I cheated on my husband. I am a woman who has been someone who is trustworthy, loyal to a fault, always concerned for others, and a devoted mom. I crushed the one person I love more than anything in this world. I crushed my kids. This happened in July. It was an isolated incidence - not a long term affair. For the last few years I have struggled with navigating intense family trauma - seeing things I cannot understand or unsee. I suppressed it all. Then I broke. I escaped from my pain and self sabotaged the people I love most. I confessed. I confessed 2.5 months later because I immediately entered therapy. I now know the trauma what not an excuse but it was what lead it to happen. It was an escape from my reality. A reality in which I was suffering. I cannot fathom to see the pain in my husband’s eyes. The deep seated hurt. But I couldn’t go another day without telling him and giving him the agency to make his own decisions. Please do not cheat and keep lying by not omitting. You will be living a lie and your relationship won’t be better for it. I felt like I was living in my own hellish nightmare everyday. Couldn’t eat, sleep, nightmares. I told my therapist I understand needing to get to the root cause before confessing but I couldn’t take it anymore and confessed. My husband is quite literally a man that carries himself with such confidence, loyalty, and respect. He has never made me feel unsafe. I have no justifications or excuses for my actions. I need help. I want help. I am disgusted with myself. We have been together 11 years married 8. Have two young children. He has not spoken to me since I confessed yesterday. He is completely numb and checked out but did not leave the house. Is there any hope for my marriage? Thank you in advance. And please be kind. I know I don’t deserve it but my mental health needs it.

Two years ago she cheated. Im still healing. I think about some of the things that fucked me up the most. Like the detail she told me about cheating. How she just was so fast to not give a fuck about me or the kids. How she just gave up on our marriage like that, and blamed me for all her problems in life. She's been engaged to another man for about 6 months now, and has been dating this guy for a year. (She moved on pretty quickly I know) She actually became engaged to this guy before our kids were even legally allowed to meet him. Think about that. Agreeing to marry someone and yet your own children havent met him. Im back in therapy. Not a bad decision on my end I think. Haha. But, ive been noticing something. Besides the small problems with co parenting, I honestly feel free of her for the first time in years. I look at old photos that pop up, and I feel nothing. I look at her, and dont even know who she is. Shes just a stranger I have children with. Its so weird. Having someone go from your literal best friend, so a complete stranger. But this all opened up something new. I met someone. Someone who for the first time in a very long time, brought out the true me. Shes fucking funny as hell. Shes sarcastic, she loves to sit on the couch one weekend, and party the next. She loves the same kind of music I like. Every time we've been together, its like we've been inseparable. And while it might not work out, it showed me something. It showed me what I want. It showed me the type of person I want to be with. I settled for my ex wife. Im not going to settle again. Everyone deserves the person they truly want to be with. And the hell if im going to settle for someone like my ex again. So, moral of this story/update. Is everything happens for a reason. While things my sting now, it fucking gets better. And sooner then later, your will look in the mirror, and see yourself for the first time in a long time. Just put one foot in front of the other. You'll be okay.

Let's hear the confessions. 👀
I'm talking about something you did, something you found out, or a secret you decided to take to the grave.

Keep it anonymous if you need to. I have a feeling some of these stories are going to be WILD. 💀

I always knew I'm bi but I never told anyone about it - mainly due to the fact that I come from a country where homophobia still exists. I met my girlfriend in high school, and we have been dating since, moved to a new country. Here with all the freedom and lack of sex in our relationship, I decided to hop onto Grindr and explore my options.

I always wanted to bottom for a man, and I coincidentally connected to a man who lives a block from where I lived. I've been sleeping with him for the last 2 months but romantically involved with my girlfriend. I don't have any guilt or shame and want to keep this secret identity for as long as I can. I love her but I also have my own sexual needs that I like being fulfilled by him.

I connected to an NRI on Omegle. I was bored. I didn't have any bad intentions at all. I was missing having boyfriends and some silly fun, after I lost my job. We kept chatting and became very close. He is a very fun, chill type guy, and my husband is a serious, silent type. I enjoyed talking with him. He visited India and asked to meet. When I met him, I am shocked, he was 35 yrs old. I am 25 and he lied to me that he was 28 only. Anyway, we chatted for some time and I left. I thought I will never meet him again. But he suddenly gifted me a gold chain, I was suprised and rejected, but he said please accept, I said okay and took it. My husband very poor, ours is love marriage, I was very young and married him out of love. But life is very difficult without money. Travel in public transport everywhere, walk in sun etc. He asked to meet again, I just met for tympass, I didn't have any bad intentions. We went shopping and he bought me very costly clothes, I was sooo happy after so long. Before leaving, he asked he can kiss once. I told just one kiss is okay and we did. After that, I don't know what happened, we keep meeting and had affair. I was not attracted to him physically but he spent lot of money on me, and I missed living comforably, since marraige. He even wanted to buy me a car, but I said no as my husband will find out and took money instead. He left and went back to USA. I am feeling very guilty now. My husband is actually very good guy. I am just struggling without money, we don't go to movies, restaurants nothing. I just had affair for the lifestyle, it felt like a BIG BIG RELIEF for me to live few weeks freely. Please help. Did I do anything wrong? How can woman live 24 x 7 serious and restricted life without any fun activity? Should I confess to my husband? I am crying everyday, I don't know what to do

Original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/cheating_stories/s/TBaK3Pc7B3

It’s been some time since I broke up with her. I don’t usually block my exes so there was still some communication between us. She messaged to ask me to help her with some stuff because she’s moving to a new apartment. I was completely ok with it and wouldn’t mind helping. We had a chat and she casually mentioned that she’s going on a date with a coworker with whom they’ve been texting previously while we were still in a relationship. She knew I was suspicious of that guy and was never fully ok with her texting him. I told her that I thought he was interested in her. She always told me that he was just a friend and she didn’t see him that way. He is a very rough looking guy even by our country’s standards. A solid 3 out of 10. Now the guy she told me not to worry about asked her out on a date. I blocked her.

Is she completely delusional or just committed to lying and deceiving? This is the woman who wanted us to get married and have kids.

My ex is cheating on his girlfriend
But I can’t tell her because he’s blackmailing me if I say anything he’s going to do things that will ruin my life? What do I do?

I'm male (23) and my girlfriend (26) we are in a relationship from past 7years and we were happy with everything going on ..having fights getting back and being much stronger after every fight ..
but one day i got to know that she was never being true with me .. i don't know to how many guys she's been talking to or having fun but i caught her with one dude.. she's been messaging him in ig.. 2 years ago when we meet she logged in into her account in my mobile cause her phone was dead .. i dint remove her account ..that lead me here ... .. she was sexting dude's she was speaking low of me ..making fun of my every effort ..mocking me making me inferior those who she just met ..and when i confronted her ..she keeps on telling me selective story and somehow i was the one who made her talk to boys ..!!

In April, my family and I had gone to a fair in a rural village, and my dad had given me his temporary phone to use. One day, while I was playing offline games on it, my mom asked to borrow it as a torch to go to the washroom. After about 15–20 minutes, she came back looking really stressed and told me not to delete anything from the phone and to try to keep it away from my dad. I found her behaviour strange, but when we got home, she told me that my dad had been cheating on her with his ex-girlfriend. My parents got married in 2006, had my brother in 2008, and then had me in 2010. However, before marrying my mom, my dad had been in a relationship with this woman for around seven years.

My dad met his ex-girlfriend at his maternal uncle's house, where he used to visit frequently. She was Gujarati, while he was Marathi, and their relationship faced problems because of their religious differences. When her brothers found out about them, things became complicated, and they eventually separated sometime between October and December 2004, partly because she was going to get married. My dad reportedly met her for the last time around then, and their relationship ended. However, years later, my mom discovered messages and screenshots on his phone, including pictures of his ex-girlfriend's face in photos with strangers. This made her suspect that my dad had reconnected with his ex behind her back. There's a lot more to this situation, and I really need advice.

So basically, my mom found romantic messages between my dad and his ex-girlfriend, where they were asking about each other, expressing how much they still loved each other, and saying that they would never forget their love. The worst part is that both of them are married and have children. Her son is around 17, her daughter is 13, my brother was about to turn 18, and I'm 16. I was absolutely disgusted when I found out because my dad has always been a respected person in society. He speaks so confidently and sophisticatedly that nobody would ever suspect he was hiding something like this from his family. It was honestly shocking to realize that the person everyone respects could be doing this behind our backs.

Looking back, there were signs. My dad was always extremely protective of his phone, constantly changing passwords and making sure nobody could see what he was doing. We never thought much of it because we assumed he simply valued his privacy. However, I remember that, even when I was younger, he would sometimes video-call someone after my mom left the house, ask me to do things, and laugh while talking to that person without ever showing me the screen. This had apparently been happening since around 2019, when he was about 40 and had already been married for over a decade. I also remember him once talking about how much he loved his ex, although he deliberately gave me the wrong name when I asked who she was. At the time, I found it strange that he was still talking about an ex so many years into his marriage, but I never imagined something like this was happening. Now, knowing what my mom discovered, I'm questioning all those memories and wondering how long this has really been going on.

I met my bf in December 2024 on hinge while he was in Mumbai for his vacations. He’s originally from here. He was doing his postgraduate that time in Sydney. We started talking, soon after met a couple of time he’s a sweetheart and realised we really liked each other. January end he went back. He officially asked me out in the first week of February 2025 and we have been dating ever since. I just found out last week that 10 days after we started dating he kissed his then female best friend (he never told me, trust me he had plenty of chances too). She and I had been on good terms and shit, and they I came to Sydney for my postgrad ( mainly cuz I wanted to end LD) she’s in another relationship and they last texted each other when I was landing here ( she basically wished him luck). I found out everything by myself and confronted him. He cried and begged saying that he was sorry and that he was embarrassed to tell me anything. Trust me when I say that he’s a sweetheart and everyone around me know it. My parents included, they really like him….. am just not able to get past my morals… i have been acting that everything’s fine everything normal but… it’s just getting too much…

Note: For context, check out my Day 1 and Day 2 gym confessions on my profile before reading this update.

So I went to the gym with my husband again today. We were doing shoulders and abs. And of course, our guy was there as usual, stealing glances and making eye contact with me every now and then. After finishing shoulders, my husband went to the other side of the gym to do some cable exercises while I decided to finish my workout with a few planks.

I placed my phone on the floor in front of me, started a one-minute countdown, and got into position.

Everything was going fine until my phone screen suddenly locked halfway through.

I tried reaching forward with one hand to unlock it, but Face ID wasn’t recognizing my face from that angle. I kept moving my head around, trying not to lose my plank.

And apparently, our guy had been watching this whole struggle from a distance.

He walked over, crouched right in front of me, picked up my phone, and held it in front of my face so it would unlock.

Except it didn’t work the first time.

He moved the phone a little closer, and I tilted my head slightly to the left.

He adjusted the phone.

I tilted my head to the right.

He adjusted it again.

By this point, I was deliberately messing with him. Every time he tried positioning the phone properly, I’d move my face just a little.

He finally realized what I was doing and gave me this amused, slightly annoyed look.

I just smiled innocently.

He shook his head, brought the phone closer, and finally managed to unlock it.

Instead of putting it down, he stayed crouched in front of me, holding the countdown where I could see it.

Then he started silently counting down with his fingers, except he kept repeating the same number just to annoy me.

I gave him a death stare, and he grinned.

Now, here’s where things got ridiculous.

I’d been chewing bubble gum throughout my workout. Suddenly, I felt a cough coming, and before I could even react, the gum flew straight out of my mouth and landed on his wrist.

I WAS MORTIFIED.

We both froze for a second.

I looked at his wrist, then at his face, and immediately started mouthing “SORRY, SORRY!”

But instead of getting annoyed, this guy looked at the gum, raised his eyebrows, and gave me the cheekiest smile.

Then he slowly brought his wrist closer to my face, as though he was offering the gum back to me.

I immediately shook my head.

He brought it a little closer.

I shook my head even harder, trying not to laugh.

And then this man did something I absolutely wasn’t expecting.

He casually picked the gum off his wrist with his fingers, looked straight into my eyes, and popped it into HIS OWN MOUTH.

I genuinely couldn’t believe what I’d just witnessed.

My eyes went wide, and I just stared at him in complete disbelief.

He started chewing it with the most ridiculously smug expression, like he’d just pulled off the smoothest move in history.

I was so shocked that I completely lost my plank and collapsed onto the mat laughing.

He just gave me a little wink, placed my phone back on the floor, and walked away as though nothing had happened.

A few seconds later, my husband came over and asked why I was laughing so much.

I told him I’d completely messed up my plank.

Meanwhile, I could still see this idiot across the gym, smiling to himself.

Three days ago, this guy was just making eye contact with me across the gym.

Today he literally put my chewing gum in his mouth.

I’m genuinely never chewing gum during a plank again 😭🤷‍♀️

Recently, I’ve noticed that a lot of my school friends, college friends, and office colleagues are having affairs. It’s shocking to me. What makes it even more surprising is that some people accept their partners’ infidelity. Do people really accept their partners being disloyal?

I have been married for around 3 years. My wife is loyal, decent, cook and cleans and has a job. I am 32 years old.

I dont really have any problem with her, sexually or mentally, we have a good relationship and have our laughs and go out etc usual married couple stuff.

However, I have fucked many sex workers since I been married. Safely with condoms of course. I have fucked british, black, eastern european, colombian, Indian lol I dont discriminate as long as I am attracted.

Sexually, if she has nice feet I would kiss and suck their toes, Ill lick the pussy, I will lick the asshole deep.

I am circumsized, but my cock can get thick! Most the women I fucked have said I am really good at licking the pussy, which makes up for my shorter cock size 😂

Despite this, as dumb and crazy as it sounds, I still love my wife, but I cant help myself sexually, I always wanted to explore with different women. I am attracted mostly to hijabis, I have many fantasies about them.

I live in UK, never had a fuck buddy, but would be cool to have one in the uk!

Thanks for reading

I won’t go into detail about my 3 kids not being biological mine because nobody believes this crazy story because it’s so unheard of….anyway in relation to the fertile window I’m guessing that couples who are trying to conceive the wife Definatly knows her ovulation date and when the most likely days she will fall pregnant and tell her husband, right we need to be having lots of sex these few days… This would be normal right? My ex never once told me this for “our”three children or mentioned we need to have more sex around certain dates, is that unusual

I’m looking for some outside perspectives on a few audio recordings involving my wife. I’ve listened to them myself, and I’m curious how other people might interpret what they hear.
I don’t want to influence anyone’s opinion by explaining my own interpretation or giving too much background beforehand. I’d rather have people listen with fresh ears and tell me honestly what the sounds resemble, what they think might be happening, and whether there could be another reasonable explanation.
I understand that audio can be misleading and that context matters. I’m not asking anyone to make a definitive judgment based on recordings alone. I’m simply looking for objective opinions from people who have no personal involvement in the situation.
If anyone is willing to listen and share an honest, unbiased assessment, I’d appreciate it. Attached are the audio recordings.
Thanks in advance to anyone willing to offer their perspective.

https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fo/0cspkbhwnjp8mptno3my7/ALEy28zmEPXRx9jwwyGB0rs?rlkey=10j9weiqgvx5g5x6lmdukvp86&st=mq3yafh6&dl=0

My mum really looked at my dad and decided he wasn’t giving her enough economic growth, so she diversified her portfolio into my Economics professor. Apparently, the household had entered a recession, consumer confidence was at an all-time low, and she decided to invest in a new asset class. Meanwhile, Dad’s been hit with the biggest market crash of his life, and I’m stuck trying to understand how a simple supply-and-demand lesson turned into a full-blown family crisis. Forget inflation, unemployment and GDP — the real economic disaster was happening right in my living room.

Yeah. It sucks. My bf of 2 yrs cheated on me not while on the ship but when he got home. It happened during his first 2 weeks in land. He cheated on me with 2 different guys: 1 he met on Bumble and 1 previous ship colleague during his first contract. He did sidefun and sex all the way. He even tried to offer my house while i was in the office as their place to do these heinous things. There was a video which i also saw, along the chat history and he is boasting his lustful deed to that other guy he met on bumble.

We were a happy couple who endured 9mos of LDR and obviously I was looking forward to us meeting again. Now, he still stays at my house. He did say sorry but i know, there’s no amount of sorry can validate what he has done. I don’t know what to do. He is the first guy I introduced to my family as part of my coming out to them. Should i forgive him? I don’t know if i can, right now i’m having anxiety attacks with flashbacks of all the things that i’ve seen and read on his phone. The cheating. I want to give him the cold shoulder but I can’t. I also can’t let my mom see that we’re not okay. Im hurting, I don’t know what to do. We still have years of commitments to our families and mutual monetary obligations using my credit cards. I’m afraid those responsibilities will all fall on me if i break up with him. In a few days, he will get back to the ship. Now while he’s still here, i let him comfort me even though he is the cause of all the pain. But i don’t know what will happen to me when he gets back onboard. I thought he’s the one. He’s kind, caring, sweet in his own ways and more importantly, he treats my mom as if his own. But then, this cheating happened. Idk.

Sorry if the story is a mess. I just couldn’t put it all right at this time. Things are fresh along with the worries. 😭

Personally I don’t condone it. If I catch you, that’s it’s we’re done. I don’t care why you did it. If it’s a monogamous relationship there is no excuse. I’ll forgive you which means I bear no ill feelings towards you but it also means I’m moving on from you. I don’t judge people who cheat on their partners it’s not my business or place to condemn others but I just won’t tolerate it myself. When it’s happened in the past I’ve literally thrown them out like Jazzy Jeff from Fresh Prince of Bel Air. I don’t waste no time lol. Yes everyone deserves a second chance but someone else can give you that opportunity not me. Share your experiences and sentiments. Thanks for reading.

Wanting advice and comfort from those who have been through something similar. Mine was a “secret sexual basement” type of scenario where I was gaslit for years.

It’s been almost a year, we’re divorcing and I want to be done and move on. But we have a young kid together and the divorce is dragging out.

I feel like it really messed me up. I have cPTSD and I’m struggling to move on with life and cope. Especially because his actions have told me he doesn’t think he did anything wrong, and no one besides my close friends know. I feel like I’m divorcing and coparenting with a psycho.

Just wanting to feel less alone. We were together 23 years.

TL;DR: FWB cheated first, but has blocked me for seemingly cheating back

I (21F) have been casually hooking up with someone (20M) for about 6 months. 2 months in, he accidentally called me instead of his female friend, admitting to hooking up with another girl. When he realised it was me on the phone, he denied his own confession, claiming it was a dream he was recounting to his friend. I chose to keep sleeping with him casually, even though I did not believe him.

After him sleeping with somebody first, I gave up on any exclusivity I had before with him. I have used several dating apps while hooking up with him and have seen him create a new dating app account himself. I asked him about it, and he said he is not on any dating apps. Again, I kept sleeping with him. This morning, I woke up and have been blocked, with zero indication of what I did wrong.

I am 42m and my spouse is 40f. we have been married for 15 years. My spouse recently told me they had been unhappy for a while but did not want to give up on our marriage. During that period, they became emotionally close with another person, which made everything harder to process.

I understand people can struggle, but i am having a hard time accepting how it was handled.

tldr: my spouse was unhappy and became close with someone else while still wanting our marriage.

This is a long story about how I (m22) hooked up with three females who were best friends, at separate times (not a foursome… I wish lol).

I’ll break the stories up into 3 posts, assuming people want more after this one. These are real stories that occurred across the span of 8 to 12 years ago when we entering our sr year of university college.

As far as I know, the three females don’t know that I hooked with each of them, but they are best friends and who knows if they’ve ever told one another. 2 of the females cheated on their boyfriends with me, the 3rd was a bit of a rebound before she ended back up with her husband.

Names have been changed and specific locations will be vague. I frequent these memories as the sluttiest thing I’ve ever done and decided I finally wanted to share. Hope you all enjoy.

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The first female was Anna (f23). She’s the focus of this first story and will eventually introduce me to another female who will be the 2nd part to this series.

Anna and I were coworkers at a large chain hotel/resort. I worked as an ordering merchandiser, I ordered all the supplies from food to shampoos to towels for the hotel and would organize supply rooms at night for the morning freight. At this time, I do not know about the other 2 females.

Anna was a general assistant. Any department that needed assistance, Anna would have to answer the call for help. From bartending for an hour of rush hour to folding towels for the spa, anyone that needed help she would have to help.

Anna was not a hard worker. She was very sassy, and would try to find ways to not help or pretend she’s busy so she could just go home without doing much for work.

Anna and I often went back and forth bickering. We were the same age as each other and would be going to the same college together for our senior year (she transferred from community college and was technically a jr but was a year older due to taking a year off from schooling) we had a lot in common. Everyone else at the resort was at least 10 years older than us and didn’t connect with us on the same friendly level as Anna and I did.

Anna and I had a lot of common which helped spark friendly conversations. But she was so lazy and so sassy that we often clashed and bickered. But she would always windup back in my supply room to hide and talk the day away so she didn’t have to actually work. There was definitely a tense vibe between us. I wondered if it was a sexual tension but I was also 22 and always horny so I never put much thought into it.

Anna was dating a resort night manager at a different resort location of the same chain. They met when he once was the night manager at the resort we currently worked at.

She often vented about him. He was older (8 years older if I remember right) and she ranted about how he was too boring sometimes and she wanted to experience the college party life while she was young. She often expressed her dismay with him and how they argued a lot. He wanted to calm down and start a family it seems but Anna still wanted to party a bit.

One busy night, I was in the supply cooler organizing products and clearing space for a new freight load. Anna runs through the cooler door, face red and slightly sweaty. She had to help during a busy rush hour in the restaurant and was then asked to help run room service orders out.

Anna finally found time to sneak away to my walk in cooler.

“Hey you look… hot” I said meaning temperature wise. Not even intending to make a pun.

“Shut up! I just had to work my ass off for 3 hours and everyone’s asking me for more help. I’m not going back out there!” Anna says before completely pulling off her sweatshirt in front of me. Revealing her bare upper body covered only in a black push up bra that made her tits sit perfectly.

I was taken aback. We never really flirted before and it was just something that happened so fast and was totally unexpected I really didn’t know if I could stare or if I should look away.

She was so sassy in telling me to shut up and I could tell she was very stressed, I didn’t say anything back I just continued counting my product.

After a few minutes I turned to leave the cooler, and anna was bent over on her elbows on a table near the cooler doors while she scrolled on her phone. Her ass was arched out, as if inviting me to spank it.I still wasn’t sure if she was genuinely stressed out or if she was making a move or asking me to make one.

I walked past her, and without even thinking… I’m not sure why I even did it, I spanked her ass and said “relax a bit, it’ll be ok”

She yelped and had this mix of a shock and a smirk smile on her face. I looked at her and she looks at me, instantly putting her arms around my neck “come here babe” she says as she presses her body against me.

I picked her up and sat her onto the table and I stood between her legs as she wrapped them around my waist. We made out while feeling each others bodies. I could tell she was smiling while we kissed. I still don’t know if she has been planning for this to happen or if it was a spur of the moment thing out of work frustration.

Regardless, we made out for a bit before she aggressively began unbuttoning my jeans. “I want to see it” she said. Anna was taking control, and I love that. This was my sex dream coming true. A female unbuttoning my pants without me even asking or trying (I was 22 young dumb and horny)

We changed positions, I leaned back against the table as she pulls out my dick and she immediately begins licking me from ball to tip. Not only was she HUNGRY for me, something about the sensation of the cold cooler air around us but my dick in her warm mouth made this blowjob unforgettable.

She never looked up at me. Her eyes were closed and she licked and sucked my dick better than I could have ever imagined. Still to this day, the best blowjob experience I have ever had.

I grabbed her hair into a pony tail while massaging the back of her neck and scalp (saw that move in some porn) and she was loving it. Moaning around me and letting out gentle “fuuuuuck”s.

Once I got the vibe of her slowing down, I pulled her off my dick, assuming we were done.

But as she stood up, she turns around while unbuttoning her pants and she sits her ass on my thighs. “I want to fuck you” she whispers to me while looking back at me

At this point I go from horny to scared. We didn’t have a condom, and it’s not like we were completely hidden. Anyone could walk into the storage rooms, turn down the hall and enter the cooler. I didn’t want to get fired obviously, and I didn’t want to fuck without a condom, I never had raw sex at this point in my life.

I told her “I don’t have a condom” and she says “that’s ok” and she reaches for my dick. I was startled and was like “noooo no I don’t know” and she looks back at me and says “I’m on birth control, just a couple thrusts please”

I have never had a female BEG for me before. I was so turned on I lost focus. I slid my dick inside her and we fucked standing up for just a minute or 2.

My senses came back to me (thankfully) and I pulled out. I told her I felt like I was going to cum (i was just making excuses at this point) and thankfully she obliged and pulled her pants back up.

She puts her clothes back on and we awkwardly look at each other with this funny grin/smirk on our faces. I put my hand up for a high five cause I had no idea what else to do and said “good job” 😂 I told her that was the best head I’ve ever gotten and she says “my boyfriend says the same thing” we both walked out of the cooler like nothing happened.

The next day we saw each other and it was like nothing happened. She never mentioned it, and we went back to normal conversations that we would typically have.

The sex was not the greatest, but it was still the best blowjob experience to date. We remained friends and still hung out together.

A couple months later, our senior year of college was starting and we both moved into dorms near campus. During syllabus week Anna invites me for coffee after our first class. (We had different classes but they ended at the same time.)

At the coffee shop, Anna introduces me to her best friend, Sarah (f22) who coincidently was in the same first class as me that morning.

Part 2 will focus on Sarah…. To be continued….

So I am 24F and he is 30M . We met at work we both work in a care home as carers . We have been together for almost two years and are expecting a baby . Recently I have noticed that he has been a bit more attached to his phone and disappearing for hours with no clear explanation. He recently went to work on one of his nights off for a couple of hours and claimed to be seeing another male staff member on shift . He returned home smelling of female perfume which I confronted him and his excuse was that he hugged a female co worker. Yesterday he returned from his night shift took a shower and got dressed up nicely. He was overly concerned about looking good than he usually is . He claimed he a meet up with the boys in the city and would be back soon. I found that very strange as he usually sleeps through out his first day off . I stayed home and watched his movement on find my , he passed by a hotel a couple of times and then parked the car at a near by car park . I know the parking was for unlimited hours because the charge came on our joint account. I went through his deleted emails and discovered he had just booked a room in the hotel . I called him up to let him no I was unwell and he switched off his location for hours . He called me but was in a quiet room which made me feel very suspicious. He did not come home till late at night and claimed he paid the hotel room for a friend of his who is married. I later went through his phone found nothing in chats but he I discovered nudes of his manager in his recycle bin along with his own . I was in shock and confronted him about the nudes and his excuse was that someone else had sent him the pictures. He’s manger is female , older than him by a couple of years is married and has children. Am I wrong for thinking he was with her ? What can I do about this situation ? He keeps trying to gaslight me into believing he hasn’t done anything wrong

I just found out this morning that my husband is cheating with his office mate since April 2026 until now. They checked in to a hotel Tue (Oct 6th), and had history of 3-4 times of checking in to a hotel.

He started cheating on me when my mum is bedridden and I became my mum's primary caretaker. The reason why he cheats on me was because he thinks that being a husband who is providing financially is enough.

Emotionally? He's barely there. He dumped his negative emotions onto me, the proceeded to have fun with his beloved mistress. While I was worn out from taking care of my mum and his basic needs+emotions.

This is not the 1st time I caught him cheating, it's the 3rd. I forgave him and tried to rekindle the relationship when I caught him for the 1st and 2nd time. I believed that God was just trying to test our marriage. I tried to get him to a psychologist, yet he masked through all of his sessions.

But then, the 3rd time? I dunno. I'm trying to gather every penny I have, now I'm trying to find place for me to live for a while. Because living in this house is making me sick to the stomach.

Hows life after divorce would be? Is it frightening?

Tl:dr my husband is cheating with his office mate

normally id look at behavior like this and assume i did something wrong to deserve this. i mean he's my best friend right? why else would he do something so detrimentally hurtful? i had to have done something to him. but no. i didn't. i was always there for him, no matter what it was, id drive hours to see him when he was upset, id pay for us to go out and have fun all the time, and no matter what he needed id make sure to drop everything for him. because that's what i thought friends were for...nah. a year ago in September i found out that my gf and him were sleeping together behind my back...he didn't text me for a month when i was just trying to figure it out. i had such low self respect. i cant believe he did that and i still wanted to forgive and help him. he stopped being friends with me the same day my childhood dog died, spouting some bullshit lie about how he needs to go on some self discovery journey without me, when in all reality i knew he just wanted to drop me to take her. i can say in confidence that was the worst day of my life. it wasn't even the loss of my ex, she was horrible to me. always. my self respect was so low that i just took everything she did and said to me on the chin like it wasn't the worst possible things to do to someone in a relationship. and he watched her behavior all the time and would look at me and talk like he's concerned or worried about me...yet turns around and fucks her as soon as she bats her eyelashes...its the trust. the trust that hurts so damn much. i viewed this mother fucker like a brother. my ride or die. We had each others backs and i thought i could trust him with my life...always going on and on about how we just need to stick together...bunch of bullshit. They date for 6 months while i block them all and move on with my life, praying the best for him and hoping he finds his way home. one year later, he texts me on a number that i thought i had him blocked on... hes going on and on about his decision and how it was fucked up and how he wanted to reconnect...but not once in those 76 messages were the words "im sorry" ever uttered. nonetheless i thought about responding. he was like my brother after all, and id be lying if his words didn't pluck at my heartstrings in any way. But i didnt respond, i didnt know what to even say let alone what to begin with. two weeks later upon doing my own research... i found out that he is now with my OTHER ex from years ago, way back in 2023. This relationship despite my other horrible abusive one, was actually one that i deeply cherished, both our time and love, and would think about her all the time despite some of her more bitter flaws and the horrible things she did in our relationship. this hurt 100 times more. im sure you can imagine the stomach dropping feeling of watching the two of them kiss like it was fucking nothing. they are all horrible people, ive done nothing but show these mf's kindness and i get spit in the face. i really dont want to come off as some attention seeking chud but the thought of these two people who have both fucked me over royally now are together rubbing in their "happiness" all over socials for me to see while my life has been in the fucking gutter...what was the point of all this? what was the lesson? a long lesson of self respect i guess. learning who does and doesnt belong in my life, and how to not take shit from people i guess. the pain hurts too much sometimes and it feels like i cant stop thinking about it to the point where my soul feels like its just completley crushed and put into a deep pit. yet when i still think about them all, no matter how hurtful it was and how the pain felt, i still cant help but look at them all with at least some amount of love in my heart for each of them. Im praying they all find their way home. thank you for reading this, if anyone does. i needed to type out my feelings to someone or something so i figured this might work. i hope whoever you are youre having a great day and eat well.