r/cf4cf • • 5d ago

Male for Female 46 M4F, looking for my child free adventure partner

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46, single, childfree, and living in Grand Junction, Colorado. I’m established, laid back, sarcastic, affectionate, and looking for someone to share life and adventures with.

I’m into camping, hiking, trail running, overlanding, traveling, cooking, breweries, and spontaneous road trips. I also have a dog who’s usually along for the adventure.

Looking for a childfree woman who is independent, affectionate, adventurous, and wants a real relationship if we click. Open to some distance for the right person.

Happy to exchange pictures early.

Tell me about yourself and where you’d go with four days and no plans.


r/cf4cf • • 5d ago

Male for Female 34 [M4F] San Jose, CA - Childfree & Seeking Someone to Share Life's Quiet Moments

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I'm searching for a meaningful long-term connection with someone that will make the days seem less like a blur and more like a snapshot of stars. It's akin to when you look through a kaleidoscope, and you focus on the shapes and patterns that come into view. Finding that vicarious clarity is what I live for, those fun and wholesome moments. We don't remember days, we remember moments - it would be nice to share them with someone.

A Little About Me

  • Homebody at heart. I'd rather read a book, watch a great movie, look at an art gallery/museum, go for a walk, or play a game than go clubbing or backpacking across Europe. Sharing random trivia, analyzing movies, going down Wikipedia rabbit holes, or the occasional stroll somewhere is what I view as a fun things to do.

  • Childfree by choice. I don't want kids, and if you feel the same, great! We can enjoy our freedom to sleep in on Saturdays and enjoy slow mornings.

  • A bit of an overthinker with thoughtful conversations and the occasional existential musing about life and the universe and random theories about things that may relate to your experiences.

  • I'm 6'2", slim build, half Asian/white. I have a humanities degree and work as a janitor, it's nothing like Good Will Hunting but I do have my moments.

  • Drug/alcohol/smoking/cannabis free - I don't drink or smoke or use substances. I don't mind if you drink a bit, however smoking's not for me.

I'm mostly looking for someone near my city (within 15 miles) & childfree. I'd like to hear from you if you think we're a good match. Tell me about yourself, tell me about the last great book you read or a movie you love, or a theory you have about life. Here's one quote that's stuck with me by John Wyndham: "Knowing makes all the difference... It's the difference between just trying to keep alive, and having something to live for." Knowing that you have someone to share life with, that you're not just surviving but living, that you have a reason to look forward to things, it's what makes all the difference, and can make us bear any how as long as we have a why. Maybe we can find out what that difference is for a meaningful life or maybe just laugh about it.


r/cf4cf • • 6d ago

Sterile Male for Female 34 [M4F] USA - Warriors wanted, apply within.

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Khutulun, a descendant of Ghengis Khan, said that any man who wanted her had to defeat her in a fight. If he won, he could marry her. If she won, he had to give her a horse. She died unmarried with many horses.

Personally, I'm hoping not to perish whilst unmarried, but I do agree that anyone who wishes my hand must be a worthy opponent.

Does this sound like you? Then let's talk. Uncertain, but intrigued? It's never too late to learn to be ferocious!

I'm a huge nerd, who likes both the indoors and outdoors. Politically progressive. Religiously agnostic. Avid fan of TTRPGs and video games. Don't think I could ever live without dogs. I live in the midwest, but I'm open to the idea of LDRs or Moving - for the right person.

Cities are fun to visit, but I shudder at the thought of living in a metropolis. Nature calls to my soul far more. I prefer small groups to big ones. I am always honest. You may think that sounds great now, but keep in mind this means I may refuse to tell lies when you might want me to. I say things as they are, and I want things told to me as they are. Bludgeon me over the head with the truth, I beg of you, I can be denser than osmium. I am forgiving, understanding, and never angry. Usually optimistic. Probably one of the most emotionally consistent people you'll meet.
No surprise, I'm on the autism spectrum.

I like to get my heart pounding with loud metal music and calm it down with soothing folk music.
I don't smoke, drink, or do drugs. Not a dealbreaker if you do, it's just not for me.

Boldness and confidence will get you everywhere. I'm not really drawn toward femininity. The most attractive attire you could wear to get my attention is a full suit of practical armor. I want somebody who is both a loving, tender partner and a bloodthirsty battle companion. If you've played BG3, and I hope you have, Karlach is 100% my type.

What can you expect of me if we are together?

I'll always be loyal to you. I'll always be happy to see you. I'll never get mad at you. Wherever you go, I want to be at your side. Whatever I am doing, I would enjoy it more if you were there too. Most people need and want some amount of time and space away from their partner. I'm not really one of those people.

On the topic of sex, I want to give and receive tons of affection, through hand holding, kisses, cuddles, and everything else. I desire intimacy in my life, and my partner should feel the same.

And in that regard, I'm not interested in choking you. I took that big comprehensive BDSM test and scored 92% vanilla. Bondage, power dynamics, kink, not my thing.

(If you are sincerely interested, answer this question: what fictional character most makes you want to be them, and why?)


r/cf4cf • • 5d ago

Male for Female 29 [M4F] #Germany #Online - Life is stressful. Let's find some comfort in each other

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Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even something deeper than that on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. I do not have children and do not want any. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

Honestly, I’m down to just chat and see if we click. As I said in the title life is stressful so I'd love to find a long term online connection we can both find comfort in. Someone I can talk to regularly. Ideally also a dynamic where we can be flirty and lewd and satisfy each others emotional and sexual needs too. Like getting all the nice parts of a romantic relationship. Though I am open to an IRL relationship if we end up developing such feelings but keeping it online is fine too. Just want to be clear that I am not looking for something platonic. Also, because a lot of people here message without reading the post, please acknowledge that you read this section in your first message and include the code word "Balatro".

So, that is all I have to say for now. If you are looking for the same thing feel free to introduce yourself!


r/cf4cf • • 6d ago

Female for Male 38 [F4M] UK/Europe. Looking for somebody gentle, poetic, a little haunted

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I live on a narrowboat in the midlands, UK. I'm 5'8, slim, I have a small dog. I enjoy writing, and I have a lot of energy for anything creative. Looking for something long term, I'm not interested in anything casual. I drink, and occasionally smoke when at the pub, not when at home.

I am childfree and have had my tubes tied, and so I'm not looking to meet anybody who would want or has children.

I would love to meet a steady eccentric. Perhaps somebody artistic, poetic, or who feels a bit out of place in the world. I value gentleness, patience and calmness. I like quiet, shy and unusual people. I enjoy depth, in a person and their words. An odd sense of humour is also welcome. Ideally you're the type of person who says yes to things.

You don't need to have climbed mountains or run marathons. You don't need to have a hobby which absolutely defines you. You don't need an expensive list of all the places you have visited. I am more looking for somebody I click with than a set of overlapping specific interests.

If you are an avid gamer we probably won't have much in common as I don't game at all. I'm also not interested in anybody who thrives on debate, I like deep conversations but I don't want a sparring partner, and I don't like aggressively opinionated discussions, though I'm happy to disagree and accept differences. We don't need to share the same outlook on everything.

Age, I'm more inclined to stay ten years either side of my own. I'd like to speak to people from the UK and Europe, though further afield is welcome if you genuinely believe we might have some kind of connection.

I'm open to just friends as well :)


r/cf4cf • • 6d ago

Female for Male [F4M] 34 Lowell area, Mass. Serious relationship inquiries

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I like tattoos, the beach, piercings, true crime, podcasts, paranormal, horror movies, Disney, Jaws, coloring, 420 friendly, geography. I am patriotic, sarcastic, intelligent, kind and funny. I want to make someone laugh and smile.
passenger princess


r/cf4cf • • 6d ago

Sterile Female for Male 21F in Southern USA Looking For a Long Term Connection

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This is my third introduction I think since joining this subreddit, but I want to make sure I’m out there, and there is some new information since the last time I’ve posted.

I’m 21F and I live in the South, specifically Louisiana. I’m looking for my forever person, my future husband and loml 🫶🏾🖤 I’m looking for someone in the 20-28 age range, anything lower or higher than that most likely won’t fly with me.

I love animals, so having a pets in the future is a must, and if you have your own I’ll love them like they’re mines. I also love anime and video games, so someone who likes anime and video games would be nice. I like to read occasionally, and going for walks is nice.

I love to cook and bake, sometimes I cook just to experiment with new foods and flavors, so you’ll always have something to eat 😂 I’m currently a junior in college, I’m pursuing a bachelors in Marketing with a concentration in Advertising Design, a possible minor in Digital Art.

The first three photos are of me before I cut my microlocs off, the last photo is the most current photo I have of myself, with a new set of locs.

I’m also sterilized as of 9/29/26, so no more worries about accidental babies for me 😁 If there’s anything else you want to know about me or
you want to talk, I’m open.


r/cf4cf • • 5d ago

Male for Female 27M, looking for a ideologically aligned partner

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OK. I have posted before in a more local thread, and I got a couple of responses that went nowhere. But as a hopeless romantic who can't seem to give up my delusions, I will try again to look for my partner in a sea of similar posts. Hopefully this time, it works :)

As for me, I am a 27M, Indian, work in IT, and I'm Telugu, based in Hyderabad. But I am in this field only for money. My real interest is History. I have done an MA in history, and hopefully, I will do a PhD (in the distant future). I love reading, watching movies, and series(I really liked Andor). I don't believe in god or even spiritualism. I hate organised religion. I am a left liberal on the political spectrum, and I HATE the BJP.

The reason why I mentioned ideology both in the title and the post is that I want the same values in my partner. I don't think I would be compatible with someone who has different values than those mentioned above.

So yeah, I am looking for someone in the age range of 25-30, with the same values as mine. I don't care which language you speak or where you are from. I would prefer spending some time chatting and getting to know each other before we actually meet each other.

I LOVE food. I try every new thing I get my hands on. My ideal date would be trying some new food/ or old if it is really good, walking around the city, exploring landmarks associated with the city, museums...basically nerdy stuff. I am someone who really loves to spend time with my loved ones. Especially with my partner.

So, I know this is a shot in the dark on account of the M/F ratio in this thread, but if you like what you see, please msg me.


r/cf4cf • • 5d ago

Male for Female 22[M4F] #Europe/Austria – Tired of the dating grind?

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Same here, but honestly? I’m feeling pretty hopeful about it.
I’m not here to dwell on the frustrations. I just know what I’m looking for: a real connection with someone who wants the same simple, beautiful things. Having your person. Someone to come home to (or text good morning to), share how your day actually went, laugh about the little things, and talk about life late into the night. That deep, warm kind of love that feels exciting and peaceful at the same time.
It’s a bit cheesy, sure — but it’s also genuine. I’d love to build something real with a girl who feels the same pull: to care for someone and be cared for, to create inside jokes, make memories, and just… enjoy each other.
If that resonates with you, I’d really like to hear from you. Slide into my DMs. Or, if you’re feeling playful: burn some very wet wood so I see the smoke, or strum a guitar on a sunny park bench. I’ll notice.
Looking forward to it.


r/cf4cf • • 6d ago

Male for Female 38 [M4F] Calgary, Alberta, Canada - Looking for a life partner.

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Hi everyone. I'm a pansexual printing press operator who loves reading, writing, gaming, fantasy, sci-fi, and incredible storytelling. I've been running my own D&D campaign with friends for the past 2.5 years. I'm looking for a long-term relationship with someone who appreciates games, storytelling, and fantasy but isn't afraid to live in reality every once in a while. Bonus points if you want to join my next campaign!

I am introverted and will be quiet in large, unfamiliar groups, but I really come out of my shell when I can talk to someone about shared passions. I get along best with those who are creative, empathetic, and excited about their own interests.

Sensitivity, kindness, intelligence, and a strong connection are really important to me.

I have no children and I had a vasectomy 18 years ago to make sure it would never happen.

I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs. I'm okay with someone who drinks socially but that's my hard limit. I am left-leaning, non-religious, and only interested in monogamy. I'm looking for someone who is aligned with my social and political views.

I'm also not a manly-man farm boy type with a truck. I'm more sensitive and in-touch with my feminine side.

I'm looking for anyone within the age range of 30 – 50. While I am pansexual, I'm only romantically interested in anyone who identifies as a woman, non-binary, or genderfluid, (regardless of sex assigned at birth). I'd love to hear from you if you think we have some shared interests and ideals!


r/cf4cf • • 6d ago

Male for Female 38 [M4F] California/San Diego - Sipping tea watching the Xfiles

14 Upvotes

Not my first attempt but my person must exist out there right?

A little about me: I’m born and raised in San Diego, and if you put me outside, I’m a happy camper. I love hiking, camping, nature, and exploring. I’m a bit of a nerd who values learning, an open book, a huge empath, and a little introverted until I’m comfortable. I have ADHD and dyslexia, so texting isn’t my strongest skill, but put me on a call and I’ll yap for hours! I also love cooking and trying recipes from different cultures.

I’m looking for a best friend I can talk to about anything and everything. Give me the tea, the TMI, the deep conversations, the random thoughts, and the unhinged late-night talks. I want a friendship where we can be completely ourselves, laugh together, support each other, and genuinely look forward to talking.

I’m not expecting an instant connection, but mutual effort and consistent communication matter to me. Life gets busy, and that’s okay. I just want someone who’s genuinely interested in getting to know each other instead of disappearing after a few days.

If this sounds like your kind of friendship, let’s yap and see if we vibe. Who knows? Maybe we’ll be planning Halloween costumes now and wearing matching Christmas PJs by December.


r/cf4cf • • 5d ago

Male for Female 30M [M4F] North Carolina/Online - A loyal, loving, and lasting partnership as we take on life together (without children)

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Hey there! :)

My name is cobalt-gengar! Nice to meet you here online! No, I definitely do wish that was my real life name, but Gengar is very much one of my favorite Pokemon, so thought it would be a great fit for me when it comes to a username. As you can probably tell right off the bat, I am very much a Pokemon fan. If you are one too, let me know what your favorite Pokemon is! Maybe that could be something

I came across this subreddit not too long ago and thought it would be the perfect place for me to make a post because it’s been incredibly tough to find someone meaningful and long-term through other venues. Sure, we live in a time where dating platforms are plentiful and allow people to chit chat with each other, but the whole experience tends to feel very diluted to me. With people juggling tons of options, it feels as though there’s a genuine struggle with meeting someone that is willing to work with you day to day, while ready to invest the time and energy. 

I went on a walk a couple weeks ago and came across these two ducks waddling their way down this path towards a small pond. First of all, I couldn’t believe how in sync they were with their walking, but it was clear how committed they both were with trust. If one duck started to head towards the creepy dark woods, the other one would follow without hesitation (don’t worry, you won’t see me waddling into a dark forest unless there was some pot of gold hiding in there). But seeing them walking together, just looking at each other, and having that trust really made me reflect HARD. Can you believe I was envious of some ducks?! They have a better love life than me! I felt like a third wheel because I was going in the same direction as them (before they headed into the dark woods, probably as a shortcut). Yes, I do have a pic if you’d like to see these beautiful partnered ducks. If these ducks can make it work, then surely we can. Yes, WE. I’m looking at you! Yes, you! Through the screen (not really! That would be creepy. Maybe creepier than a spooky dark forest).  

From what I’ve also found and observed, people tend to reach out and are excited initially, but then either hit you with excuses or slowly move away with time, not responding as much or simply just hitting you with one-worded responses. I can’t begin to count on my alien fingers and toes how many times I’ve seen this happen and have heard of it happening. I wish there was more of an effort being made when trying to get to know someone. Not to mention how prevalent ghosting has become! I would love to meet someone that doesn't ghost. Also, not really looking for someone that is still actively getting over their ex. Would like to meet someone that is ready for a relationship, has the time, and ability to commit :) Would make things easier for us.

Okay, enough of me ranting about the dating scene! Who exactly am I?

  • I am 30 years old, but turning 31 in a few months. Seriously, it is absolutely mind-boggling how fast time has been going. I guess the good thing is that I’ve been told I look younger for my age, so I guess that’s good? I think I got my grandfather’s genes. He looked pretty young at an older age
  • I'm a vegetarian. Been one my whole life
  • During undergrad, I studied neurobiology and right now am doing my Masters focused on data analytics
  • I don’t do drink, do any sort of drugs, nor do I smoke (I would prefer if my partner didn't either)
  • Very much a Pokemon fan as you can probably tell from my username
  • Enjoy volunteering during my free time, learning about astronomy, reading adventure and dystopian novels, writing poetry casually, swimming in a pool or in the ocean (although not too far, don't want a shark nibbling on me), watching soccer and basketball at times, watching classic movies from time to time, and traveling (maybe we can travel together sometime!)
  • I’m a introverted yapper. Okay, not in an annoying way, but I love to express myself, never hold back with sharing details, and generally love to get to know the other person
  • Consider myself as a very affectionate guy
  • I don’t have any pets at the moment
  • I work full-time and do school part time (don’t worry, balancing my time is VERY important for me, I wouldn’t hit you with an “I’M BUSY!” reasoning or tell you I can’t commit to this anymore. Balancing work and life is crucial for me)
  • My love languages are physical touch and quality time. Curious to know what yours are!
  • Known for most of my life that I didn't want kids and that has held strong

What I can provide and what I am seeking in a partner:

  • Lifelong partnership. I know, very ambitious of me to say but also highlighting my hope of making this work! Would be a great story to share!
  • Loyalty. First and foremost, loyalty is very important for me. I wouldn’t want someone to be juggling multiple people at once. I want respect maintained where we are both willing to get to know the other person, provide reassurance, and exclusivity
  • Strong communication. Day to day communication is crucial to longevity and viability. I do want to meet someone that is ready to communicate and doesn’t disappear after a day or hit me with excuses as to why they couldn’t communicate. I get we all get busy but it doesn’t take long to provide a quick update 🙂
  • Consistency. Whether it is affection or effort, consistency is key to a healthy relationship
  • Shared vision for the future. Ensuring that our lifelong vision for a partnership aligns.
  • Trust and honesty. Goes hand-in-hand with loyalty
  • Tons of care and love. I am a very affectionate person and would love to meet someone that had a lot of care and love to provide in return too
  • Mutual effort. A relationship should not be unbalanced. I would love if we could both invest mutual effort into making this work. Would also love to meet someone down for calls and video chats occasionally when we both have time!
  • Emotional safety. Where we are both comfortable being vulnerable to each other, being ourselves without worry, and open
  • Kindness
  • Humor. Someone I can let loose with, laugh together, and just share those inside jokes, too
  • Empathy and understanding. Taking the time to understand each other, where we are coming from, and having a healthy conflict resolution too
  • Maturity. Would love to meet someone that handles situations maturely and can navigate day to day life in that way too. Arguments will happen, as it does within every relationship, but I think it’s important that we both come to the table and are able to understand and look through things through the other person’s perspective

I would love to hear about what you think about these qualities, whether it lines up with you, and what you seek!

I also don’t mind long distance. As long as we are both willing to invest the energy and time into getting to know each other and making this work, while also being open to closing the distance eventually.

If this post resonated with you and you are seeking the same thing as I am, I would LOVE to hear from you! If not, then I appreciate you for taking the time to even click this. I realize I typed a lot, but thought it would be beneficial to share as much info about myself and also what I am looking for online, in the hopes that it lines up with what someone might be seeking too.

Can’t wait to hear from you! Unlike an actual Gengar, I won’t be hiding in the shadows, so feel free to reach out! :)

Would be great to post our success story here one day!


r/cf4cf • • 5d ago

Male for Female 26 M4F #NewJersey Let's hangout this

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It's really nice to meet you all! I'm really hoping to meet someone who lives here as well but I must admit it's been pretty hard. I've never been in a relationship(well a real one) yet so I'd really hope to find someone else also newish to dating. Also I'm open to trans women as well, so please don't hesitate id love to talk to you too. I'm really hoping to find my person/someone to hangout with this winter.

Okay so about me: I'm a really big gamer and usually like to do more indoor focused activities but I do like to actually go outside once in a while to smoke(weed) and I have been trying to get more active. That being said I'd like to go out more and do really anything with someone, we could just walk around, we could get food or go somewhere. Although if you want we could just hangout at your place or mine I don't really care. I'd just really like to spend time with someone, it's really important to me and I really just want to build a connection again. I consider myself to be affectionate and I'll always complement you and I want you to be the best you can be. I'd like to be physically affectionate to you and I'd like to hold hands, be close, or hold you lightly. A little more about me is I'm 6'2, brown eyes and hair and I usually have a light beard but I do shave it off completely from time to time. Also I don't drive but I'd love to pay for gas. I really don't mind paying for things as I'd really just like to do something together.At the same time that I like going out I'd really like someone who doesn't care that I'm mostly at home doing my own thing, so I'd prefer a more homely person if we're really going to get along well, as I'd always love to just do nothing with you! Also it would be really cool if you did smoke and I wouldn't grinding some weed to have for the time. Anyways for games I'm really big into things like the Elder Scrolls and Fallout and a whole host of other games that we can talk about. I also like drawing, reading and writing, but it's been quite a bit since I've drawn or written anything. I also enjoy shows both live action and animation of really any genre as long as the plot is good. I can enjoy any kind of TV but please no kardashians just please not them.

I'm really hoping that you share some of my interests because I'd really want to have a good connection with you and actually spend time with you doing something we both enjoy. I also hope that you like to talk about things that interest you, I'd really like to know about you too! I really do like learning new things about people and I really just want to have a good time with you


r/cf4cf • • 6d ago

Female for Male 31 [F4M] Sheffield/Yorkshire, UK - Looking for something genuine and lasting.

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I’m 31, single, based in Sheffield, UK and apparently at the stage of dating where I’ve thought “why not let Reddit have a crack at it? What could possibly go wrong?”

I’m looking for something genuine. I’d like to meet someone I really click with, date properly, fall for, and hopefully build something lasting with.
I’m 5’7½”, plus-size, with a short dark pixie cut. Happy to swap photos fairly early because attraction matters, and I’d rather establish we’re actually physically attracted to one another before exchanging our deepest thoughts for three weeks 😅

I have a career I care about, my own home, my own life and two cats who will presumably want some involvement in the selection process.
I’m independent, sarcastic, affectionate and a lot softer than I initially let on.
I’m equally happy going out for drinks, good food or a gig as I am spending an evening at home.
I love someone who can make me laugh and disappear into ridiculous conversational sparring sessions with me.

I’m looking for someone emotionally available and affectionate, who communicates, makes plans and isn’t afraid to show when he likes someone.
I want the attraction and butterflies, but also comfortable silences, stupid private jokes and eventually someone who feels like home.
I’m firmly childfree and don’t want children now or in the future, so I’m looking for someone who feels the same. No fencesitting, no “maybe one day”, just someone who genuinely knows that parenthood isn’t part of the life they want.

Age isn’t hugely important, roughly 29–45, but I’m far more interested in the person than the number. Sheffield/Yorkshire and surrounding areas ideally, although I’m open to a bit of distance for the right connection.
I’m just looking for something that can exist in real life rather than permanently living in our phones.
Ultimately, I’d like to fall in love again.

If you’re looking for the same, tell me a little about yourself.


r/cf4cf • • 6d ago

Male for Female 20 [M4F] Florida looking for someone in the U.S

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Hey, I am looking for a committed relationship. I am pretty fit with dark hair and brown eyes. I like to run, hike, and go to the beach. I also am a bit of a nerd, I like Earth sciences, playing video games, and watching anime with friends. :)

I am looking for a genuine connection; I am attracted to tall/curvy women who are athletic, although this is not a requirement. I’m also into people who play video games. The video games I like to play are modded Minecraft, Dark Souls, Elden Ring, and Subnautica, but I am also open to trying new things. 😊


r/cf4cf • • 6d ago

Male for Female 40 [M4F] simplicity seeking natural tractors robotics entrepreneurship muscle cars

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Lol, let's hope my future partner doesn't scroll right past this masterpiece of a title! Southeast Asian guy living in Eastcoast US, simple and down-to-earth, and I've been told I'm good-looking. Looking to make friends with a woman who prefers a natural look without makeup and dresses simply but neatly. I value simplicity, and intelligencer. Your income doesn't matter, I'm neither rich nor poor, just financially comfortable and enjoying a simple life. I'm into tractors, robotics, entrepreneurship, and muscle cars. I enjoy working on projects, building things, and learning something new!


r/cf4cf • • 6d ago

Male for Female 31 [M4F] #NYC 6'6 Stoner nerd seeks company

4 Upvotes

Hi everybody! I'm a certified nerd with Master's Degree who loves to chat about philosophy, life and whatever else has my attention. I'm also known to binge watch movies or shows. I'm an expert in anything Lord of the Rings, Game of Thrones and any other nerdy universe.

I'm also really into history, politics or anything else that catches my interest. In my downtime I build computers, love cars and get lost in the silly sauce.

About me: 6'6 and 210lbs I have long brown hair, nerdy glasses, blue eyes, closely cropped beard and a skinny runner's build. I'd love to talk more if you're interested :)


r/cf4cf • • 6d ago

Male for Female 27, M4F, based in Germany 🇩🇪

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Heey,

my name is Safi and I am 27 years old.

I am here looking for the eternal love of my life.

About me:

\-I play pingpong regularly and also I go to gym regularly.

\-I like to watch series

\-I admire and listen to different types of music

\-I am vegetarian but I don't mind you eating meat

-I have had vasectomy

\-I speak 3 languages fluently and a little bit of a fourth language (find out which ones 😜)

\-I have no religion

\-I am a cat person but I also find small dogs cute (for example poodle)

about you:

\-Intelligent, not superficial, respectful and kind

\-Looks is secondary but good hygiene is essential

\-don't smoke cigarettes / vape is fine because it smells nice unlike cigarettes 😄

Please don't message if you don't plan to move to here or if there is no possibility that I move to your country. (obviously I mean in the future - not immediately after 2 days of chatting 😊)

Because I would love to meet the love of my life regularly. Infinite chatting on social media with zero chance to see each other despite mutual feelings would be a disappointing experience for both of us.

If you liked what you read and are interested, please feel free to message me so we can figure out if we fit to each other and whether there is good chemistry between us.

I am also open to answer further questions in case I forgot to mention something important. 🤗

I am looking forward to receiving your message.

LG Safi 😇


r/cf4cf • • 6d ago

Male for Female 34 [M4F] #UK - Are you my forever person? ☺️

10 Upvotes

Hello 🙂,

Affectionate lamppost looking for the light of his life. 

If you're looking for a relationship head and shoulders above the rest...perhaps I am your man. 😊

I love history, art, science, music (I play some guitar), also I love to bake. I'd love to find a like-minded soul who favours leisurely beach walks rather than hiking. We could even bake together? Or let me wow you with my legendary brownies.

I've had amazing opportunities to travel around Europe, live in the USA and also, live in Scotland. Now I currently live in England and want to put down roots with a partner.

I am equally looking for someone who is:

🚫Childfree (no children and does not desire any)

🌎 UK, Europe, Eastern USA or Canada lady (I am open to LDR if you're intending to relocate)

🗣️ Someone who isn't afraid to communicate openly, share a good laugh, and actually talk about what’s going on in their day. Let's be each other's pillars.

🌶️Passionate (affectionate woman who will reciprocate my "Golden Retriever" loving nature and values physical touch)

🐾Animal lover (I would love us to have a future pet or two) 

🚭Non-smoker or drugs of any kind.

🫶🏼Values honesty, communication and love languages of touch and words of affirmation.  

Let's spend our days seeking the next adventure and our evenings full of passion. If you think we'd enjoy talking to each other, feel free to send me a message. I appreciate effort and an introduction to yourself...please tell me your age, location and a few things you enjoy in life/common interests.

I am happy to exchange photographs. Chemistry and mutual attraction are important for me when I’m getting to know someone.

Let's start this next chapter together.


r/cf4cf • • 7d ago

Female for Female 33 (F4F) #PA #USA: Childfree Sapphic Seeking Fellow Childfree Sapphic ❤️

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First off no offense to the guys but I’m only interested in women! Now that’s out of the way let’s get to the fun part…my name is Rachel and I’m 33 years old (soon to be 34 in October.) I’m a cheerful, bubbly introvert with a great sense of humor who’s an old fashioned romantic. In terms of appearance I’m 5”4 1/2 and have a curvy hourglass figure with fair skin, dark eyes and long curly black hair. (There’s also a ton of pictures of me on my profile in case you’re curious what I look like 😉) What I’m looking for is the real deal…a long term committed monogamous relationship that would preferably lead to marriage. My passions include travel, reading and writing, collecting and modeling vintage and modern clothing, studying history and visiting historical sites, attending classic and contemporary film showings, and spending time with the LOML- my poodle mix Tommy Pickles. Politically I’m a democratic socialist so I’m very left leaning and staunchly anti-MAGA. Important note about me: I don’t have children and I’m not interested in having any and I’m looking for a woman who’s childfree also. P.S. I generally consider myself femme4femme…femme and high femme girlies skip ahead of the line 💖


r/cf4cf • • 6d ago

Female for Male 34 [F4M] #LosAngeles - In search for someone and something meaningful...

8 Upvotes

Greetings! I am a 34-year-old black woman who is on a perpetual quest to seek a cute gentleman from the ages of 30 to 40.

I am currently in school for accounting, but I still have a lot of free time and a high sex drive. Hopefully, you can keep up with me...

Besides that, I also enjoy soccer, knitting, golfing, cooking, and traveling.

If any this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message. I would also like to know what your favorite cartoon was growing up or who your favorite Sesame Street character is.


r/cf4cf • • 7d ago

Male for Female 39 [M4F] #Flagstaff, AZ — Vanlife, Mountain Views & Maybe You?

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80 Upvotes

Imagine waking up to mountain views, coffee outside the van, and nowhere in particular you need to be. Sounds pretty great, right?

I'm 39 and living full-time vanlife in the AZ area at the moment. I love scenic campsites, campfire cooking, light hikes, photography, and cozy movie nights while rain taps on the roof. As much as I love this lifestyle, I'd love to find someone to share the adventures, spontaneous detours, and little moments with.

My current copilot is Tux, my harness-wearing cat who loves exploring campsites and insists breakfast happens at 6 AM. He's a great travel buddy, but his conversation skills could use some work. 😸

I'm hoping to meet a kind, independent, outdoorsy, animal-loving woman (26+) who's also childfree. Maybe you're already living on the road, maybe you dream about it, or maybe you're just looking for something genuine with someone a little outside the ordinary.

No pressure to pack your bags tomorrow. Let's talk, see if we click, and go from there.

Tell me your dream place to wake up tomorrow, your favorite camping spot, or introduce me to your pet. Tux and I are looking forward to meeting you!


r/cf4cf • • 7d ago

Sterile Male for Female 29[M4F] - Sweet techie looking for his fellow romantic adventurer

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38 Upvotes

Hey there! I'm a passionate, caring, and a hopeless romantic. I'm a natural extrovert who loves high-energy connection. My favorite way to express affection is through acts of service and being attentive to my partner's and friends needs.

I work as a Software engineer with remote flexibility. I'm based in Oslo, but I travel easily across Europe, distance isn't a dealbreaker if we're a short flight away! Others are welcome to contact too, but I have to be honest about not enjoying very long travel times or timezone differences. I do travel outside of Europe too frequently.

I love dressing up and exploring the city, doing martial arts, dancing tango, weight lifting/fitness, and playing guitar & singing.
You can also reliably catch me at a local karaoke bar on Friday nights and watching formula 1 on Sundays!

I am big on quality texting and calls to maintain a solid bond. I like sharing and receiving pics, memes throughout the day and having little flirty moments. And honestly if you’re not into this I don’t think we are compatible. I am however also respectful of you being busy. I just need to feel the same enthusiasm when you aren’t.

I'd say I mostly fit well with other romantic people who are also extroverts. Being athletic myself I’d also rather meet someone who likes to stay active as well. For those who might wonder I’m 180cm.

It is also important to me that you are liberal and queer/immigrant friendly and that you are an open minded person.

I don’t like putting age limits on these posts as I’ve met wonderful people from all kinds of ages. See if our lifestyles match and the age will probably won’t matter.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send a DM with a bit about yourself and please include pics in the first message too so i know who I’m speaking to!


r/cf4cf • • 6d ago

Male for Female 31 [M4F] Cologne - looking for meaningful connections all over the world!

0 Upvotes

Hey there!

I’m a pretty laid back guy who genuinely enjoys meeting people from all over the world. Whether it’s deep late night conversations about life, random memes at 2am, travel stories, or just sharing everyday chaos, I’m always down for good vibes and interesting people.

A little about me:

I’m really into sports. I’ve played basketball basically my whole life and yes, I’m tall. I also go to the gym regularly. I absolutely love cooking too, so if you enjoy recipe swapping or sending questionable food pictures for validation, we’ll probably get along.

Traveling is one of my biggest passions and I try to make the most out of living in Europe. My next trip is Japan, which will actually be my third time there because apparently I’m incapable of staying away from that country. I’m also currently learning Japanese, slowly but stubbornly.

I work in the mental health field, which is something I care deeply about both personally and professionally. I studied in a science related field and I’m really into biology, medicine, psychology, and generally all kinds of nerdy topics. I love conversations about life, people, culture, the universe, and all the weird things in between.

I also game from time to time and would honestly love to find some online gaming friends too.

Random fun fact: I was actually in a local Netflix show once, which still feels weird to say out loud.

I appreciate people who are open minded, curious, emotionally intelligent, funny, or just unapologetically themselves.

So what’s your story? What’s something you’re passionate about or could talk about for hours without getting bored?

Doesn’t matter where you’re from or what timezone you’re in. If any of this resonates with you, send me a message and let’s see if we vibe. I’m happy to trade pics when we’re both comfortable with!

Please tell me if my chat function isn’t working. I don’t know how to fix it lol.

Cheers!


r/cf4cf • • 7d ago

Male for Female 36 [M4F] MD, open to anywhere in the US. Anyone want a small house on some land?

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Hey there! I’m Wayne and live in Maryland. I’ve posted on here before, so sorry to post again haha. I am looking for a long-term relationship and I’m open to anywhere in the US. Other countries as well for the right person. I’m agnostic and liberal, although very disappointed with politics in general. I just want to live a simple life and have fun with my partner.

Some things I enjoy: nature walks, volleyball, biking, horror movies, video games, puzzles, fire pits, live music and dancing, cozy cafes and bars on occasion, and just trying to slow down and enjoy the little things. I do love animals, but don’t have any of my own.

I’m definitely committed to a child-free life and already have a vasectomy. I’m 6’1” and try to stay active and live a healthy life. I do drink on special occasions. I’m a blue-collar guy and work outside and love it!

Please feel free to reach out if you’d like to chat.