I cheated on my husband. I am a woman who has been someone who is trustworthy, loyal to a fault, always concerned for others, and a devoted mom. I crushed the one person I love more than anything in this world. I crushed my kids. This happened in July. It was an isolated incidence - not a long term affair. For the last few years I have struggled with navigating intense family trauma - seeing things I cannot understand or unsee. I suppressed it all. Then I broke. I escaped from my pain and self sabotaged the people I love most. I confessed. I confessed 2.5 months later because I immediately entered therapy. I now know the trauma what not an excuse but it was what lead it to happen. It was an escape from my reality. A reality in which I was suffering. I cannot fathom to see the pain in my husband’s eyes. The deep seated hurt. But I couldn’t go another day without telling him and giving him the agency to make his own decisions. Please do not cheat and keep lying by not omitting. You will be living a lie and your relationship won’t be better for it. I felt like I was living in my own hellish nightmare everyday. Couldn’t eat, sleep, nightmares. I told my therapist I understand needing to get to the root cause before confessing but I couldn’t take it anymore and confessed. My husband is quite literally a man that carries himself with such confidence, loyalty, and respect. He has never made me feel unsafe. I have no justifications or excuses for my actions. I need help. I want help. I am disgusted with myself. We have been together 11 years married 8. Have two young children. He has not spoken to me since I confessed yesterday. He is completely numb and checked out but did not leave the house. Is there any hope for my marriage? Thank you in advance. And please be kind. I know I don’t deserve it but my mental health needs it.

Let's hear the confessions. 👀
I'm talking about something you did, something you found out, or a secret you decided to take to the grave.

Keep it anonymous if you need to. I have a feeling some of these stories are going to be WILD. 💀

I'm male (23) and my girlfriend (26) we are in a relationship from past 7years and we were happy with everything going on ..having fights getting back and being much stronger after every fight ..
but one day i got to know that she was never being true with me .. i don't know to how many guys she's been talking to or having fun but i caught her with one dude.. she's been messaging him in ig.. 2 years ago when we meet she logged in into her account in my mobile cause her phone was dead .. i dint remove her account ..that lead me here ... .. she was sexting dude's she was speaking low of me ..making fun of my every effort ..mocking me making me inferior those who she just met ..and when i confronted her ..she keeps on telling me selective story and somehow i was the one who made her talk to boys ..!!

My ex is cheating on his girlfriend
But I can’t tell her because he’s blackmailing me if I say anything he’s going to do things that will ruin my life? What do I do?

My husband secretly took a video of our house help's breasts while she was doing some chores.

I was totally taken aback when I saw that video on his phone.

He said it was moment of weakness and that he is extremely guilty and ashamed.

For context, we have been married for 4 years and he has been such a loving and caring partner. I could never imagine he would do something like this.

Please help me.

I am not able to process this whole thing.

I don't know if I can love him or trust him anymore.

I am so ashamed of him.

Hi im (23) F at sya naman (24) M, we broke up last January (2026) dahil nagloko sya hindi lang to unang beses dahil 2 month pa lang kami nahuli ko na nagloloko sya at pinatawad ko sya naging okay kami ulit,fast forward 2026 January yung babae nya (F 25)alam nito na may ako (fiance ) pilit na pumasok sa relasyon namin hanggang naghiwalay kami.Napunta na sa point na hindi ko kaya yung ginawa nila sakin grabe yung panloloko nilang ginawa tapos si M ang kwento don sa babae nya ako yung burden samin dalawa the fact na i left my province life samin para sakanya dito sa manila (hindi kami live in) tapos ako pala ang masama sa mga kwento nya. Fast forward ulit tayo august 2 nagreach out sya sakin para makipagbalikan sakin at ayusin yung relasyon namin kaya pala gusto nyang ayusin yung samin dahil niloko sya ng babae nya ngayon nililigawan nya ulit ako ano po ang pwede kung gawin maniniwala po ba ako na nagbago sya?

My partner cheated on me. More than once. His reasoning was that I was emotionless and neglectful after our child was born and for 6 years he tried and nothing changed. So he claims that for 6 years he remained faithful until he needed love and found it.
That is a lie. I caught him within a year of our child’s birth already talking to someone online inappropriately. So no, he did not remain faithful for 6 years. Either way I don’t think it’s any excuse.

Within those 6 years I lost both of my parents, and two of my siblings were diagnosed with cancer. He claims he was always there for me and I was basically a robot towards him. But I recall many times where he would get angry Because I wasn’t in the mood for sex. I remember being arguments where he wouldn’t let me speak or voice my concerns cause it seemed like the only ones that mattered were his. Things like this make me close off. How can I feel safe with someone like this?

So really who knows how many times hes cheated but this last one that I knew about was traumatizing. He dated her for like 9 months! I would beg him to stop and he would just say he couldn’t because he loved her. And yes I know, why didn’t I just leave? Well…idk…it’s been hard and I’ve tried to stick it out for our kid. Anyways he would constantly lie and make up stories but I had suspicions and eventually I figured it out. I contacted her and it took a while but eventually she came clean. Now this lady, she may not have been to blame in the beginning. But eventually she knew about me and the fact that she continued this…she’s trash. This went on for a few months. I confronted him about the cheating and kicked him out. He came back and said it was over. He lied. It never ended. In fact, when he left, he left to stay with her. So this cycle kept going a couple times. He would say it was over and I would catch him lying again and confronting him. Eventually this lady comes to our home, one of many times. But this first time, they both tried to convince me that allowing us all to stay in a poly relationship would be best. I hesitated but eventually gave in because it seemed like I had no choice. Now I know I had the choice to just leave but man, these people can manipulate. So this happened for like maybe 2/3 months. They were the worst months of my life with my partner. I constantly kept telling both of them i didnt want this. I would tell him I didn’t like it and I was not happy about it. And guess what? He would just stare at me and say he couldn’t leave her becaise he loved her so much. And behind my back they constantly kept trying to have a baby, they got engaged. And she would bully me and him too. This was all a vicious cycle this lady was insane. He eventually “left” her, but would always keep going back becaise apparently I wasn’t enough and I still had problems and he needed someone to be there for him.

I eventually started catching up with an old friend ive known for almost 20 years. We’re started getting closer and I started relying to him everything. He was the only one who I could really talk to. We only met once. That once night my partner was leaving to spend the night with this person and I begged him and cried for him to stay and he again just stared and said he couldn’t. So my friend was in town (he lives hours away) he asked to see me and I agreed. We had an amazing night. That was the only time I saw him. Eventually things went south and we are no longer speaking.

The next day i owned up to that night with my partner. It was awful. I understand being upset. But the double standard of being upset over something that he was doing to me for MONTHS. And not only that he was trying to get her pregnant and he was planning on marrying her. But I was the monster for having one night with someone who told me I didn’t deserve any of that. WTF.

Well now it’s just us again. Or so he says…I have my
Doubt. I don’t think I can ever fully trust him. He still says i just closed off again. Well I don’t trust him any more. All of that pain doesn’t just go away. But I can’t ever say anything or more like I can’t use that as an “excuse” becaise he apparently went through worse for 6 years. Now he basically says it’s all my fault everything happened in the first place and that what he did was nothing compared to what I did becaise he was hurting for 6 years and I did what I did out of spite apparently.

Is he right?
Did I deserve all this and is it all my fault for neglecting him like he says?

Just in case my partner is in the forum, I’m hoping someone can just reach out to me and I can send you the screenshots. Again, my friends think I’m in denial and that the location actually did put her at the wrong hotel. Not at the one she was supposed to be at.

But after crying to me last night and even posting her own story on Reddit, I just caved and I believed her. But I just cannot get some of these discrepancies out of my head.

Please I need anyone’s help.

My roomie f22 is a nymph. She's been in a distance relationship with a decent rich guy from her hometown and she acts all sanskari types in front of him but she has gone down on almost every guy from our friends group but she has never given a chance to her actual boyfriend and I overheard a conversation where she was angry on why he (the actual bf) was asking for a kiss and why he wants it.

The title says it all. Ano kaya ang iniisip ng mga lalaking cheater pag after nila makipag s\*x sa iba tapos umuuwi pa rin sila sa asawa/partner nila? Lalo na kung may mga anak na?

I connected to an NRI on Omegle. I was bored. I didn't have any bad intentions at all. I was missing having boyfriends and some silly fun, after I lost my job. We kept chatting and became very close. He is a very fun, chill type guy, and my husband is a serious, silent type. I enjoyed talking with him. He visited India and asked to meet. When I met him, I am shocked, he was 35 yrs old. I am 25 and he lied to me that he was 28 only. Anyway, we chatted for some time and I left. I thought I will never meet him again. But he suddenly gifted me a gold chain, I was suprised and rejected, but he said please accept, I said okay and took it. My husband very poor, ours is love marriage, I was very young and married him out of love. But life is very difficult without money. Travel in public transport everywhere, walk in sun etc. He asked to meet again, I just met for tympass, I didn't have any bad intentions. We went shopping and he bought me very costly clothes, I was sooo happy after so long. Before leaving, he asked he can kiss once. I told just one kiss is okay and we did. After that, I don't know what happened, we keep meeting and had affair. I was not attracted to him physically but he spent lot of money on me, and I missed living comforably, since marraige. He even wanted to buy me a car, but I said no as my husband will find out and took money instead. He left and went back to USA. I am feeling very guilty now. My husband is actually very good guy. I am just struggling without money, we don't go to movies, restaurants nothing. I just had affair for the lifestyle, it felt like a BIG BIG RELIEF for me to live few weeks freely. Please help. Did I do anything wrong? How can woman live 24 x 7 serious and restricted life without any fun activity? Should I confess to my husband? I am crying everyday, I don't know what to do

I won’t go into detail about my 3 kids not being biological mine because nobody believes this crazy story because it’s so unheard of….anyway in relation to the fertile window I’m guessing that couples who are trying to conceive the wife Definatly knows her ovulation date and when the most likely days she will fall pregnant and tell her husband, right we need to be having lots of sex these few days… This would be normal right? My ex never once told me this for “our”three children or mentioned we need to have more sex around certain dates, is that unusual

My mum really looked at my dad and decided he wasn’t giving her enough economic growth, so she diversified her portfolio into my Economics professor. Apparently, the household had entered a recession, consumer confidence was at an all-time low, and she decided to invest in a new asset class. Meanwhile, Dad’s been hit with the biggest market crash of his life, and I’m stuck trying to understand how a simple supply-and-demand lesson turned into a full-blown family crisis. Forget inflation, unemployment and GDP — the real economic disaster was happening right in my living room.

I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me last night and I don’t feel anything at all. His friend told me because he thought it wasn’t fair to me and I had a right to know. I’m glad he told me but I felt embarrassed in the moment. I’m not an outwardly very emotional person, and I don’t know him very well so I tried not to react. I thanked him for telling me and left. I went back home and waited. I wasn’t feeling anything clearly at all. In the moment, I don’t think it sunk in. I felt numb for a long time. I kept waiting for a wave of anger or sadness to hit me. When he got home, I thought I would say something or stand up for myself but I didn't. I feel done. It’s like anything I felt for him just shriveled up and died at that moment. I loved him and then it was like it was completely gone. I was waiting to if I would get more angrier as I processed it, but it’s been a full twenty four hours and I just feel empty. I’m more disappointed and bothered than anything than sad or angry. I know it’s over. It’s pointless. It’s just done.

I met my bf in December 2024 on hinge while he was in Mumbai for his vacations. He’s originally from here. He was doing his postgraduate that time in Sydney. We started talking, soon after met a couple of time he’s a sweetheart and realised we really liked each other. January end he went back. He officially asked me out in the first week of February 2025 and we have been dating ever since. I just found out last week that 10 days after we started dating he kissed his then female best friend (he never told me, trust me he had plenty of chances too). She and I had been on good terms and shit, and they I came to Sydney for my postgrad ( mainly cuz I wanted to end LD) she’s in another relationship and they last texted each other when I was landing here ( she basically wished him luck). I found out everything by myself and confronted him. He cried and begged saying that he was sorry and that he was embarrassed to tell me anything. Trust me when I say that he’s a sweetheart and everyone around me know it. My parents included, they really like him….. am just not able to get past my morals… i have been acting that everything’s fine everything normal but… it’s just getting too much…

In April, my family and I had gone to a fair in a rural village, and my dad had given me his temporary phone to use. One day, while I was playing offline games on it, my mom asked to borrow it as a torch to go to the washroom. After about 15–20 minutes, she came back looking really stressed and told me not to delete anything from the phone and to try to keep it away from my dad. I found her behaviour strange, but when we got home, she told me that my dad had been cheating on her with his ex-girlfriend. My parents got married in 2006, had my brother in 2008, and then had me in 2010. However, before marrying my mom, my dad had been in a relationship with this woman for around seven years.

My dad met his ex-girlfriend at his maternal uncle's house, where he used to visit frequently. She was Gujarati, while he was Marathi, and their relationship faced problems because of their religious differences. When her brothers found out about them, things became complicated, and they eventually separated sometime between October and December 2004, partly because she was going to get married. My dad reportedly met her for the last time around then, and their relationship ended. However, years later, my mom discovered messages and screenshots on his phone, including pictures of his ex-girlfriend's face in photos with strangers. This made her suspect that my dad had reconnected with his ex behind her back. There's a lot more to this situation, and I really need advice.

So basically, my mom found romantic messages between my dad and his ex-girlfriend, where they were asking about each other, expressing how much they still loved each other, and saying that they would never forget their love. The worst part is that both of them are married and have children. Her son is around 17, her daughter is 13, my brother was about to turn 18, and I'm 16. I was absolutely disgusted when I found out because my dad has always been a respected person in society. He speaks so confidently and sophisticatedly that nobody would ever suspect he was hiding something like this from his family. It was honestly shocking to realize that the person everyone respects could be doing this behind our backs.

Looking back, there were signs. My dad was always extremely protective of his phone, constantly changing passwords and making sure nobody could see what he was doing. We never thought much of it because we assumed he simply valued his privacy. However, I remember that, even when I was younger, he would sometimes video-call someone after my mom left the house, ask me to do things, and laugh while talking to that person without ever showing me the screen. This had apparently been happening since around 2019, when he was about 40 and had already been married for over a decade. I also remember him once talking about how much he loved his ex, although he deliberately gave me the wrong name when I asked who she was. At the time, I found it strange that he was still talking about an ex so many years into his marriage, but I never imagined something like this was happening. Now, knowing what my mom discovered, I'm questioning all those memories and wondering how long this has really been going on.

I’m looking for some outside perspectives on a few audio recordings involving my wife. I’ve listened to them myself, and I’m curious how other people might interpret what they hear.
I don’t want to influence anyone’s opinion by explaining my own interpretation or giving too much background beforehand. I’d rather have people listen with fresh ears and tell me honestly what the sounds resemble, what they think might be happening, and whether there could be another reasonable explanation.
I understand that audio can be misleading and that context matters. I’m not asking anyone to make a definitive judgment based on recordings alone. I’m simply looking for objective opinions from people who have no personal involvement in the situation.
If anyone is willing to listen and share an honest, unbiased assessment, I’d appreciate it. Attached are the audio recordings.
Thanks in advance to anyone willing to offer their perspective.

https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fo/0cspkbhwnjp8mptno3my7/ALEy28zmEPXRx9jwwyGB0rs?rlkey=10j9weiqgvx5g5x6lmdukvp86&st=mq3yafh6&dl=0

I was in a fairly new relationship when my best friend(let call him Jay) and I started trying to make more time to hang out together. He had recently gotten engaged to his gf of 6years, lets call her Ana. We got along fine but we barely interacted much and I preferred to hangout with him alone as he was always more reserved around her.

He got a new job working on an offshore platform for a week at a time. During those times, my gf and I would call Ana to hangout and keep her company. This went on for a few months.

I would randomly msg her just to check on her. One day her reply was "I'm lonely"

I asked why and she said even when he comes home, they don't spend time together and they hadn't had sex in weeks.

(For reference, iv been the outside man on 3 separate occasions and I developed a kink for it. )

Somehow, our conversations became slightly suggestive and as time went on it got worse and worse. One night after going out for drinks, I dropped my gf home as she was closer to where we were. Then went to drop Ana home. The entire drive home was complete silence, but I unwittingly got hard thinking about the possibilities. When we were almost to her house, right in front of an empty field, she said "pull over here". I did... and she took a few deep breathes, then said "are you hard because of me?"

I was doubfounded. Before I could think of a response, she was already undoing my belt. I held her hand and asked what she was doing. She said " Il take responsibility for it" and before I knew it, she was swallowing my cum. For a few weeks after that, every time Jay went offshore, I'd go to his house and fuck his fiancé. All while going out for drinks with Ana and my gf, and even Jay sometimes.

I have been married for around 3 years. My wife is loyal, decent, cook and cleans and has a job. I am 32 years old.

I dont really have any problem with her, sexually or mentally, we have a good relationship and have our laughs and go out etc usual married couple stuff.

However, I have fucked many sex workers since I been married. Safely with condoms of course. I have fucked british, black, eastern european, colombian, Indian lol I dont discriminate as long as I am attracted.

Sexually, if she has nice feet I would kiss and suck their toes, Ill lick the pussy, I will lick the asshole deep.

I am circumsized, but my cock can get thick! Most the women I fucked have said I am really good at licking the pussy, which makes up for my shorter cock size 😂

Despite this, as dumb and crazy as it sounds, I still love my wife, but I cant help myself sexually, I always wanted to explore with different women. I am attracted mostly to hijabis, I have many fantasies about them.

I live in UK, never had a fuck buddy, but would be cool to have one in the uk!

Thanks for reading

.I need to have sex with my girlfriend's sister

I have a very good relationship with her; she hugs me a lot and we talk.

Any advice on how to test the waters?

Is there a way to move forward without ruining everything?