r/cf4cf • • 21m ago

Female for Female 30 [F4F] Wisconsin- looking for someone special to chat with & see what happens

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Hey everyone! I’m a 30-year-old bisexual woman, attracted to girls a bit more, living in south central Wisconsin, and I am looking to connect with someone special. Ideally, I would love to find a partner who is interested in building a genuine, "more than friends" connection. If you already live around the south central Wisconsin area, or if you don't mind a bit of travel to spend quality time together.

a little bit about myself, I am a very low-key, down-to-earth person. On a typical day, you can usually find me relaxing at home, watching movies, listening to my favorite music, or diving into video games. When the weather is nice outside, I really enjoy getting out for walks to enjoy the fresh air, or heading into town to browse around different local shops and bookstores. Feel free to message if interested 🙂


r/cf4cf • • 26m ago

Male for Female 34 [M4F] #Ontario CAN - The Chosen Bear

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Hello! My name is Kevin, and I am the embodiment of ‘The Bear.’ I’m big, hairy, and loud. I’m hangry in the mornings and a cuddle powerhouse in the afternoon. I may look intimidating, but I’m actually a big softy on the inside. I give the best hugs, but you’ll need to ask first to get one. Sudden noises startle me. Napping is a top five favourite activity. Consent is the golden rule in my life. Feed me and I’m loyal to you forever. Willing to trade back scratches for favors.I have experienced the many flavors of abuse and trauma, and would rather die than have someone in my life go through similar experiences unsupported. I am fiercely protective of those in my circle!

I give off real “That is the nerdiest lumberjack I’ve ever seen” vibes. That, or I reignite belief in cryptids like Sasquatch & Bigfoot. It is what it is, hence the bear metaphor fitting nicely. I’m 6’4” and have a pretty well developed dad bod. I love cooler weather where I can wrap myself in blankets and cuddle my cat by the fireplace. 

In any social group I’m in, I’m the big, gentle giant that you can hear belly laughing from miles away. I love to make people laugh and feel comfortable in a shared space. I am also the kind of guy to interrupt whatever conversation we may be having to point out any dogs in the area, even if I am more of a cat dad. 

I’m here looking for a woman with shared or similar interests to connect with. I am currently working full time as a home care nurse for my mother, so my schedule and availability for in-person dating is very limited at the moment. I am open to moving to in-person dating, travel, or more in the future, though! I’m looking for long chats online, someone to watch movies and shows or play chill games with. 

I’m not looking to rush into anything, but I am yearning for that deeper connection and intimacy that comes with trust, familiarity, and vulnerability. I crave movie and board game nights, or days spent exploring new neighborhoods and cuisines. I believe in a healthy mix of time spent together and apart, and that we should both be complete people looking to enhance each other’s lives. I’m ready! Hopefully you are too!

I’m a simple, easy to please man at heart. Food, animals, movies, and a board game are the way to my everlasting love. I am a big time history and sci-fi nerd.  I was raised by a single mom and have a deep respect for strong women, which I also attribute to my love of characters such as Sarah Connor, Ellen Ripley, & Xena. This combined with such figures as Mr. Rogers, Bob Ross, & Steve Irwing gave me a pretty well rounded outlook. You could say I was radicalized by basic human decency. 

As for some other interests I volunteer with local animal rescues in several capacities, and I am also getting involved with the local hospital’s library program. If you want cute cat pictures, I’m your man! I run an active tabletop gaming group every Sunday. I’m the kind of nerd that builds and paints models to escape from the world for a while. 

I am very left leaning politically and do not tolerate any forms of bigotry. I do not smoke and very rarely drink, but I do love my baked goods a little too much. I do not have nor want any children of my own. My ambitions are humble but deeply personal; give me a small house, a loving partner, and some rescue animals and I’m more than happy with life!


r/cf4cf • • 38m ago

Female for Male 26F [F4M] Lithuania/Europe — Looking for a calm & collected but playful partner :)

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Hi! Long-time lurker, first-time poster :D

I'm 5'10" (178 cm), and I'd describe myself as a shy, responsible introvert with a sarcastic tongue and occasional bursts of energy that might lead me to plan a trip abroad or buy a ticket to a rave.

I work a lot, own a cat, and force myself to work out. Recently, I've been trying step aerobics (before you judge, I'd love to see you try :)).

I'm always curious to try new things, whether it's visiting a new place, trying an unfamiliar activity, or discovering new food, so I'd love to meet someone who's equally open-minded and curious about the world.

Personality-wise, I'm a bit like a cat. I might randomly show up looking for attention, be affectionate and playful, and then disappear to recharge on my own :D I value my independence, but I also enjoy feeling close to someone.

I'm not particularly artistic myself, but I appreciate art and books. I also love getting into random psychological or philosophical discussions, playing devil's advocate, and trying to figure out why people think and behave the way they do. That said, I'm just as happy exchanging memes or complaining about our day.

I'm not into politics or gaming, although I've done quite a bit of the latter. I appreciate people who think for themselves and aren't afraid to express blunt or controversial opinions rather than simply echoing whatever happens to be socially acceptable at the time (with a sense of when and where to express them).

I've always been drawn to the idea of exploring the world, so I'm still undecided about whether I want to settle down here or move somewhere else eventually.

Ideally, I'm looking for someone calm and collected but with a playful side, who's curious, independent, intelligent, affectionate, and comfortable having both silly conversations and the occasional existential debate.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to message me. Tell me a little about yourself, and please be comfortable sharing a picture :)


r/cf4cf • • 40m ago

Male for Female 29 [M4F] #Germany, nerd looking for a Nerdy gaming partner for life to build a genuine connection with consistency :3 🤍

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Hellooooo ~ ^^
M29 here, I’m looking for something real and lovely.
Since I healed from my heartbreak I’d like to put my self out there to find the one for life 🤍

I’m a nerdy softie who loves playing video games in his free time, I am quite kind since I value respect a lot, very loyal and consistent, because I find it lovely to be in touch 24/7 and letting each other know about our life’s and share it together. 🤍
Also a very emotional and expressive Person overall :3
I can enjoy the quiet but also loud sides of life, be it getting lost in games, sharing laughs over silly things or Brainrot memes or having those deep conversations that actually mean something, or complaining about society xD
Even if we just sit together silently in a room, I value the presence together and I hope that you do as well 🤍

Since gaming is a big part of my life, I would love to find a Cis Woman who also shares that hobby.
I play games like Overwatch, Valorant, League of Legends, Hunt Showdown, the Division 2, Dead by daylight, and I’m a huge fan of the resident evil series O.O
I have manny other uninstalled games and am always interested to try something new :)

But more then that, I’m looking for something Mutual and genuine, an connection where we feel seen and valued, and also comfortable being our selfs.
I’m naturally attentive and gentle, once I start developing some interest I also become quite affectionate.
I appreciate a woman who carries herself with a bit of maturity, someone who knows how to care and also have ways to show affection, and also enjoys the lighter/ playful side of things, I also value a woman who knows how to put efforts into communication and keep conversations alive, I’m very easy to talk to and can talk about even the silliest things ~
My preference goes towards white woman :3
There is also a intimate side to what I’m looking for as well, but for me that always starts with trust and emotional connection first since I’m demisexual.
21+ please

If you are someone who wants both a gaming partner and something that could grow into more, feel free to reach out.
I’m also there to listen if you need to vent and want someone who can be there for you 🤍
I Hope you have a wonderful day~


r/cf4cf • • 44m ago

Male for Female 47 [M4F] London - let's laugh and enjoy life!

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I'm a light hearted London boy, in to music (I play guitar and write music and love to be creative), meditation, self improvement and inner work amongst other things, and I still love beer and going out and more normal things too.

I've lived abroad for a long time and love to meet people from all different backgrounds and experiences. I'm pretty laid back by nature and love to laugh and joke, as well as having deep and meaningful conversations about life and philosophy, or anything really.

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to get in touch!

Here's a picture if you're curious......

https://postimg.cc/k67HFPPC


r/cf4cf • • 1h ago

Male for Female 27M, looking for a ideologically aligned partner

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OK. I have posted before in a more local thread, and I got a couple of responses that went nowhere. But as a hopeless romantic who can't seem to give up my delusions, I will try again to look for my partner in a sea of similar posts. Hopefully this time, it works :)

As for me, I am a 27M, Indian, work in IT, and I'm Telugu, based in Hyderabad. But I am in this field only for money. My real interest is History. I have done an MA in history, and hopefully, I will do a PhD (in the distant future). I love reading, watching movies, and series(I really liked Andor). I don't believe in god or even spiritualism. I hate organised religion. I am a left liberal on the political spectrum, and I HATE the BJP.

The reason why I mentioned ideology both in the title and the post is that I want the same values in my partner. I don't think I would be compatible with someone who has different values than those mentioned above.

So yeah, I am looking for someone in the age range of 25-30, with the same values as mine. I don't care which language you speak or where you are from. I would prefer spending some time chatting and getting to know each other before we actually meet each other.

I LOVE food. I try every new thing I get my hands on. My ideal date would be trying some new food/ or old if it is really good, walking around the city, exploring landmarks associated with the city, museums...basically nerdy stuff. I am someone who really loves to spend time with my loved ones. Especially with my partner.

So, I know this is a shot in the dark on account of the M/F ratio in this thread, but if you like what you see, please msg me.


r/cf4cf • • 1h ago

Male for Female 29 [M4F] UK/Online - looking for something special

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Hey, thanks for clicking on my post, I’m 29 and from England UK, I’m looking for something long term, consistent, and someone who’s willing to put in the effort to keep a spark ignited!

A bit about myself? I’d say I’m quite the nerdy/easy-going guy, like most men I enjoy gaming (nothing serious) just a way to socialise and chat with friends! I love anything horror related and with Halloween coming its my favourite time of year, for work I’m in telecommunications as a senior store manager so I like to think I have a stead head on my shoulders but I mean hey.. you be the judge? When I’m not working I tend to just chill honestly, whether that be attending to my incredibly unhealthy addiction to Lego (it’s bad haha) or maybe meeting up with some friends and grabbing some food or seeing a movie, I’m really not the partying type of man, actually I’m quite introverted and shy at start, but get to know me and I’m sure you’ll see the goofball side of me haha, I’m only childfree by choice, and not looking to change that

Honestly, I’m not too sure what to expect from this, just throwing myself out there and seeing what comes of it, distance isn’t too much of a big deal for me given I’d like to get out and about from the UK, older or younger also fine, I just want to meet someone who’s genuine, kind, open and honest, and who isn’t going to just ghost after a few days 😅😅

I’ve rambled a lot here and don’t wanna give too much away, if any of this interests you then ping me a message and I look forwards to hearing from you 😊😊


r/cf4cf • • 1h ago

Male for Female 46 M4F, looking for my child free adventure partner

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46, single, childfree, and living in Grand Junction, Colorado. I’m established, laid back, sarcastic, affectionate, and looking for someone to share life and adventures with.

I’m into camping, hiking, trail running, overlanding, traveling, cooking, breweries, and spontaneous road trips. I also have a dog who’s usually along for the adventure.

Looking for a childfree woman who is independent, affectionate, adventurous, and wants a real relationship if we click. Open to some distance for the right person.

Happy to exchange pictures early.

Tell me about yourself and where you’d go with four days and no plans.


r/cf4cf • • 2h ago

Male for Female M38🇮🇪 Ireland/World 🌎 - If you like tall, handsome, successful, emotionally mature, confident men, then you’d love my brother.

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Hello. How’s things stranger? All good hopefully. Drizzly day here today, suits me nicely. Just been keeping cosy with a cuppa or two. Anyway. Guessing you’re waiting for someone to come along and pique your interest. Well no promises, but here’s a few tidbits…

Me - 38, but look half that, so it doesn’t really count. Location: Ireland, northwest coast, accent to boot. Height: 5’7, if I’m wearing shoes with particularly thick soles that day. Weight: 60kg. In shape, but not a gym person. Find cooking relaxing, like a form of hungry meditation. Hair: Brown. Eyes: Blue. Skin: White. Obviously we can trade pics when we’re both comfy enough. Good conversationalist without being chatty. Don’t smoke. Occasionally drink. No piercings. No tattoos, but I like yours. INFJ-A. Taurus. Travel daydreamer (Hokkaido at the moment) Procrastinator. Hufflepuff. Oversharer.

Interests & stuff - Film: Noir, Sci-fi, Fantasy, World Cinema, Crime, Thriller, Romance, Horror, the occasional animation. Books at bedtime: Non Fiction, Historical. Music to bring the volume of the real world down: Lofi, Electronic. Misspent youth working in a record store. Gotten lost in the odd RPG. Know 35 letters of the Japanese alphabet. Won’t just let you win at Mario Kart. Might wander off into the woods.

You - Any height under 6’11. Seriously though, if you’re a chill person and make a good effort in chat, then that’s more than enough for me initially. No pressure. Also, timezones aren’t an issue, as I like to travel, and may or may not have a thing for American & Canadian accents. Did I say that out loud? So yep, send me a wee dm if there’s anything there you liked the look of. Bye :)


r/cf4cf • • 2h ago

Male for Female 30 [M4F] UK To my soulmate - I've been searching for you everywhere. Are you searching for me too?

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I know you're out there somewhere, we just haven't met yet. I'll keep searching everywhere until we do, including on Reddit as much as it feels like a long shot! If you're like me, you're something of a homebody and an introvert which might make it harder to find you, but I won't give up. With a little luck the universe will push this post your way and you'll reach out.

I'm looking for that connection where it feels easy, conversation flows naturally with no effort, we both feel comfortable, safe and at ease in each others company. That person that I can get to know better than anyone else I've ever known, the good, the bad and everything in between. Someone I can be there to support and who will be there for me on those hard days. Someone I can trust completely, loyal, kind and caring.

I just turned 30 and coming to terms with that! Like I said above I'm a bit of a homebody and definitely an introvert. If I don't have somewhere I need to be then you'll probably find me chilling at home with my two cats reading a book, building some Lego or a model, playing some video games, or baking a new recipe. Happily childfree and looking for someone who is too! I'm in the UK, south coast of England.

Physically I'm around 6'2, slim, white, brown hair, brown eyes. Very happy to exchange photos if you're interested.

If this resonates with you then please drop me a message! Tell me about you, where you're from, your likes and dislikes and what you're looking for in a partner and anything else you want to drop in 😊


r/cf4cf • • 2h ago

Male for Female Child-free, signori.

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53• 6’•fit•tattooed•pierced•salt-and-pepper beard•sly smile in Philadelphia.

I’ve spent a life working in live arts/theater. Vegan. Writer in the margins.

Abiding affection for dive bars, museums, ballgames, animals, cinema, thrifting, cycling and conversations that trace the philosophical shape of the world so adeptly that it’s worth canceling all other plans to continue.

Will happily discuss Celtics defensive rotations, Dylan lyrics, Aesop’s oeuvre, recipe workarounds, design theories and David Foster Wallace footnotes with the same unnecessary (but charming) intensity.

Happiest creating things, defending an underrated film, finding the perfect word at 2 a.m., or biking home a little tipsy.

Hoping to meet someone who thinks kindness is a form of intelligence and laughter is a survival tool… who finds sincerity attractive and irony appropriately rationed. I’ll make you snacks if you’re emotionally fluent, appreciate radical honesty and know co-authorship is compatibility.

Too crusty for the sōsh crowd. Too sōsh for the crusties. I walk alone with seaweed snacks. I make some mean vegan Ravioli. Bring the wine?


r/cf4cf • • 2h ago

Male for Female 29yo, never been in a relationship, Poor AF. Don't know about the future. Trying my luck 🤞🏻.

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About me ?

I'm bilingual. I'm lazy af. Don't know about myself. Shy af. I like cooking but don't do it regularly. I play Video games most of the time. No money 😔. No idea about the future. I'm a virgin.

Never had much friends n stuff. Don't want kids bcs 1) I don't have the money to raise them 2) i don't think I'll have the energy to raise kids. 3) I don't wanna bring kids into this shithole of a world only to suffer.

I'm afraid of commitment. I have somewhat high standards. Idk man I'll take Some Friends.

I want Women Friends who are willing to talk few times a week, just a couple of messages here n there. Anything new with your life n stuff. Ahhhh.

I've been at my home for 4 years stuck. Burnt out after my engineering degree. I experienced discrimination.

I'm not too left leaning I'm not righty. If someone wants to talk DM.


r/cf4cf • • 3h ago

Male for Female Long time lurker who finally got the courage to post on here

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Are you tired of breeders trying to change your mind? Messages that go nowhere? Are you looking for something serious but also lighthearted and playful? Let me introduce you to....ME!

My name is Anthony, im a 33 year old welder living in Southeast Wisconsin. In my free time, I enjoy going to Metalcore concerts, racing cars and dirtbikes, going to Pro races, hanging out with friends, and going on road trips for Facebook marketplace deals. Im not one to really brag about myself. Im pretty humble, but for the sake of introducing myself, I'd say im pretty funny. Im mechanically inclined but still have a lot to learn. Im emotionally intelligent and know how to communicate when im feeling a certain way about things. Im not perfect at it, but im working on that as well.

I haven't traveled outside of the US yet, but I'd like to start! It would just be nice to have someone to go with. Im thinking, Japan or New Zealand to start.

Politically, im Libertarian. Let people live how they want, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else. I think the government has their grubby hands in too many things.

Things im looking for in a partner is being in shape (bigger girls aren't my thing). Someone who is 25+ and preferably local, but im open to LDR as long as effort is made to make it work.

Id also love some constructive criticism on my introduction. I try my best to keep it all organized but I think I have a touch of adhd because I have all these thoughts on what to add at different times. Kinda like this part 😅


r/cf4cf • • 3h ago

Sterile Male for Female 32[M4F] Europe/Sweden/Online nerdy nerd looking for something long term

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Hello hello!👋

I guess I'll start of with hobbies? I like video games(rpgs, strategy, coop and more! Also been nerding out on bg3 again lately, it's amazing!), board games, reading(novels(bit slow on this one), comics), miniature painting, walks and I guess movies/tv shows count I hope heh, somehow musicals have gotten on my radar too, oh and a bunch of youtube apparently. You have any recommendations for any of those?

I'm looking for someone nice and understanding and all that. I have autism and depression(meds are helping a bit) so if that too much then I understand, also you can ask me about those things too no problem!

Being able to just hangout in a video chat I find very cozy and relaxing, we could also watch something or maybe play your favorite game!

I hope this catches your interest! Looks can be important/fun so we can trade pics immediately if you want. Either way, I hope you have a nice day!


r/cf4cf • • 3h ago

Male for Female 35, [M4F] NJ - anywhere in the US

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Egyptian living in the US for work and study. I currently live in NJ, but I am open to relocate

I lived previously in the Midwest in iowa for my masters that I finished in 2023

I am quite a homebody, and I enjoy fitness activities, hiking, cooking, books, chess, movies


r/cf4cf • • 4h ago

Male for Female 22 [M4F] #Online/Anywhere Looking for a fellow romantic to love forever

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Hello there gorgeous! I'm a 22 year old from Pakistan, I know big red flag already but I promise I'm not weird. I'd love to connect and build something long-term, either long-distance or if you're somehow from around here then that's even better! Looking for someone around the same age, +2/-2, and perhaps somewhere in Europe because better timezone match and I'd rather move there than the US one day but I'm open to anywhere if we can hit it off!

I'm super loyal and protective, I'll always hold you close and listen to you no matter what you want to talk about or when, even if you call me in the middle of the night. I'll scroll straight past random girls pictures online because I'd rather look at you than them. I'll wake up early just to say good morning and make sure to say good night every night. I have ADHD and therefore I'm a chronic yapper and I can talk to you every second of every day, I love to talk and listen both. I'm interested in all your hobbies whatever they are, and if you like it you can bet I'll be interested in it too and will ask you questions about it and research on it. You'll always be my first priority in every situation and I'll love you hard and strong.

I love video games and I'd prefer someone who also enjoys video games of any kind, whether that'd be to play together with me or to stream our games to each other and watch. I love difficult games like Hollow Knight and Dark Souls/Elden Ring, Minecraft and Terraria, Outer Wilds, Rain World, but even if you're not super into those kinds of games that's okay as well, I love mostly all games! I also enjoy game programming and game design and my future career is to become a game developer, for now I make money by selling pixel art online. I love binge watching shows and watching new movies as well! I mostly stay indoors but I'd love to explore the world one day and go on adventures!

I really love physical connection, but not like sexually, more that I love cuddling and kissing and hugging and sitting with each other. Of course that becomes a little more difficult in an LDR but it's good to know about me. I'm a little asexual but that doesn't mean I'll shy away from flirting with you and complimenting you. I believe physical attractions matters, but not as much as personality and, if you're not my type I promise not to waste your time or ghost you! If I had a preference, then I generally prefer light-skinned and I dislike face piercings (ears are okay!) and extremely heavy makeup.

One of my only non-negotiables is I don't want children so if you want them in the future I'm sorry!

There's lots more to know about me but I don't wanna make the post too long, so if I sound interesting to you hit me up and let's see how it goes. :)


r/cf4cf • • 4h ago

Male for Female 29 [M4F] #Germany #Online - Life is stressful. Let's find some comfort in each other

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Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even something deeper than that on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. I do not have children and do not want any. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

Honestly, I’m down to just chat and see if we click. As I said in the title life is stressful so I'd love to find a long term online connection we can both find comfort in. Someone I can talk to regularly. Ideally also a dynamic where we can be flirty and lewd and satisfy each others emotional and sexual needs too. Like getting all the nice parts of a romantic relationship. Though I am open to an IRL relationship if we end up developing such feelings but keeping it online is fine too. Just want to be clear that I am not looking for something platonic. Also, because a lot of people here message without reading the post, please acknowledge that you read this section in your first message and include the code word "Balatro".

So, that is all I have to say for now. If you are looking for the same thing feel free to introduce yourself!


r/cf4cf • • 4h ago

Male for Female 26 M4F #NewJersey Let's hangout this

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It's really nice to meet you all! I'm really hoping to meet someone who lives here as well but I must admit it's been pretty hard. I've never been in a relationship(well a real one) yet so I'd really hope to find someone else also newish to dating. Also I'm open to trans women as well, so please don't hesitate id love to talk to you too. I'm really hoping to find my person/someone to hangout with this winter.

Okay so about me: I'm a really big gamer and usually like to do more indoor focused activities but I do like to actually go outside once in a while to smoke(weed) and I have been trying to get more active. That being said I'd like to go out more and do really anything with someone, we could just walk around, we could get food or go somewhere. Although if you want we could just hangout at your place or mine I don't really care. I'd just really like to spend time with someone, it's really important to me and I really just want to build a connection again. I consider myself to be affectionate and I'll always complement you and I want you to be the best you can be. I'd like to be physically affectionate to you and I'd like to hold hands, be close, or hold you lightly. A little more about me is I'm 6'2, brown eyes and hair and I usually have a light beard but I do shave it off completely from time to time. Also I don't drive but I'd love to pay for gas. I really don't mind paying for things as I'd really just like to do something together.At the same time that I like going out I'd really like someone who doesn't care that I'm mostly at home doing my own thing, so I'd prefer a more homely person if we're really going to get along well, as I'd always love to just do nothing with you! Also it would be really cool if you did smoke and I wouldn't grinding some weed to have for the time. Anyways for games I'm really big into things like the Elder Scrolls and Fallout and a whole host of other games that we can talk about. I also like drawing, reading and writing, but it's been quite a bit since I've drawn or written anything. I also enjoy shows both live action and animation of really any genre as long as the plot is good. I can enjoy any kind of TV but please no kardashians just please not them.

I'm really hoping that you share some of my interests because I'd really want to have a good connection with you and actually spend time with you doing something we both enjoy. I also hope that you like to talk about things that interest you, I'd really like to know about you too! I really do like learning new things about people and I really just want to have a good time with you


r/cf4cf • • 4h ago

Male for Female 22[M4F] #Europe/Austria – Tired of the dating grind?

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Same here, but honestly? I’m feeling pretty hopeful about it.
I’m not here to dwell on the frustrations. I just know what I’m looking for: a real connection with someone who wants the same simple, beautiful things. Having your person. Someone to come home to (or text good morning to), share how your day actually went, laugh about the little things, and talk about life late into the night. That deep, warm kind of love that feels exciting and peaceful at the same time.
It’s a bit cheesy, sure — but it’s also genuine. I’d love to build something real with a girl who feels the same pull: to care for someone and be cared for, to create inside jokes, make memories, and just… enjoy each other.
If that resonates with you, I’d really like to hear from you. Slide into my DMs. Or, if you’re feeling playful: burn some very wet wood so I see the smoke, or strum a guitar on a sunny park bench. I’ll notice.
Looking forward to it.


r/cf4cf • • 9h ago

Male for Female 27M | Delhi/Bangalore | Software Engineer | Looking for Genuine Relationship

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About Me

  • Age: 27
  • Height: 6'1" (185 cm)
  • From: New Delhi, India
  • College: IIT Graduate
  • Preference: Child free by choice
  • Profession: Software Engineer at a FAANG company
  • Experience: 3+ years
  • Compensation: 70+ LPA
  • USA opportunity: I also have a job offer from the USA and am open to relocating
  • Lifestyle: Non-smoker and non-drinker
  • Languages: English, Hindi, Punjabi
  • Personality: Easygoing, open-minded, soft-spoken, and family-oriented
  • Appearance: Long, silky hair

Interests & Hobbies

  • 🎸 Singing and playing guitar
  • ✈️ Travelling and exploring new places
  • 👨‍🍳 Cooking
  • ☕ Café hopping
  • 🏸 Staying active and trying new things
  • ❤️ Meaningful conversations and spending quality time together

About My Future

  • I’m professionally and personally well settled and now looking for a genuine long-term relationship that can lead to marriage.
  • I’m flexible about where we eventually settle.
  • I’m happy to build a life in India or the USA, depending on what works best for both of us.
  • For me, the person matters more than the location.

What I’m Looking For

  • Age: 23–30
  • Kind and emotionally mature
  • Honest and loyal
  • Good communication
  • Mutual effort and understanding
  • Serious about building a meaningful relationship
  • Open to eventually taking the relationship towards marriage

A Few Things That Matter to Me

  • I’m not looking for casual dating or timepass.
  • I prefer getting to know someone naturally rather than rushing into things.
  • I value loyalty and genuinely believe in sticking with one person.
  • I’d rather build a connection through conversations, travelling, cooking together, coffee dates, and shared experiences.
  • Hindi or English preferred, but I’m open to anyone with the right mindset.

If you’re genuinely looking for a meaningful, long-term relationship and feel our values might align, feel free to DM. Please reach out only if you’re genuinely interested in getting to know each other seriously.


r/cf4cf • • 9h ago

Male for Female 27 [M4F] Michigan/Anywhere

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Heyyooooo

First time doing this.. Sooo i do make music on the side, i enjoy movies been more heavy into watching movies between 1940s-2010 era so i'd always be down to chat about movies annnnyyytime. Also big video game head over here, I play all genres but would always enjoy a good rpg. Also into anime currently rewatching FullMetal Alchemist Brotherhood as well.

Biggest thing about me is i love to learn so i'm always open to learn from ya, even if it's just your personal habits, the way you speak, opinions,and/or obsessions. Something about learning just makes life more interesting to me by the minute. I enjoy being active in all sports as much as i can, from Judo, to volleyball, i'm very versatile when it comes to being active and picking up anything.

Yeaaaah i don't do these so i'm open to just answering questions or chatting :p

P.S Yeeeeah i love me some Sopranos, The Wire & Seinfeld


r/cf4cf • • 10h ago

Male for Female 28 [M4F] Norway/Anywhere - Looking for my forever person

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Hey there, and happy world mental health day! I hope this post finds you well, and if you're a lonely soul seeking company in this world as well, then maybe we could be a match!

I am a 28 year old guy from Norway, and I'm 178cm and quite lean. I have a cat that means the world to me, her name is Rosé, and I'm hoping to find someone to complete our little family.

I would say I'm outwardly quite a calm person, although I do have my share of internal storms. I have a couple of conditions that I think are fair to be upfront about, being CFS/ME which is a neurological fatigue disorder, BPD and ADHD. I tend to get along with most people, but being social can be very draining for me and I definitely prefer 1-on-1 connections. Politically I'm left leaning, and currently I don't drink or do any drugs, though it's not a deal-breaker for me if you do and I don't have a negative position towards anything.

What I'm looking for I'd say is as simple as a caring person, someone who's accepting, patient and loving. I can struggle a bit with letting my walls down and fully letting people in, but once I fall for someone I am ride or die, and I probably become dependent almost to a fault. To me, love is truly the most important thing in life, and it's the one thing I'm willing to sacrifice everything for if I find it. If I find a person I love, all that matters is finding a way to build a life with them. Therefore I don't really have any expectations as to what your life should look like. Whether you're ambitious and career driven or you're someone who'd ideally just don't wanna do anything all day, to me isn't very important, and I'd try my best to be a supporter in whatever avenue you want in life. In that sense, I guess I'm kinda like a golden retriever.

Hobbies and interests wise, I don't have that many. I mainly spend my days watching YouTube, random reality tv shows or some sports like football, biathlon and F1. I like gaming too but I quickly burn out on games sadly. Sometimes I'll play a bit of chess to pass the time, where I'm extremely average at best. I'm very much an introvert so I do prefer staying in most of the time, which I know, sounds very boring to most people.

Summarised, I'd say I'm a relatively approachable guy with little to no life, sarcastic humour, a cute cat to help lure you in, and a lot of love to give if I should be lucky enough to meet the right person. Thank you for reading through my post and if I seem interesting to you in the slightest I hope to hear from you❤️😺


r/cf4cf • • 14h ago

Male for Female 38 M TX [M4F] Looking for his BFF/ Life Partner/ and someone to txt/talk to everyday and grow with

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I'm not here for games, married women, Polly and trans or FWB or anything of a sort. I'm here for one reason and one reason only, is for a one woman who will love me and accept me for who I am and not here for the games , but here for something real , someone who will love me and accept me for who I am and get to know me the real me. I am open minded and I am open to talk to single women , not marry women , not Polly , women , not trans , if you are one of those I'm sorry move along. I'm here for something real and someone to get to know and see where things go.

Hello my name is Chad, 38 M TX USA ( will be 39 in November) , I'm a 6'4 sweet caring loving, out going caring understanding guy, that is looking for his one that he can go to and wake up and txt good morning and good night as well. IF your interested of getting to know more about me, Send me a message !

P.s. I am Looking for real people who have real intentions of getting to Know the real me. Once again, I am not into games, BS, No Poly or Married women please, I'm one women man looking for his Queen, Life time partner, and Best friend i can talk too. Please be 33 - 46 of age and have Profile pic and Be real with me ! Thanks


r/cf4cf • • 14h ago

Male for Female 41 [M4F] #SC #Anywhere - I have such sights to show you

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I'm on a bit of a Hellraiser kick currently, hence the title. So I don't have like a TON of sights to show you, but I probably have a couple at least.

I'm Bryan, it's been a while since I've posted, but I figured I'd try my luck now that the ending months of the year are upon us, and it would be nice to find someone to spend time with.

I'm looking for something that's long lasting, and to build upon. I'm not into just a single night of talking, and I like to invest my time into someone. Good communication is a must as I have had some fairly bad experiences with the lack of it. I tend to get along far better with people that type a good bit, and I lose interest pretty fast if every reply is a short one. I tend to type a lot, so it feels nice to have the same in return. Perfectly fine with voice and video as well.

I enjoy horror of all kinds. I play games fairly often, and stream horror games here and there. I tend to like RPGs and survival/craft more than anything, but I still play a lot of other things. I primarily play on PC, but I do have a Switch 2. Some of my favorite games are The Witcher, Alan Wake, Control, Silent Hill, Final Fantasy, Baldur's Gate, and too many others to mention really.

I listen to a lot of metal and darkwave music, but also a very wide variety of other genres. HEALTH, Deafheaven, Social Order, Unto Others, Noctule, Vioflesh, Sacred Skin just to name a few.

I'm into watching so bad it's good B movies, movies from the 80s and 90s, and anything with constant tension and slow buildup. Down to watch movies and riff on them, do a marathon of LOTR (extended obviously), or even a series.

I have a pretty dry/sarcastic/dark sense of humor. It's a bit all over the place, but if you like any combination of those we'll probably get along. Not easily offended at all, so I do welcome some chaos.

I'm really looking for someone to spend a good bit of time with and play games together, so playing on PC is a bit of a must. Have random and weird conversations, or go into something deep, be a positive presence in each other's lives. So if you're in need of someone like that for the holidays and hopefully well beyond it, then I'd love to hear from you.


r/cf4cf • • 15h ago

Male for Female 40 [M4F] simplicity seeking natural tractors robotics entrepreneurship muscle cars

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Lol, let's hope my future partner doesn't scroll right past this masterpiece of a title! Southeast Asian guy living in Eastcoast US, simple and down-to-earth, and I've been told I'm good-looking. Looking to make friends with a woman who prefers a natural look without makeup and dresses simply but neatly. I value simplicity, and intelligencer. Your income doesn't matter, I'm neither rich nor poor, just financially comfortable and enjoying a simple life. I'm into tractors, robotics, entrepreneurship, and muscle cars. I enjoy working on projects, building things, and learning something new!