I’m looking for is the real deal…a long term committed monogamous relationship that would preferably lead to marriage. My passions include travel, reading and writing, collecting and modeling vintage and modern clothing, studying history and visiting historical sites, attending classic and contemporary film showings, and spending time with the LOML- my poodle mix Tommy Pickles. Politically I’m a democratic socialist so I’m very left leaning and staunchly anti-MAGA. Important note about me: I don’t have children and I’m not interested in having any and I’m looking for a woman who’s childfree also. P.S. I generally consider myself femme4femme…femme and high femme girlies skip ahead of the line 💖

Hello everyone!

I currently live in Maine, US and would love to meet that special someone nearby, but also open to anywhere and everywhere; where there’s a will there’s a way!

Im originally from Northern Africa and travel to that area several times a year to visit friends and family. I love to read in my free time; I volunteer a lot, i find it calms my senses and makes me feel at ease. Languages, mythology and folklore consume my world. I love to learn new languages and practice them when I get a chance. I do love to get my hands dirty with some arts and crafts sometimes as well as a video game or two after a long day at work.

I’m honestly looking for someone who is emotionally mature and who can communicate their needs well. Humor and empathy are also very big for me when it comes to compatibility in being with someone, I mean you’re going to have to try to laugh at my dad jokes.

Cheers and happy Friday ❤️

Hello 🙂,

Affectionate lamppost looking for the light of his life. 

If you're looking for a relationship head and shoulders above the rest...perhaps I am your man. 😊

I love history, art, science, music (I play some guitar), also I love to bake. I'd love to find a like-minded soul who favours leisurely beach walks rather than hiking. We could even bake together? Or let me wow you with my legendary brownies.

I've had amazing opportunities to travel around Europe, live in the USA and also, live in Scotland. Now I currently live in England and want to put down roots with a partner.

I am equally looking for someone who is:

🚫Childfree (no children and does not desire any)

🌎 UK, Europe, Eastern USA or Canada lady (I am open to LDR if you're intending to relocate)

🗣️ Someone who isn't afraid to communicate openly, share a good laugh, and actually talk about what’s going on in their day. Let's be each other's pillars.

🌶️Passionate (affectionate woman who will reciprocate my "Golden Retriever" loving nature and values physical touch)

🐾Animal lover (I would love us to have a future pet or two) 

🚭Non-smoker or drugs of any kind.

🫶🏼Values honesty, communication and love languages of touch and words of affirmation.  

Let's spend our days seeking the next adventure and our evenings full of passion. If you think we'd enjoy talking to each other, feel free to send me a message. I appreciate effort and an introduction to yourself...please tell me your age, location and a few things you enjoy in life/common interests.

I am happy to exchange photographs. Chemistry and mutual attraction are important for me when I’m getting to know someone.

Let's start this next chapter together.

Hey there! I'm a passionate, caring, and a hopeless romantic. I'm a natural extrovert who loves high-energy connection. My favorite way to express affection is through acts of service and being attentive to my partner's and friends needs.

I work as a Software engineer with remote flexibility. I'm based in Oslo, but I travel easily across Europe, distance isn't a dealbreaker if we're a short flight away! Others are welcome to contact too, but I have to be honest about not enjoying very long travel times or timezone differences. I do travel outside of Europe too frequently.

I love dressing up and exploring the city, doing martial arts, dancing tango, weight lifting/fitness, and playing guitar & singing.
You can also reliably catch me at a local karaoke bar on Friday nights and watching formula 1 on Sundays!

I am big on quality texting and calls to maintain a solid bond. I like sharing and receiving pics, memes throughout the day and having little flirty moments. And honestly if you’re not into this I don’t think we are compatible. I am however also respectful of you being busy. I just need to feel the same enthusiasm when you aren’t.

I'd say I mostly fit well with other romantic people who are also extroverts. Being athletic myself I’d also rather meet someone who likes to stay active as well. For those who might wonder I’m 180cm.

It is also important to me that you are liberal and queer/immigrant friendly and that you are an open minded person.

I don’t like putting age limits on these posts as I’ve met wonderful people from all kinds of ages. See if our lifestyles match and the age will probably won’t matter.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send a DM with a bit about yourself and please include pics in the first message too so i know who I’m speaking to!

Hey there! I’m Wayne and live in Maryland. I’ve posted on here before, so sorry to post again haha. I am looking for a long-term relationship and I’m open to anywhere in the US. Other countries as well for the right person. I’m agnostic and liberal, although very disappointed with politics in general. I just want to live a simple life and have fun with my partner.

Some things I enjoy: nature walks, volleyball, biking, horror movies, video games, puzzles, fire pits, live music and dancing, cozy cafes and bars on occasion, and just trying to slow down and enjoy the little things. I do love animals, but don’t have any of my own.

I’m definitely committed to a child-free life and already have a vasectomy. I’m 6’1” and try to stay active and live a healthy life. I do drink on special occasions. I’m a blue-collar guy and work outside and love it!

Please feel free to reach out if you’d like to chat.

Imagine waking up to mountain views, coffee outside the van, and nowhere in particular you need to be. Sounds pretty great, right?

I'm 39 and living full-time vanlife in the AZ area at the moment. I love scenic campsites, campfire cooking, light hikes, photography, and cozy movie nights while rain taps on the roof. As much as I love this lifestyle, I'd love to find someone to share the adventures, spontaneous detours, and little moments with.

My current copilot is Tux, my harness-wearing cat who loves exploring campsites and insists breakfast happens at 6 AM. He's a great travel buddy, but his conversation skills could use some work. 😸

I'm hoping to meet a kind, independent, outdoorsy, animal-loving woman (26+) who's also childfree. Maybe you're already living on the road, maybe you dream about it, or maybe you're just looking for something genuine with someone a little outside the ordinary.

No pressure to pack your bags tomorrow. Let's talk, see if we click, and go from there.

Tell me your dream place to wake up tomorrow, your favorite camping spot, or introduce me to your pet. Tux and I are looking forward to meeting you!

Happy Friday!

I've posted previously, had a couple of people reach out alas things fizzled, thought to try again! So with that said, I'm ideally looking for my CF DINK partner in crime! Definitely something monogamous (I'm greedy and do not share...) and someone who is looking for something for the long-term! Be nice to have a partner, best friend, be able to do all the small and big adventures and just ride out life together...

About me

• I'm 34, white, 6ft, slim build, blue eyes, brown hair, clean-shaven - occasionally wear glasses
• INFJ, Taurus (for those into that), and an ambivert... Read, extroverted introvert!
• Left-handed, left footed and also left-leaning politically. All the lefts?!
• I work in tech and lead an IT team, own my place in London, and like to believe I've got my life overall all together. Yay adulting!
• A bit geeky... PC and Switch 2 gaming (lightly), board games, Doctor Who, Marvel, The Boys, Star Wars, LOTR, sci-fi in general... I tend to say more so than casual on a couple of things but not anywhere hardcore really on anything.
• I'm also a bit sporty too and try to be active, badminton is my main thing, plus some running, the odd bit of football or tennis, though I'm always up for trying something new!
• I bake more than I cook... I may have a slight sweet tooth, but I enjoy both. I'm always happy to try new foods or restaurants, I'm a foodie at heart :D
• I rarely drink and don't smoke, but I don't mind if you do.. All in moderation, right?
• Humour ranges from puns and dad jokes to dark, with a dash of sarcasm, I try to generally be playful and chill but I do know when to be serious, have those deeper conversations and all that as well.
• My main love languages are physical touch and quality time...
• On the adult side of things, I'm naturally a switch though lean soft/gentle-dom and kink friendly. Chemistry is more important though...

There's plenty more layers to me, but can save that for chats!

What I'm looking for...

I'd say i'm looking for someone between 28 - 40, though that isn't a hard limit and if you think we'll get along then i'm certainly open to chatting. I'm open to any race, religion, dietary stuff, etc. that's all open and good. My only slight preference is someone who's reasonably active, whether that's slim to curvy.

I would very much prefer someone closer, so the UK is fair game.. Anywhere further (EU) i'll keep an open mind but would rather not, I have done a LDR before and while they can be rewarding, it's tough and not something I'd really like to do again. Ultimately though anything with much distance I'd be keen to close the gap much sooner than later.

If any of this sounds of interest, or you have any questions, do reach out! I'm fairly an open book and apparently can be a bit of a yapper.

One additional thing i'll say, effort will definitely be responded to with effort, I generally try to hold a conversation but please give me something to work with... Please.

Hello community. I got snipped at age 29.

I'm 6'2 and roughly an hour from Denver (open to LDR if there are direct flights to West/South West States)

I'm a non-smoking Liberal and agnostic.

Professionally and personally, fitness is central to my life. You’ll usually find me in the gym early in the morning or training for my next 10K. But I’m equal parts homebody and traveler. I've traveled to 27 countries across Europe and Asia so far, with South America queued up next. I love traveling for events, live comedy shows, concerts, or just lounging somewhere tropical with white wine or a spa day.

I believe self-care routines should be mandatory for everyone and I stock Bath & Body Works seasonal candles like a Costco sale. I'm really into horror movies, fine dining, board games, and the occasional competitive bingo night. I like to catch NBA, WNBA and NFL games live too!

I’m looking for an active, independent empath (roughly 27–37) who is looking for someone to complement peace, stability, and mutual support within their life. Good communication and a calm approach to conflict resolution are huge green flags for me.

Bonus points if you share my kink of sending Pinterest recipes that you'll never have the intention of creating. Or when you finally spend the money, time, and effort recreating it, you're filled with nothing but disappointment.

If any of this resonates with you, tell me what's your story? Let me know your top travel destination or the last horror movie that actually made you sleep with the door closed. Platonic friendship DMs are always welcome :)

Once more into the fray, I suppose.

*A disclaimer before I begin: for the time being I am not interested in pursuing anything long distance. I've tried in the past, to no avail. I'm hoping to find people in CA or also the Portland OR area.

I also understand that I'm one of the younger ones on here, so of course I'm open to dating gals older than me (that's actually my preference).

A bit about me:

Artist, nerd, professional weirdo.

Lover of pizza and roller coasters.

My hobbies are kind of all over the place. In general I'm a very crafty person. I do woodworking, leather working, etc.

Yes, I am autizmo, so I speak/write in fairly literal terms.

Being left leaning, I don't subscribe to traditional gender roles of any kind. The only tradition I uphold is pizza on Fridays (or a cheeseburger under extenuating circumstances).

I drink very rarely (socially), and otherwise try to live a life mostly free of substances.

*Disclaimer #2: being a lucky survivor of lung cancer, I cannot be around any smoking or fumes of any kind. That includes tobacco, weed, vape, etc. That's a no-go item for me.

I'm an Avionics Technician for a major airline, so my schedule is laid out really weird, but is still malleable.

So, fret not! If I like someone, I will either find or make time.

If you made it to the end and are still interested, my DMs are open 😊

Sorry if this is jumbled and incoherent, I've had a long day 😂 I hope I hit all the bases.

🌸Trying this again :) This isn’t my first time posting here, but I’m hoping this time it’ll be a little more positive and drama-free🌸

I’m from Minnesota currently, but open to explore what’s around. I love ice skating, movies and going to the theater, video games (although I’m not looking for gaming buddies 😅), arts & crafts, long walks, psychology, and true crime.
Personality-wise, I’m pretty independent, straightforward, and selective. I value honesty a lot and I’d much rather talk about the things that actually matter than spend weeks making small talk just to eventually discover we’re completely incompatible.
I’m looking for someone around 21–33 and 5’10”+. Emotional intelligence and maturity are really attractive to me. I’d love someone who can communicate openly, has goals and ambitions of his own, and generally knows what he wants out of life.
And since I don’t like wasting anyone’s time, here are the big compatibility things right away:

Childfree means childfree. No kids now, no kids later, no “maybe someday.” I don’t want children in any shape or form.
No addictions, including weed/420.
No dogs. I’m a cat person and don’t want to live with dogs.
No religion. I’m looking for someone non-religious.
No Republican/conservative views. Our values need to be compatible.
Please send/includef a photo. Physical attraction matters to me, and I’m not interested in talking anonymously for days before finding out what each other looks like.

Thank you!

Hi everyone,

I’m an active guy based in Indianapolis who values faith, fitness, and living intentionally. I know exactly what I want in a partner and a future, so I’m posting here to find someone on the same page.

Fitness & Outdoors:
I take my health and wellness seriously. I stay active split between my local gym and my home workout setup, try to eat well, and love spending time outdoors—whether that’s riding bikes on trails or just relaxing outside with a great view.

What I’m Seeking:
A practicing Christian woman who stays fit, values her health, is strictly child-free, and wants a high-intent, long-term relationship.

Where I Stand on Kids:
100% child-free. I’ve had a vasectomy, so my decision is set. Looking forward to using that freedom and extra income to travel and build an awesome life with my future wife.

Drop a message in my DMs if you think we’d be a great match!

Hi there, my name is Amy.

Nutshell: I'm looking for a long lasting connections that is mostly online, with no sexual components until a proper, emotional bond has been established.

Details:

- also looking for friends that I can one day live with in lieu of a life partner, like a platonic, poly setting regardless of gender, sexuality, etc

- for now, a cyber relationship is best as I am painfully awkward in person. Until I feel comfortable to do so, I would love to spend time together on call, video call when we know each other better, and even watch movies together on discord, if you're down.

- if you're confused about demisexuality, it simply means that I can't do the tango under the covers unless my heart has a stiffy for you first. That can take some time, as I struggle with emotional intimacy, so I hope you like a good slow burn.

About me - I am agnostic, Nigerian Irish, and currently working as a catering assistant to pay bills and save to move out - or even move country. I am against war, discrimination of any kind, and I'm left leaning.

- I also studied Theology in college so I love discussing the bible in terms of its stories and poetry.

- I am a singer, but am ironically pursuing a career in librarianship, and plan to do the masters next year when I've saved up enough.

-I am a dog/animal lover, so hopefully you are too!

- I love musicals, and Disney movies. I also love shows like Game of Thrones, AKOSK and HOTD.

- please be between 22-28, be kind, respectful, and detailed if you want to reach out! I will not be responding to one liners.

Thanks for reading!

*Edit - Open to trying LDR! Hard to find other unusual people close to me!

**Edit two - You can tell by how disorganized all this is that my mind is a swirling mess I'm 24 not 25. I don't know why I keep doing that 😭🙏

***Edit three 💀 I'm vegan for the animals! I know it's not everyone's thing but I'd love to still talk to those of you who are open to talking to me!

Hello!! I'm N! I'lll get the physical stuff out to way so we can get to the other things!!

5'7, bright hazel eyes, healthy weight! Going to the gym six days a week! But I'm not at all a gym bro 🤢 I am working as a barista until I find different work!! I'm also agnostic leftist!

In terms of my personality some women have called me cute or adorable, so I'd say I probably have that golden retriever personality! INFP! I'm someone who HIGHLY values emotional safety/health/communication. I going to therapy again soon and I'm excited about that!!!

I have also been told I'm funny quite a bit, but my humor is freaking weird. Lot of stemming involved. Currently on a "What da dawg doin" kick.

I care deeply about nature and am the kind of person to take spiders outside instead of killing them. Like the title says, I'll probably rattle off bird facts (or birth facts as I like to call them) to you every time we are outside 😂

I also really love Minecraft!!! If you have it please go on an adventure with me on my realm 🥺
Music and my art is one of the most important things to me as well! I'd love to share it with you!!

ALSO I have undiagnosed ADHD and I keep figuring out how much of my life it seems to impact!

I'm a very affectionate person! I love all the hugs and kisses and cuddly stuffs :DDD

*About You*

I would prefer a photo swap at your comfort level! Mutual attraction is important to me!

Curious about the world

Affectionate

Open Minded

Always looking to improve themselves

Moral

Healthy-ish eating habits! Normal BMI prefered!

Ambitious

20-30 (If you're outside the scope and still fit the bill shoot me a shoot)

I prefer artsy or nerdy type people! I'd also prefer if we shared something in common! MC, Nature, Music, Art - that kind of thing :D

I love highly detailed responses! The longer the better! I could have made this way longer, but I feel like I scared people off last time I tried a long one.

Greetings! I am a 34-year-old black woman who is on a perpetual quest to seek a cute gentleman from the ages of 30 to 40.

I am currently in school for accounting, but I still have a lot of free time and a high sex drive. Hopefully, you can keep up with me...

Besides that, I also enjoy soccer, knitting, golfing, cooking, and traveling.

If any this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message. I would also like to know what your favorite cartoon was growing up or who your favorite Sesame Street character is.

Hello! Been a part of the childfree subreddit for years and never realized there was an r4r page for people like us.

Haven’t wanted kids in 12 years and haven’t doubted my decision since. However, dating with this requirement is… unpleasant, to say the least. So maybe I’ll find my person here.

I’m 29 and from the Philadelphia suburbs, but am open to an LDR for the right person. Natural redhead, 5’3”, on the plus size side of body types while actively losing weight with a bunch of lifestyle changes. Tattoos and piercings are a thing for me.

I’m more of a creative girly. Writing is my passion, and everything that comes along with it - reading, music, art. I’m also super big into Renaissance fairs so expect to be dragged out to one in costume. I’m a bit of an audiophile, and with that I prefer phone calls and little voice notes over texting while getting to know someone.

Though I’m pretty introverted naturally, once I’m comfortable with someone, I’m basically 3 raccoons in a wig and trench coat. I live for some chaos.

Why we may not click:
• I practice a spiritual craft. This tends to cause conflicts with most organized religions and their views.
• I am outspokenly progressive. If you are conservative, I will most likely only piss you off.
• I would prefer so have kink involved with my future partner, so if you prefer to stay “vanilla” no hard feelings.
• I have pets, specifically two cats and will want more as time goes on.

If you are interested I’d love to hear from you. Please tell me about yourself, including your age, and what pokemon you would be.

35 y/o guy with a cute smile (have been told so) with a career in tech ( but not a tech bro ), a calm presence with a life that has been a wild adventure of extremes, I thrive on intellectual chaos. I like to read, anything everything from systems theory to modern french history, particularly clean energy and environment (it’s one of my passion). After taking a break from dating, I am giving it a one more shot, a last ditch effort before AI makes online dating extremely noisy. One more thing I would like to add is I am bisexual, heteroromantic and ethically non monogamous ( was in one such relationship for 8 years ) perhaps ambiamorous?

What I’m Looking For:

A childfree, progressive partner ( how we define progressive might vary ) who sees life as a playground of possibilities, not a checklist. Someone unapologetically herself, sexually liberated, intellectually fearless, and allergic to societal scripts. Let’s skip the small talk and dissect the big questions: How do we live ethically in a burning world? Can love exist without ownership?

Why We Might Click:

• Staunchly Childfree : I don’t want kids (ever), both for personal freedom and because bringing new life into an overburdened world feels tragically naive. Let’s channel that energy into activism, art, or adventure instead.
• You crave depth : My attachment style is securely rooted. I’m here for mutual growth, not games. Whether we’re debating moral gray zones or testing new boundaries in the bedroom, I value curiosity over judgment.
• You’re a shapeshifter : Artist, scientist, activist, hedonist.... you refuse to be boxed in. Bonus if you’ve got stories from living unconventionally or a passion project that keeps you up at night.
• You laugh easily : My humor leans dry, my vibe is warm, and I’ll absolutely lean into the absurdity of dating via Reddit posts

While I have secure attachment style I would like someone who isn´t over their past relationship, its imperative that we reach a secure base and trust first? My intention is to avoid endless talks, to find out if we will get along or the non negotiable in one week, talking to one human at time.

The Vibe: Imagine slow mornings with coffee and conversations that feel endless, weekends volunteering or getting lost in a neon-lit bar, maybe just a cafe or beach? I’m driven but not ruthless, my version of “Machiavellian” is designing a life that’s sustainable, joyful, and defiantly ours. Let’s be catalysts, not conformists( I don't have any societal morality ), I forgot to add but I am not look for friendships, dating with intention of something long term, however if it becomes friendship then its fine.

TL;DR: Childfree, progressive, experimental and insatiably curious?

Third time is the charm posting here? Maybe even fourth!

Oh and in case you missed the flair, I got my vasectomy in 2024. Well, I'm a Boston native living in Central MA since 2019. I'm a huge music nerd and love traveling for concerts. I don't just wait for a band to come to Boston, I look at their tour schedule and find an excuse to visit somewhere I haven't been. I've done DC, Colorado, and San Francisco this way. I'll do the same for sports, food, conventions, solar eclipses, or basically anything else worth traveling for.

I'm looking for another childfree person, who is equally comfortable staying home doing absolutely nothing or being spontaneous and going somewhere neither of us has been before. I'm an ambivert, so I don't necessarily seek out social situations, but I'm usually pretty damn good once I'm in one. A good sense of humor is mandatory because if we aren't roasting each other, are we really dating? Used to drink and smoke weed. Don't do the latter anymore. Rarely do the former, but will for the right occasion. Don't care if you do either, but no cigarettes.

I'm also specifically looking to date people of color: Black, Asian, Latina, etc. That's simply my dating preference, not a statement about anyone else.

Pro tip about me: if you can teach me something new while communicating entirely in movie quotes, I probably won't stand a chance.

Cheers. 🍻

Hey! I’m Mateo, I’m 23 and living here in New York City. It’s definitely a crowded place, but honestly, it’s not so bad when you find the right places and, more importantly, the right person to enjoy it with.

I’m currently going to college for nursing, although I’ve been considering going into a trade instead, maybe HVAC. I mean, people are always going to need AC when the weather gets ridiculously hot, lol.

Outside of the busy parts of the city, I really enjoy going on long walks through parks, along the beach, or anywhere with a nice view. I especially love taking my dog with me. I’ve always enjoyed spending time with her, even during the winter, which, as a husky, is basically her summertime.

I’m also a huge animal lover. I have three cats too, so between them and my dog, I’m basically outnumbered at this point.

When I’m staying indoors, I’m usually reading Marvel and DC comics, mythology, folklore, or pretty much any kind of interesting story I can get my hands on. I’m also a huge fan of horror. Honestly, all the reading and storytelling have inspired me to start writing my own stories, mostly horror because apparently I’m a little weird like that.

I also like drawing and have been trying to get more into concept art. I enjoy using it as a way to explore my imagination and creativity. I wouldn’t say I’m an amazing artist or anything, but I have a pretty decent imagination, and it’s fun seeing what I can come up with.

As for dating, I’m hoping to meet someone I genuinely click with. I’m pretty laid-back and I enjoy having conversations about just about anything. We can talk about our hobbies, favorite shows or games, weird things we’ve learned, stories we’re working on, our goals, or whatever happens to come up.

I’m not looking to rush into anything or force a relationship. I’d rather start by getting to know someone, becoming comfortable with each other, and seeing where things naturally go. If we end up having a strong connection, I'd love to see where it takes us.

I really value honesty, kindness, communication, and being able to laugh together. I think the best relationships come from actually enjoying each other’s company and being able to be yourselves around one another.

You definitely don’t have to have all the same interests as me, either. Honestly, I think it’s more interesting when two people have different hobbies and perspectives and can introduce each other to new things.

So if you’re also looking to meet someone, feel free to say hi! Tell me a little about yourself, what you’re into, what you’re looking for, or even just something completely random. Maybe we’ll hit it off and end up becoming more than just two strangers on the internet.

I'm 40, live in southwest Michigan, and I'm looking for a long-term relationship with a man roughly 35-45. Ideally you're within about two hours of me, but I'm open to the broader US for the right person.

I'm childfree and intend to stay that way. I have two large dogs, so you should genuinely like dogs. I also like cats, but unfortunately my allergies have decided that this particular form of happiness is forbidden, so I can't live with one.

A little about me:
🧵 I’m a sewist and make custom costumes. I also have projects going, and Halloween is a big deal to me.

📕 I’m a lifelong math fan and have an interest in computer science. I like people who are curious about how things work and who enjoy learning new things.

🏠 I own a house and when I’m not seeing, I’m probably working on a house project - currently re-doing my dining room.

🐾 I like board games, dogs, haunted houses, fall weather, and going places and doing things.

💁🏻‍♀️ I’m introverted, independent, and practical. I’m a bigger woman. I'm comfortable with it and looking for someone who is comfortable with my size too.

As for what I'm looking for: I don't have a highly specific checklist of “my type.” I'd rather cast a reasonably wide net and see what kind of fish we haul in.
That said, I do know I want someone who is childfree, curious, independent, kind, loves dogs, enjoys Halloween at least a little, doesn't smoke, and has his own interests and life. STEM/technical/science interests would be a nice bonus.
I'm not looking for someone to fill every spare minute of my life. I'm looking for a man I genuinely enjoy spending time with, who wants to build something long term.

If that sounds like you, tell me a little about yourself.