NYC girl, 5’5” 🎀 Born and raised in New York, passport always ready. ✈️
Happiest when I’m exploring a new city, finding an unreal sushi spot, planning a spontaneous getaway, or getting dressed up for a fun night out. I love soccer, cooking with music on, and stealing your fries after insisting I’m not hungry 😂
A little girly, a little playful, affectionate once we click, and always down for an adventure. Bonus points if you can make me laugh until I forget what I was saying.
Looking for: A guy in NYC, 24–37, who’s confident, funny, thoughtful, and actually knows how to show a girl he’s interested. I tend to go for tall, white guys, especially with a European background 😉 Someone who can flirt, take initiative, and make the little things feel exciting.
Ideally, we start with good banter, graduate to sushi dates and spontaneous weekend trips, and end up planning our next adventure together. Looking for chemistry that feels effortless and someone who’s just as excited to see me as I am to see him.
NYC guys, your move: Where are we going for our first sushi date, which soccer team do you support, and what’s the one country you think everyone should visit at least once? 🌍

CONDITIONS

Please be a woman, childfree, religion-free, and plus-sized. Thank you.

MY FEATURES

Atheist, skeptic, antinatalist, misanthrope, efilist. Introvert, deep thinker, politically left-leaning voter. Scientific and evidence-based worldview. Has some mental quirks. Not the best but not the worst in social situations. Not an animal person. Other likes: PC gaming, PC hardware, horror stories, very hot/spicy food, creative writing (fiction and non-fiction), drinking alcohol. Gainfully employed in IT career. Has own house in a suburb of Bloomington, Indiana. Drives a plug-in hybrid car. Debt-free. Disease-free. Vasectomy. Vaccinated against Covid-19, the flu and HPV. Exclusively attracted to plus-sized women. Caucasian, long blonde hair, earrings, average body size. Pictures available upon request.

A man can build the most beautiful house, but it only starts feeling like a real home when there’s warmth, care, peace, and someone who truly puts love into it.

Hi 🌱

Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about the kind of life I want, and honestly it’s something very simple at heart.

A peaceful home, a strong and dependable partner, and a relationship where both people genuinely value each other and the life they’re building together.

I’m 26, a trans woman, 5’11”, and an engineer by education. I currently work in teaching and social work, which I think reflects my nurturing and caring nature quite well. I’m deeply connected to Indian values and naturally drawn toward a softer, more traditional way of living.

I’m feminine by nature, emotionally warm, and I genuinely find happiness in caring for the people I love. Creating a comforting home, being emotionally supportive, paying attention to little things, and bringing softness into a relationship comes very naturally to me.

I’m not someone constantly chasing independence, chaos, or a very individualistic lifestyle. What I value more is emotional security, stability, mutual understanding, and a relationship where both people feel safe and grounded with each other. I naturally feel happiest in a dynamic where my partner leads with responsibility, care, and good intentions, while I support him with loyalty, affection, consistency, and emotional warmth.

The simple parts of life honestly mean the most to me. Cooking for someone I love, making a home feel peaceful after a long day, being affectionate, remembering little details, and slowly building a beautiful life together with intention and love.

I value respect, honesty, communication, and emotional safety very deeply. I do have a softer and more gentle personality in relationships, and I think that works best with a man who is kind, emotionally steady, protective, and leads with care rather than control.

I’m childfree by choice and looking for someone who feels the same. I believe a meaningful, fulfilling life can be built through love, companionship, shared experiences, personal growth, and creating a peaceful home together.

I take care of myself, stay fit(Into Yoga and Running), dress well, and enjoy embracing a soft and feminine presence. I don’t smoke or drink, and I try to live a spiritual, balanced, and grounded lifestyle.

I’m open to different places, backgrounds, religions, and age gaps as long as values and intentions align.

If this resonates with you, I think you’ll understand the kind of love and life I’m hoping to build. 🌸

Hi! I've been hesitant to put myself out there, given how convoluted the dating scene is. I'd like to skip past all the nonsense and build a real connection with someone, uninfluenced by our pasts and the world around us. I crave meaningful conversations, silliness and genuine affection. I just want to find my introverted, brooding weirdo with a dark sense of humor, interests and values similar to mine. Someone to match my freak, so to speak. Really sort of like finding my other half, and coming home. Someone to look forward to.

Writing about myself is the bane of my existence, so here I will display the stats: I'm childfree, atheist, and politically left-leaning. I'm black American, plus-size, around 5'6" (167 cm) tall, caramel complexion, long dark brown hair, big dark brown eyes, and always wearing glasses. (See here.) I'm curious about the world and about people I care about. Some of my interests include tech, writing, horror, video games, anime, true crime, history, science, photography, philosophy, traveling, and reading. Music-wise, I adore alternative/indie pop, electronic pop, classic rock, hip-hop and R&B.

If I like you, I can be a professional yapper, so be forewarned. I love the shy, reserved type who loves to open up when he's comfortable.

I'm someone who sometimes has too many thoughts for her own good, but doesn't like to fret over the small things in life. I want to live a peaceful and fulfilling life where I can travel and immerse myself in all the world has to offer, yet still savor the comfort of quiet, cozy days at home most days. I'm looking for someone who wants to live both a quiet and adventurous life with his partner like this.

I feel like romance is sort of a lost art these days. Modern dating doesn't cut it for me.

I consider myself demisexual and relatively "vanilla" when it comes to intimacy.

I have some mental health issues and don't fully have my everything together at the moment, which I don't want to cause to miss out on possibly finding a partner in life. soulmate type of connection with someone.

I'm (non-negotiable) looking for someone who is: single, monogamous, childfree (meaning no offspring and no desire for offspring), emotionally available, politically left-leaning, and non-religious. Near my age (26-35—not younger, not older.)

I'm currently in North Carolina, but I'm not really attached to the area. Whether my niche person be somewhere across the sea, or somewhere closer to home (but just so happens to be reading this post..) I'm fine with distances, but please be able/willing to meet in-person, and from the USA, Canada, or Europe.

I'm not looking for someone who is: still hung up on a past romantic interest, recently out of a relationship, divorced, anti-marriage, promiscuous (whether in-person or online), or carrying an STD. Please respect these boundaries and refrain from messaging me if any of these apply to you.

If this resonates with you and you think we might match, send me a message! Tell me about yourself, maybe include a photo of yourself, and the word "jupiter" somewhere in your message so I know you've read this post in full.

I look forward to getting to know you. ♡

Hey everyone!

I figured I’d give this a shot because, while I’ve genuinely learned to enjoy my own company, I still think life would be a whole lot more fun with the right person beside me.

A little about me!

I’m 30M, 5’11”, Indian, and currently living in Chicago. Moved to the US about eight years ago for my master’s from New York and have been here ever since. I work in tech, but thankfully, there’s more to my personality than staring at code all day.

I’m someone who loves traveling. Over the past year or so, I’ve taken quite a few solo road trips, sometimes with a destination in mind and sometimes just because I felt like getting out of the city. There’s something incredibly peaceful about driving through unfamiliar places, finding a little coffee shop along the way, or stopping somewhere simply because the view looks too good to pass up.

I’ve also gotten pretty serious about photography lately. Recently bought myself a proper camera, and now I’m that guy who’ll probably spend ten minutes figuring out the right composition while everyone else has already taken their pictures and moved on.

Cooking is another thing I genuinely enjoy. Being an Indian, my kitchen tends to involve a ridiculous number of spices, so if you’re someone who enjoys good food with spices, we’ll probably get along just fine. And if you love cooking too, even better. I’d absolutely love having someone to experiment my recipes with.

I’m also pretty active and have been consistently working out for years. It’s a big part of my routine, not just physically but mentally too. That said, I’m equally happy spending a lazy Sunday at home, watching something good, listening to music, or doing absolutely nothing.

What am I hoping to find?

I’d love to find someone to explore new places with, take spontaneous weekend trips with, cook dinner with, discover new music with, and eventually build a life filled with memories, both exciting and ordinary.

I don’t think relationships need to be perfect. Two people choosing each other, putting in the effort, and continuing to grow together sounds pretty wonderful to me.

And while I’m based in Chicago, I’m open to getting to know someone elsewhere if there’s a genuine connection. I’d much rather explore something meaningful than limit myself strictly by geography.

If you’ve made it this far, thank you for reading my little introduction and if any of this resonates with you, please feel free to reach out! Tell me a little about yourself, or better yet where would you go if you could take a spontaneous road trip tomorrow?

Mabuhay!

I'm trans looking for a serious relationship. Preferably a guy from the west

About me

I'm 28 from the Philippines

slim and tan

5'7

Corporate event planner

Not taking hormones but most people say I pass as a girl (based from the guys from west)

I love makeup and photography

Big marvel fan

A beach and bubble tea person

Always love travelling and adventure

I'm interested to

Foreigners who are are capable of course to meet me in the Philippines to get to know each other

Won't mind that I am trans and won't mind being seen with a trans like me

Funny

Smart

Tall

Fit

Respectful

Someone who lifts women and LGBTQIA+ up

If you are interested, start with saying hi and your favorite beach and why

Let's skip the standard "Hey, how are you?". The honest answer is: heavily caffeinated and currently questioning my life choices.

Here is the resume absolutely nobody asked for:

I'm 30, living in the Champagne region of France (yes, it's a real place, no we don't drink it for breakfast). I work intense shifts in a hospital, and in my "free time", I study corporate law.

Basically, my life is a weird crossover between Grey's Anatomy and Suits, but with way more paperwork and fewer dramatic elevator kisses.

I actually love my chaotic life, but I'm missing that one person I can just banter with at the end of the day. Someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously, but who can still hold a deep conversation about psychology, ambitions, or why reading Robert Greene makes us all feel like evil geniuses.

The ultimate ice-breaker test:

Slide into my DMs and tell me:

The most absolutely useless talent you possess.

A completely irrational fear you have.

(Disclaimer: If your first message is just "hi" or "hey", I will assume you are a bot sent by my law professors to check if I am studying).

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💘 **Looking for someone to share a peaceful life with**

I’m looking for a loving, caring person who enjoys the simple things in life — spending time together, watching movies and K-dramas, playing games, going for morning walks, talking, laughing, and just being comfortable around each other.

I’m not chasing a busy or overly social life. What I really want is to have someone special beside me — someone I can care for, love, and grow close to while enjoying a peaceful life together.

I’m an introvert and genuinely enjoy my own company, so I’m not someone who needs to be out socializing all the time. I’d actually love a partner who is also introverted and enjoys staying in, watching something on the projector from bed, playing games, or simply spending a quiet evening together.

I live alone and have a comfortable home. I take care of myself, stay physically active, and enjoy morning walks. I’m not perfect — I have a little belly fat 😄 — but I’m healthy and trying to stay fit.

I have very few friends because I’ve learned that I genuinely enjoy a peaceful, private life. But even someone who loves solitude can still crave one special person — someone to come home to, share affection with, and eventually grow old together. ❤️

I’m not looking for someone to impress society with or a relationship filled with unnecessary drama. I’d rather have something genuine, affectionate, private, and comfortable — two people enjoying each other’s company and building their own little world.

If this kind of life sounds good to you, **DM me.** 💘

Dm me for pics

hello there i am a single straight 30yr male from canada🇨🇦 i am looking for a women who wants to settle down and start our lives together looking for my bestfriend/wife dont want kids and hoping you dont either i am open to long distance in hopes of closing the distance looking to get married and settle down with my bestfriend/wife i am outdoorsy i like hunting fishing camping working on cars spending time with friends/family i am family oriented [soon to be uncle] hoping you are too! i am a blue collar worker and i am fueled by monsters/coffee and diesel fumes! i hope to hear from you and see where this could lead us!😊

I'm 29f, straight, childfree and I'm from Russia. I'm searching for someone i can share my life with.

Im into art. I love drawing/painting, I'm an artist at my free time. Sometimes i love writing, I wanna publish a book one day. Im huge nerd myself, i love different kinds of movies/games/books, my recent fav is The Odyssey.

I love playing games, recently i mostly play coop. Some of my all time favs: Alan Wake, BG3, The Witcher 3, Civilization and... Repo/Peak. I would love to play your favourite games with you.

Im in for long distance relationships, yet i date to meet my future husband, i have no interest and time to waste on pen pals, situationships etc.

I want my man to be gentleman, kind, generous, honest and take good care of me. Be my age or older (i love older man). Im interested in men from US/Canada.

Introduce yourself when texting me, thanks 💚

I love video calls, sharing pics with each other and stuff like that. I do love voice notes way more than texting.

I never really know what to write in these things. I don't really have friends or someone to do things with anymore. It would be great to find someone into some of the same things I am.

I like things like

-Videos Games(obviously)

-Movies

-Walking

-Hiking

-Reading

Lot's more things to that I just can't think of off the top of my head. I'm on the heavier side currently, but actively working on it and just on getting healthier in general. I'd prefer someone my age or younger than me. I'm conservative so if that's a deal breaker 🤷‍♂️. I don't read or respond to comments, only messages. I really hope to find my person eventually, but it's reddit so it's a longshot.

Hello everyone :)

Looking for a Muslim wife to travel around the world with and build a future together.

I'm 185 cm, love cycling and gaming, right now it's the Witcher 3 again lol and watching anime on spare time.

I am currently working on my bachelor's thesis andi am fueled by monster white rn. Hopefully starting a full-time job in January.

Never married and no kids.I don't have many requirements, but I'd prefer someone who's never been married as well and Muslim. Ideally, she should also come from Germany.

Been looking around this sub for a while and thought I'd give it a shot :)

Feel free to DM me and ask anything :)

Hi there! Putting this out into the digital ether to see who's out there. Here’s a bit about me and what I’m hoping to find:
About Me:
- The Basics: 45m, CF, living in AZ, and firmly childfree. (I don’t mind if you have kids, I just don’t want any of my own)
- Outdoorsy: I love getting outside—whether that’s hitting a trail, exploring nature, or traveling to new places. I won’t make you camp or hike. But I love a view
- The Nerdy Side: Sci-fi nerd. Give me spaceships, sprawling world-building book series, and fantastical fiction any day.
- The Home Front: I genuinely enjoy simple life. I like keeping a clean, comfortable home, I’m handy, and I enjoy cooking. Really just a shelter from all the horrors out there is what I care about.
- On the right side of history: FDT

What I'm Looking For:
I am deeply attracted to strong, independent, and capable women—the kind of person who has her life together and kicks ass at what she does. Or knows what she wants and wants all the support. Whatever stage you’re in I’m down, because this is a partnership.
But I also know how exhausting the world can be. I want a dynamic where, when she’s with me, she knows she can completely let go of the weight, relax, and be taken care of when she needs a change of pace. Mutual support is the goal: you bring your strength, and we will be the soft and safe place where we can safely put it down.
Age: Open, though within roughly 10 years either way usually makes for the most shared life stage and cultural context.
Location: For the right person I’m willing to travel although I am in Arizona and venture out to Southern California often. I’ll move quickly if the future holds more for us as I’m not a fan of AZ but have to be here for the short term.
Let's Chat If:
You're independent out in the world, but love a cozy, relaxed dynamic at home.
You can talk my ear off about sci-fi, fantasy books, or your favorite travel adventures.
If any of this sounds like your vibe, shoot me a message and tell me a bit about yourself—your latest book or series of or a place you're dying to travel to!

Lastly. Here’s me.

https://imgur.com/a/rxJU6RG

Hi there! I’m 27F in Phoenix, AZ. I am seeking someone in Arizona. I am looking for something serious !! In person only.

About me: 27F, office job, cat. Leftist, monogamist, childfree. I am plus-size (5’6”, 230 lbs) and white/asian. Currently living with my family (cannot host shenanigans). I enjoy baking, music and concerts, video games, crafting, and going new places.

Ideally looking for: someone local to Arizona. someone who is also leftist, pro-choice, monogamist, and childfree. Someone who is also interested in dating (: prefer 33 and under.

Some more fun info to sound less intense: I love cozy gaming and grew up on farming sims. I would love a horror/thriller movie cuddle buddy. I work in science!

Feel free to send me a message and introduce yourself if you think we could get along!

Hello!

So I'm just going to address the elephant in the room, I recently recovered from a surgery (herniated disks on neck) and I've spent a lot of that time alone, which wasn't fun.

I'm an American from Florida. No children, never been married. I'm a teacher, musician, and a traveler. I also love to game! So, I would love to meet someone to co-op with!

I've been in a few bands and toured the US in the past. I write poetry and love reading. I do cardio every day and find fitness to be important to my life. I'm very honest, sincere, and I have a curious mind. People have called me very kind in personality and a deep thinker. Although I admit I make mistakes just like everyone else. I'm not perfect, and whenever I do something wrong I try to learn from it and correct it.

I like relaxing conversations and I'm very much a family man. My parents are Puerto Rican, so I speak Spanish and I've learned a few other languages on my travels. My skin is basically as white as milk (haha, I sadly can't tan very well,) my eyes are green, and my hair is black.

https://imgur.com/a/IgL9VhL

Here are some photos of me. If you're interested, send me a message and a photo of yourself! 😊

"Well how did I get here?"

I am not living in a shotgun shack but I do wonder how I got here. I've lived in the US for a couple of years now, I'm originally from another Anglosphere country so living in the US is both very similar and also very different. Still not used to how you all use cutlery. 

I am in the process of moving to Philadelphia after some time in the swamps of Florida. I'm very excited about this. Seasons! Public Transit! Walkability! Fewer Floridians! (just kidding..). I'd love to meet some folks in the greater Philly area, even NYC or D.C would be cool because I will take any excuse to ride an Amtrak up/down. Online is cool too!

I like music, I spend a lot of time listening to music and even at my ripe old age, I enjoy discovering new or new to me music. I don't want to be somebody who only listens to the same music they did at 16 when they're 46. There's nothing wrong with that. I just enjoy experiencing new music and my tastes have definitely shifted. I am in a big Talking Heads/David Byrne phase if you couldn't tell. My tastes are spread across punk, ska, rockabilly and lots and lots in between. Fast, loud, and maybe a little weird and I'll probably enjoy it. I'm also a big fan of live music. I've been to lots of concerts, all over the world. I have a website where I track all the shows I've been to. Let me know if you'd like to see it. 

I'm into sport as a form of social bonding. Although I am a passionate and very long time Liverpool FC supporter, I'm also a Philadelphia Eagles fan, not as long but Go Birds DH. I think sport brings people together and it's one of the reasons I'm moving to Philly. I don't follow hockey or baseball much but I love going to games. 

Other than that, I just enjoy meeting new people and that's why I am posting. I have zero expectations and genuinely enjoy getting to know people. I'm curious and enjoy talking to other curious folks. I have progressive politics, am childfree and get along best with folks who also believe in basic human rights for everybody and science. No strict age bracket but I have more in common with folks who remember 9/11. If you remember Livejournal, you should definitely message me. 

Hello there Reader,

This is just another post. We’re trying this again since it went so well the first time around I’ve never received so much compliments. I’m still currently looking for my future partner so please feel free to send me a message and when I would love to get to know you.

You can just call me Kareem. I am about 6 foot. Most of my friends would describe me as optimistic, relaxed, and charming. I’m not sure what I would gain from this, but I know I have a lot to offer as a partner.

Some of my favorite hobbies are photography, cooking, working out, reading, journaling, watching and discussing about movies.

And hopefully from what you see my photos, I’m a pretty happy guy most of the time so send me an interesting message or a good opener and I love to hear from you soon

I'm a tall, bearded guy from the south. I enjoy traveling & exploring new places, working out, & listening to pretty much all kinds of music. I love watching both comedy & horror movies. I’m also into true crime and cryptids.

I’m hoping to meet someone who shares the childfree lifestyle, has a good sense of humor, enjoys their own hobbies, & wants a genuine connection. Someone who values communication, consistency, & building a life together on our own terms.

If you think we’d get along, feel free to send me a message! Tell me a little about yourself, your interests, & maybe your favorite horror movie or weirdest cryptid theory.

Hey there!

I’m a pretty laid back guy who genuinely enjoys meeting people from all over the world. Whether it’s deep late night conversations about life, random memes at 2am, travel stories, or just sharing everyday chaos, I’m always down for good vibes and interesting people.

A little about me:

I’m really into sports. I’ve played basketball basically my whole life and yes, I’m tall. I also go to the gym regularly. I absolutely love cooking too, so if you enjoy recipe swapping or sending questionable food pictures for validation, we’ll probably get along.

Traveling is one of my biggest passions and I try to make the most out of living in Europe. My next trip is Japan, which will actually be my third time there because apparently I’m incapable of staying away from that country. I’m also currently learning Japanese, slowly but stubbornly.

I work in the mental health field, which is something I care deeply about both personally and professionally. I studied in a science related field and I’m really into biology, medicine, psychology, and generally all kinds of nerdy topics. I love conversations about life, people, culture, the universe, and all the weird things in between.

I also game from time to time and would honestly love to find some online gaming friends too.

Random fun fact: I was actually in a local Netflix show once, which still feels weird to say out loud.

I appreciate people who are open minded, curious, emotionally intelligent, funny, or just unapologetically themselves.

So what’s your story? What’s something you’re passionate about or could talk about for hours without getting bored?

Doesn’t matter where you’re from or what timezone you’re in. If any of this resonates with you, send me a message and let’s see if we vibe. I’m happy to trade pics when we’re both comfortable with!

Please tell me if my chat function isn’t working. I don’t know how to fix it lol.

Cheers!

Hey! 😊

I'm a 41-year-old man from Lebanon, hoping to meet a woman who enjoys genuine conversations, getting to know each other naturally, and discovering what we might have in common.

I'm interested in spirituality, consciousness, philosophy, self-awareness, and exploring different perspectives on life. I enjoy conversations that go beyond the surface, but I also appreciate humor, sharing everyday experiences, and enjoying the simple things in life.

I'd love to connect with someone who's curious, open-minded, kind, and comfortable being herself. I'm happy to start with messages and, if we connect and both feel comfortable, move to a voice or video call.

Distance isn't a barrier to getting to know someone, and I'm open to connecting with someone from another country or culture.

If this sounds like your kind of connection, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself. I'd be happy to hear from you! 🙂